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Sophyrocks:
A Yes or No will do.

Sophyrocks:
You didnt state it in their thread and that shows you are biased. anyways, have you counselled a woman who has gone through domestic violence before?

Sophyrocks:
Thats commendable. you would amount to the very few people who practise it. Do you use the bible to counsel?

Sophyrocks:
I dnt have a problem with your question. I have a problem with the way you presented the post. You didnt present the thread for males that way. Did you accuse them of lagging behind in their use of 'weapons' to keep their marriages? No. But you did that here. Biased you are!

pickabeau1:
ok

Greater love has no man than this than to lay down his life for his friend/wife/child etc
Im glad you recognised this is a calling which all cannot strive to

Sophyrocks:
Then what are you doing in this thread? Are you a wife? im not addressing you but the Op. I am not arguing with anybody. we are simply discussing. U dnt like it? Head to your thread made for you. Oya!!

5minsmadness:


Calm doooooooooown.
The op created two threads. One for men and one for women. No one is arguing here. The op is asking what is the greatest thing a woman can do to keep her home happy. Check out the male thread.

Sophyrocks:
This is still not the answer to my question. We know this scripture very well but very few people practise it.

Sophyrocks:
This is still not the answer to my question. We know this scripture very well but very few people practise it.

anthoniaz:
If that's a compliment, thanks.

pickabeau1:
Once again, i ask
Why is it the man's duty to love unconditionally

Sophyrocks:
That is not an answer. Im still waiting.

Sophyrocks:
Your created a thread and so you must be ready for constructive criticism and varying views different from yours. Its a good thing you know that the job of keeping a marriage lies with both a husband and a wife. My problem with your post is that you generalised without concrete knowledge of what you are saying. You still have not answered my earlier question so it shows you dnt have proof to deliberate on your stance. You are not in every home to know what kind of issues faced by all women in Nigeria. Marriage is damn too complex and multi faceted for you to narrow most issues to be caused by unsubmissivesness afterall men are not jesus. Just as our faces are different so also are our problems.

adanduka:
Such women never know the worth of what they have; and they are constantly comparing themselves and their spouse with outsiders.
Men too. You see a homely girl who adores her husband but the man would rather be with another girl

5minsmadness:
So now have you found out what a woman's greatest weapon is?

anthoniaz:
Be submissive, pamper him(he likes it when I eat with him in d morning before he goes to work as early as 5:30am, I must be the one to wear him his socks, I must hug him before he leaves e.t.c), always do the things he likes, keep the house clean, cook good meals for him, treat your inlaws with love and respect (you must treat him with respect too )

Sophyrocks:
You have not answered my question. How do you know that all issues in marriages are as a result of unsubmissiveness? Give proof. give surveys conducted on that.

Sophyrocks:
Keeping homes or keeping marriages? Is it just the wives that are responsible for keeping marriages?

adanduka:
I totally agree.
But it doesn't work on worldly women

pickabeau1:
Exactly what i was thinking about
Love is more of a shield to protect





Lateralmaths
In maths there is something called equivalence
Unconditional love is not one person's sole responsibility

Sophyrocks:
How do you know that all wives who have issues in their marriages do so as a result of unsubmissiveness? Did you conduct a survey on that?

Sophyrocks:
A wife's greatest weapon? Are women now soldiers fighting imaginary wars? So if women have weapons do men have weapons too?

5minsmadness:
I think we all know what a husband's greatest 'weapon' is

ArchEnemy:
What about his financial ability to take care of his family
Some ladies ll still run away no matter the amount of love if a man cant take care of his family financially.

5minsmadness:
Don't worry, be patient. The 'wives' will soon come and exhibit the weapon on this thread

5minsmadness:
Don't worry, be patient. The 'wives' will soon come and exhibit the weapon on this thread

ArchEnemy:
What about her ability to take care of her home and her man?
What if she is so submissive but the home is so unkempt, she is a poor cook and so on

5minsmadness:
I think we all know what a wife's greatest weapon is

ArchEnemy:
He is the head of the home. He co-ordinates the home just as d head(brain) co-ordinates the body.

Ewuro4:
You already answered your Q and a valid one too. of what importance are NLers opinion to you again?