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deeptesting:
Lol!
1. They are of age as defined by the society.
2. Others are married so why should they be an exception.
3. For the guys they don't want to loose their beautiful girlfriends.
4. She is pregnant, cannot abort so we marry.
5. For the girls material reasons, the guy has an apartment, looks good, a good ride then let's marry.

You can help me add yours because the list is inconclusive.

BRILLIANT!!!!!
Now give 5 Reasons why the OP needs to get married

deeptesting:
Nothing i drink oo my Brother... Have been married for 8 years and got separated, separation has given me so much room for a deep reflection and retrospect... When i see people going into the contract of marriage for the wrong reasons i feel very bad... I have two kids out of my marriage, Bro it is better to remain single and receive all the insults in the world than going into a marriage for the wrong reason.. Nothing is killing me so fast today than seeing my beautiful kids growing without both parents living under the same roof. The fact that i will wake up every morning and no longer getting them ready for school, driving them to school, pick them up when i have time, do their home work together breaks me down but i am happy being alone, it could have been worse.

The OP needs to take a chill Pepsi big bottle and truly figure out what he really wants out of marriage and most importantly find a woman who shares the same life value with him...

Can U Explicitly spell out just 5 wrong reasons people go into marriage?

[quote author=deeptesting post=41219943.. "Solitude is a gift".[/quote]SOLITUDE IS TRULY A GIFT.......BUT CAN U SINCERELY SWEAR BY GODTHAT WAT PEOPLE TINK OF U DOES NOT AFFECT U......?
I'VE COME TO REALISE DAT WE CANT TOTALLY DO AWAY WITH PEOPLE....DEY'RE D REASON Y WE ARE STILL LIVING.....ISNT IT HIPOCRISY.....DAT WE TED TO LOVE IT WHEN PEOPLE PRAISE US BUT WHEN ITS D OTHER WAY ROUND.....IT TENDS NOT TO BE OUR BUSINESS...

IF ONLY I CAN LEAVE IN ISOLATION FROM D REST OF D WORLD THEN I THINK I WONT BE HAVING FREQUENT SUICIDAL THOUGHTS......I DONT KNOW WHY PEOPLE'S PERCEPTION OF ME SEEM TO AFFECT ME SO GREATLY DAT D NEXT ON MY MIND WULD BE TO COMMIT SUICIDE.......
I'M A VERY TEMPERAMENTAL LADY WHO REACTS QUICKLY TO THINGS WITHOUT HAVING A SECOND THOUGHT AND DS HAS AFFECTED ME NEGATIVELY........WHC IS CURRENTLY EATING INTO MY MARRIAGE........
I HAVE TRIED SO HARD TO CHANGE BUT THE HARDER I TRY THE WORSE I BECOME.......MY MOTTO HAS BEEN: WAT U GIVE IS WAT U GET...........SO WATEVER ACTION I GET FROM ANYONE IS FOLLOWED WIT EITHER A POSITIVE / NEGATIVE REACTION....NOW IF I GET ANEGATIVE ACTION WHC FOLLOWS A -VE REACTION FRM ME, I GET TO HAVE A NERVE WRECK FOR DAYS DAT EXTENDS INTO WEEKS....WHC MAKES ME SAD, GIVEN THE REASON Y I WANT TO LEAVE IN ISOLATION....AS THIS WILL PREVENT HAVING ISSUES WITH PEOPLE ALL D TIME....
SECONDLY MY LIFE ITSELF SEEM TO BE MEANINLESS TO ME; BECOS MOST TIMES I THINK EVEN AFTER GOING THRU ITS PROBLEMS, pains, frustration and misfortunes....it will still av to come to an end.....why dont i just end it without having to go thru all that........
There are still so many reasons y i av been aving suicidal thoughts......just ask me and ill tell u.....



n.b - sometimes I tink im not normal but sincerely tell me if i'm normal or abnormal...
cc thorpido , bellong

Clerverly:
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My Family and I, have Endorsed [size=15pt]Muhammed Abraham Lincoln Buhari![/size]

711 LIKES.....for GENERAL MUHAMMADU BUHARI alone...
I have never seen these much likes for the generall......
for this reason my new family and I endorse the general.......sai Baba...sai Osinbajo

whether they postpone or pre-pone it....
Change is imminent........a like for the general would do

All I can say is next month is feBUHARI......

we all clamouring for change can make it happen....

Reference:
1 month eh?.... Remember those VHS video tapes...at the beginning you have a transparent, blank section before the black when the film starts....I guess your marraige hasn't started.

Lol...It has started oooo, One month 2 weeks marriage no be beans.......ask those who have been married...lol

tintingz:
Is still a month ...I pray no sort of physical and emotional abuse in your marriage but ofcos misunderstanding will always occur at some point tho.

Of course it does......but verbal,, Physical, EMotional abuse....Na Na Na Naa.....
The day he physically abuses me....It will be time to say goodbye...I have great phobia for Physical Abuse.......

Sormeh:
What do you expect? Honeymoon is always sweet. that's why it is called HONEY + MOON. I can only pray that it continues like that.

A-Men.

Being married for a month now....There's not been any abuse of whatever kind....so imma say God reigns in my house....HALLALUYAH.....

dkronicle:
Ebonyi state get drunkers and stupid pple. I dont even no y myschool is there. That man is just stupid, my mom sometime told me that a guy from her village gulped 1 full bottle of dry gin for just 1k betting. And he died. I just hope that those that died of drink gets a seper8 place when we see the sun shine.

