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Wailers are brain dead.Initially it was Buhari/APC using federal might to influence courts on all matters including elections to steal all PDP states mandates?Now they are saying d recent judge
ments by d same courts they dont believe in is bcs Buhari doesnt have power over supreme courts.Look at a retarded and slow poke thinking mentality.They were initially thinking Buhari/APC would go in d way of PDP to influence courts but have forgoten dat Buhari is a difft from dia ineffectual bufoon and blood sucking party called PDP.This is what d change Buhari promise is all about,including to jail all ur corrupt pay masters.Let d truth go down ur throat.

must u wail on every move by government to secure live and property?

ONE OF THE EVILS OF MOBILE PHONE AND INTERNET.IT IS HUMANS WISDOM THAT WILL FINALLY DESTROY HIM.

Tpappie:
Tot yu said you wanted a place close to ikangba housing? Why TASUESS? What abt AgGS private? What abt Leader's foundation? What abt great foundation? What abt Princes And Princesses? Mabunmi nko? Schls plenty for yo side ooo...

TANX FOR UR KIND SUGGESTIONS.....SEEMS U'RE VERY FAMILIAR WITH THIS TERRAIN, PLEASE DO U KNOW OF ANY GOOD FASHION DESIGNING SCHOOL AROUND HERE IN IJEBU ODE?....OR A VERY GOOD INSTRUCTOR IN FASHION DESIGNING.....LOOKING FORWARD TO UR RESPONSE..

EGO is a small THREE LETTER WORDS dat destroys a BIG TWELVE LETTER WORDS...RELATIONSHIP

EFOSAVAL:
Teacher Teacher .......

I never knew I would make a living out of teaching ,but the trade I love brought my teaching skills out. To me there was no way I would go on in life without impacting the fashion design skills I had acquired to others.

Teaching has really been rewarding to me, it has made me learn so much my self, it's made me know so many people who I wouldn't have had to know if I wasn't a teacher,most of all teaching has taught me patience and humility, in the business of teaching you can't do without those

Proprietress of Valisimo Fashion School and Sisivalisimo Makeup school .
Madam Valerie Boglo (Efosaval)

www.valisimofashions.com

Please do u have any of your branch here in Ijebu-ode, Ogun state

EFOSAVAL:
Teacher Teacher .......

I never knew I would make a living out of teaching ,but the trade I love brought my teaching skills out. To me there was no way I would go on in life without impacting the fashion design skills I had acquired to others.

Teaching has really been rewarding to me, it has made me learn so much my self, it's made me know so many people who I wouldn't have had to know if I wasn't a teacher,most of all teaching has taught me patience and humility, in the business of teaching you can't do without those

Proprietress of Valisimo Fashion School and Sisivalisimo Makeup school .
Madam Valerie Boglo (Efosaval)

www.valisimofashions.com

Please do u have any of your branch here in Ijebu-ode?

Orente21:
hello ma, aw far wit ur job searching? v u gotten a place to manage?

Thanks for ur concern dearie....I was at TASUESS but was told there
are no vacancies, I later left for Epic int.sch and was told same as TASUESS , However the principal asked me to come on TUES for a brief TEST.

faithisallihave:
Forgive me Mamas for bringing this here. But I have come to see this group as a family. Believe it or not, y'all symbolically held my hand through a difficult pregnancy.
Right now, I hate my husband. He does nothing but routinely condemns everything I do; from how I wipe the baby's bum, my cooking, how I light a fire to how I look. Did I create myself to be slim?
This is a behaviour I have spoken about to him severally.
Just yesterday, he eyeballed me and said he prays when our daughter grows up, she looks like his younger sister and not me. I don't know if i'm overreacting, but that statement hurt me deeply.
Now, I have low self esteem issues. I am afraid to even breathe in his presence for fear of being condemned.
I'm thinking of relocating away from him.

Although no one is perfect I'll advise u take to his corrections, is there something u're not doing right then please change, Lots of women lazy around especially when they strt having kids, while few husbnds ignore, some see it as a big deal.......I'll advise that u start putting in extra effort in doing things just d way he wants it, although it might not be as exact as he wants but u can always try, but na wa oooo...ur hubby no see say u slim before he marry u?

Flee FORNICATION....thus says the lord....Flee all appearances of evil likewise....

Proudnigga:
not all women are mothers.....PROUD NIGGA
Do ur best for her leave the rest to God

She doesn't deserve anything from me.....and somebody shld pls spare me d cock and bull story of how she carried me for 9 months , how she suffered to cater for my education and all dat jazz....if she wasnt ready to go thru all dat she shldnt av given birth to me, cos life already is full of Misery and pains....
And to think she's a deeper life bigot, sincerely she's worse than an infidel......

