₦airaland Forum

AbujaCitiBlog:
Those things to me are not a red flag in any way. So, for me it is whether she has ever practiced Lesbianism. That's what scares me. Any woman who have ever played with Lesbianism should never ever be married by a straight man. Because once a lesbian, always a lesbian.

Lolz. E be like say you don see plenty stuff for where lesbians dey. cos the way you dey avoid them eh...
Anyways I agree with your last statement. If a woman has begun tasting lez shit, she cannot stop

Obavoh:
I swear on my life, since we’ve been married I have never hit this woman. I have never slept with another woman.

I am writing this with tears in my eyes. I love and trust this woman with my soul. I have sacrificed so much in this marriage just to make her happy.

Since day 1 that we met I Always try my best to see her smile but this woman took everything for granted.

When we newly met and I was trying to get her to be my girlfriend, she refused because she was dating another man. I did not give up on her, I kept on doing everything to remain close to this woman to the extent of going to clear her father’s farm just to be on her good side.

One day she came to tell me she was pregnant for her boyfriend and the guy rejected her . She confessed she had done an abortion before and did not want to repeat it.

I decided to marry her and cover her shame because of the love I had for her. Till today, I did not open my mouth to tell anyone about it. I paid her brideprice in full and did all marriage rites.

Some months into the marriage, she lost the pregnancy. I even borrowed money to evacuate the baby from her stomach. I suspected that she drank herbs to try to remove it but I didn’t say anything.

All these years, we have not spoken about it until few days ago she asked me to help her send some money to her father.

I became suspicious because the account number she gave me was strange. I asked her about it and she lied to me it was her cousins account and they want to use the money to buy her father drugs.

I innocently sent the money. I was waiting for her father to call and thank me as usual but a week passed and I didn’t get any message from him.

I asked my wife about it and she said he told her to thank me. That was when I knew something was wrong.

I went through the new phone I bought for her last month and saw this woman chatting with the same man that dumped her with pregnancy.

He was begging her for money and they even planned to meet in her Mum’s village.
She told him she was waiting for me to receive my salary and give her money so she can travel to the place.

I felt like dying.

I showed her the message, I didn’t even wait for her to explain before beating her. I feel very bad for doing that but I couldn’t control myself.

I left the house since yesterday afternoon. I lodged in a hotel in another town. I can’t eat or sleep. I’ve just been crying.

I don’t know how to go about this. I am thinking of my children. I still love my wife. I can’t even open my mouth to tell my people. I don’t know what to do.

Go back to your wife and continue loving her.
You are PATHETIC!!
such a weakling

superCleanworks:
yes this is the time you should show her more love than you have done before. forgive her and cry in front of her so she can see how much you love her.
as for the children, please do not doubt if they are your children.
as for the cheating, it is your fault. you better go back home kneel down and beg her.
you also need to call the guy and apologize then send more money to him every month.

Dont mind that f**l. Honestly i wonder if people like the OP exists or he is just writing to chase clout. Hoe can someone be this foolish?
Even if the Children are not his, he has to accept them and cover the wife's shame, afterall he accepted the 1st pregnancy out of love some people are mad

If she used to give you and she stopped, it is either she has a new man or is a lesbian.
Do your investigation. if she no dey give you, she dey give another person.

Blessedmercy8:
Majority don't do these things before getting married. I've said it here severally. Especially the ones that will want to test before anything. Then the next thing is marriage preparation just because the woman has given them sex.

My twin once told me when she had her first and second babies, 75% of the newly married ladies that came for antenatal check up we're HIV positive.

She said when the results of the HIV test they did came out, many were saying they are not going to tell their husbands. I was shocked that day.

Please be calming down. Haba. 75%? So they had their tests and came out to broadcast their status? or who released their results to your sister? Results are usually confidential, so i vehemently oppose your sister's claims. 75% means out of every 4 persons, 3 were positive.
Even in SA that is the headquarters of the disease, e no reach 75%

Hardcore11:
I have been enjoying this trend before this useless fool name killerbags36 that is even a Jew impersonating to be Barga came fooling his stupidity here. There are many big name here who has been on the game for long and they don't even question anyone here. Instead they advised others not to join cult. But this useless killerbags36 has been making this trend looks like a child's playground. Killerbags36 please go and do something meaningful with your life your stupidity irritate and disturb us here. I'm at sapele since a week now. If you live in sapele let me know let's see.

He is derailing the thread. I think you guys dont need to respond to him, because it is clear to everyone here that he is a noise maker. 1st he asked for location, then he started asking for address, then face book name, then picture. The more you guys keep responding to him, the more the thread dey elongate. I dont think any reasonable person here believes he is what he claims to be.

royal231:
So lesbians make u feel insecure... I love them.. Even prefer them

Lol. Lesbians make me feel insecure ke? if a woman is a lesbian, let her do her thing. Why will she marry me when she knows she is into women?
I dont care about what lesbians do, but being in a commited relationship like marriage with a man and then denying him love and sex, that is gross.
As for what turns you on, I believe you prefer them for fun sex. When you are married, and the mother of your child totally neglects you emotionally and sexually, you will understand that marrying a lesbian is different from having hook up sex with 2 lesbians

royal231:
If 3some is myopic then I don't mind being myopic..

