₦airaland Forum

chrisooblog:
Stay strong chief you have a lot of people who care for and love you routing for you.

You'll get through it sooner than you think.

Thank you boss.

nihilistjnr:
I never check my mail in a long time. I go check am this evening

No problem boss.

nihilistjnr:
Abbey is such a trench name though. I was born in the trenches but e no mean say make I embrace that name.

My immediate older brother also has Raphael as one of his middle names. If you from the trenches or Yoruba and not middle class and above, you will know that name is the equivalent of Wasiu or Ramon for Yoruba Christians of a certain background.

All the Wasiu I know are all nuisance.

Their wahala na pro max.

nihilistjnr:
I think you should check the UK immigrant thread. I don't know about that route but I know its very common.

I shoot you a mail earlier.

nihilistjnr:
Bastard.

You want open my nyash for here.

I avoided Abbey or Abbey City sha, cos I only uses Abiodun in primary school.

Why those wey dey bear abiodun no like people calling them Abbey? 😂

GloriousGbola:
na so e be for all of us.

stay strong.

to para quote ibime - we are going through a business cycle decline.

we will get through it.

It's well bros. God go ease our affairs.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
U wan come leave ur baby fatherless? No go that side abeg. Keep grinding bro, if possible talk 2 some mental health professional. But wetin make u dey reason suicide?

Na just issues of life jare. Everything will be fine.

liveLongNprospa:
ON a lighter note.
This thing be like who get motor.
As you dey fix one thing another thing dey spoil.
Even if e dey frustrating, you go gats dey fix am because you know say e dey needed and no better alternative.

I nor fit tell you make you just free wetin dey make you worry but Bros e nor fit hard pass the way e hard right now.
Just continue and try do somethings wey go make you relax.
From that your other reply e clear say na the budget be the koko as usual.
So far as you dey apply for the fully funded, wetin be the replies you dey get so maybe person for here wey get experience fit help out with tips.

Thanks bro.

I'm expecting response on my applications. Hopefully I hear some positive responses. I'll keep you posted.

afrodoc2:
Larride no think am o. Not just because of yourself but for your wife and kid. I know say everywhere rugged but there is always still hope, as long as there is life.
Na where one man challenge finish another man challenge start. So you can be sure that you have it within you to overcome whatever tough time you are facing. This life na marathon, no be sprint.

Thank you Egbon. You kuku know small of it. I just feel so choked lately that my thoughts no even wan clear again. Even that project I talked to you about I havent worked on it for months now. I've been so preoccupied with sorting things that my vision just blur. As I dey get breakthrough for one side, another issue just dey pop up immediately. Make God make things easy for us jare.

[quote author=Segedinho post=125968933][/quote]True. Thank you Sege the Dibia.

BlueRayDick:
If it’s just stress and frustration without u being in a terrible financial situation ( like being heavily indebted ) , then I think everything is still within ur control .

U can always try to think less of frustrating situation of things ; na almost everybody dey face am . It’s not peculiar to u. For ur mental health, try focus on the things that still give u joy .

As for the stress , u can always work out on scheduling rests for urself . U shut out the rest of the world once in a while and have a restful moment all by urself . Stress is no good for anybody . One of my bosses was telling us about his cousin who passed on recently . The man is just getting close to his mid 50’s but he is a professor in the medicine and surgery ; he has his own hospital, works as a consultant in a federal university and state university in his state , he consults for two other teaching hospitals and still has investment in real estate which he supervises . Can u imagine how stressed that man’s life was ? He was okay financially , but that stress was later the end of him. He just had a mini headache and from there he couldn’t talk when he was rushed to the hospital , his BP was so high and in two days he was gone.

Try dey rest bro

Thank you bro. I appreciate it. 🙏

For those interested in US schools for Master of PhD and looking for scholarship. You can check out most of these schools.

Here's the link to the tweet

https://twitter.com/Oludeewon/status/1702269843662078239?t=hA3w6YdvD5EpUqzV_lmMYA&s=19

I'll personally suggest Notre Dame University and University of St Thomas, Minnoseta.

Goodluck.

BlueRayDick:
There’s nothing interesting about this take o.

What the author did is one thing I hate about average Nigerians when issues like this happen ; they sit down in their house write paragraphs upon paragraphs on an issue they have absolute no knowledge about and even pass judgment without hearing from any of the concerned parties .

See him jumping into conclusion that naira Marley harassing the boy was hinged on loan recovery/ forcing the boy to honor his contract .

He has suddenly forgotten the boy never broached the idea of leaving the record label
before the whole NDLEA arrests happened . At least to the best of my knowledge I didn’t hear any dispute between naira and Mohbad prior to that .It was only after the boy’s ordeal with NDLEA we started seeing him making videos advising the public to hold naira responsible if anything happens to him.

If a record label even wants their signee to honor his existing contract , they know how to go about it other than harassing such act with gang members . We saw how G-Worldwide nearly brought Kizz Daniel career to a halt without any violence ; he had to settle with them legally to the extent he dropped his stage name for them.