This exactly killed my ex- boyfriend.......4 years ago.....I hope others learn from this...
Btw just wondering if there's ever anyone who did dis and scaled thru...just wondering.

Finally... The day is just around the corner ....(Nov 8, 2014), counting down and hoping for the best....
Phema thanks for the support u've shown to me right from the time the planning began....U were indeed very helpful......
Cheers sweets..

Who says I don't need enemies.......In whose presence will GOD prepare my table before?

MY EX PARENTS ARE VERY POOR AND EXTREMELY WRETCHED....AND INSTEAD OF HIM TO OWN UP TO DAT FACT..HE DENIED DEM AND SAID HE LOST HIS PARENTS IN A PLANE CRASH.....HE TRIED TO PAINT HIS IMAGINARY PARENTS AS RICH......
UNFORTUNATELY FOR HIM....HE DIED 3 YRS AGO...
R.I.P PAUL.....I MISS U STILL.

Today I Celebrate Nigeria & I, Most especially the
birth of me, the person I've grown to be & the
mother I'lll become someday...I''m grateful to God
4 the gift of life cos I 'm void without him...HAPPY
BIRTHDAY TO ME! HAPPY NEW MONTH AND
INDEPENDENCE TO US.....I wish myself strength, wisdom & succ

hi guys...Phema everyone,Goodevening Please I need help with getting original Gold wedding ring (3 in 1)..
I do not recognise an original gold ring and I do need an experienced person who deals with buying and selling to help me out with this...

webdezzi: this is a case of pre-meditated murder but unfortunately the state could not prove this.

1. if there is a break in, and you have to go back to get a weapon in the bedroom
you are obviously going to invlove your partner. more like "hey babe, someone's breaking in " while loading his firearm

2. one shot should be enough to get whoever was at the other side to give up

3. 4 shot is definitely an intent to kill

4. If you could wake up at the close of a bathroom window, the next thing that comes to mind is your partner must be the actor.
hello! you weren't alone in the house.

My theory is that babe went to the bathroom to answer a lover who called very early on val's day
oscar sneaked to listen up to the convos and whao, this babe has been cheating.
went for the gun and boom!

another is

babe left phone behind, val message came in, dude reads it, got upset and went for his gun.

The supposed lover who calleed her that night or who sent her text messages...Should have come to court to testify to this supposed Fact.....

fabidamilola: Has any of u guys gotten any message from consolidated brewery yet

I have not...guess I didnt pass the test...onto the next one jor,,,,,no time

Databundle: Boko Are Rams.......

Which In turn means (northern) MUSLIMS are RAMS.....

fabidamilola: Heard some one has gotten another invite from d other thread created for this job.he said he gotd sms today around 8:35am.

He seems to be the only one who has gotten the invite......oh well lets see if something comes in soon.

koded3: I just did. at 8:35 this morning. I lost ur number I would have called u

when is the interview and which of the tests did u write? is it the one for the position of an heilite secretary or sales manager?

oname: Has anybody heard from consolidated breweries since the tests in December?

I have not....the waiting game is just nerve wrecking.....I hope something is done soon

Gboliwe: So, I was at UPS office today and claimed my parcel! To God be the glory. This one looks a lot better than the defective rubbish they gave me before.

I am thinking of making another order

Please do but make use of the pay on delivery option

blazerMaks: Guys, any news yet?

HAVEN'T HEARD ANY.... YOU?

BnBarbie: Hello all,
Congrats in advance to all intending brides.
i love weddings and i'm offering myself up to brides to be for advice on wedding planning, if you need someone to accompany you dress shopping (only in lagos sha), wedding coordinator on your wedding day, anything to make you have your dream wedding.
What is the catch some pips may ask. But there is none. I am not a wedding planner either oo
I had my wedding last year January and there were a few things i regretted doing sha as regards the wedding plans that when i think about, i still get angry. Anyway, i just wanna help anyone willing to accept my help.

@Phema; Have you found your dress yet? What kind of wedding gown are you looking for exactly? i want to sell my own oo
@numdes, nkkystel and Laeroy, how far with wedding plans na?

hello sweets.....i'M HERE OOOOOOO....I'M WAITING, PLANNING AND MOST OF ALL PRAYING EVERYTHING WORKS OUT SMOOTHLY....MAY 31ST IS MY WEDDING....DAT ASIDE...I'LL LIKE TO KNOW IF YOU'RE U ON WHATSAPPP SO DAT WE CAN TALK FURTHER THERE?

This is so true.....I lost my fiance's elder brother to hepatitis couple of months aago.....and after carrying out some couple of tests on his wife she happens to be hepatitis B positive............Please OP......how can she get free treatment of the underlying disease.....as no member of her family AND her late husband's family is ready to bear the cost of treatment and all that......

what about mails for those who wrote the test on the 24th of december for Heilite secretary position

ModestSam: It depends whether u want the male or female perfume. I usually buy mine 100ml for #14k, and my gf's for #11k.
Recently bought the 200ml male perfume for approximately #16k @ the UK tax free shopping section @ Heathrow.
Hope this helped?

Tnx bro.....God bless u

Can ssomeone please tell me how much lady 1 million paco rabbanne is sold...pleasee

someone helpp..please how much iss 1 million Paco Rabanne sold?

Original poster...why did u engage ur self in an inter-ethnic marriage? The end result of it exaclty what's happening in ur marriage......by the way...how did u as an igbo lady convert to being a Muslim......still stunned by the action U took in converting to islam....abi na becos of husband u convert?