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Auladimeji:
If a lady tells me no,then I'm gonna take her "no" as no because there are so many fishes in the sea.
I can't woo a lady twice because it makes me feels embarrass

Kodiwithsauce:
You probably clicked on this post because of a girl next door or at work, or maybe someone you see regularly at the bus park but you haven’t had a conversation with yet. You really think that this time she’s the one, but let’s not jump into conclusions yet, at least until you get to meet her first. Your fears and anxiety stand in your way of getting to know her better. Don’t get me wrong, you might not be the shy type; your friends know you to be a very interesting person and you have a lot of female friends who think you have an awesome personality. But when it comes to this particular girl, everything seems to be different and that really cool guy that you used to be, is nowhere to be found. On the other hand, you might just be a shy guy who just has a tough time when it comes to initiating conversations especially with women.

“You’re scared of rejection”

You happen to be scared of rejection, and subconsciously you keep trying to avoid it. But, to overcome this fear, you have to step out of your comfort zone. Challenge yourself and try to make things work out, or else, as you keep avoiding walking up to her to initiate that conversation, you start regretting. Realize that feelings for someone cannot easily be suppressed; it keeps lingering on and on. Your mind will be focused entirely on thoughts of that particular girl, distracting you from work or other activities especially when you see her.
Why not just make the move? In this post we are going to explore how to overcome the fear of approaching women, how to prepare one’s mind to meet someone he really has feelings for, and how to look at rejection in a different way.

"Stop over thinking it"

coolebux:
You're just confused
80% of naija babes possess these attributes you listed
Stop particularising biko

FortifiedCity:
I have learnt that all these are kind of subconscious ways women separate 'filtrate and residue' in terms of guys.

The point is as a guy, walk up to a woman you admire so long as she fits your dream queen, and tell her but don't sound or act needy and desperate. Easy does it actually applies to women. If she no gree, go your own. She won't slap you, even if she does, your cheeks won't fall off.

Rokia2:
So because of one person experience people shouldn't marry?

What sort of bullshit title is this?

Oluwamuyeewa:
Thrash

GIRLS of this millennium prefer young rich niggas like wizzy and Davido who’ll make dem baby mama,make them rich and still give them fame.

LADIES in their 30’s upward will go for these men sha

thepussyhunter:
Didnt read ur long write up but i agree with you

evaberry has been breaking my heart since 14BC

sauceandsound:
men could be worse most of the time

uninvited:
Women are scum

Florblu:
Wear something decent enough to avoid embarrassment