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Moms love is overrated. From DM My dad and I were very close when I was growing up. He later suffered from prostate cancer, and during that time, I stayed with him in the hospital as much as I could. I helped in every way I knew how. Watching him fight for his life was painful, and we were constantly struggling to raise money for his treatment. |
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We had a tenant who lived in our house for many years. By the seventh year, my dad called him aside and asked a simple but powerful question: “What are your plans for yourself and your family?” The man explained that he had bought a piece of land two years earlier. He had managed to lay the foundation, but since then, nothing had moved. Life, responsibilities, and finances had stalled the dream. My dad looked at him and said something that changed everything. He told him he wouldn’t be paying rent anymore — not until he finished building his house. The man immediately prostrated. He was overwhelmed. He couldn’t believe what he had just heard. But my dad stopped him and said: “Don’t thank me. You’re not staying here for free. This is not comfort — it’s a push. Finish your house.” Three years later, he moved into his completed home. What makes this even more powerful is that nobody in the family knew. Not the children. Not anyone. Only my dad and mum. So how did I find out? 😂 At his housewarming ceremony, the man shared it publicly as a testimony. That’s how we all heard the story. It has been 13 years now. And I can say this with full confidence — my parents’ kindness is paying off. We, their children, encounter mercy wherever we go. Favor follows us in rooms we didn’t even pray to enter. Kindness never dies. It multiplies. And sometimes, it returns through your children. |
josielewa:FACT! The level of drugs abuse in the island is alarming. |
Men be honest, what's the ONE thing you learnt about women that every man should know by age 25 |
Title: Love vs Invoice – A Nigerian Case Study 💔💸 There are two types of men in this life: 1. The “My Love” 2. The “Kindly Make Payment” Let me explain. When She Loves You ❤️ You wake up at 11:47am. Her text: “Good morning my king 😍 Did you sleep well? I sent you 5k for breakfast. Don’t stress.” You didn’t ask. You didn’t hint. You didn’t even wake up early. Suddenly: Uber? She orders it. Food? She has a “discount code.” Data? “I had extra, I shared with you.” Birthday? Surprise party. You sneeze once? She Googles hospitals. You say, “I’m broke.” She says, “We are not broke. We are just between blessings.” ✨ You could say you want to start snail farming in Antarctica and she’ll say: “I believe in you.” Everything is free. Even peace of mind. When She Does NOT Love You 💀 You text: “Good morning.” She replies 6 hours later: “?” You say: “Can I see you?” She says: “Transport?” You say: “It’s just 15 minutes away.” She says: “Fuel is not smiling.” You send 3k. She says: “That’s just going. What about coming back?” You send another 3k. She says: “Hair is not free.” You blink. Invoice drops. The Billing Breakdown 📄 Item Amount Transport 3,000 Return Transport 3,000 Hair 8,000 Nails 6,500 “I’m Hungry” 5,000 Emotional Damage Pending Total: Your destiny savings account. When she loves you: You can wear one jean for 3 weeks. She says, “It’s vintage.” When she doesn’t: You wear Gucci. She says, “You look stressed.” When she loves you: You say, “I’m coming.” She says, “Be safe ❤️” When she doesn’t: You say, “I’m coming.” She says, “Coming with what?” One guy tested it. He stopped sending money. She stopped sending replies. Scientific confirmation: If she loves you, everything is free. If she doesn’t, everything is a fee. 💯 Moral of the story: Don’t argue with billing systems. Just confirm if you’re a boyfriend… or a subscription plan. The end 😂 |
meobizy:A year ke ? 3 months everything don scatter. |
prinsam30:First, substitutions are never as simple as “he was playing badly.” A coach sees physical data, tactical balance, pressing triggers, and opposition adjustments — not just what is visible on the ball. On Mboumo: Even if he was quiet, wide players often stay on because of defensive structure and transition balance. If he delivered the cross for the equaliser, that shows why managers sometimes keep trust in a player — one decisive moment can change a game. Coaches think in probabilities, not emotions. On Cunha being subbed: That decision likely had tactical reasoning. Maybe the coach wanted: More physical presence in the box A different pressing profile Or to protect Cunha physically Sesko and Zirkzee on the bench? It’s not always about who is “better.” It’s about: Match tempo Opponent defensive line height Space behind vs space between lines Sometimes introducing two attacking profiles at once can destabilize your midfield structure. If the team was already struggling in build-up, adding more attackers without fixing progression could worsen control. Now, about the slow build-up with Martínez. Controlled build-up from the back is not meant to entertain — it’s meant to: Attract pressure Create overloads Manipulate the press However, if the tempo is too slow and there’s no vertical threat, it becomes sterile possession. That’s not a philosophy issue — that’s an execution issue. The ball circulation must provoke movement. If it doesn’t, it looks boring and predictable. The real question isn’t “why didn’t he sub earlier?” The real question is: Was the midfield offering progressive angles? Were the full-backs providing width and depth? Were there third-man runs? Was the tempo varied or flat? Football at elite level is about structure first, individuals second. Emotional reactions are natural as fans. But coaching decisions are layered — fitness, tactical data, opponent shape, long-term squad management. Criticism is fair. But it must be tactical, not emotional. |
