₦airaland Forum

RFella:
Nightclub.... Do u knw y? Cos if she's a 'runs' girl there, she"ll make a better wife cos she has seen it all.....fat and short, thin and long, curved, straight, broke, rich, dirty etc etc....I guess such girls will appreciate and remain dedicated to the man that"ll have the guts to marry dem, cos let's face this, 'runs girls' do encounter monsters in form of men everyday, every hustling night....they"ll surely treasure that man that"ll condescend from his high throne to marry dem...

you really think so?

3coins:
i dont know. . .but dont go to the village sha

for some reasons,na village sure pass o.

philantoxx:
from some shared experience. and stern advice 2.

hmmm. I will like to hear these shared experiences.

philantoxx:
why I said dat is coz some of these runz gals only start going to church wen desperation to get married crops in.and most revert back to the old life wen u marry dem.its so rampant.

are you talking from experience ?

wordbank:
Bending corner

hmmm. Pls share your experience?

jsunex:
Wife material is everywhere all u need is prayer to get d one dat fits u

Bros by everywhere,do you mean strip clubs,brothels,etc?

philantoxx:
don't fink church is a good idea.

I think church is the best place o,where else can one find God fearing wife material.?

jmoore:
It depends on the type of material you want. You can find her anywhere.

pls can you list the type of materials.

iceberylin:
Ĩ ĎŐŃŤ ĴŐĶĔ ŴĨth ŴĨŦĔ. MÁŤĔŔĨÁĹŚ

pls what are their characteristics?

missberrypop5:
You know the answer.

no

toecyne:
Allen

where is that?

Enegod:
Gives great head without being asked =
wife material
Rarely gives head even when asked =
temporary girlfriend material

wrong answer,hope say no be so you dey fail exam for school.?

missberrypop5:
hmmm.

hmmm is not the answer.

Noneroone:
Character

is that all?

Afrok:
Hmmm... Wife material? Well wife material full everywhere na, just like going to market to buy material(s). Any or all of these things fit happen; U see material wey U like but d material too fine U run say ehn fit cost too much , U see another one wey no fine U run say ur friends no go like am instead of U to buy other materials join am make ehn fine , U see d material wey U like but bcoz anoda pesin dey hold am U just run comot , U see anoda material wey fine U price am bt didn't wait for reply to d price wey U bargain U just dash out .

Ur friends bin tell U say d material wey U see dey admire say dem don use d type b4 bt ehn no last bcoz of dt U bone face , finally, U see material wey gud bcoz say dem dey call u make U come buy U come dey do shakara say d seller dey desperate to sell .

So op, finding wife material no be d problem but above points might be d problem.

Hmmm. You be prof for this matter o.

Missmossy:
All of the above

which material are you?

amebooflife:
It is not about where o. Just pray to find a good wife o. Cos girls u meet in church their character na like devil own.

You seem to be a correct wife material. God bless your husband.

We often hear people use the term "wife material" a lot,while we hardly hear anything about husband material and this makes me wonder if every man is husband material?
Please ladies what is your definition of 'husband material'?
Please guys,what is your definition of 'wife material?

REMMEI:
Wife material dey market..the funny thing be say most of una know but una too dey overlook an..lace..ankara..ghini..ofi abi na aso oke..all of these be wife materials..

bros abeg which market?

jnrbayano:
Nairaland

you be correct guy.

We hear people talking about wife material,some women are classified as wife material while others are classified as girlfriend,concubine or mistress material.
From the options below,which is the most likely place to find correct,original wife material?

1. Church
2. Mosque
3. Shrine
4. Night Club
5. Sisters' friends
6. School
7. Bending Corner
8. Shoprite
9. Buka
10. wonderland park
11. Hospital
12. work
13. Wedding Ceremony
14. Market
15. Village.
16. Nairaland
17. Google.
18. Facebook.

If you marry right 50% of your success in life is guaranteed,if you marry wrongly 50% of your failure in life is guaranteed.
Be wise.

