₦airaland Forum

The most stupid decision is going there in the first place to explore for oil without putting into consideration the security of the persons involved. Shame on this government.

Stop spreading lies. There is no fight between Hausa and Igbo. All these hungry bloggers.

Quality20:
bad news . I don't really know how Islam is being practiced in the south, but what I do know is that in the north, any mosque or imam who allows a non-believer to join prayers with believers will lose his reputation, respect and a sizable chunk of followers - except of course if the nonbeliever came to make inquiries or is trying to embrace the faith

the more reason why you guys are intolerant and chunking out the highest number of terrorist.

1zynnvn:
abia state needs sensible leaders, not selfish people.Abia has been in the dark for so long now, despite been called Japan of Africa. Biafra may not necessarily be the solution , but i envy the way the masses come out enmasse to support the cause, if only they can demand for a better government in the same way, things will change.

I sincerely share your thought. If we can all come out and demand for a better government the same way they are demanding for Biafra things will definitely change for good.

dunkem21:
Of course, I know you didn't read it..

The writer wasn't praising Kanu or IPOB neither was he dissing your hero. He was unbiased and brought out the undiluted facts with literal superiority.

Kindly reread it when the ileya hangover booze comot for ya eye

I totally agree with you. The writer was not biase.he talked about the hypocrisy of both the Igbo elders, the priest. Nnamdi himself and the Nigerian government and made a call for a political solution to the Biafra issue while acknowledging that military might will not be solution to the problem.

Take as much money as you can and leave that house. Or develop a life independent of him. Develop a hubby,have some with yourself. Hangout with female friends.always be in the social media and chat with friends just like he does.

sarrki:
We don't have referendum in our constitution

So any attempt by any group will be considered as an act of war

the constitution were written by people and is subject to change. The constitution is not a Bible or Koran that can neither be altered. The federal government as a matter of urgency should address the biafrian matter not with the use of force but with diplomacy and by negotiations. This is the twenty first century and times are changing. A people should have right for self determination.

Saliman22:
Thanks God bless you
Pls include me in your prayers
I'm not stable right now

it may not be easy to move on but please for your sake just move. That girl that slept with your younger brother can even kill you tomorrow just to have her way.

Effect of bad leadership. It shall not be well with all those who looted our natural treasury from the day this country was created to this present day

Maybe na one of them wey vote sai baba

Descendants of the naphilim

Op how much is AAU school fee for Meng?

apoti:
Woke up to early to watch the fight - it was a boring as hell.

Just good for the fighters as they are both smiling to the bank, tedious for the fans as the fight didn't live up the hype.

McGregor tried for holding up to the 10th round though

I tell you man that's the most useless fight ever. I regret wasting my data to stream that poo.

The motive of the whole story is so that I can click on the shitty blog

Tunde from Ilorin

All of this just to show support for the so called social media bill. We have freedom of speech and you ain't taking if from us. I'm talking to you the vegetable president buhari.

phayvoursky:
WITH THE RATE AT WHICH FEMALE CELEBRITIES AND OTHER FEMALE FOLKS EMPHASIZE ON S3X.

I HAVE COME TO A CONCLUSION THAT:

1) IT IS A MANS WORLD.

2) THE LIFE OF A WOMAN REVOLVES AROUND S3X.

stop stroking your ego. Is a two way thing

The quick notice is actually to Igbo's advantage. No more buying land upandan where you are not accepted. Time to think home cos country is a time bomb.

NCAN western region supporting

mesoprogress:
More ragtags should be ready to drink more mud water. I've nothing against Buhari and actually feels for his pains

However, he destroys those goodwill with his unguarded comments and his cabal that keeps taking Nigerians for a ride.

Imagine calling a section of Nigerians miscreants and not even scolding Arewa brothers that gave their fellow citizens quit notice.

Instead condemning incessant killing of farnersby herdsmen, he called it a misunderstanding between herdsmen and farmers

He remained completely silent on his health. He didn't even have the courtesy to tell us if he's fit to continue ruling.

He needs to be disgraced out of office, one way or another. He's not wort it

The NASS should do the needful and save us from this embarrassing situation. All the clips released by the cable clearly show that all is not well with Mr president. every one always laughing in all the videos to make it feel like all is well.

My take is that bokoharam has come to stay. It can only be kept under control. This purely the failure of the Nigerian leadership to make life wort living for it populace.

YahwehPenis:
where do u know him from?

He lives in the same street with me in the capital of osun

Real story. I know that guy.

The guy trades with people money on forex and binary option. It seems business has been bad for him for some time hence the delay in payment to investors. I pray he bounce back and be able to pay back. He is just a young chap who is eager to make money the smartest way.

Brokenangel2:
Thanks and thanks a million times. I'll keep this to heart but it's not just going to be easy. I'm naturally a very emotional person. I love just too much and that's my weak point.

You can do it. All you need a shift in your thinking. The ideas am giving you will not only make you a better for yourself but also for your kids and eventually your husband(cos he will come to have a different thinking about you).

My mum when she can no longer quarrel with my late dad cos of how money is managed in the house took 4k from my dad and built a business that's is worth over a million naira. my mum had more money and became less dependent on my dad and that brought peace and respect for her.