The guy up there is only justifying Naira’s bad behavior with this gaslighting he dey type

You'd think the guy is a member of Marlians record with the way he was talking with assertion.

BlueRayDick:
Try and check ur BP bro . Not being able to sleep is never a good thing .

I've been on BP drugs for over a year now, na stress and frustration no gree me sleep and sometimes na late evening or midnight I dey always active.

This new place I move to, na mostly midnight them dey bring light.

liveLongNprospa:
Baba say you Don reach to reason suicide mean say matter Don get k-leg Bros.
Nawa.
So which countries dey your mind to japa to?
And any available budget?
Guys for here fit drop suggestion and advice

Na that budget be the koko.

If you know the way I dey aggressively pursue US schools that has funding scholarships for M.Sc programs ehn. I've applied to almost 10 schools within 2 weeks.

Nothing kills faster than stress laced with frustration that has lead to depression.

All will be well eventually.

iamoyindamola:
Think about your family bro
Especially the beautiful little one, try to make her your source of motivation
Don't worry as she's growing she will grow fond of you her mother will be jealous

Truly those wey say na who never see problem dey call himself man, them no dey lie.

She and madam has been the ray of Sunshine and I thank God for both of them.

liveLongNprospa:
Ahh

Suicide bawo?
Kilode oga?

Na long story jare. Everything will be well. I just need a change of environment asap. Like a fresh start.

iamoyindamola:
Abi my sister name is yetunde a well known Yoruba person will surely know the meaning
I don't need to ask nihilistjnr to know his name is abiodun or abbey because of his birthday

You gerrit. Even one of my daughters name is Odunayo because na that Eid week we born her.

iamoyindamola:
You need an agent in Nigeria to run the package
He said 12k pounds was the total package his friend used just asked him now
You can bring dependant

Toor. I dont think you need an agent for this one as you are applying directly to the agency, I've tried apply sef and the link is working but I wanted to make sure I understand how that route works before I apply sef.

Instead of using 12k pound to run that package, it will make sense to go through school package.

I need a change of environment asap before person go kpeme unnecessarily. I don dey almost dey reason suicide.

Ibime:
That take is a bit too #

I shoot you a mail boss.

iamoyindamola:
During the late 90s and early 20s I know people alot who bears such names but this new generation I haven't seen one either ifagbemi dan turn fagbemi or he entirely change his name to another
Isese in the mud🤣🤣

Na people wey still dey in isese deep dey still give their child those names. Most people just use a Yoruba name that can be easily translated.

For example, my daughter name is Eriifeoluwasimi means translates to Evidence of God's love towards me.

Our isese man should know that Yoruba mostly give their children names based of situations or events sef.

BlueRayDick:
A friend of mine who relocated to London early this year had bitter tales to tell about this care job route .

Anytime we talk on phone, he always has something depressing to talk about the whole care job thingy .

Toor.

iamoyindamola:
My brother was telling me a colleague of his went through this route but he said it's pretty expensive
And true you don't need qualifications or experience you will learn on field

Expensive as how? I thought the agency will be the one to do the visa sponsorship if shortlisted?

Ibime nihilistjnr

Please do you guys have an idea how that route works?

iamoyindamola:
Mugu
Because you don't know the meaning of your Muslim name no concern us
Or because your people don't call you with your Yoruba Muslim name is not our problem too
Nimatulah is ideraoluwa in Yoruba but what do you know 😂

How many people are proud of bearing names like orisabumi, ifagbemi, ogunyemi etc
Those names done even exist again

Na English be the problem now for Otem.

Yorubas especially have been given their children Yoruba translation of what God means to them. Whether as a christian, a Muslim or an Aboorisha.

People dey bear Ifagbemi, oguntunde, Ilerioluwa, Oluwafunmilayo and the likes.

Found this on Twitter, for those looking for different route to japa.

Here's the link to apply.

https://findajob.dwp.gov.uk/details/13087545

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liveLongNprospa:
E go dey worth am.
How the family especially madam and baby

They are both fine, we thank God.

Emaprince:
Hmm.

Hope you no dey think much though?

It shall be well.

My brother na everything jare. Thinking, stress and all.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Easy, brother.

In the end, it shall pass.[/color]

🙏

izzou:
[color=royalblue]No sleep for the wicked![/color]

My head just dey hot.

It's well jare.

ChristoBam:
Lmao first loss at home since 1986. And there's a difference between losing a local game to Brighton and losing to a team traveling all the way from Greece.

I don't want to get dragged into putting United and Brighton at the same level. I'm just wondering the reason we didn't get a DZB update.

We've been getting updates every game Brighton's been playing na. Sebi ETH suddenly looks like a bum to y'all and DZB is now the new attractive thing y'all want to pounce on.

Didn't they beat us at home last season also?

Omo I can't even sleep.