Each time everyone celebrates their mum, I always look for just one reason to celebrate mine but I cant find any.....My mum is a definition of what is called Wicked......Yes she's WICKED......And she can never change at 56 yrs......

Are U a resident in Ijebu ode part of Ogun state, Do u av a good gashion school, or U are an instructor on the basics of sewing, please drop your contact....I'M highly interested in learning his skill.

Are U a resident in Ijebu ode part of Ogun state, Do u av a good gashion school, or U are an instructor on the basics of sewing, please drop your contact....I'M highly interested in learning his skill.

Are U a resident in Ijebu ode part of Ogun state, Do u av a good gashion school, or U are an instructor on the basics of sewing, please drop your contact....I'M highly interested in learning his skill.

Marriage is sweet, good,beautiful, I'm a living testimony. I met him 5 years ago before saying I do, I found in him my best friend and soul mate...Something pushed us together and we never gave up until we became one.. OLUWAmayowa mi means more than the world to me, words can express how terrific this guy is...he's everything, my dear forumites if I ever have the opportunity to come to this world again I'll glady gv him a yes.. I'll stick to him because he's sacrificed a whole lot for me, there's a time he needed me the most but I dumped him, yet he didnt give up on me, he stood by me against all odds, that even when the table turned against me, he still accepted me back into his arms...He's such a man with an heart of gold and I'll love him forever.. I have made my share of mistakes, learned a whole lot of lessons, I have grown and matured while married to the same man and I'm still very much in love with him...Marriage has taught me how to share, when OLUWAmayowa and I came together what used to be mine now became ours.I.grew to understand that everything about marriage is about eachother, from the food we eat ( we eat together using one plate), to the toothpaste we use and even to using a joint bank account... Marriage has also taught me about giving, it helps me understand that it's an ultimate sacrifice that must come from the heart. OLUWAmayowa has also taught me to be selfless..that's why I call him my precious, my Treasure, IFEMI (my love), Ademi (my crown) , above all of these names he's my rare gem because truly his kind is rare and I Count myself lucky to have had him

Orente21:
i cant remember again.I did my service in the adefisan center, this is d Hm number 08103590605. It might nt b d best bt its better than none. I read ur post in pregnancy thread.its well.

Thanks for ur concern Sister, I actually reside at Ikangba housing estate , I need a school close to this area so dat I can cut down on my T- FARE.....Please do u have an idea of the pay package?

Tpappie:
Go and drop CVS by hand at several schools... what do you teach? Also, PM me, will tell you which schls you shouldn't ever drop your CVS at...

I teach Biology and Basic science....albeit I prefer teaching in a Nursery School.....Please NAME THE SCHOOLS

Orente21:
Try best option school, dey av 3branches. One is at adefisan(ejirin road side)

Please where are the other branches located?

Please help, are there no teachingjobs in I jebuode area of ogun state.

@ Lovinan, Ahnie,Zaynie,Onegai, proudmum38, and Ambient....Thanks for your feedbacks and suggestions......I have weighed your so many options and by Gods grace will make good use of them....I'LL let you all know how things progress when I eventually start,....In the mean time I'll be glad if I can find any Ijebuode mama here....
Wishing us all a 2016 fill with God's grace,goodness and favour.....May we all experience greener pastures and all run to obtain the prize which God has in store for us.....

N.B Considering that I have a close to two months old baby and I decide to choose d option of teaching, how do I go about it knowing fully well she's on ebf and cant afford formula feeds now.