I AM NIGERIA. I am responsible for Nigeria.
Nobody will fix Nigeria if I don't.
If Nigeria fails,it means I have failed.
Let this be in our minds as we do what we have to do.
Remember,
Maybe we wouldn't have heard of Martin Luther King Jr. if Rosa Parks refused to play her part.
Maybe we wouldn't have heard of Barack Obama if Martin Luther King Jr refused to play his part.
I will arise and do more for I AM NIGERIA.

These are excerpts from a conversation on;
Why are we Nigerians and Is there a Nigerian dream or a Nigerian dread?

Someone defined the Nigerian dream thus:
That I can drive on normal roads for once, go a day without turning on d gen, go to the market and not feel like gagging at d dirt, schools where the teachers actually use the resources for the purpose meant for, politicians that are paid like regular civil servants, a nation where ur vote actually counts, where justice is structured and meted to both rich and poor without segregation, where universities produce graduates that can speak correct English at the least, where every vote counts.

Another person said:
Nigeria has no united vision.. Everyone is running with his or her own agenda..

We have had visions 2010,2020,20:2020,hope the same vision will not become vision 2050?

Someone else said;
If it falls to your lot to be a street sweeper, sweep streets like Michelangelo painted pictures, sweep streets like Beethoven composed music ... Sweep streets like Shakespeare wrote poetry. Sweep streets so well that all the host of heaven and earth will have to pause and say: Here lived a great street sweeper who swept his job well.
Martin Luther King Jr.
If every Nigerian decides to do what they do with devotion and diligence, we will cause the change we seek.

Another said;
I will say that we don't have a Nigerian dream,what I see in Nigeria are ethnic and selfish dreams.
Why should political offices be zoned?
Why should there be agitation for state creation be based on ethnic sentiments?
Why should a bloc of persons sit on resource control?
I heard some persons say that a delta ibo can never rule delta state?

Someone had this to say:
We can see d good in nigeria and keep on seeing it, but truth is second law of thermodynamics is hitting us real hard. The disorder is growing by d day. Things are not getting better o.
Im not being pessimistic here o. Am saying we need to be more deliberate abt change.
But i strongly believe and stil know tins can change and we r d ones who wil do it.

Another person had this to say about the Nigerian dream;
Every family in Nigeria is a local Government of it's own - you provide your own light, water, education and everything...so we operate on individual visions and dreams.


Even as we all talk about small impacts in our local spheres as the way to get big change, how many of us are concious that the goal is the big change not just d small impacts? Because if we dont have the big picture perspective, when opportunity comes to leverage on a larger platform for change, we may have become too contented with the small change we are causing.

In summary,the change we seek must first start from us not our leaders. Our leaders are produced by our society,they did not come from mars. Let us consciously make deliberate efforts to change. In our spheres of influence let's be the change. Never lose sight of the bigger picture.
If Rosa Parks did not make her little effort in the fight for change,maybe we wouldn't have heard of Martin Luther King Jr or Barack Obama.

I believe in Nigeria. Let us arise and be the change.

Just thinking
Why are we Nigerians and Is there a Nigerian dream or a Nigerian dread?

Someone defined the Nigerian dream thus:
That I can drive on normal roads for once, go a day without turning on d gen, go to the market and not feel like gagging at d dirt, schools where the teachers actually use the resources for the purpose meant for, politicians that are paid like regular civil servants, a nation where ur vote actually counts, where justice is structured and meted to both rich and poor without segregation, where universities produce graduates that can speak correct English at the least, where every vote counts.

Another person said:
Nigeria has no united vision.. Everyone is running with his or her own agenda..

We have had visions 2010,2020,20:2020,hope the same vision will not become vision 2050?

If it falls to your lot to be a street sweeper, sweep streets like Michelangelo painted pictures, sweep streets like Beethoven composed music ... Sweep streets like Shakespeare wrote poetry. Sweep streets so well that all the host of heaven and earth will have to pause and say: Here lived a great street sweeper who swept his job well.
Martin Luther King Jr.

