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Acidosis:
Question is why should that particular girl get the appointment? Is she the only first class degree holder in the whole of the state?

What about the other first class degree holders?

What about first class degree holders with Masters

What about double first class degree holders?

What about first class degree holders with Ph.D?

What about first class degree holders from foreign universities?

What about first class degree holders from federal Universities?

What about...bla bla bla. You Nigerians and stereotypes are like five and six.

If the governor had appointed someone from a private uni, the entire thread would be filled with all sorts of nonsense and useless stereotypes.

If we are to go by the most academically qualified, then the girl in that picture is certainly NOT qualified. We have many first class degree holders with foreign Master's degrees in Bayelsa.

Trust me, I am for anything that glorifies the Nigerian youth. My opinions won't change if the governor had appointed a 15 year old SSCE holder, as far as his reasons are valid.

The first class girl is just a convenient example that there are more deserving and decent girls in the state that can be appointed as our daughters role model. Nenji is just not it. Nenji should av been given SSA on media or youth engagement not girl child role model

wirinet:
Interestingly yes. Because my 6 years old recognises Nengi and would always listen to whatever Nengi want to say. First class girl on the other hand, she has no idea. Even the first class would not make sense to her. If that one talk how many girls will listen?

Wow! If thats what role model means to u, then okay.

wirinet:
And what do you know about the "brilliant first class girl"? You know next to nothing about her except the claim that she graduated with first class. You her faults and weaknesses and you pray your daughter be like her?
Nengi on the other hand you know, because she lived her life on our screens for 3 months. I don't quarrel with you for not liking her lifestyle, but to compare her to a complete unknown person is preposterous.

We judging base on face value here, we don't even know Nenji apart from what she made us blive in d house. So pls just pick a role model for ur girl child based on what u know abt this two ladies, who will u pick?

Acidosis:
Class of degree has never been the basis of any form of political appointment in Nigeria. That's all I have to say. Fighting Nengi is fighting 99.9% of political office holders without a first class degree.

I'm not the type with the belief that only first class degree holders deserve the HONOUR. Every Nigerian youth on the street deserve to be honoured. Every single one on the street, including the less privileged that couldn't afford a basic education.


(You) Nigerians only remember your celebrities and influencers when you need help. Where was the first class degree holder when the likes of Davido, Tacha took to the streets to protest against bad governance?? Without these so called BBNaija people, what would you lots have done??

The same institutions that produced your first class have been on lockdown for at least 8 months but none of your first class degree holders has taken a meaningful step? Of course, they're normally inactive and useless when it comes to issues such as this. Why didn't your first class people call for protests against ASUU strike??

After you lots are done using your celebrities and influencers to mitigate the consequences of your timidity and docility, you start insulting the platform that gave them influence and power.

But for real, I av no problem celebrities getting appointments and stuffs, they worked hard and they deserved it. But choosing Nenji to be a girl child ambassador over some one with first class and academic excellence, come on? Who do u prefer to be ur daughter role model, Nenji or the first class lawyer?

wirinet:
Are you insinuating Nengi did not work hard to get to where she is?
This is a girl that graduated from a first class federal university.
This is a girl that run her own shoe business.
This is a girl that made it to the big brother house among tens of thousands(if not hundreds of thousands ) other contestants, and made it to the final day.

Now, let's compare with the achievements of the first class girl.
Can you also list qualities she posses that you know is worthy of emulation?

In marketing there is something known as brand value. Nengi with her experience and fame has far more brand value than the first class girl. This is Because brings more brand visibility and attention to the product or cause you want to promote. That's why footballers are not paid the same wage. A player with higher brand value gets paid more than a player with lower value even though the latter might be a better player.

That's the way the law of demand and supply works.

If you put Nengi in one room and first class girl in another room giving the same talk, no one would go and listen to the first class girl.

She is appointed as a girl child role model. You sincerely telling me that u prefer Nenji to be ur daughter role model than d first class law girl?

Acidosis:
While you're focusing on third class without proof, are you also aware that she owns a shoe business "shoes by flora"?? Her business received more than 10,000 orders in a short while.

She achieved all that while you, Charly, was cross-dressing and encouraging the ga.y child. Ediot!

Nengi's achievements can be used anywhere in the world to encourage the girl child. She's a child without a father and mother yet she didn't let that stop her from achieving her goals.

And let's not forget that the so called third class degree is nothing but a cheap lie.

And mind you, ambassadorial deals have NEVER been about your degree, anywhere in the world. If na by degree, why did PUMA sign Wizkid instead of the first class degree holder in your village?

Awon oloshi. You made a Professor of Law an assistant to an old man without O'level but want to die on top another person's hustle, a woman with influence, a business and a university degree??

Say whatever u want, it doesn't change the fact that it is morally wrong. U seriously telling me u will prefer Nenji as a role model for ur child over the clearly well dressed and brilliant first class graduate? Come on? What u saying? I like Nenji and I am happy for her and I enjoyed watching her but I pray my daughter grow up to be like that brilliant first class girl than Nenji.

mrsteel:
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1.2m - 1.5m upward for 2 bedroom
These are d least prices o
Most places now cost 1.2m for 1 bedroom in town.
I am also house hunting in town, should incase u find any considerable one, do mention me.

