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We dont want to hear what he has to say fire squad his ass.

Poor child

When the babies are well enough she needs to be sent back to Nigeria no excuses.

Shes obviously rich both her and her husband obtained visas and paid for tickets to come to London thats a lot of money.  They could of gone to a good hospital in Nigeria or south Africa.

She knew what she was doing Shes making Nigeria look bad.  All of a sudden she has no family in Nigeria to help her look after the kids? How is she going to pay this massive NHS bill?

*rolls eyes*
Dayo your wack loff wan tin tin lines are outta this world

Debo will never change


You two drive me crazy

ROTFLMAO

Dayo and Debo do you both compare ashewo notes or what?

Jenny has finished me lmaoooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Debo see your life outside

Lmao ikamefa you are not well rotflmao!

Nigbati for life

Dont see the point of being on a website where you cant stand 99% of the people because of where they are from crying okoro-ngbatic people all over the place.


Oh well excess sperm swallowing can cause the effects we are seeing now.

Anyway sha. . .

Baba@ aribisala!

People talking about tinubu like he's some saint. Oba area boys

Dayo who cares it's not like Tinubu actually did anything while he was a gov in Lagos 8 wasted years he doesn't deserve respect IMO. Didn't he make sure before he left office he would continue to be paid gov salary and receive all perks

Sounds so mature


Plus what kind of name is 9jafetish?

Look log off the laptop/computer and go to bed its way past your bedtime.

Silly child

SweetT Taye shut up and stop making up lies! What's wrong with you?

Get a HIV test first then leave.

ROTFLMAOOOOOOOO@Tellwisdom be honest would you really want to know?  

Monkeyleg you are using your one experience to define life! Life is not black and white theres a grey area!

Like someone said for better and for worse Im quite sure if the OP escapes this drama she wont try it again.

Many men are not built to tell the truth or hear the truth.

It is us weak women who can forgive our husbands for his multiple affairs and still continue to bear him children and stay in his house. Many women are built to be strong/stupid like that call it what you will

Wonderful advice from Nekai

There is way too much holier than thou going on in this topic.

I really think you are being unrealistic Monkeyleg all this truth truth truth.

I really dont think the best solution is to go about blabbing without thinking.  She knows her husband best and she knows the situation she is in.  

Its ok for a man to have an affair it doesnt destroy them or their families infact if a woman makes too much noise they will tell her to sit down and shut up.

Now if a woman has an affair God save her she will be disgraced sent packing and have her life made hell.

Even if she tells him, now is not the right time she should solve the issues they have now before saying "oh by the way I have been haing mindblowing sex for months"

tellwisdom:
Please expanciate, What were you insinuating here madam??

She seemed hellbent on telling her husband because its driving her crazy and Im just telling her she cant expect him to forgive her forget and not make noise.

yes her conscience will be free but theres one hell of a chance that will be the end of their marriage and cause her serious disgrace.

Excuse me where did I say she should tell him?

I told her if she really wanted to tell him she needed to be prepared for the back lash!

190:
[color=RED]This is sad, too sad!!

Tell me why armed robbery should be curbed in the society when there are NO JOBS [/color]

Are you insane?

LMAO@Jenny and Spikey I didnt want to spell it out for her.

Can I also advise you and your husband to go for STD tests chlamydia is a silent killer especially if you want to have more children.

My only worry  is the crazy guy who gives amazing sex but doesnt want to accept you ending it.

Is he someone your husband knows?

I suggest you break it up asap with him change your number if you have too.

Work at your marriage confess your sins to God not your pastor hes only human and hes probably doing worst.

Your husband is jealous of your ex boyfriends and the fact you werent a virgin when he met you.  What do you think he will do when he discovers someone else has been poking around his own personal honeypot.  

You have to make a choice and be prepared for whatever the outcome.  You cant have your cake and eat it dear.

If you tell him be prepared for him leaving and telling everybody what you have been doing.

If you dont want to keep it a secret you cant expect him to accept and be happy about it.  He sounds like an alpha male.

your conscience will be free but you have a tough road ahead of you if he makes a lot of noise about it.

He may suprise you with his reaction  

Just prepare your mind for the worst stay strong and please protet your child from this mess you guys created.

As long as you are ready for the fact that your husband may dump you. you need to be realistic

by the way what was your reaction to your husbands confession?

why cant you stand your husband touching you?

No you should of offered. He shouldnt have to ask if you know his situation.

Oh dear do you still love your husband?

You need to do something exciting together like a holiday or just go out the two of you. Try to remember what bought you together.

You know your husband best he may never forgive you if you tell him about your affair.

Its a mess but goodluck.

Why didn't you offer to give him the transport money if you know he truely is broke?

I don't know why you are exposing our loff secrets this way Debo I know when you run out of Viagra you will switch to rabbit to help you perform!!!But do you have to tell everyone?

TOH don't mind him his new personal scent is baby poop.

OAM4J:
I dont DO closed doors. It is an open secret that I live in Mukina's bedroom.

Mukina2/OAM4J = StepheP/

So you guys are at the rear entry thing too!

@ Debo so that was what you were busy doing behind my back abi?

See what you have caused busybody I have to go and google asian cowgirl!  

So thats what its called  

Umm Debo I hope you were doing the rear entry sha and if so where did you balance the laptop  .  Its much easier for a girl to post while she is being entered via her *cough* *cough*

we should do what most of the arab world is now doing and protest.

How normal people are meant to survive on 18k is beyond me.  Yet some pot bellied goats are being paid millions to do God knows what!

Look at Bode George that old goat didnt hand back a penny he did a small sentence in the VIP section of the jail and came back out to enjoy his loot.

All these looters past and present will rot in hell

BANKOLE will walk free.

Hes going to walk free