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP A DEPRESSED STAY @ HOME MOTHER,I QUITTED MYJOB EARLY THIS YEAR TO JOIN MY HUBBY IN HIS RESIDENCE, HE HATED D IDEA OF PRACTISING DISTANT MARRIAGE AND SO I CONCURED TO HIS RESOLUTION OF ME QUITTING MY JOB, BUT THEN THINGS HAVENT BEEN D SAME, I RESIGNED WITH D AIM THAT I WILL QUICKLY SECURE ANOTHER JOB BUT I WAS SEEING JOB OFFERS WITH RIDICULOUS AMOUNTS (10,000/15,000) SO I TURNED DEN DOWN, IN BETWEEN I TOOK IN AND I CULNDT CONTINUE D SEARCH SO I STAYED @ HOME UNTIL I GOT DELIVERED OF D BABY AND I'M STILL STAYING AT HOME....I HARDLY GO OUT COS WE RESIDE IN A G.R.A WHERE U HARDLY SEE NEIGHOURS EXCEPT ON FEW OCCASIONS.... FINANCE HAS BEEN D MAJOR CAUSE OF DISAGREEMENT AND QUARRELS IN OUR MARRIAGE AMONGST OTHER THINGS THAT WHEN IT GETS HEATED UP TO A POINT MY HUBBY WILL ASK ME TO PACK MY THINGS AND LIVE ALBEIT HE'S A VERY CARING GUY AND DOES HIS BITS IN IS OWN LIL WAY..... NOW HIS SALARY HAS BEEN MORTGAGED COS HE EMBARKED ON HIS HOUSING PROJECT AND HE WILL NOT BE GETTING ANYTHNG UNTIL THE END OF NEXT YR.....WE HAVE A BABY AND I STILL DONT AV A JOB....SO MANY BUSINESS IDEAS KEEP COMING TO MY MIND WITH 30,000 LEFT ON ME...(HUBBY IS OWING ME 150,000) BUT I DONOT AV D COURAGE TO START.... (1) I WANT TO LEARN TAILORING BUT OF COURSE I'LL NEED MORE DAN 30K TO KICK START D COURSE... (2) I WANT TO START SELLING RECHARGE CARDS FROM HOME BUT WITH FEW PEOPLE IN D NEIGHOUR HOOD AND D FACT DAT WE STAY IN A FLAT DAT HAS A GATE SECTIONED FROM OTHER NEIGHOURS, I DONT KNOW HOW LUCRATIVE DAT CAN BE..... (3) I WANT TO DEAL IN 2ND HAND CLOTH BUSINESS A.K.A OKRIKA BUT OBVIOUSLY I'LL BE NEEDING MORE DAN 30K....E.T.C GIVEN ALL THESE IVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO COME UP WITH AN TANGIBLE DECISION.... I'M CONFUSED AND TIRED OF STAYING AT HOME ALREADY....PLEASE MOTHERS WAT DO U SUGGEST HELP ME OUT

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP A DEPRESSED STAY @ HOME MOTHER,I QUITTED MYJOB EARLY THIS YEAR TO JOIN MY HUBBY IN HIS RESIDENCE, HE HATED D IDEA OF PRACTISING DISTANT MARRIAGE AND SO I CONCURED TO HIS RESOLUTION OF ME QUITTING MY JOB, BUT THEN THINGS HAVENT BEEN D SAME, I RESIGNED WITH D AIM THAT I WILL QUICKLY SECURE ANOTHER JOB BUT I WAS SEEING JOB OFFERS WITH RIDICULOUS AMOUNTS (10,000/15,000) SO I TURNED DEN DOWN, IN BETWEEN I TOOK IN AND I CULNDT CONTINUE D SEARCH SO I STAYED @ HOME UNTIL I GOT DELIVERED OF D BABY AND I'M STILL STAYING AT HOME....I HARDLY GO OUT COS WE RESIDE IN A G.R.A WHERE U HARDLY SEE NEIGHOURS EXCEPT ON FEW OCCASIONS....
FINANCE HAS BEEN D MAJOR CAUSE OF DISAGREEMENT AND QUARRELS IN OUR MARRIAGE AMONGST OTHER THINGS THAT WHEN IT GETS HEATED UP TO A POINT MY HUBBY WILL ASK ME TO PACK MY THINGS AND LIVE ALBEIT HE'S A VERY CARING GUY AND DOES HIS BITS IN IS OWN LIL WAY.....
NOW HIS SALARY HAS BEEN MORTGAGED COS HE EMBARKED ON HIS HOUSING PROJECT AND HE WILL NOT BE GETTING ANYTHNG UNTIL THE END OF NEXT YR.....WE HAVE A BABY AND I STILL DONT AV A JOB....SO MANY BUSINESS IDEAS KEEP COMING TO MY MIND WITH 30,000 LEFT ON ME...(HUBBY IS OWING ME 150,000) BUT I DONOT AV D COURAGE TO START....
(1) I WANT TO LEARN TAILORING BUT OF COURSE I'LL NEED MORE DAN 30K TO KICK START D COURSE...
(2) I WANT TO START SELLING RECHARGE CARDS FROM HOME BUT WITH FEW PEOPLE IN D NEIGHOUR HOOD AND D FACT DAT WE STAY IN A FLAT DAT HAS A GATE SECTIONED FROM OTHER NEIGHOURS, I DONT KNOW HOW LUCRATIVE DAT CAN BE.....
(3) I WANT TO DEAL IN 2ND HAND CLOTH BUSINESS A.K.A OKRIKA BUT OBVIOUSLY I'LL BE NEEDING MORE DAN 30K....E.T.C
GIVEN ALL THESE IVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO COME UP WITH AN TANGIBLE DECISION....