Seems u are only house hunting in d expensive side of Abuja. There are other places with much lower prices in Abuja. It's wise to rent houses at estate or nice environments cos of security but there are lot of places in lugbe, kubwa, galadimawa, kabusa etc where u can see affordable rent. Just remember that if d accommodation rent is more than ur 4 months yearly income, u over spending

IT'S almost certain that the Useless one will extend d tenure of d IGP. He extended d tenure of all service and paramilitary heads. IGP own too is sure. Money don change hands. Only idiots still believe Buhari is doing anything for naija benefit

samwillyco1:
They have concluded everything, the quotars has already been shared, and are about to start training

Even if they had shared it, they will still do public shortlist to deceive themselves b4 APL and training. So chill. Nobody dey do any training

Me wey dey very petty. To cook once in 2 years for 20men you blatantly refuse without any valid reason even after I offer to help. When the day come, I go jejely enter d kitchen, and do d cooking. Will see if u will keep watching tv while I do all d work or not. Just know from that day on d only money u getting from me is for food and d children. Anytin u wan buy for urself, go work

Thecreatorx:
500

Nvm

I get. 5k

SAMBARRY:
Haa

Ota aje ni man Yen ooo

What are we going to do with envious men who hate or are pained to see women prospering bayi?


How can you destroy a buisness out of bitter jealousy and still expect profit from it.daboshey da


The man wants the wife to be a brokeass like him so that wama foshi yioshi

This kind thought is the reason why many men don't want to help dere wife to be extremely successful. The man handled d situation wrongly but come on, why in d hell will d wife not spend on her family. What kind evil witch she be? Wetin she dey use her money do, buying gold and diamond for only herself?

I watched bbnaija and I like Nenji. But this post make sense. But sha na mad world we dey now. Things don turn upside down. We go take am as we see am

5 children? For dis century? Abeg say weldone to madam for me

THIS man is leaving a fortune of inheritance for his great great great grandchildren. Smart

CBNwords:
Hmm, so deep, sorry bro for the loss, but you should have been remembered since your late dad was a director general in the ministry, he must have people or someone who was impacted by him, that kinda leave one to question the lifestyle your late dad lived. When you made reference to the northerners, I quickly understood where you are coming from. I'm from the southern part of this nation, Delta state precisely, and our people (East and South) don't value the word "help" they feel they are gods already, they dont want to help anyone.

I and a good friend (an Igbo) in this platform visited an agency headed by an Igbo man, we got there, submitted what we came with, moments after, we got a call from this our Igbo brother was said we should come to his office, our hearts were so joyful because we thought our days of carrying CV were over only to be disappointed by the flames of hatred and anger this man poured out, he vehemently said there is no vacancy!!! I and my friend had to leave drenched in shame and disappointed... Now tell me, as a human being, if that man retires today and I happen to get a job there as the HRM, would I agree to assist them? What if he helped us? Won't i help his children too


My father told I and my siblings a story of his old time friend, whose father retired as a top manager in Nigerian breweries, many years after, this his friend finished secondary and then the university, this time the dad is late, he heard NB were doing recruitment and he applied, the day of interview, the panel members asked if the father was so so and so, and he said yes, they just told him to go home and enjoy his meal that his late dad was their mentor, that he saw them as his kids, weeks after, this young man got a job there.


So bottom line is, live your life well so that even when you live office, your children will still enjoy your impacts

LOL. Don't just assume. It really doesn't work like that. Every one in a top position in the MDAs knows that once they retire or leave that office, people forget them. It has nothing to do with behaviour. The people that take over came in with lot of promises and lot of their own people counting on em to think of somebody who don retire or leave office. I know a powerful and nice director whose house use to be filled with gifts around december, d next December after he retire, na onlt 4gifts he got. That's d reason i don't even disturb dos state commissioners for FCC. I know dem too get thousands of family and friends dey trying to get job for

ovieohene:
Am in Lagos how can I apply? Any accommodation?

No accommodation

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I don't know about the date the list will be out but I'm 100% sure that major work have been resumed on the list. If you have connect, this is d time to disturb dem. Lets stay hopeful that the list will be out this month

Chii59:
To be honest, it is a favour for a woman to add being a breadwinner to her traditional roles as wife and mother. A big favour.
How many men who are breadwinners are very active in being a father to their kids? Changing diapers, taking them to/fro school, doing homework, making sure they bath, eat and are ready for school on time, each day? How many breadwinning men are hands-on daddies?
You think it's just to drop school fees and go off to work?
When you see a woman who is a breadwinner, wife and mother and you say she's doing as if it's a favour, it reveals a lack of understanding on your part.

But a man is a breadwinner, a husband and a father. Sincerely, i have never seen a newly married man that allow his working wife do all the house chores without giving a hand. Men most often stop dos things when d children are of age to take over from em. No sane man will sit and allow his wife do all the work when she is also working.