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Where's the bolded in the write up? SixSeven: |
Man to man, Bro to bro Hit me with the hardest truth you had to accept as a man |
emperor4love:YouTube or send a DM to @queenble on telegram. |
emperor4love:Not really |
emperor4love:AI automation |
The Accounting Version of This Struggle A young accountant earning ₦120,000–₦180,000 monthly in Lagos—especially those working in audit firms or mid-sized companies in places like Ikeja, Victoria Island, or Lekki—while living in areas like Ogudu, Ikorodu, or Alagbado faces the same arithmetic problem. Transport alone can easily swallow ₦40,000–₦60,000 monthly, even with hybrid work. Feeding (home + office), data, and basic utilities can take another ₦60,000–₦80,000. Before the month ends, ₦110,000–₦130,000 is already gone—and this is without touching: Professional clothing Exam fees (ICAN/ACCA) Study materials Medical needs Family responsibilities Emergencies (which Lagos never fails to provide) What’s left? Usually ₦20,000–₦30,000, if anything at all. Sometimes the month ends in overdraft, borrowing, or quiet family support. Professional Costs Make It Worse Accounting, like law, has hidden professional expenses: ICAN/ACCA exam fees and annual subscriptions Mandatory trainings and conferences Corporate dressing (you can’t show up to an audit in a worn shirt) Transport to client sites (often unpaid or poorly reimbursed) A decent corporate wardrobe can cost ₦150,000–₦250,000. For someone saving ₦20k monthly, that’s almost a year—assuming life doesn’t interrupt (it always does). The Entry-Level Salary Trap Just like law firms, many accounting firms still pay: ₦80,000–₦100,000 (some even less, with “experience” as compensation) At that level, basic survival costs already exceed income. So the young accountant is forced to: Depend on parents or siblings Skip meals or health care Delay professional exams Quietly burn out while “gaining experience” And we all pretend this is normal. The Structural Problem (Same as Law) Too many young professionals chasing limited roles Firms underpricing services to win clients Clients delaying payments or squeezing fees “Exposure” and “learning” used to justify low pay But here’s the uncomfortable truth: When trained professionals cannot meet basic living needs, quality drops, ethics weaken, and long-term commitment disappears. People cut corners. Talented people leave. The profession loses respect—slowly, quietly. The Big Question (For Accounting Too) Do current pay levels for accountants in Lagos realistically match the cost of living in Lagos? If not: A. How long can this model survive? B. Who will still be practicing in 10–15 years? What kind of professionals are we unintentionally creating? For Accountants Who Escaped This Phase “Like a Boss” 👀 The ones who made it out usually did one or more of these: Specialized early (tax, data, energy, forensic, systems, advisory) Moved from pure audit to commercial or advisory roles Took remote or foreign-linked accounting work Built side income (consulting, bookkeeping for SMEs, training) Left traditional firms faster than expected Treated ICAN/ACCA not as the destination, but as leverage They didn’t just “endure”—they repositioned. This is not entitlement. It’s not complaining. It’s basic economics. A profession cannot remain respected when its entry-level professionals are financially exhausted, emotionally drained, and barely surviving. Law has this problem. Accounting has it too. And until we talk about it honestly, young professionals will keep suffering in silence—while pretending everything is fine. |
Rule no 1. As a man work on yourself (never stop this) 2. Have an abundance mindset 3. State your desires but don’t chase 4. Never force vibe or beg for love 5. Women know what they want, they either communicate in words or actions (attitude) 6. If she want you, she will make it easy for you. 7. Leave the table when respect and value is taking away. 8. Always watch out for the signs 9. Be you while you work on yourself (don’t loose yourself for any woman) 10. Pray for the right woman that will love you beyond what you’re bringing to the table while bringing out the best in you. #Selah |
I am happy this coming to light not to mention the way this chambers uses people like tomorrow no dey. |
tpain121:A friend makes than in Nigeria monthly |
Alliswell248:Are you okay? Why invite someone for criticizing a gov for a bad road |
Nigeria is gone. Asking for accountability is now a crime |
lazkizz:Baba enter street do conductor work to pay your rent |
emperor4love:DM queenble on telegram |
Babatundehy:Mini starlink is how much and what's the monthly subscription |
tpain121:2.4m monthly is how much again in $ |
emperor4love:DM queenble on telegram she runs na remote channel. |
Flangelo12:Local notifications ![]() |
olumided:Send a DM to Queenble on telegram |
Amanah8:Send a DM to @Queenblebon telegram. |
sheedy407:They cannot infact never ban cigarettes |
Story for the gods, something I saw yesterday and today mtchew |