Just make up your mind to change your situation and take action and you will be glad you did. I wish you success in your journey to a life of happiness and success.

Brokenangel2:
I can with the no sex part...but living with a "complete stranger" without even the most basic of communication will send me to an early grave. Talking about purpose, of course I do have one. I have a job and other things to look up to in life.. . But none will take the place of the man I vowed to love for the rest of my life. Life isn't about sex and intimacy, I concur. So life is about frustrating your fellow human being who has done nothing but good to you? So life is about getting a girl out of her parents house with the promise of being a lifetime companion but turn around to humiliate her? Define life for me bro. Somethings are not for jokes my brother. Think about that.

Sorry for being harsh in my previous post,that was only meant to awaken your sense of awareness that life is far beyond what you are crying about.

I do not know when or why your husband suddenly changed his disposition toward you but whatever the reason maybe I do not care to know.


My concern is that you deserve to be happy and that can be found whether your husband is there or not.


OK let tell me share a line of thought that you know already and that is the fact that energy is life and is an external delight. Anything you can feel and touch in this life is as a result of energy being expended by a source. That means that every expended energy seeks to achieve a result.

Your emotion is energy.your love is for your husband is emotional energy. Hence hence your frustration is coming because your energy toward him is not yielding result.

Here is my advice to you,channel that emotional energy into something else. Have a passion for something else. You are a graduate, you can decide to enrole in a postgraduate course and learn something new and you can even go ahead and get a PhD while he there sleeping alone on a couch. I mean do something that will make him feel you have a plan that is far beyond him. Occupy your time and emotion into something more meaningful. Do you know why chimamanda adichie is a world renowned novelist? The reason is because she is passionate about what she does.Every success you is because of energy channeled properly and yielding result.

The simple advice am given you is use that energy you have for loving your husband into something else and do it like your life depends on it.forget about cheating him with a random guy out there as that will not bring the ultimate solution. Because in the end you will still feel being used.

All this long story just because you are not getting bleeped all night. And you are even thinking of stabbing someone.
Common get your fatt ass out of the house and set a goal for your life. Live a life of purpose and see your husband run coming back to you.
The bottom line is that you lack purpose and for that reason life is about sex and intimacy.

My man get a certificate in education and the sky will become your limit.

secretlifesaver:
Hello my fellow people please i have to register this new account to keep my identity private as i don't want the SSS knocking my door and it's a secret i have to keep from my wife because i introduced her to Nairaland so i need to go anonymous.

Ok...


I'm a University graduate but like everyone of us, i have the bad friends and the good friends. I'm used to both side of life. Just 3 days ago my close bad friend hinted me about a kidnap that will happen in this coming week( i guess,) They are expecting about 30M from the ransom from the job. I know these guys don't joke because they have succeeded in the past before by doing over 3 kidnappings and they have once had a close call with the Law.

How i knew this....


This close bad friend of mine told me about a kidnap they have done before last year, Mentioned how it went down and what happened when the family of the kidnapped people didn't turn up with money on time because it was a misinformation. He said he had to stood up to the other member that they should let them go since their family can't raise 20M, He said it was a big fight and he forced them to collect 2.5m from the kidnapped family member and since then he told them he's out. Afterwards the gang continued their job without him and did another 3 successful job. The fourth was the close call they had with the police and the kidnapped victim was rescued by the police when they locate their den. The other guys ran out of town for more than 6 months but this bad friend of mine never let, he has the courage that he hasn't committed any crime and nothing happened to him. About 5 weeks ago, the gang leader is back in town after about 7 months out of town and I've seen him on many occasions pulling forces and resources together but never knew their intent until my close bad friend hinted me about their plan.

So i asked him if he's going with them and he said YES, I was shocked and he said i shouldn't worry that nothing will happen.

I am not worried because he's not my blood just a bad friend,

But i haven't been able to sleep at night since he told me;


Please what do you suppose i do? If i let them go ahead and do the job even with my close bad friend with them and they got paid nothing happened, this will hunt me forever. I can't change my close bad friend mind because he has already made up his mind.

If i blow the whistle on them and involve the law, Our law system is F@#$ up , and they will treat me like a criminal.

If they go ahead and do the job i know i need to stay away and clear from him....



Well with this out of my mind i should be able to sleep.

Please tell your family and friends to watch their back and be safe ...


Please i need advise from my N'landers member. I will be watching and reading this post closely and learn from the comment. Please i don't know the location or the time when the job will go down but i know it's going down.....

my advice to you is to relocate from where you are.change your phone numbers and all means to which your friends can have access to you. Because one day when it happen and they are caught, they may end up roping you up as one of them.
Change location and start a clean state of life.

vedaxcool:
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Because hero of thieves wasted the little we had such waste causes distress.

always blaming others for their failure. Within few months of governance the country was plunged into recession and then we have to point fingers to the past as to the reason why we are in recession.

vedaxcool:
They are a sad bunch and unintelligent people how else would people hate a man recovering money that would make their lives better.

Did u say make their lives better? Every sincere Nigerian knows that we have never had it worse like this. Anyway your opinion

NOETHNICITY:
The last NK missile text failed?

Are u living in recent times or u re still living in the dark ages.

Do ursef a favor

update ursef

please tell me their last mesile test was a success