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Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Ybaby:
You are a wise man!!!!!! Thank you

redstaarx:
I like how you calculated ... most SIMPle men will do anything a woman asks them even if it means going against the squad

JooEeL:
Yeah bro, ure so correct on that one. They seem not to get tired. They keep running and running. Even the ones I used to think are weaklings like Bernardo Silva and the other old Silva.

JooEeL:
Hahahaha.

Sheybi una dey yab am then say na La Ligor hin dey play with barca say EPL go expose am...

How far now na? He has bossed and possessed the highly-rated EPL, even far more impressively than La Liga.

This life sha.

BoomBucks:
Top 4 is not always certain.....

What is certain is Pep Guardiola turning the league to farmers league

If City wins it this year, that will be 4 in 5 years and na so Farmers league dey take start.

Issue be say if he wins it this season, he'll win it again next season

ZBUGZY:
Oga when you no pay bride price, you wan use short court collect pikin.
If you wan spoil person own, na you own go spoil.
All the sperm wey you dey flush for toilet didn't matter to you. Come to think of it. Do you want a hoe you be the mother of ur child. That's if the child is yours.

diordaves:
Delay is dangerous. Inflation is pervading the country. If cement money no go up, rebar go go up or sand, or dollar, or even water, light and air. Something must go up sha.

Mind you, while you are waiting, your funds are just sitting there doing nothing and inflation is just eating your funds, losing value day by day.

So if cement money no go up, your funds go go down in value. It is a race against time. It is good advice to have momentum in your project. Don't console yourself - you don't have time. On the contrary, time has you in a bind.

Olamilekxy:
Abi nah.

Hope you no dey masturbate?

Olamilekxy:
Have you ever have sex b4?


Saying masturbating 10 times and having sex 10 times is the same is incorrect bro.

Olamilekxy:
Confidently saying rubbish.

youngsahito:
If na 9ja the thing go burn into ashes cos our fire extinguisher never go work...

rmx:
I do not think it will come down for now , dry season is here

Richpet85:
Please do not mind my english consider any error as typo but I honestly needed a sincere advice.

My marriage will be 8 years by September 2022. The journey of marriage has not been rosy and sometime I feel I made a very huge mistake by marrying my wife. I met her in April that year, we date for 6 months and we finally got married Sept same year. Prior before we got married I took her to meet with my siblings since my both parents were late specially our 2nd daughter who her husband sponsored my secondary education. She was cool with my family and never raised any concern during this period of courtship.

Suddenly a night of our wedding everything changed. That same woman that took care of my family as hers turned into directly opposite of who she used to be. To cut the story short, she started dispising my family and the thought of their sight irritates her.

She started by complaining about my sister's son living with me before we got married, her mum and other of my siblings to the point that anytime my eldest sister visited she will leave my house with tears.

My wife also ensure she send all my siblings and relations away from me and my house no go area for them. But what confuses me was that she doesn't behave in a similar manner whenever her own siblings or her mum visits our home. Her behaviour towards my family has destroyed the joy we once had as siblings. The marriage has produced 3 kids of which my last child is less than a month old. Anytime she put to bed her mother has always been the one coming for OMUGOO. None of my siblings can come to my house because of her attitude towards them.

I can't tolerate it further am dying silently as am typing this msg her mum, her immediate junior Sister are in my house and every where is very peaceful. If they were my mum or sibling my house would have been burning by now.

I made conscious effort to kill and ignore this feeling but anytime I see her mum and sister. I feel very depressed in my own house. There are other ill behaviour she have which I can tolerate but seeing myself separated from my siblings because of my wife is my greatest Marital night mare.

I am sincerely fade up with her but my kids are my greatest weakness. The thought of leaving my house and go far away from her or rather travel abroad and leave there permanently has recently overcrowded my mind. But I can't stop thinking about my kids, their future and what they will turn into if she is to raise them alone.

Don't forget I have provided her with everything needed to be comfortable in marriage, house, cars, business etc mostly importanly I am not cheating on her, I don't smoke, I don't keep late night and I don't have friends because she has sent everybody close to me away from my life.

I need a mature advice and no insult please.

I am emotionally trumatised and feel so depressed.

Triangles1:
Wash.....

He still try Sha because some people will spend all the money before December Xmas.

evy800:
I like your thought process not because I'm a woman but because I know objectivity when I see one...

franchasng:
If your wife starves you of sex, as a married man myself, I can boldly tell you that she is either not so attracted to you or she doesn't love you that much.


My own wife is hot, classy and too busy, yet she chases me around with it. I am even the one that tries to convince her that we dont need to make it a too frequent stuff so we both don't get tired of it with time, and to also give me time to concentrate on my numerous other engagements.



Any married man that his wife is starving of sex should know that three things are involved;

1) she is not so attracted to you the husband

2) she is falling out of love with you for some underlying reasons you need to find out.


3) she is seeing someone else or planning to

OJEEMAH:
You've been dropping too many singles lately. Pls, when should we expect the full album?

It seems to me that you've be scouting the internet looking for news that will either put Messi in a bad spot or probably steal the spotlight.

You have been defeated already. Kiss the truth and move on as this silent vendetta to assassinate, slander and discredit Messi's character won't erase or rewrite history.

You and the MODs have repeatedly shown bias and prejudice towards Messi but it didn't stop him from winning Copa America in grand style and also deliver the final punch to you haters by defeating the Almighty Lewandoski in the Balon D'or race.

You should know by now that nairalanders are not eligible voters and all efforts to rub Messi's achievements in the mud were proved futile by highly respected journalists cross the world. This was how they supported GEJ without PVC in 2015.

One goal from Ronaldo is enough to generate multiple front page materials but same MODs find it extremely difficult to push same content about Messi to FP. We know this and we have complained severally but the Pro- Ronaldo MODs have refused to make any form of adjustment.

Its no longer a secret that to make front page, all you have to do is carry out smear campaign against Messi.

Thierryjay, Unbitchable, Mangekyo, Numerouno94, Johnnypalmer, kilishihunter, Oyatainer, paulolee.
Please at the very least, tell me u are a professional writer, who get paid to write. Otherwise, this is plain sad, u write so well

Siwel25:
But he said it is one of his top ambitions. He should have ignored the French Editor because he said something close to that.

Siwel25:
https://twitter.com/i/status/1465381728814522373

Video which proves that Ronaldo said it. Ronaldo is the big liar here.

Joromi1:
And in all of this babble he never put in a few good words to congratulate Messi.

This guy is SUPREMELY pained.

DareyFortified:
But we all saw the interview where he said he wants to win more golden boot than Messi.

I'm not saying he said he wants to win more ballon d'Or than Messi but I think say him fit talk am sha.

ABANGWABOI:
Having lived and worked for a decade in the north...

I co sign your statement...
Almajiris are the easiest recruit for Boko Haram and they later then out to hurt and hunt the populace..

ukaface:
I get the point
But you know why ' fight for boy child' won't come up?
Cos they've already sold it to the society that ' men are superior' ' man no dey cry'
Fighting for the boy child' would seem soft and a girly thing to do.
So who is to blame?
Women, females have been thought to be weak, the lesser class in terms of superiority,so more fights for their right has surfaced. A larger percentage of women fight for the right and course of women/ girl child.

Which man/ men fit swallow pride and ego to come out and fight for the male?

But, wait o. Wetin una one fight for again. I thought it's a man' s world after all

AMDEX5:
Please how are you able to resolve this issue because am currently facing same and I will need assistance.