If every Nigerian decides to do what they do with devotion and diligence, we will cause the change we seek

have you contacted popular bloggers in Nigeria such as Linda Ikeji and others?

technophantom: "In Jesus, a spider's web is stronger than a brick wall"


Words on marble!

no better way to say it.so true

hungryboy: lucky is when your comrades are killed and u are lucky to escape with your life

lucky is simply God showing up for you.

mitchel: Great advice. Your post opened my eyes to certain things in my marriage. Thanks

you are welcome.

hungryboy: this miracle stories are always filled with exaggerations,
dude got lucky that's all

pls define lucky.

During World War II, a soldier was separated from his unit on an island. The fighting had been intense,
and in the smoke and the crossfire he had lost touch with his comrades. Alone in the jungle, he could hear enemy soldiers coming in his direction. Scrambling for cover, he found his way up a high ridge to several small caves in the rock. Quickly he crawled inside one of the caves. Although safe for the moment, he realized that once the enemy soldiers looking for him swept up the ridge, they would quickly search all the caves and he would be killed. As he waited, he
prayed, "Lord, please spare my life. Whatever will happen, I love you and trust you. Amen." After praying, he lay quietly listening to the enemy begin
to draw close. He thought, "Well, I guess the Lord
isn’t going to help me out of this one." Then he saw a spider begin to build a web over the front of his
cave. "Hah" he thought. "What I need is a brick wall
and what the Lord has sent me is a spider web. God does have a sense of humor." As the enemy drew closer he watched from the darkness of his
hide out and could see them searching one cave after another. As they came to his, he got ready to make his last stand, but then he heard the leader of the soldiers say, "you may as well ignore looking in this cave... if he had entered here this web would
be broken!" So they left and he was delivered! To his amazement, however, after glancing in the direction of his cave, they moved on. Suddenly, he realized that with the spider web over the entrance, his cave looked as if no one had entered for quite a while. "Lord, forgive me," prayed the young man. "I had
forgotten that in you a spider's web is stronger than a brick wall.

She married him today. At the end of the wedding party, her mother gave her a newly opened bank savings passbook, with $1000 deposited in it. She told her, "My dear daughter, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your married life. Whenever something happy and memorable happens in your new life, put some money in. Write down what it's about next to the amount. The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I've done the first one for you today. Do the others with your husband. When you look back after many years, you will know how much happiness you've both shared.' She shared this with him after getting home. Both of them thought it was a great idea and couldn't wait to make the next deposit! This is what the passbook looked like after a while: - 7 Feb: $100, his first birthday celebration after marriage - 1 Mar: $300, she gets a salary raise - 20 Mar: $200, vacation - 15 Apr: $2000, She's pregnant! - 1 Jun: $1000, He gets the big promotion and so on... However, as the years went by, they began fighting and arguing over trivial things. They didn't talk much. They regretted that they had married the most nasty person in the world...There was no more love. One day she talked to her Mother. 'Mom, we can't stand it anymore. We have decided to divorce. I can't imagine how I decided to marry this guy!' Her mother replied, 'Sure, that's no big deal. Just do whatever you want, if you really can't stand it. But before that, do one thing. Remember the savings passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money and spend it first. You shouldn't keep any record of such a poor marriage.' She agreed with her mother. So she went to the bank, and was waiting in the queue to cancel the account. While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joyful moments came back to her. Her eyes were filled with tears. She left and went home. When she got home, she handed the passbook to her hubby and asked him to spend the money before getting divorced. So the next day, he went to the bank, and was waiting in the queue to cancel the account. While he was waiting, he took a look at the passbook record. He looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joyful moments came back to him. His eyes were filled with tears. He left and went home. He gave the passbook back to her. She found a new deposit of $5000. And a line next to the record: 'This is the day I realized how much I've loved you throughout all these years. How much happiness you've brought me.' They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back into the safe. Marriage is not a game, it's not easy......but it's beautiful........you will fight and argue, this is normal, because the both of you came from different background, different homes.....were raised by different parents, beliefs and moral......so you cannot expect that everything you say will be accepted by your spouse without their opinion being tendered first.......so before you give up, think back to the good times and to what brought you together in the first place.

Take the holy communion and confess in faith her perfection in Christ Jesus.