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Call ur wife and made her realize that the two daughters are both their children and dey want the best for both of em. Then u and ur wife should call the two daughters and made them realize that they are sisters and they should look after each other. If that dialogue failed and the wife and her daughter re still mean to ur daughter. Then get a divorce and hopefully, the judge will other a joint custody of the younger children. Simple

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SecretSpy666:
Greetings Nairalanders,
I want to seek for you peoples opinions regarding my family challenges.

I'm from a broken home. My parents divorced when I was a child of two years. I'm the only child from their union. My father and mother abandoned me and remarried to other spouse each. I passed through hell growing up with relatives who insulted me with all kinds of names and I was treated like a slave to their own children.

Because of public outcry about my dehumanizing treatment, my father came to village and took me to the city. It was from fry pan to fire experience as my father's new wife was maltreating me. At a point, my father asked me to leave his house that since my arrival, he don't have peace with his wife.

I packed to the house of a relative and work in a block industry to help myself. Most times, I slept in a CAC church close to the relative house as the two-room apartment is not enough for his family. My mother never care if I was alive. She never call me nor reply to letter I sent through someone to her. I continued working in the block industry and started a part time programme. I completed the part time programme and did my NYSC and master degree. I got a job with University of Ado Ekiti with the help of a course mate, managing myself now and surprisingly my mother and father started calling me often.

Both of them have 6 children each with their respective second spouse. Mother want his son to come and live with me, I refused and my father too have been requesting for financial assistance which I also refused. I don't want to have anything to do with both of them. My father's daughter recently called me to help her with school fees, I bluntly told her to ask her mother what she did to me and caught the call. Since then, she never call.

I'm alone and have just two friends. I don't have family. All of them calling now are just looking for what to get from me, not that they care about me. My mother never call me once to ask about my welfare even when I sent my phone number to her through her relative. I wrote WAEC, completed degree course before she started calling me and it is only to request for one thing or other. I'm planning to get married without telling them and build a separate family.

I'm in a similar situation. I don't av a job or money yet though but I will advice u to keep urself nd d family u will make first. Forgive ur parent nd siblings 4 ur own peace of mind and always give dem what u can afford to give happily, don't go any extra mile for em too, dey lost dat right

henrymorebaba:
CBN, Nigeria printing and minting , BPP, are currently recruiting. Best of luck.

Please how can I apply

Forget the part where everyone is shouting the man is d head of d family. This is 21st century, while u need to respect ur husband, that doesn't give him d right to have a final say in everu situation. U pushed those 2 lovely babies out of ur body with excruciating pain, for me that gives u d final say on names. Sit ur husband down, both of u should find a name u both comfortable with.

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WandaMaximoff:
Return her back to her parents house, she's not wife material. How dare she tell you how to feed a baby she carried for nine months and nurtured till 18 months?

Send her packing jor, go and marry another woman that will take care of the baby she didn't carry so she can feed the baby according to your specification. If the new wife doesn't comply, send her packing and marry yet another woman.

Keep marrying new ones till they are ready to do a better job than the actual mother of the child.

Come back and tell us how it goes.

Damn. So.a father should not have a say again in his child feeding because it is the wife that carry d baby in her womb?

Melodriod:
This is my first reasonable post on nairaland �... I don't really know what the comments would be like but man gotta do what he gotta do �

So here's the story, I'm a single guy and I've been putting an eye out there looking for someone to love and call my own, so i met this really beautiful nice young lady a month ago and its was more like love at first sight kinda of thing...but i just had to maintain so i don't appear being desperate and all... But truth is am madly in love with this girl, we've been talking ever since then and so far we are becoming more closer as each day passes.

I still haven't asked her out to be my girlfriend but I'm really hopeful that she will say yes to me considering how close we have become lately, we talk about everything and anything.

So to the main gist, currently her smartphone is bad so we can't do things like chatting, whatsapp calls, video calls and the likes... And i feel like getting her a smartphone would greatly be helpful to her as well as get us to communicate more often, so I'm thinking....Is it wise to get her a phone at such an early stage into our relationship (friendship) considering the fact that i haven't asked her and she hasn't said yes to me....

I just feel like she really needs a smartphone and I'm thinking if i should get her one... I've not really made up my mind yet, might sound crazy but I'll really like to get opinions on this..

I think u should ask her out immediately b4 she friendzoned u. Get ur Yes or No as soon as possible and as for the phone u want to buy for her, dat totally depend on whether u can afford it or not. If u know u can buy a phone for her without breaking a sweat if she leaves u after taking it, den go ahead but if u know he go affect u if she collect and leave, den dont.

inioluwa03:
The meeting is crucial at this time so that more strategies can be fashioned out to tackle insecurity

The meeting is crucial but i'm afraid d outcome will be the same and changes nothing. The best outcome we can hope for is the retirement of some service chiefs. Interior minister is also there. Both d military and paramilitary heads need to retire. They don pass retirement age already. Let them bring in new people with new ideas and team. Thats the only solution for now. And if Buhari no see that, then we in trouble