Mercychen: You're referring to your mother who didnt teach you manners.
Also, you have just revealed how dumb you are by misquoting me cos I never told OP to " force-feed his child. You and those saying force-feed are birds of a feather.
Buzz off!
Senseless she-goat, Just admit you have no iota of sense in you, you actually pass off as having the same I.Q as the bullying classmates in the Op's narration.....
You should give your brain up for sale on jumia or jiji for as low as 0.5$..
Mercychen: What exactly is your point because you've not made any sense as far as I'm concerned.
I'm a teacher, not her parents. The best I can do is warn her classmates to stop calling her that but that will not change how the girl feels because she's already lost her self-esteem and needs to regain her confidence back which requires practical solution ( feeding her fat) which only the parents can do and not the teacher!
What would counselling do for 5yr old by the way?
Mumu teacher is what you should be called...So what if she's been force fed and still no physical changes, what advice would you have for them this time?
LordVoldermort: Yes and women are treated like diamonds in the middle east
Historically africans have treated women better, the problem is we love white man culture too much unaware that there is lot of bias hidden there.
In what way has African treated the female child well, is it the proclamation in so many tribes and culture that a woman is not entitled to her father's wealth because she's married or even biblically that a woman is not allowed to speak on the altar and so much more.....
dotedote: And why do you think it's only the female that can be "the other party"
Madam, your gender people ask of it raw and when they see you're adamant on using the rubber, they wait till that moment when the sh*t is uncontrollable and they just rip it off and the show just continues and bro contracts an STI/D. What if cases where the lady wants to be impregnated against the guy's wish ? It's a 2-way thing Sis.
Make God just help us from "the other party"
Lmao...
All these stories just to castigate the other party....
omorttee4u: Oh no. When a lady steal a man's sperm from condom either by being a cleaner in the Hotel or by sleeping with her on a mutual agreement She took it to an incubator without the guy consent to make it a baby. Thereafter, she file a law suit against the man to pay his child's right.
The law in the state mostly listen to this ladies, by condemning the guy carelessness . But now they want to make it illegal. I believe you should be cleared now!
Apt and concise...Thanks for showing clarity on the subject matter.
Walkee: at least 3 different girls have done the exact same thing to me since January last year. They claim the rubber irritate their vagina. Most girls I have known hate condoms with passion.
Well, they're right! , Condom does irritate me down there, my hubby won't try use condom on me, he practices the withdrawal method each time he approaches orgasm and very perfect at it, but in this case he is my husband, non married individual, should practice safe sex by using condom....
Maravilla: Nigerians and their stupid pride, what's wrong if the oga meets him first?? Will he die?? Many times all these so called Oga act like God, this is not enough to destroy someone's career.
One of the laws of power says ,never outshine your master.. It's common sense, but he chose to act stupid...Let him enjoy his new life in peacem
Handsomejok: Thank you God know my heart I have been a loving father since day 1 she was my everything until I find out she is a witch . It is true I don't deserve her because I deserve better. She deserve to be with her witch mother and witch half sister .
If she's a witch, then you're the father of a witch...
Kingosytex: A Nigerian man identified as Opeyemi, has narrated how a Baptist church asked him to take off his earring while he was on a groomsman duty in the church.
According to Opeyemi, he left and waited for his friend who fully backed his decision at the wedding reception and there is a mixed reactions about his decision as many wondered why he could not just take them off for a few hours.
Opeyemi, narrating the encounter, he said that he was at a Baptist church in Lagos as one of the groomsmen for his friend’s wedding when he was asked to pull off his earrings, adding that he left the service immediately for the reception as he would never follow such dogma.
He, therefore, used the opportunity to lambaste Nigerians version of Christianity. When people told him that he ought to have honoured his friend and acted accordingly, he said his friend was in full support of him.
Darlingme: Why is it so difficult for most people to keep to their promises, to remit debts? You help someone with loan based on aggreement and trust, but when it's time to remit, they come up with excuses, default, making you look like you're too weak, too simple and when you get upset and raise your voice, they tag you as being Money conscious. On your own part, you don't want to lose relationship/friendship/family with them. you consider their struggles, yet, when they have your money either From their salaries or other means, they wouldn't still pay back. Have you ever been in this kind of situation? How were you able to handle this kind of people without becoming enemies?
In my own case, we turned enemies before we became friends again after collecting my money from him... It happened that my brother in law was in dire need of money and came crying to me to loan him 50k, I did without wasting much time, the day was set for him to pay back but he pleaded I give him an extra week, after the extra week elapsed, I purposely decided to add extra 2 weeks to it but all to no avail, it was obvious he didn't want to pay back because of family sentiments, then I began calling him but he wasn't picking his calls, next thing is I Sent him a text addressing him by his name, KAMORU (not real name) ,and you know Yorubas always hate when their wives address them by their first name without adding the brother tag, na so the guy call me back sharply (someone who didn't pick my calls for days). To cut the long story short, he paid my money but this is not without relating to his sibling s and those who cares to listen what ensued between us, but trust me, I fired back at every person who tried to inquire insisting that he borrowed my money and he should do the needful ..I can't loose my money and loose my relationship at the same...No time for rubbish...
kingxsamz: You're just dancing around, lol. If the master planer is more complex, why should it happen by chance? Why can't the universe also happen by chance? U see?
Whether the universe happened by chance or not, the end result is same....Death (end to all things with no consciousness of what had happened previously)...
Humanoid01: He has all the power to control everything here. However, He chooses to get involved whenever He wants to. We can't fully understand why He does that. We don't see the bigger picture, but He does.
So you believe in the heaven and hell, life after death tales too?
kingxsamz: And who designed this so called master planner? Since this master planner is more complex, it needs to have a designer also. So who?
Even though I believe we may not have answers to all our heart troubling questions, I want to believe the master planner happened by chance and luck thereby further inventing us Man ,woman and other natural resources just like Benjamin Franklin invented Electricity and Thomas Edison invented the electric bulb... I also want to maintain he has no control over what happens to man here on earth.....
kingxsamz: "Where two or three are gathered". "what God cannot do does not exist".
This only shows that life is just by chance and luck. Anything can kill you, even mosquito. Doesn't matter how much you pray, death is sure. Just enjoy your life. No god is watching after anyone.
Life by chance but how do you explain that a man with rod, fits perfectly into a woman's hole, did the rod and hole happen by chance too? I think a master planner designed us, but I don't think he has control over what's happening to us here on earth...
Oluwoo: Guy you are not alone. Op your own small... it 10months now i called my parent or even returned their calls. It being 6years we saw each other an we are in the same country.
Did your parents wronged you?
Why staying this long without reaching out to them?
Snitch24: Well if you're under 30yrs And u can ignore ur mom for that long You have a problem You really do need to talk to people about it Ur own mama ooh Lol
You never can blame him cos you don't know the relationship he had with him mum growing up, everyone is always quick to show sentiments when issues like this crop up forgetting that the bond btw him and his mum was never there....
Offpoint1: I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.
I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.
I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical. All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.
I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.
Although I get really busy most times, but I don't think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.
It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.
How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.
I was sincerely like you until I got married, Marriage made me change my perceptions about certain things , and even though I sincerely want to remain that way, I can't considering my husband and children feelings....