Health › Re: My Addiction To Porn And Masturbation Almost Ruined Me by lahizak: 2:45pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Jashub: Hypocrisy and lies will not kill you(say amen). Why did you not tell her in detail your words. Okay let me do you the favor. Here are your words : Everything is bad when done in excess. Masturbation done moderately is better than fornication, adultery, rape and constant Lustful thoughts. If you want to condemn sin, condemn all sins. Don't speak against Masturbation while promoting fornication. Both you and the pastors casting away the spirit of Masturbation while leaving the spirit of fornication are all mad..
From the above quote it is obvious you support masturbation. So who is deceiving who? We are all sinners, but at least let us tell ourselves the truth at every point in time and stop misleading others. And what is wrong in all wat he said? Mastubation is a sin but it is way better than fornication or pre marital sex. And most often than not, mastubation is a phase that will stop at one point or the other. And as an adult i will always encourage people to mastubate than to expose themselves to many partners. |
Family › Re: If Your 16 Years Old Daughter Got Impregnated, What Would You Do? by lahizak: 9:51am On Apr 15, 2020 |
If she is old enough to get pregnant at 16, them she is old enough to decide whether she will keep or abort it. Either ways, she is my daughter and she will always be my daughter even though I will have to be more strict and drastic with her |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Does The Bible Say About Masturbation? by lahizak: 9:12am On Apr 12, 2020 |
thatthing111: So true. I believe Masturbation once a week is still okay. These people that say stop masturbation never give 'logical' solution for it. They say give your life to Christ, will that automatically make you not feel sexual urge again? No. A man would always feel strong urge for sex once in a while, that is how we are wired, so we can procreate. Even if you lock a male child up all his life in a room, with no woman, no TV, no internet, no porn, when he reaches puberty, he will start feeling the urge for sex. This is a fact. So, what do you do? Either you have sex with a woman, or you masturbate. If you don't do either voluntarily, you might involuntarily do nastier stuff like priests sleeping with alter boys, grown men sleeping with little kids, etc. That sexual urge is too strong to contain...you must do something about it, or it will act in a destructive manner. Unless you are what Yoruba people call 'Okobo.' Why do you think even pastors fall for this sin? Let's be realistic and logical, and not just basing our arguments on theories. Gbam! Let them keep claiming na dem holy pass |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Does The Bible Say About Masturbation? by lahizak: 8:23am On Apr 12, 2020 |
I always wonder how somebody having sex before marriage will boldly come out and be shouting that mastubation is a sin. No be me holy pass so i will talk this from the point of logic. Mastubating to relieve urself once in a while is a very good thing. However, mastubation addiction is as deadly as all other addictions including sex, beer or smoking addiction. I will advice you to do it moderately. Even civilized doctors dat havent turned to pastor will tell you the importance of self service. |
Celebrities › Re: Inside Drake's $100m Mansion In Toronto Where He Is Self Isolating (photos) by lahizak: 9:02pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
Weedsmoker: Vanity upon vanity crew will soon be here to give their verdict. Lolz. The place is cool. But it is still vanity upon vanity. |
Education › Re: Yoruba Muslim University Forces Yoruba Christian Students To Wear Hijab by lahizak: 1:54pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
Shame on anybody from whatsoever religion trying to create unnecessary religion tension. Muslim school have the right to adopt muslim rules for all their students and christian schools have the right to adopt christians rules for all their students. Im a muslim and i attended christian schools for both primary and secondary school now i know more christian songs, verses, hymns and prayers pass most christians because i was forced to do all thay at school. Dont let anyone deceive you that this happen only in muslim school. God bless and keep us all.. |
Education › Re: Lagos Pegs Entry Age Into JSS1 At 12 Years by lahizak: 10:48am On Apr 07, 2020 |
Thats a very good move. If u are vigilant u will observe that most of the people failing in the university are either too young or too old. The ones graduating with the best result are between those age group except in some very small cases. The old ones is understandable but nowadays d people in the uni are just too young. I am a secondary school teacher and I av lot of students in jss 1 that are between the age of 8 and 9 and they are very dull compared to their classmate of age 12 or 13. Nowadays parent tend to rush their children.my younger sister is 15 in ss2 and she sat 4 jamb dis year. She got 181 and if she passed waec, she will be in 100l next year. I had to tell my mum to let her write another jamb next year so dat she can be more matured. |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Members Catching Fun - VOA (Throwback Video) by lahizak: 8:43am On Apr 07, 2020 |
dazzlingd: The bullet from a 14 year old is as effective as that from a 40 year old. Child soldiers have been known to be the most deadliest, they have nothing to lose and see war as a movie. Pls respect the men that faced these guys bullet for bullet while u are here typing behind your keyboards...