I dont give a rat's ass about your sexual fantasies or escapades. I really dont and not judging you.
Having 3some with someone who is emotionally into you is not myopic, but pretending to have 3some with a wife that loathes you and prefers strictly to be with her fellow woman than for you to touch her, that is beyond myopic. That is foolishness in my opinion. By all means have 3some with a woman who enjoys doing it with a man and woman, not someone who secretly wishes you were not existing or is forced to be with you cos of societal pressure instead of who she really wants. 3somes work best with bisexuals, not lesbians who are irritated by your sight.

Bintabisiriyu:
because we don't pay for sex

In order words, you are a rapist. Abi you dont know that drugging someone in order to have sex with the person is rape, whether she be olosho or not

royal231:
Gutman get a new nanny or recall the old nanny and go for 3some Bro.

See it as an opportunity

Opportunity to do what exactly? Someone who his wife refuses to Bleep, or does so reluctantly? The way men rush to say 3some opportunity just shows how immature and myopic some of you are.

Just advertise your product in peace if you want to, stop hiding under the disguise of seeking for advise

KingSatan:
American Economics 101.

- Create problems in another part of the world.

- Stand in solidarity with the emotionally appealing nation.

- Sign arms deals.

- Sell this bomber to them.

- Support and sponsor escalation of tension between those nations until it results to a full blown war.

- Place Sanctions.

Pros

- The Dollar remains stable.
- Secured future of their unborn Generations.

When asked what happened to Ghadhafi, she replied "We came, he died " .

And the circle continues.

Anyway, God bless America.

Lol. You are wrong to think US will sell the world's first 6G aircraft to Ukraine. No chance

Shoodboi:
Should this be an exam question?

It is meant to test those who attended the lecture.
More like attendance bonus mark

Britishpea:
. The only reasons people do this to elderly ones is relationship. There are some folks who play with their friends children like they are mates. This is a case here. Akiolu is a close family friend to Tinubu. “anismall” you are not great anything. Great people think differently from Nairaland shits

No matter how close he is to the family, he must never be seen playing such play in public. There is a reason these guys are reverred. Can you touch Alaafin or Ooni or Oba of Benin's jaw like that in public? No matter how close you are, it should not happen

urbobo20:
I doubt the credibility of that initial release story . Cause bonny is salt water just like esravoce . Flood don't easily attack community in salt water

Lol. Nigerians still do not understand this issue. NLNG declared force majeure due to shortage of gas from its feeders. NLNG gets gas from gas stations (Shell, Total, Agip, NPDC, etc). These gas stations are located further inland and their operations are impacted by the flood leading some of the stations to shut down. the shut down affected gas supply to Bonny Plant. That is why there is force majeure. Not that flood affected NLNG plant in Bonny

VeryWickedMan:
I'm failing to see any problem here.



In other words, the double-standard US are in violation of international airspace law.

Please try to read further if you do not understand something. Find out what ADIZ means, before you claim double standards. Be there seeing no problems

Preciousgirl:
Thank s

Men are dogs In deed

That guy is indeed a dog, for him to be wooing a very arrogant and internally ugly person like you. na stupdid dog em be, to stoop so low to be toasting you. Look at the hateful comments you are making here. Keep looking for advice. If men are dogs, that makes you one also because in my life, i have never seen a dog chase after a goat. Dogs chase after dogs (b*****s)

OBTMOS:
Trying to break into the market but that’s too much.
They should have made it 50% or 70% off!

Read it again. It says book a round trip and get your first flight free. So if you book to and fro, you get the ''to'' free and pay for the ''fro''. meaning it is actually 50% discount. So the offer is valid for only those who book a round trip, not a one-way trip.

NigeriaIsGreat:
I will disable my account if Obi and his inconsequential running mate win just 1 single polling unit

You sound so immature.....to insinuate that obi/datti will not win 1 single polling unit. No nau. Some things no just make sense to talk.

Some people shaa can be stupid. So Igbos opposed Yorubas by supporting Obasanjo? The same lies that you people have carried for long. If other parts of Nigeria supported Yoruba choice of Falae, how come OBJ won? So you mean NE, NC, NW, SS, SW vited for Falae and only SE voted for OBJ and he was declared winner? Wonderful. This is the 1st time I am seeing that 1 geopolitical zone who you people say have the lowest voters decided a presidential election. If only Igbos opposed yorubas, how come there was no AD governor outside the SW region? Outside the SW, where else did Olu Falae win? Did he win in the whole North and then OBJ was declared winner? As usual, blame Igbos for everything

Ken4Christ:
We can't change what happens in the secular world. But we can certainly insist that things are done right in the church.

Even our Lord Jesus said that leaders in the world loves titles and love to act like boss. He said it should not be so with us.