I'M CONFUSED AND TIRED OF STAYING AT HOME ALREADY....PLEASE MOTHERS WAT DO U SUGGESTHELP ME OUT

tchiwinnie:
Ma'am, do some form of family planning as soon as possible. Some pple tk in within 2-3months of giving birth. U can use condom or withdrawal method for d tym being until u decide on an alternative form.

TANX MA...

GOODEVENING MAMALLETES.....its been 48 days after i gave birth....my hubby and I JUST made love without pregnancy preventive measures, i'll like to know if i'm not at risk of getting pregnant again o.....

Someone said and I quote----- I've failed so many times so bad that now I have a relationship with
failure! I've mastered the art and act so good that I've lost the FEAR
of it that renders human being powerless in the face of decision and
ACTION! When new ideas and adventure enters my mind, I'm excited
knowing that failure is part of the first stage on my way to success
so I embrace it, learn from it and FAIL FORWARD!

Eminya:
No it won't affect him cos the nurse said if I want to bath him I should be very careful with the laps, so I just avoided it. How is she doing today?

She's doing very well...pains gone, vomitting stopped, swollen legs back to normal...TANX FOR UR CONCERN MA......MERRY CHRITSMAS

Eminya:
oh sorry mama, just give breast milk and the paracetamol. My lo also went thru same yesterday and his own was the two laps. One for penta and the other lap was given pneumonia vaccine. I didn't bath him at night.

TANX dear, but she had a warm bath few hours ago and she's calmer now.....hope...that wont affect the vaccine?

Keji3:
Well done mama, just keep petting her and also put her to breast and u can give her the paracetamol again later. Don't rub the swollen place it will go down itself. Hugs to ur lo

TANX BEAUTIFUL MAMA....GOD BLESS U.

Someone please help me out, I have just taken my baby for her 6 weeks immunisation, it's been 5 hrs after she too the injection , she's been running tempetature, vomitting and the site of the injection (laps) is swollen, pls wAT can she use to reduce d painshe's feeling?.....I administered paracetamol to her but she vomitted it, cried and refused to be comforted.....Please help a first time mothet...

bellong:
Laeroy,

You are perfectly normal. You are only showing signs of temperament mismanagement. This is something that can be resolved by you if you are ready to commit to the transformation of character and management of emotions.

To start with, do not expect too much from people. I want to believe that your negative reaction is as a result of disappointment from people you expected too much from. Have a realistic expectations of and from people. When you are wronged, rather than hitting back with same scale, try to talk to the person first and register hour displeasure. I bet you that you will get better result this way than reacting angrily.

You need to know that opinion is what it is, opinion and nothing more. I know it is somehow difficult for some people not to react to other's opinion about them. However, you need to understand that sometimes people say negative things about you because they are jealous of your person and how far you have gone. They want to put you down to their level. It is left for you to laugh it off and let them wallow in their misery or join them in the mud. I prefer the former.

Nevertheless, some are passing the right information but in a wrong way. You sometimes need to examine what is being said if it is true. If true, take it as a feedback for yourself and make amend where necessary.

Life is beautiful my sister and we have many things to live for. Doing good unto and for others will not only bring joy to your heart but fulfillment for living.

I will send you a Pm

Tanx for giving me a listening ear......can u please mail me via lydiabalogun@gmail.com , i somewhat lost access to d mail used in registering ds acct.....

BACK to ur post, I realised that some people will for no reasons tlk u down just to mk demselves feel good, and wen i react bk in d manner at wwhc dey tlked to me, they begin to caution demselves and not repeat such nonsense, but when i calmly/politely tell dem wat deyve done wrong, it even spurs them to talking more rudely to me....hence the resolve to send to dem wat they give....and its been working for me....., It's just that it saddens my heart whenever I have any issue wt a friend , relative , brother / sister.......
DTS WHY I PREFER TO EXIST IN ISOLATION....IF ITS ACTUALLY POSSIBLE DAT I CAN GET TOTAL COMFORT IN A DESERT.....I DONT MIND JOURNEYING TO SAHARA/ KALAHARI DESERT.......DAT WAY NOTING BOUT
THIS CRUEL LIFE WILL BOTHER ME.....