I hope the hospital they were taken to can do DNA analysis so that there are no loopholes for the rapists to escape prison.

That is a stingy man.

Instead of rationing food, let him tell the wife to contribute towards feeding. That way they will live happily because he will not feel a pinch when the wife eats a lot.

Op, what is confusing you?

The lady asked you a simple question. Just answer truthfully, but don't allow her to come with you where you live. If there's something between them, someone might think you are covering up for the lady.

Even if you don't tell her he is married, she will eventually know.

At first I was like "Yuck! "

But after he talked of observation I was like

@ shina419
Tell her that bf is not worth to die for. If she dies, he will continue enjoying his life with his wife and probably other girls.

As for money, she will get employed or start a business and get lots of it.

She should not take both lives (his and hers), what will she tell the Creator (that's if she's religious).

Finally, encourage her to get busy to forget that guy.

ogawisdom:


There is a huge difference between a man running with bullet wounds n an accident victim

Don't get offended. Sometimes I read here (NL) of how people leave accident victims to bleed to death. I never knew the reason, but now I understand. They are scared of helping even the innocent ones because they could get in trouble.

ogawisdom:
D helper can't b innocent d police shld barb him with broken bottles so he will confess. I trust SARS to do a good job of man handling him. Good samaritan indeed

D owner of d hospital dt tried to treat a man with bullet wounds without police clearance shld b arrested too

U dnt rush a complete stranger with bullet wounds to d hospital except u r a legendary olodo.

There is nothing he can do but to provide d criminal else he go tey for ATM dt is if he comes out alive. Get a lawyer for professional advice

This answer shows why people leave accident victims to bleed to death.

Men who do that fall into one of these categories:

1. The lady is older than him, so he feels like he is doing her a favour by dating or marrying her.

2. He doesn't love the lady, but she cares and loves him deeply. So he takes advantage of her love knowing she can't leave.

3. The man is lazy. He knows someone will provide, so there is no need to work (hard).

Korrection:
.in the golf course we were cautioned not to play with a yellow ball as the monkeys around will just pick it and run..

If a monkey picks the ball you run after it na

Hazardd:

know oo...
Abeg, we want the horse

U funny
I will return it, though not today

Midehi:

nope...dont

lefulefu:

wetin we wan take the horse do?

OK, make I leave it there

lefulefu:

lock the horse inside barn jor

Why na

Hazardd:

nice one

lefulefu:

mehn u make sense

Thanks

Make I return the horse

lefulefu:

*checking your DP*
haba na horse wey dem use rope tie for chair na im i see for your dp ooo .na ur horse be that?

Dotwillis1:

evidence! PIs

Evidence provided...check am before I return the horse

I know most of us will say 3

Back to the question...am 3

bellong:


He don chop tire na... Na to dispose the waste remain.

You are right... It's just an excuse to leave her.

dinachi:

Apparently, he had hung in there hoping the situation will improve.

If the lady in question doesn't know she smells, she can't change.

Tell your friend to advice her (even if he leaves her) to improve on her hygiene because if he doesn't the next guy will also leave her because of the smell.

He can send an email or text if he can't say it on her face.

Why did he date her for so long before realizing that she smells

Don't mistake her asking you for cash for a change of heart about your proposal. If you decide to give her the money, don't expect anything in return.

I think the girl wants to use you for money.

zekki:
How can I overcome stage fright. Am working with a good company but find it difficulty to speak in public. though my English is not very good. I need to work on this before it is too late. thank u.

I know one of your fears might be that you will make a mistake while speaking. Just remember no one is perfect, and practice makes perfect.

Like earlier posters have pointed out, you need to practice and be bold. You can start with your small group of friends. Give your opinion and contribute to the discussions. Don't fear or think about how they will view. You are on a mission: to develop confidence and public speaking skills.

With time you will be comfortable speaking in front of many people. Read to improve your English...from simple grammar rules to articles online.

All the best

Smooth gang

5minsmadness:

Your post brought me out of hibernation.
Thank you.

In a nutshell,
All human beings are psychologically made up of three parts:
The Id.
The Ego.
And the Superego.


The Id is our basic behavioural instinct. It is the way we behave when we feel we are not bound by any laws. Hence a madman sees food and he takes it regardless of who has it. He doesnt see it as stealing. His natural instincts are activated. He desires it and so he takes it.

The Ego is man's adaptation to his community. The ego controls the Id in that it recognises that there are laws. Hence the ego is hungry, sees food, but knows he has to buy it or at worst beg for food.

The Superego is man's response to civilized society. Pride kicks in here. The Superego controls the ego and id in that the man is hungry, sees the food, but is too proud to beg or wants to wait because he prefers rice to amala.





It is the natural instinct of man to be aroused by provocative dressing. He can act like a gentleman and ignore the Feelings he gets when he sees a provocatively dressed girl. But that is just his ego and Superego keeping him in check.

A 'madman' has no ego or Superego. He has reverted back to his basic instincts of food, sex and survival.
So yes, if he sees a provocatively dressed woman and he is sexually aroused at that point HE WILL ATTACK.


Men are naturally aroused by provocatively dressed women. The only reason they don't attack is because they are not mad.

So yes it 'might' have helped a little if she wasn't provocatively dressed.




cc MRBownJay
Skytreader
LadyX

One day a mad man emerged from nowhere (in the middle of a town...guess we didn't see him coz we were gisting) and opened his arms to hug my friend. We ran, he pursued us a little and stopped. To me, we were not provocatively dressed

Maybe it's the *demon* in him that makes him lose control.

Thanks for the explanation. It reminded me of my psychology class.

Good writing skills!

Informative article... Points out to many available opportunities

Etumgbe:
Hope this will teach them how to dress decently?

Even mad man dey provoke

It has nothing to do with dressing.
If provocative dressing was the issue, why didn't our forefathers rape girls and women who were walking without clothes?

What about those little girls who are raped?

Op are you charging the phones free or at a fee?
Time to make some little cash from your 1litre or at least recover it.
Let's say 20N per phone

I vote for Tohpahz

Reason: From her replies, she's very intelligent.

Cc NLJega

Tonyblinky:
So many divergent advice,don't even know which to give him now,thanks all the same.

Tell him the following:

1. A leopard does not change its spots...that lady was cheating on her husband with him, she will definitely cheat on your friend.

2. The lady did not seduce him...well even if she did, he had a mouth to say no.

3. If he doesn't love her, tell him to run away.

4. If he leaves the lady to decide about the direction of their r/ship that lady will stick to him like a tick, whether he loves her or not.

5. That woman is still married to her husband. Her husband might harm your friend.

6. It's wrong to be *chopping* another man's wife. In future someone else might *chop* his wife.

7. Ask him, "Are you crazy to move in with someone's wife?" They haven't divorced, right?

8. Finally, tell him to leave that woman alone. She's someone's wife for crying out loud.

KcMark:

What's touching about it when she knows two years from now he'll add another wife and likely repeat the same things to her? IT WOULD HAVE BEEN TOUCHING IF HE'D ASSURED HER SHE'LL BE THE ONLY WOMAN HE'LL SPEND HIS LIFE WITH.

Well, women are unnecessarily moved by words.

It's not a crime to be moved by wordswords

Soo sad

Wow! So touching.