Stop being unneccessarily uptight. LORD is different from lord. Nothingbwrong addressing your bishop as lord. He is lord over you. However Jesus is the Lord of lords,meaning there could be other lords

stevonics:
you cannot read or make your own research, but you replied some where as a Futo Graduate. Moon has Atmosphere. Google the 2013 NASA LADEE project when their doubt was cleared. how can NASA send man to Moon in 1960's only to start sending robots for lunar atmospheric and Dust experimentation and exploration of the Moon in 2013

Bros. The lunar atmosphere is the equivalent of the vacuum that we have on earth. If you know what vacuum is, then all the air taken out to form a vacuum on earth, is the equivalent of the lunar atmosphere. It is so thin that it cannot cause ablative defect. If it wasnt thin, then it would not have taken till 2013 to discover. Oga, me and you no fit argue as far as space or astronomy is concerned. Mr Researcher

truthCoder:
Dear students, graduates, lecturers, staff and governing council of FUTO, one of your Engineering graduates is making claims that the Hubble telescope and the Moon Laser Ranging Mirror is one and the same. He is very confident based on his extended studies and research on the subject in FUTO.

Do you guys agree with him?

I disagree. He went to Nekede maybe, not Futo

stevonics:
Bro, I love how civil you are. He was actually referring to me as a business registration agent, "the band wagon factor". I would not like to boast here. I have a book called The Boundary of Science. But non scientists believe any thing is possible with the likes of United States. The moon gravity is one sixth that of earth. You need refuelling and moon station to propel out. After using a space craft the walls gets weaker due to Ablative defects. The craft must have spent fuel to get to space first. To manoeuvre close to moon requires just electric/solar powered propulsion, moons gravity can trap you to its orbit if you don't have enough propelling force to escape back to your space station. Now if you intend to move into moon and land, you force your craft through moons centrifugal forces and get pulled by its gravity, the only safe landing will involve balloons (as simulated for mars). Getting to moon surface, you must have cruised your craft to Ablative defect, which either renders it useless or requires repairs. I remember when Challenger burst into flames due to this phenomenon during reentry to earth. Just imagine experiencing that into moon and you are not yet done (coming back)
I love this your topic. We have brains in Nigeria. Some are not where they should be.

Are you implying that the moon has atmosphere? What will cause the ablative defect upon approaching the moon?

omale88:
well it's his opinion,I have no time to trade words with people today,he was smart enough not to mention me,so I respect that,the landing mark as I have said and Rover tracks can be seen from earth,Neil Armstrong and the other astronaut placed a mirror on the moon as evidence which sends back laser signals to earth it ,what this guy failed to know was that Tesla has perfected radio transmitters and recievers long before then and the Roswell UFO crash of 1947 has pushed Americans to the edge of scientific research since then, Nikola Tesla himself already created a flying saucer by then so what's ordinary rocket? And radio? That would be a problem?just because they control the kind of technology you get in the market doesn't mean sophiscated ones don't exist,thats called market control,I am an inventor so I have no time to trade words with people who are oblivious to the facts before them,the Chinese, japanese and Russian government didn't debunk these claims,I am sure the Same dude would also believe the earth is flat just because his holly books say so.there was not just one mission to the moon as I have said there were three more missions to the moon after the first..

Bros no need to waste ya time. If some people still believe that the earth is flat, and that Antarctica does not exist, is it moon landing they will believe? The irony is that people who doubt the moon landing are so called scientifically-woke people. Using processes that they dont even understand to justify why America did not actually land on the moon. Leave them

Kukuma no brush mouth nah, becos society requires it. Break the norm of bathing and brushing mouths too. Ndi ala. Instead of striving to break norms against women that will ass value, you are chanpioning arm pit hair and body

Soon they will become your wickedness

omale88:
you get, cheers

I get
I dated one myself. 7 years older. Not once did she ever disrespect or talk to me anyhow. It doesnt matter the age diff, if you play the role of a man, she will always be submissive and listen to you. She worked for an IOC and had her own money but I had mine too though not as much as hers but I held my wing well. Na when woman dey feed you and you dey collect money from her she go fit talk to you anyhow. It was the most stress-free relationship i had

omale88:
When an older lady begins to treat you like a junior it means she realise you are not mature enough for her,iv dated older ladies all my life and none ever treated me with disdain because they have no reason to,why should they? Or what have their age done for them? Because I date their souls not their body.doing so requires extreme intelligence.A woman at average have seen more men in her life ten times more than a man would in his life,so then imagine you dating a woman who is older than you in this regard? besides the fact that she finds you attractive she wants you to see in her those countless number of men who have gone through her to beat the odds and not just end like one of them.also if you are mostly dependent on her for everything then you chosen your position in the relationship,you don't ask a woman to do you favors you let her ask to do it from the efforts she see you making if she is capable. A relationship is between a dominant and submissive,dont blame a woman for taking the dominant side when you already submitted to her.

Flesh and blood did not reveal this thing to you.....

Crusadee:
bunkery is already illegal so you need not add "Illegal to the bunkerers"

keep your damn unsolicited corrections to yourself and first educate yourself.
The term bunkery simply involves the logistics of fuel or oil transfer. A simple google search will do. Not all bunkery is illegal. Oversabi

The real illegal bunkerers. Knowing food is bout to be taken from their tables