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Romance › Re: What’s The First Thing That Sexually Attracts You To Someone? by Leezah(op): 8:24am On Mar 16, 2020

coolestofall:
Not just that. The way she sits, stand, and do evrything in general.

Romance › Re: What Are The Best Things Your Father Did For You That You Can Never Forget? by Leezah(op): 8:23am On Mar 16, 2020

Eyah!

Aystingzs:
I have no memory of him he died when I was 3 yrs old

Health › Re: Coronavirus: Indian Hindus Drinking Cow Urine To Prevent Disease by Leezah(f): 8:22am On Mar 16, 2020

yo! i have got pm issues.

collinsuchendu:
Just like APC zombies

Romance › Re: What’s The First Thing That Sexually Attracts You To Someone? by Leezah(op): 8:21am On Mar 16, 2020

RisenPhoenix:
Height.

Romance › Re: How To Avoid Rape Accusation After Sex....get In! by Leezah(f): 10:25am On Mar 13, 2020

Some thoughts:

-If you have heard rumors that the woman is in any manner unstable, leave her alone.
-If the woman is high or intoxicated, don't even try for sex.. Call her a cab or take her home and then leave.
-If you get any signs that the woman is insecure or unstable, end the evening as quickly as possible. Do not contact her again.
-If she says "No", at any time, take her home or ask her to leave. Be willing to pay for a cab.
-If you get mixed signals, either leave her home or tell her that you need to "get up early."
-Women no longer play "hard to get." If an adult woman wants your sexual companionship, then she'll make it abundantly clear. If she does not, don't bother.
-If she for some reason "jokes" about being forced, end the evening quickly. Be a "gentleman" about it and take her home. Do not contact her again.
-Make certain that you are able to account for your time in the wake of a "bad date." Stop at a fast food restaurant, an all-night box store or a gas station. Pay with a credit/debit card and get a receipt.
-If you get into any kind of dispute with a woman who you don't know or who you don't know well, end the argument and leave the scene. If she's a "regular" at the place, find another place to go for a few weeks or so.
-If you get any type of odd or bad feelings, politely excuse yourself from her company and leave.

While women rarely make up false sexual assault claims (unfortunately, they don't have to) some might and will. The less time that you spend in the company of a troubled woman provides her with less of an opportunity to make up a story that could cause you no end of problems.

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Romance › Re: Public Vs Private Marriage Proposal: Which Would You Prefer? by Leezah(f): 10:24am On Mar 13, 2020

Hearing “No” is painful wherever you are. But hearing “No” in front of an audience — whether you know them or not — adds embarrassment and possibly even humiliation to that pain. I knew a guy who did the whole public proposal thing and got turned down. I wasn’t there, I heard about it months later, but it was still bad.

The thing is, it never occurred to him that she’d say no. They’d been together for ages. They lived together. To him, it was the obvious next step. Not to her. So yeah, I vote for private, just in case.

I wish you the best of luck and I hope you hear an enthusiastic YES!!

Romance › Re: What Are The Best Things Your Father Did For You That You Can Never Forget? by Leezah(op): 10:22am On Mar 13, 2020

XhosaNostra:
Yes, the utmost tip.

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Romance › Re: Have You Met And Maintained A Relationship With A Lady That Smokes Like Mad? by Leezah(f): 10:13am On Mar 13, 2020

I speak from personal experience. some years ago I dated a man I thought only used it on weekends when he was around his friends. We were in our late teens and I thought it was something he would grow out of. We were never together everyday until after we got moved in together so I had no idea he smoked it everyday after work. I had tried it myself while dating him but hated the way it made me space out and not be capable of having conversation or wanting to physically do anything. So I did not keep smoking it. As I said, I thought he would grow out of it once we moved in. That didn’t happen. And it was hard to leave and admit to the world that I made a mistake in dating him. I got pregnant, and when my husband still wouldn’t quit smoking, I found the courage to leave when our baby was 3 months old. I could never leave the baby alone with him because he would smoke the minute I was out the door. I found that out when I forgot something and returned home 5 minutes after leaving only to find him smoking a joint while the baby was sleeping. I lost my child 9 months after as a result of ihaled smoke the baby has ingested

Anyone who is under the influence of a drug that affects your brain in a manner such that smoking or alcohol does is not fit to be responsible for taking care of a baby or been a in a relationship. So I left on my own. I had a good job and have been a good.

My ex dated another girl, had two more children and has lost numerous jobs due to his smoking and is currently unemployed. His poor ladyworks 4–5 part-time jobs trying to pay the bills and keep a roof over their heads. They are clearly not happy and my ex looks like hell, at least 15 years older than he is. All I can think is what a waste his life has been. He was tall, very handsome and could have been a professional athlete but smoking got in the way. He valued smoking much more highly than anything else. Anyone who believes smoking is not addictive isn’t telling the whole truth. Some people DO become addicted.

