₦airaland Forum

skedman:
I am afraid, writing about her past marriage in a book should not have been the best option. People will only comment and pity you for some days as you have just done and you are left with your problem. She has just chased any interested man that will like to marry her with her book . No man will like someone that will write about his weakness or strength in a public book. If I was the man I will sue her ass for libel

dangotesmummy:
you have nailed it completely but let me remind you that maje has tokes mumu button. HE kbows the right button to press IN tokes brain that she will just fall like a pack of cards.

That guy is a player and an experienced one at that. He knows how to find his way into anywomans heart he's lusting after. For toke it was a fairy tale romance and wedding she wanted.he gave her that for the rest baby mamas they wanted money and one minute fame and they got it

Every woman has a price and the men know it.some it's money that is their price some its romance baby or fame and he pays the price to get into their v@gyn@s

Zibi1:
When i saw d name "On becoming" i thought that maybe its a book that talks about how she started and her challenges of been successful and so on!
I never knew that what was in that book was all about Maje and Anita, she just decided to spoil their name to the world, just because of money and her failed relationship, is she the only one that have been through difficult situations? No! Is she moving on? No! they said good name is better than gold and silver and i feel this book will definitely hunt her in the future... I wonder what people will learn in this book that is full of hatred, pain and controversies!!!
If all of us were to write a book about our relationship i guess we will be the best authors of all time!!!
Someone that will go and be advising other people about their relationship but her own no get head... Mumu

iPrevail:
No. But you can learn from the experiences and woes of the blind man to know what made him blind and avoid it.

Mzgracie:
The day I read this story. I prayed and prayed.. choosing the wrong man not only break u down emotionally.. it affects everything that concerns u.. I must commend Toke for opening our spiritual eyes to somethings..

seguno2:
I hope that she has paid her correct TAX and not the 6,000 she paid for five years while ordinary salary earners are on PAYE of multiple that amount. This includes the parents of many children who are hailing her unnecessarily here.

nathan5050:
you watched NTA back then and heard her name... In 1983 when u were hearing her name u were using ur bank's mobile app to subscribe ur cable #Smh

ObiOmaMu:
Popular blogger Linda Ikeji just added a new car to her garage, a 2016 Range Rover Autobiography which cost $199,495, about 70 million naira.

Her excited brother took to his Instagram to share the good news.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/12/linda-ikeji-buys-2016-range-rover.html

Cc; lalasticlala

motherfucker:
Bro, take my advise. Put a price you are okay with and leave it there. You know how much you want for it. removing price and expecting people to call you is a wrong marketing strategy, even though it appear you would make more that way. It raises suspicions of rip off. I do not know any place online where price is omitted, even big auto sites have prices on their cars, except in some rare instances.

omonnakoda:
Let us rephrase that. After months of indulgently tolerating your repugnant bulllshite they evicted your sorry ass

7Alexander:
God bless your soul brotherly, Nigerians don't know shit.
I know fraud when I see one. These guys are just laundering money, that's it.
At the end of the day, she gets her cut, the goodwill and the fame.
PS. I'm from Anambra, and this so my opinion

bashydemy:
FFK started it, Beside remember billionaire was once a little kid.

AfroBlue:
i dunno. there's two sides or more to every story. 9 years is a lot of water under the bridge and most humans are not saints.

and it looks like he's doing ok

Maje Ayida talks about Fitness on the cover of ThisDay Style today

https://www.bellanaija.com/2016/11/maje-ayida-talks-about-fitness-on-the-cover-of-thisday-style-today/

silverspringle:
The fool is so pathetic in his analysis. Thanks for putting him in order. He even concluded that the Igbos that are married to Yorubas are mostly from Imo and i ask...what about Precious Chikwendu married to ffk and miss nigerian(forgotten her name) whose mum is Anambra. Biko ask him what method of research he used in this his analysis. Most guys in this NL are plain stupid. Danmit !!! i hate it when someone put so much effort in pulling others down just to make a stupid point. Please go and marry from your tribe if it makes u happy and you will realise its nobody's problem. I will marry from my tribe too for reasons best known to me not because i hate other tribes.

AfroBlue:
Mr. Maje has chosen to take the high road and not speak disparagingly of his wife or ex-wife. he recently paid her some compliments and accolades. It's somewhere in the recent NL archives, and the surprise birthday party in her honour that he attended where they warmly embraced and kissed like they are still current lovers.

