Impulse80: Common guys dis is a serious issue nah, i really luv dis girl.

Beync: U r not serious, instead of u to take her picture to Baba Idowu so u can have this girl all to urself, u r hear screaming I can't lose her

Idowuogbo:
Abi o! He dey do Ijebu

Msteeeeew!!!

Sijo01: If you dont want to lose her, den tie her!

Beync: baba I hail o, see as I dey preach make customer come ur shrine

Sijo01: If you dont want to lose her, den tie her!

jigwe101: You can talk to her, beg her, buy her gifts, pour your heart out to her but it wont work. You can try though. What I suggest however is to keep your self busy & let her see that her leaving or spending less time with u doesn't bother u. If u love something, let it go. If its truly yours, it'll cone back to u
If not, it was never yours to begin with

Impulse80: thank u correct guy as for my friend i won't let him go scot free, his girlfriend will pay for his sins.@ baba idowu and co i am a christian i no dey do juju o!

nuattitude74: My guy,first of all quit the " I can't lose her" mindset. Of course you can lose her. You seem to have lost her already. By the way,what did you do to her to bring about her change in behaviour ? Am sure she would have one or two things to say were she here to defend herself. Don't tell me you have been 100% above board and in fact haven't pushed her into the arms of another guy. Anyway, I'm on your side. Some girls just don't appreciate one's worth. Her shifting her attention to your guy shows the type of girl she is. Don't waste emotional capital on her. What do you for a living ? School ? Work ? Chances are that you are jobless and are spending way too much time thinking of this girl. That aint good. Simply begin to occupy yourself with something. Resist the urge to call her number. Delete her pictures, past msgs. In fact X all her vestiges in your life. Seeing that you are truly in love with her, I admit this'll be hard to do. Thus, you will have to display loads of discipline,will power and 'stick-to-itiveness' Keep the company of friends and family members so that you will not be lonely. When you are tempted to call the babe, CALL YOUR MUM INSTEAD ! My mum always makes me happy and I feel a glow whenever I speak to her. Dosent have to be your mum,just talk to somebody that appreciates and cares for you. You will be at your weakest at night when you are alone in your bedroom. Watch a good,long movie ( nothing sentimental O ! ),anything that'll lull you to sleep. Next morning, wake up, say your prayers,eat your favourite meals, continue the routine and make yourself happy,laugh, see the sunny side of life! Try these and you'll be fine.

Impulse80: Thanks a lot man, i'm in skul and she's in my department, which makes it all the more harder, i think it all started when i scolded for not takin her studies seriously, but then who would see a loved one misbehaving and not be concerned. I just hope i can do this.

horny4u:

You that can not hold your GF down and you are threatening to hold another man's GF down.....My dear propose to her and marry thats what men who donot want to loose a woman do

Impulse80: listen u dont want start with me, i know d effect i have on members of the opposite sex.

horny4u:

I know sweetheart !

Use that effect of your ex girlfriend and she will be putty in your hands

OR

face your studies...

Impulse80: I aint gonna let her go, no way!

Impulse80: Pls guys my gurlfriend's attitude is really annoying me. Just recently she started avoiding coming to my place, everytime i ask her to come, she will tell me she's coming but i won't see her. Lately, she has been spending more time with my friend than i like(not dat i am a jealous lover but dis is just too much). Guys pls advise me i don't want to lose her, also what can i do to make her spend time with me like she used to? Help me out guys.