So, to sum it up, if you don’t smoke and don’t want to be responsible for doing everything yourself that two people in a relationship should share in doing, then get out now. Find someone who you are more compatible with and live a life that is aligned with your own values.

Just remember, short term pain, long term gain! Yes, your heart may be broken for a little while but I know you will meet someone better! Life is short. Don’t waste too much of it with the wrong people or wrong circumstances.

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Romance › Re: What’s The First Thing That Sexually Attracts You To Someone? by Leezah(op): 10:12am On Mar 13, 2020

SweetCunt97:
Yes, some men

Romance › Re: What Are The Best Things Your Father Did For You That You Can Never Forget? by Leezah(op): 10:12am On Mar 13, 2020

You sound different from the lots here. I am guessing you are from Southern part of Africa

XhosaNostra:
I had two men in my life who were complete opposites of each other & had different approaches to parenthood.

My biological father was a stern force that didn't accept anything less than perfection, behaviorally & otherwise. He expected good grades & pushed me to excel in school. I was his little Poodle (a name he called me by) & he wanted me to do well. Now I don't need counsel or supervision to do what's right. I give everything my best shot & try to be righteous at all times because that's what was expected of me. No putting shame on the family name, my dad would turn in his grave.

My stepfather was the more easygoing one. He taught me to step out of the serious energy, every now & then, to have fun. We had many adventures & silly times together, much to my mother's annoyance lol.

Today I think I'm a combination of the two. I know when to put my big girl panties on & when to be a goofball. I can switch between the two with ease.

Romance › Re: What’s The First Thing That Sexually Attracts You To Someone? by Leezah(op): 10:10am On Mar 13, 2020

SweetCunt97:
Lol.. Men don't appreciate that abeg. They want to see you open ur purse

some men

Romance › Re: What’s The First Thing That Sexually Attracts You To Someone? by Leezah(op): 10:08am On Mar 13, 2020

Sometimes hard, fast and rough.
Sometimes deep, slow and gentle.

Albertone:
Did a 3 hour marathon ***
Engaged in a four some
Travelled hours away from my place to deliver some good fvckings

The list can go on and on.

How abt ya?

Romance › Re: What’s The First Thing That Sexually Attracts You To Someone? by Leezah(op): 10:07am On Mar 13, 2020

Guess!

Albertone:
I'm not doubting,I'm only suprised to see such sexy body.Its not common among Nigerian ladies

Which country are you from?

Romance › Re: "My Titties Can Twerk Too" Busty Lady Says As She Twerk Using Her Boobs by Leezah(f): 9:43am On Mar 13, 2020

Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Is Gay by Leezah(f): 9:40am On Mar 13, 2020

So what do you do when you find out that your boyfriend is gay?

-One option is to remain friends with him while you look for another boyfriend who’s straight.
-Another option is to break up with him and cease all communication.
-A third option is to continue dating, knowing that your boyfriend might prefer being with another guy (certainly not the best option, IMO).
I think your choice from these options will depend to some degree, on whether you feel deceived, or if, at the time you two started dating, he actually didn’t know that he was gay.

If he knew and intentionally mislead you, Option #2 might be your choice.
If he didn’t know until after you two had spent some time together as a couple, you might want to consider Option #1 instead.

Romance › Re: Can A Man Say No To Sex? Ladies React (Video) by Leezah(f): 9:35am On Mar 13, 2020*

Of course there are men who say no to sex. There are all kinds of men, just like all kinds of women, and their desire for sex varies.

Some men are willing to have sex with any willing partner.
Some need an emotional bond and would say no to an offer of sex without affection.
Some men would not have sex outside of a committed relationship.
Some men simply have lower sex drives and they find meaning in other forms of intimacy and connection.
Some men are abstinate because they do not want to have an unplanned pregnancy, because they worry about STI’s, for religious reasons, or because they are asexual. The list of reasons could go on and on.

if my partner and I had a healthy, affectionate relationship and he didn’t initiate sex as often as I’d like, I’d do the initiating. And if he turned me down, I’d talk to him about it. He’s my partner after all. We should be able to discuss it.

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Romance › Re: What’s The First Thing That Sexually Attracts You To Someone? by Leezah(op): 9:35am On Mar 13, 2020

Albertone:
I'm also naughty too
Let's collab
Naughtiness jams naughtiness

Modified :
Don't tell me the picture is yours cos I'm ready to faint

Why are you Nigerians doubt?

Romance › Re: Any Hope For Me At 25? Even Pimple I No Get, Talkless Of Beards...(with Photos) by Leezah(f): 9:28am On Mar 13, 2020

Many reasons actually exist.