Shygirl1989:
I HATE one sided stories,why is Toke determined to expose Maje and Anita.methinks she doth protest too much...... How do we know she wasn't the one coming in between them. Besides,which girl in her right mind will take all these stuff and still stay in the relationship and then left her marriage just because he got someone else pregnant,is relationship now more important than marriage?
She should just move on already, make we hear word abeg.......
Publishing "stories that pinch" for somebody to read,and in this recession some people will carry money to buy the useless book........

galeiiTNA:
But they didnt. Action speaks louder

Vote for Ambode or Perish Inside the Lagoon, Oba akiolu Tells Igbos | ThisDay Newspapers | April 6th 2015 |

....“On Saturday, if anyone of you, I swear in the name of God, goes against my wish that Ambode will be the next governor of Lagos State, the person is going to die inside this water.

“I’m not ready to beg you. Nobody knew how I picked Ambode. Jimi (Agbaje) is my blood relation and I told him that he cannot be governor in Lagos for now. The future belongs to God. I am not begging anybody, but what you people cannot do in Onitsha, Aba or anywhere, don’t do it here.

“If you do what I want, Lagos will continue to be prosperous for you. If you go against my wish, you will perish in the water.”

The monarch said anybody against Ambode did not wish the state well, adding, “I am for the progress, growth and development of Lagos. Ambode is highly cerebral, he’s a symbol and he is going to deliver the message which I, the Oba of Lagos, have said. And he will govern the state for another eight years....

In his response, the Eze-Ndigbo of Amuwo-Oriade, Dr. Gordian Dimojiaku, promised Akiolu that the Igbos in the state would support Ambode.

“The mistake of last Saturday was caused by everybody, not only the Igbos. It is not only the Igbos that were responsible for the votes. But we have learnt our lesson. Saturday’s election is going to be a different thing and Ambode is going to win.

“Everybody knows that when you fail the first time, you cannot afford to fail again. We are going to tell our people that Ezes from the 20 local governments and 37 local council development areas are here and that we have sworn with the Oba that we are going to make sure that Ambode wins next Saturday’s election,” he said.

http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/vote-for-ambode-or-perish-inside-the-lagoon-oba-akiolu-tells-igbos/206050/

Oba Akiolu’s statement was jocularly to his Igbo friendsOba Akiolu’s ‘Death Threat’ Against Igbos Was An Honest Joke – Atueyi’ ON APRIL 10, 2015 | 3:44 AM

A Lagos-based lawyer Chukwudi Atueyi, who was present at the meeting between the Oba of Lagos Rilwan Akiolu and some Igbos where he made the infamous ‘death threat’, yesterday, gave an account of what transpired at the meeting.

According to Atueyi, the uproar was uncalled for as the Oba’s statement was not directed at the whole Igbos in Lagos but he spoke jokingly to his Igbo friends that visited him.

“All the Eze Ndi Igbo honorary in Lagos went to pay HRM solidarity visit on Sunday and I was fortunate to be among those present at the said meeting. What the Oba said was fully and simply directed to only the Igbos present at the meeting who his majesty considers to be very close to him and should understand him well enough.

“You know when one talks to his very close friends and subjects, he tends to be very free with them, so he was being very free with those present at the meeting and wanted us to realize how serious and close he takes us and our votes, because he cannot imagine us giving him our words only to turn back and do the very opposite.

“He did not force us to the meeting, we were the ones that went to him on solidarity visit, so it would be very evil of us to only go and deceive him there. He only jokingly (at least as it appeared to me then) warned the people present at the meeting who he considers his own people. The said warning that we are supposed to be very conversant with since we have all the[b] “Ëze Ndi Igbo”[/b] present there, as that was not the first time we visited him. We are all already aware of the Yoruba culture and understood perfectly what he meant. There was no specific place he referred to all the Igbos in Lagos.

“He was only addressing the Igbos with him present there whom he considers his own people and he simply observed his culture which we all quite understood and this explains why there was applause and laughter at the end of his speech. We were expected to, thereafter, talk to our people in civilized manner to convince them and canvass for their votes if we truly believe we are capable of doing so.

“The tradition of lagoon water threat was directed only to those present at the meeting as culture demands. Though he appeared serious but we all understood it as a joke, that was why we all applauded him and made fun of it there.

https://www.informationng.com/2015/04/oba-akiolus-death-threat-against-igbos-was-an-honest-joke-atueyi.html

Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/04/oba-akiolu-addressed-us-his-igbo-friends/

galeiiTNA:
First of all, no one clapped when he made that speech, and even they did
They were clapping at his level of stupidty

Smart78:
She's pure breed igbo and not only that but thier first daughter is married to Dr. Walter Ofornagoro's son... These are sacred facts.

Justiceleague1:
u try to correct their errors by ascribing upon others what they are not and here u are,talking about argueing blindly! Smh

Smart78:
Its on record that tinubu stood against eng. Funsho williams, and later his wife from becoming lagos governor just because she's igbo and nothing more. He even boasted to bode geoge about it. We av 4given him but av not 4gotten... Yorubas are tribalists.

lomprico:
Who promised to drown a whole tribe in lagoon because of politics? And which party was he supporting?

