Kzinne: I need your advise please. I met my wife to be back in the university. We were in the same department and one thing led to another and we fell in love. After school i got a job in a bank and she also got a job in a bank. We started planning towards marriage after i proposed to her. Our families met as per the introduction and a wedding date was fixed. However my uncle came to my office and introduced a woman to me. Shes in her forties and he says the family prefers her to be my wife. I was beyond words. I asked my parents and they also agreed with my uncle. They insist this woman would make a better wife since shes very wealthy and they dont want me to marry on a suffering note. I refused but they stood their ground saying they wouldnt be part of my marriage to my present fiancee. The wealthy woman has gone ahead to buy a house in our both names and has given me one of her business concerns. My fiancee is devastated. Please advise me what do i do?

This is the problem with african families, they believe they can run ur life...geez...feel sorry for u

Kzinne: I need your advise please. I met my wife to be back in the university. We were in the same department and one thing led to another and we fell in love. After school i got a job in a bank and she also got a job in a bank. We started planning towards marriage after i proposed to her. Our families met as per the introduction and a wedding date was fixed. However my uncle came to my office and introduced a woman to me. Shes in her forties and he says the family prefers her to be my wife. I was beyond words. I asked my parents and they also agreed with my uncle. They insist this woman would make a better wife since shes very wealthy and they dont want me to marry on a suffering note. I refused but they stood their ground saying they wouldnt be part of my marriage to my present fiancee. The wealthy woman has gone ahead to buy a house in our both names and has given me one of her business concerns. My fiancee is devastated. Please advise me what do i do?

This is the problem with african families, they believe they can run ur life...geez...feel sorry for u

Jeeztinz: Your advice is needed here. I left Nigeria for europe a few years ago. I was already married with two kids. However when the visa came, my wife insisted i go since we had planned she would join me later when i settle down. However on getting to europe i needed a residence permit to be able to do anything at all. Then i met this gorgeous lady then we started dating. I told her i had a wife back home but she said she did not mind. Not wanting to stay until my visa expired, i had to ask her to marry me. She was very excited. After about a year we had twins and i got my permanent residence. However she has become very demanding these days monitoring my international calls. She says i should forget about my wife and kids in Nigeria. This i find very insane to do. Advise me please

Ur Dumb and disgusting....

razznaija: This new trend of Nigerian men marrying cougars AKA old cargoes just for papers is getting out of hand. They seriously need to ban cougars from coming to Nigeria ASAP.

Why ban the old white women?The men the ones pursuing them for their needs and greediness....modern day salvery....

Mrs..Chima:


Then move back to Nigeria.

Lol...

Tyche:
Truth is, in any and every situation, both party has their own share of the blame.

If a man cheat just because of horniness and lack of self discipline....his partner is at fault how? Nope sometimes one person can accept all the blame...

Laila Ikeji: 26 year old Nigerian, Daniel Ukoko wedded 63 year old American woman Cynthia at the Warri South Local Government Marriage Registry.
Age difference - 37 years!!!!!!!!!!
That's old enough to be his mother.
You fit do am, guys?

claremont:
Well, seeing is believing! Don't they look super-cute!

LOL...

mogunremi:

...and you know it? !! How naive you are.

AND "U" DON'T KNOW THAT? Whose the naive one...surely not me

bittyend: I give thanks to God for making me a Nigerian guy. If I die today and God ask me to come back into this world, I'll like to come back as a Nigerian but born where I was born in London Town (not because I don't like naija, but the country is too volatile for now). London isn't the best place in the world, but security of life is important. I don't want to be the next dead victim of suicide bombing, or ethnic violence.

It's amazing how Ghana girls and Zimbabwe girls run after me every time I tell them I'm Nigerian. I don't really look nor dress like your typical naija boy, but my mentality is proper Nigerian.

God bless Nigeria, and I hope our country gets better one day.

I love my country.

Omgoodness...smh

angiemartinez: most girls are quick to label d male folk as 'bad' due to one reason or the other. As a lady have u taken time to examine yourself very well? What is that thing you are not doing right? I tink love beget love, trust beget trust and so on. Pls lets do what is right at all times in order to get the best out of them.

Lol...well I hope u never experience a bad one for ur sake, ur the kind of person see him in bed with another woman and blame urself for working too many hours...Lol...accident waiting to happen

O.D.B.:
this forum is getting dumber by the day

Yep it is

Impulse80: Pls guys my gurlfriend's attitude is really annoying me. Just recently she started avoiding coming to my place, everytime i ask her to come, she will tell me she's coming but i won't see her. Lately, she has been spending more time with my friend than i like(not dat i am a jealous lover but dis is just too much). Guys pls advise me i don't want to lose her, also what can i do to make her spend time with me like she used to? Help me out guys.

Leave her alone is she like your friend now...tough luck for u...

Eminentsam: I began to develop feelings for her when i noticed her in my church and i started considering her for marriage but on approachin and drawing closer to her i discovered she is abt 2 yrs older than me but stil looks very young like d same age or even younger than me and i hav proposed to her already pls advice me bc i realy like her and am an only son.

Two years older than u...LOL...R u seriuos, and she look younger than u...U the one have the problem..She'll outlive u fasure

Nondu: Hi guys,how will I have r single old man?

what?!!!!