Meanwhile , many of those soldiers are even below 25...where was your dad, brothers,and uncles when these man risked their lives for your nation. Some of them suffer permanent disabilities.
You cowards should respect the army, they are not the cause of your frustrations , they suffer more from the incapacity of your government....please they deserve one thing, respect them or rather keep shut You are right. And i will always show appreciation to those gallant brave soldiers risking their lives everyday at the war front. But what do u think Buratai and other senior soldiers are using to build mansions? Weapon money. Go maitama and lekki and see houses owned by senior soldiers and the defence personnels. Every year billions is appropriated for military yet we dont see much impact, why is that? Had it been those military bastards are truly doing there job, boko haram would av been long forgotten. Buratai and co are just wasting innocent soldiers lives and until u guys know dat and call dem out 4 it, the BH are going nowhere |
Education › Re: Online Scholarship Test. by lahizak: 11:05am On Apr 06, 2020 |
Im interested |
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Education › Re: Study Online With Coursera.org And Earn A Certificate On Discount Rate. by lahizak: 5:03pm On Apr 04, 2020 |
seunejiade: Is it a one time payment or u pay monthly? I'd also like to know if certificates are mailed after course completion. Dont bother urself. Degree there are very expensive. I dont tink u av 20,000euros, do u? |
Romance › Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by lahizak: 11:22am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: Pls help me move this to front page.
I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.
There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.
I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.
The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.
On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.
My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.
Pls no insults, just advice. I saw the topic and i was ready to attack u, when i read the part that u said u are working, i wanted to tear u apart, naturally, I hate girls laying claim to their guy's money when they can afford theirs. However, after reading all the story, i realized, if truly wat u said is true, den u dating one selfish son of a bitch and u should run. A man that cannot take care of his lady when he can afford it is a bitch ass man. My advice to u is to run, if he is not taking care of you now that he is trying hard to win ur love and affection, he wont bother to do it when yall are married. My dear, japa |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigeria Immigration Service 2020 Recruitment by lahizak: 8:16pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
moabdul: Please who is having this issue too. Let's no what to do before submitting. When i registered this afternoon. I was only asked to upload 3 docs, B.sc, waec nd prof cert. I uploaded and submit. I av my form print out now |
Education › Re: Naira Marley In University Of Ilorin Exam Question by lahizak: 1:16pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
yrex01: Small thing they'll b shouting better by far. So der prof na marlian!! Wait ooo? Whats wrong with setting a practical question? Its a subject in the performing art dept. To me, this just like a lecturer in political science setting questions on the impact of Oshiomole removal |
Celebrities › Re: Police Escort Holds A Fan For Regina Daniels On Set (Photo, Video) by lahizak: 8:54pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
I dont envy this girl one bit... and i do envy dos rich people a lot. For some reasons i feel pity for her. Who cares sha. Im just anoda bad belle  |
Islam › Re: Paterson, US Grants Mosques Approval To Broadcast Adhan Over Loudspeakers by lahizak: 10:25am On Mar 06, 2020 |
trutht828: Stop being intentionally blind. Your religion is a religion of hate and you are intolerant. There are places in ilorin where Christians dare not preach even for 5 minutes. You dare not preach for a minute in public in the UAE.