MadamT:
The thing tire me! That's why I prefer to read and silently observe than post. Too many kids just jiving without substance!

IkpuMmadu:
Oga don't bring the middle name and history here...the bottom line is that she is an Edo woman and also...the position of Ooni in Yoruba can't be compared to that of small chief unless you want to bring down his position ..just like Nigerian man dumping Nigeria woman when he comes president to marry a Ghanaian woman..

Do the seductive reasoning here

Bro..nice chatting wirh you. Hood night

MadamT:
Please exchange the notes. Kindly list the names of the many Yoruba royals that married non Yoruba.
Also, can you provide evidence of how Yoruba men place non Yoruba women above Yoruba women? You say you see it here in Nairaland daily in many threads. Please post just one of such threads. I'm an older lady who is not a regular poster here. Would be intesresting to see such a thread.

IkpuMmadu:
Also what you have failed to understand is the role of ooni of Ife ..he is the king of Yoruba

Prof is just a clan head....mind you I am from Anambra

So, ooni used to have a Yoruba wife...when he ascended he dumped her for a non Yoruba
But prof never had an Igbo wife and never dumped any...

So before you make some comparison get your facts right

What Ooni did was symbolical

CandyDiamond:
Stop ranting, OSU caste system is longer practiced in Igboland,that happened before the coming of white men.Igbo ladies are free to marry any man from any part of the world and one good thing about them is that they never forget to allign their children with Igbo culture

bigfrancis21:
From the way you're sounding, I don't think you're grounded well enough in the state of Igbo matters. I am an Igbo myself and I won't lie on the internet just to pretend that the system no longer exists. Yes, the osu system in Igboland has been reduced immensely and nobody discriminates openly against an osu in Igboland. Nobody can tell between an osu and diala in Igboland, especially in the township areas because nobody cares. The issue of osu mainly comes up when it is time for marriage or kingship in a village. This is when the groom's family (if dialas) go to find out about the bride's family (iju ese). This has been the cause of the end of several to-be marriages in Igboland, when the bride's family is discovered to have osu status. Many times, Igbo kids born and bred outside Igboland barely know they are one and they only find out when they are engaged already and their fiance's family does the asking around (iju ese) and discovers her status. This can be very heart-wrenching for the bride most times. According to the way it is done, a diala (freeborn) who marries an osu automatically becomes an osu. Several efforts have been made to stop this practice, especially by religious figures, but then which diala families are willing to be bold to marry an osu family because rumour will spread around the village that they are no longer dialas but osus by marriage. This leaves ladies with osu status in a tight position to seek out marriage strictly to osu guys (reducing their dating pool in Igboland) or marry outside to other tribes where no one cares about their osu status.

But from the way it is mentioned here on nairaland, one would think that the osu system is very bad in Igboland. However, it is not. I spent over 11 years in Imo state and did my entire secondary school there and I never came across an osu (doesn't mean they did not exist but nobody cared or knew who was one or not), not even once nor I heard anyone call another person an 'osu'. Infact you could be reported or charged for openly calling someone an 'osu'. Everyone intermingled freely - at school, in the market, at work, in the public place etc. Due to urbanization/westernization now, Igbos predominantly live in the city where they intermingle thus no one would know who is osu or diala. Only the villagers in the village still know which families or sections or villages are diala or osu.

IkpuMmadu:
Cry me s river...it's the Yoruba men that sees marrying Igbo women as an achievement whike the Igbo an doesn't even notice or see reason why he should go out of his place....oh the prof you said was one of the very few...I can I've you many Yoruba royals that married non Yoruba...do you want us to exchange notes

One thing I notice is that most Yoruba men place non Yoruba women above Yoruba women...this is n o derivation...it is tribal slut but just an o derivation even here in nairaland we get to see that daily in many threads

That's why igbo keep feeling fly not as if Igbo are special breed

CandyDiamond:
Remember that without Igbo men there won't be Igbo ladies , Igbo men are doing great job producing the intelligent Igbo ladies,the Igbo ladies didn't fall from sky OK,they are raised by Igbo men to become intelligent.

IkpuMmadu:
This is one problem ..when the good and rich Yoruba guys that hate marrying the Yoruba women...Igbo gains

Most influential Yoruba Mary Ann Yoruba and you can see from Oba of Ife or is it ooni and this man

Yet, few Igbo marry outside...Igbo retains theirs and gets have chunk of others

No wonder wise men comes from east...we wish chioma well ....until

DaFlash:
Afonjas transforming the lives of f|atheads since beginning of time.