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@madam ify@ mr dayo
Thank you, I hear you!

@dayo
Yep, you can descend on me, i promise not to say you have startd again.
The truth is; I never thought I would find myself in dis situation. When we startd, I wasnt looking to be abused.
Is it even about gifts? This year, I have gotten zero gifts. Is it about money? When we were not talking/fighting, he forcefully sent some money in my account. When he saw my mind was made up to leave him, he abusively asked for his money back and I sent it. That makes it zero money/gifts this year. After then, his folks called me and told me that I shouldnt be making him sad. That he loves me.
I cant think of anything I love about him right now. I dont want to be single when everyone seems to be a couple. Not having anyone who calls to say HELLO. When u're single, men don't want you to asociate with dia wives. Friends dont invite u ova, because they feel their man isnt safe. People view you with pity; as in, they feel sorry for you. Its the truth! I'm frm the north and its not easy when even neighbours jokingly tell you that they will 'dash' you out if you dont bring a man home soon.

@dayokanu
If I said I loved him, I know that would sound cliche. I don't hate his bad side but I am crazy in love with the good side. I keep hoping things would get better and go back to the way they used to be. He is always so apologetic after the insults.
After the last arguement (over the slut issue which he denied), he has promised to change. I guess I'm also embarassed at having to end another relationship, when my younger cousins and siblings have maintained one person for years. I so feel like a failure. Girls are juggling 3 men. I cant even maintain 1 that would treat me right. Of all the women in the world, trust ME to be the one who ends up in this situation. *Sigh*

@baroong
Thank you. I wish I felt as hopeful.

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Maybe i shud correct myself. It was more pronounced after the job. But the signs were there a few months into the relationship. Am in my 20's. . .but I look way smaller.

@Nat138
It wasn't always like this. At the beginning, we were very ok. He said the right things and acted the right way. He would send me texts of how much he loved and respected me. Back then, he had nothing to his name but I stayed with him because he was so nice. My ex wantd me back and other guys were asking me out. But I declined because I loved him and I couldn't bear to hurt him. The change came gradually, from the time he knew for sure that he was getting a good job.

@Mrs Kadry
Thank you. I wasn't expectin kindness from here. Thank u again.
U are right, my conscience is really beating me about this. The day he said he wantd to hasten our marriage proceedings, my heart startd pounding.
It is not easy being a woman. So many people tell you that the future of a relationship is in your hands as a woman. I have tried to keep mine, to no effect.
I have been told to ask my mother how she started with my dad, that it wasn't always happy ever after. People think it is so cute that he calls me so much and they tell me I shud worry only when he starts ignoring me. But most times,he calls to keep tabs on my movement and to make sure I am in. His mother says he doesnt have any problems, that he only likes food. If only that was the case. . . .

@Mrs kadry and webcam
thank you for your advice. . .

Once again, thank you all. I am indeed grateful and with God, things can only get better 2013!

Heaven bless Iya Basira, Beync, manmustwac and others who are advocating that this girl know the truth. It was highly disrespectful that he called her a ho, especially if she's a good gurl like heavy g painted her to be. Her boyfriend is a stupid coward/ bully and I wish he loses her and gets someone like himself. They can be doin fire for fire and he wil regret letting a good woman down.

Welcome to the club of Mr SpamBot Haters Association. Cheesy

The day i lay my hands on it, thats the day it will die. Sad Angry Undecided

Thanx, coolKamzi! Really appreciate

The fear of Mr SpamBot is the beginning of wisdom.

okay, I will avoid this Mr SpamBot as soon as I sight him. He he he

@ Ogugua, BABE! and Pweety

Thanx a bunch! Really appreciate! Atleast now I have an alter-ego

@190
I had a good laugh myself after I got over the shock of seeing the 'ban message'. Quite funny!

Rather than complain her, send them an email. Isn't that what it says? If you think you've been banned wrongly, email @ blah blah blah, right? We can't unban you o lol. Send NL an email.

@Ogugua88
I can see you have experience with the banning and all

I already sent the mail, just did this as an extra effort, who knows

@Pweety

If they don't like it, why did they allow it go as far as it did? Its in the sexuality section, not like I went and placed it in family!!! I'm thinking its because of that problem you mentioned. Anyways, waiting patiently to be un-banned!!!

^^ This is BABE! speaking from her alternative account!

Lashontae, sorry dear. I think Nairaland has a problem with the SHOW BUSINESS (Entertaining people).

They banned me too, as I was about to post my Koko Mansion stuff the other day. That was I created this account. Don't mind them. WE SHALL CONQUER!

Anyways help is on the way. You shall soon be unbanned.  Wink Smiley

HEY BABE!!! Really I don't know what the problem is! I thought you got the koko mansion started? What could be the beef. . .
Anyways, you go girl. Behind you all da freaking way!!!

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