You guys are intolerant and your religion of blood shed and destruction is designed to preach hate for other religions. Quite a pity that a lot of people re liking this ur post and u one of dos fuelling religion hates. You said christians dare not preach in UAE, same apply to Muslims in Angola or China. As an educated person, u should know dat dere are countries known for a particular religion. Even though Christianz or Muslim cant be practise publicly in some countries however all countries accept different religions. There are lot of home churches in UAE, same apply to Home mosques in angola. Please, lets preach love and tolerance |
Islam › Re: Paterson, US Grants Mosques Approval To Broadcast Adhan Over Loudspeakers by lahizak: 10:14am On Mar 06, 2020 |
The hate on Islam by some Christians though. Truth is that some christians here would have been worst than dos Islam fanatics carrying gun up and down. There is no difference btw u dat hate muslim wit passion and is quick to attack dem with words or papers and the muslims that hate christians with their guns and weapon. As for me, my God is love and as long as you worship him wit ur heart and dedication, honesty and compassion, he will be there for u. Religion is just our means of calling him. Ma Sallam.... Shallom |
Politics › Re: Poverty Gap Fueling North-south Migration In Nigeria - Yahoo News by lahizak: 11:22am On Mar 05, 2020 |
backnbeta: I don't blame their leaders, most Northerners are okay with poverty. They enjoy begging, shining shoes, packing rusty metals and shouting 'ran ka dede'. If they don't enjoy it, they would have fought back somehow  Its not dat easy.. most of all re victims of birth. Who and where we were born impact our growing up. For example u prolly a christian because ur parents are christian and u prolly av this view because u from a household dat hold dat view. Me and you are fortunate enough not to be born in dat circumstances or situation. At this junction, it is left to the govt to regulate the area. Govt should av made laws to reduce d birthrate in dos state and everywhere else in nigeria. The problem with dis country will always be the govt and their inability to make harsh laws to safeguard the country.. |
Education › Re: Unilag Pg 2019 Thread by lahizak: 1:21pm On Feb 28, 2020 |
Morning all. According to d akul postgraduate portal. Applicants can still apply for M.sc in budgetting and public planning. Is dis true or its just a mistake. I av already been sent remita for payment of 22k application fee |
Family › Re: I Suspect My 16 Years Old Cousin Watches Porn. by lahizak: 11:08am On Feb 24, 2020 |
CsRockefeller:

I don laugh, i don tire 
Nairaland, you guys are the best, no cap.
See eh, I have a younger bro at age 15, very tall and handsome. During his break, I was using his phone cos mine was faulty. I saw many things, though I didn't see porn but his chats with his Gf (did I even mention he has a gf already) exposed a lot.
I saw them and just smiled, Baba even sharp pass me, at that age I was concerned with just finishing sec school. What did I do? When he came back during the holidays, I made him understand I saw his chats, I didn't say more, he's growing I understand. What I can do is to tell him about diseases, condom and baby mama. I didn't involve any family member, why should I? When I know he's at that stage of his life.
Joke is on anyone who gives this teenagers phones and think they won't be exposed to these things. It's like walking naked in an exposed reactor of a nuclear plant, you will definitely get cancer (I hope I made sense there )
Those saying talk to him about Jesus are the big Jokers here, someone (a teen) is hungry, he needs to satisfy that urge, you tell him to go and pray, you are sick. Didn't Apostle Paul say something like "when I was a kid I reasoned like a kid?" Didn't Jesus say the bridegroom doesn't fast when the bride is around?
Don't be a hypocrite, help them to pass this phase out objectively, it's not easy for them, at least you were once a teen.
By the way, there's a lady o met here, for weeks we haven't spoken, edakun, Ify, what I do? Why have you forsaken me?
Nairaland, I love you all  God bless you. To the OP. There is no way you can stop that. Most of d guys here will tell you that. However, you are the adult, u need to educate him abt porn and sex. Tell him about d pro and cons of sex, porn and mastubation. Inform him of d damages it can create to the body and den leave the decision 2 him. But i can tell u with outmost certainty dat he is not going to leave porn at dis stage. His body is maturing and nature gat to do what nature dos. All he need now is proper sex education. Its a phase and soon it will expire. |
Education › Re: UI 2019/2020 Postgraduate Applicants Thread by lahizak: 11:24am On Feb 18, 2020 |
Good morning, everybody. Please i just noticed that late application is still on for M.sc in energy studies. Im interested but i av a series of questions. Hoping some of them can be answered here. Pls who knows the total school fees of the program, who knows if a graduate of business admin can apply for it |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by lahizak: 7:10pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
This is a very painful moment for me. Even though i will still hold on to a tiny hope because i havent seen a success story from folks from Oyo and lagos nor av i seen success story 4rm the social sciences side. However, i want to say a huge congratulations to those that made the list, more wins for u guys and those of us yet to receive, i pray may the almighty comfort us in his own mysterious ways. Until anything changes, this will be my last post on this long journey... Stay safe |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by lahizak: 5:51pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
Any Oyo or any other courses apart from sciences or engineering that have gotten? |
Politics › Re: President Buhari And Service Chiefs In Closed-Door Meeting by lahizak: 12:53pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Staro:
Mr Daura Brainless, sack your Service Chiefs !
They have held sway for good 5yrs with no results but lies and propaganda. Sack them and inject new blood !
Na was oo ...
God bless you. And d worst part is dat most of dem are above the retirement age. Greedy bastards are busy carrying money bags up and down to solicite for tenure extension while neglecting the jobs dey were appointed to do |
Christianity Etc › Re: Christians Sold American Church To Muslims, Rejected Club Owners' Offer by lahizak: 10:23am On Jan 26, 2020 |
Kallmerb: This is beautiful.. The only Religion God gave man is WORSHIP.. he said let all living things worship... How you worship him is totally upto you.... Being Ignorant of that simple fact is what is causing War in the World
But remember you can only worship with a clean hand and a pure heart God bless u |
Crime › Re: Jos Sex Video: For N30,000, Married Women, Girls Engage In ‘Immoral Act’ by lahizak: 5:01pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Happyfela: The videos are Still on X VIDEO, You just need any free VPN.
Check quick ur Uncles wife may be there lol. Wat can i use to search for it? |
Crime › Re: Jos Sex Video: For N30,000, Married Women, Girls Engage In ‘Immoral Act’ by lahizak: 2:25pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Full Supreme Court Judgement On Imo Election. Pics by lahizak: 1:37pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
NgeneUkwenu: But they didn't claim it was "damaged".
Because if they claimed, they would need to to prove beyond reasonable doubt that it happened..
Therefore the Supreme had no choice but to rely on what is before them..
For those talking about Accreditation...The Supreme Court in cases of Ikpeazu Vs Alex Otti, Ifeanyi Okowa Vs Ogboru, Wike Vs Peterside had already settled that the court only deal with Registered Voters and not Electronic accredited voters in 2015.. I said damage as an example to show how easy it would av been 4 INEC to cover up not providin d original copy |
Politics › Re: Full Supreme Court Judgement On Imo Election. Pics by lahizak: 1:35pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Blindersoff: The court does not handle forensics.
Experts do and the experts in this case are the supposed owners of the documents submitted by hope. INEC!
They are to prove that the one with Hope was fake but they could not because the originals could not be produced and I can conclude from this alone that they knew hopes documents were not fake and if they had brought theirs out it would not contradict that of hope so they just decided to put up a very weak defence perhaps because they had already been paid by PDP to try and discredit the result but never knew Uzodinma would push the case as far as he did.
The SC was the litmus test that revealed their agenda Put on a weak defence? INEC dont even need to bring out d original result b4 dey could claim dat d document wit him is fake? Truth is dat INEC proved beyond reasonable doubt dat d document is fake but tge judges decided dat wat INEC said does not matter, is wat dey want dey will do hence d saying dat INEC did not prove beyond doubt. And paid or not, INEC is still independent, so d jugdes should av atleast heed their word. Finally, im guessing now dat d supreme court has made their statements and their judgement is now public, more legal minds in d country and outsude d country will analyze it and we shall all read. Im sure this is not d last we will hear about this issue. Lastly, ot rly seems APC need Imo state badly 4 one reason or the other. And funny enough all d 7 judges were uninanimous on this topic dat generate such huge outrage, dat means sumtin is fishy, the only time judges are unanimous is when issues are straightforward which obviously dis is not, wonder how not even 1 judge vote against it. Strange |
Politics › Re: Full Supreme Court Judgement On Imo Election. Pics by lahizak: 1:13pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
garfield1: The court but inec failed to bring any expert to scrutinize the documrnt INEC themselves are d expert. If INEC cannot successfully defend a document that belongs to them or not. Den wat d heck is dere function in the country? |
Politics › Re: Full Supreme Court Judgement On Imo Election. Pics by lahizak: 12:59pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
maasoap: You are the educated illiterate here boy! INEC said that the results sheets didn't belong to it but couldn't bring out the ones that belonged to it. You must have assumed that the judges are mumus. Lol So wat u re telling me in essence is dat a duplicate result copy was brought forward. INEC claimed it is not theirs and failed to bring forth the original copies which they can easily claimed was damaged during one of d election violence. Den immediately, d court decided dat as a result of dat, d result brought by d other party is valid. Here is a question though, after uzodimma brought the duplicate copy to the court, who supposed to determine if d duplicate copy is legut or not. D court or the issuing body? Better put, weneva dere is an issue of forgery in court, who is called to validate the document, d court or an expert on d document? |
Politics › Re: Full Supreme Court Judgement On Imo Election. Pics by lahizak: 12:39pm On Jan 24, 2020 |
Blindersoff: The ruling had nothing to do with vote counts but omitted results. Learn about Judicial relevance before you continue typing your rubbish.
Nobody filed an appeal for a vote recount. What was filed was on omission of results and that was the focus of the ruling.
Wailing zombie do you get it now?  Educated illiterate, supreme court been d apex court threw out all oda evidences nd proves concerning this case and accept to judge on d validity of a document which d issuing body denied it belongs to them. Hence forcing a candidate on d people. Do u get d gist or ur small head still no grab? |