I suppose these are the reasons :

Genetics : My Maternal side family member have less body hair and facial hair. They are potent though (my Grandfather had 7 kids) but are less hairy. My Paternal side family members are have good amount of body hair. Despite that my Father started growing a beard only when he was 30 years old.
Your hormones and physical activity : When you hit puberty, you know you are changing physically and emotionally. You are actually growing up. That is the transition period. At that time you should do exercise, play more sports (means you should do more physical activity). If you don’t do this then you are at a disadvantage later in life.
Body fat content : if you have more fat then male hormones get converted to female hormones. Hence more disadvantage.
Late Bloomer : may be Nature has some other plans. May be it will take some more time to come to the surface of your chin and jawline.
Skin issues and stress : if you are under stress continously even though it is in mild quantity, then you are inhibiting the process of facial hair growth. Also coupled with this is your skin, which if not clean / clear / unclogged won’t grow much hair.
You can try consulting a Doctor for this.

Many people undergo facial hair transplant. That takes around a year before you grow a full beard.

You can try Minoxidil 5%. But do consult a doctor before you do that.

There are many other methods as well. Some are really dangerous though as am are not aware about the side effects.

One of my cousin brother was frustrated that he did not have much facial hair and was teased in his friend group due to this. So he tried using some steroids to grow a beard. He did grow a manly beard and moustache. But now he has become impotent due to the side effects of the steroid.

So be careful before you try anything out. Consult a doctor.

You are not the only ones suffering from this problem.

Countless others are in the same boat too.

And this is not limited to Gender too. Women face similar problems regarding their Breast size. All women don’t have baywatch type breasts.Many are flat chested but do bear a child after marriage.

So have full confidence in yourself and carry yourself in a normal manner while being in a company.

or
It could be that you are suffering from some medical issue, that is why the uneven growth. You can check with a doctor for the same.

You can try some home remedies to fix the issue:

you can make a potent beard oil by mixing equal quantities of grape seed and pumpkin seed oil.
Add few drops of cedar wood, rosemary and tea tree oils to the above blend.
Use this oil to massage on your beard each night and wash it off the next day.
This should help.

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Romance › Re: What’s The First Thing That Sexually Attracts You To Someone? by Leezah(op): 9:25am On Mar 13, 2020

Albertone:
I'm also naughty too
Let's collab
Naughtiness jams naughtiness

What are the mischievous/naughtiness things you have done so far?

Romance › Re: Why Young Women Should Avoid Bleaching * Photos * by Leezah(f): 9:23am On Mar 13, 2020*

Hello.

Every bleaching product contains two main chemicals, Hydroquinone and mercury, both are toxic. Hydroquinone is a chemical used for photo processing and hair dyes. Mercury is a carcinogen. These products both work in the short term to lighten the skin by stopping the production of melanin in the body. The more melanin you have in your body, the darker your skin.

Doctors suggest that the two toxic chemicals, Hydroquinone and mercury, react with ultraviolet rays and lead to more pigmentation and premature aging. The more this product is used, the less melanin the body produces, and this leads to an increased risk for skin cancer. Also, continued use of hydroquinone, will roughen the skin, making it look like an uneven patch of colors with a spotted appearance.

People who bleach their skin to lighten their skin tone are believed to silently suffer from low self-esteem. Before attempting to use skin-whitening products, I suggest you to ask yourself if it is worth the risk!

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Romance › Re: Is It Time For Me To End The Relationship by Leezah(f): 9:14am On Mar 13, 2020

Newtonarialand Breaking up with her is not an issues. Resolve it

Romance › Re: One Has To Go. by Leezah(op): 9:13am On Mar 13, 2020

kokanepyramid:
facebook ain’t anonymous at all and I can’t keep up with twitter quite busy for that.

I find Instagram interesting but it has less impact when deleted compared with WhatsApp.

I had to even download WhatsApp reluctantly when BBM became obsolete cos I found WhatsApp not private enough. Anyone could just get ur number and chat u up unlike BBM where I had to give u my pin and I get to approve your request.

Let’s just say I like my privacy Don’t like everyone having unrestricted access to me.

And you are an introvert

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Naira Crashes In Value, Dollar Sells For N420 by Leezah(f): 9:12am On Mar 13, 2020

What a pity Giant of Africa now an of Africa
its a gradual process:it will flunctuate and mellow down after a while.the demand is very high,esp now that the xchange rate of dollars have fallen.with time,the demand will fall and naira wll appreciate....lets be optimistic.

Romance › Re: What Are The Best Things Your Father Did For You That You Can Never Forget? by Leezah(op): 9:11am On Mar 13, 2020

East Africa

Kiddllc:
Really.... where u from?

Romance › Re: One Has To Go. by Leezah(op): 9:07am On Mar 13, 2020

Both

kokanepyramid:
To which one
Why I don’t have Facebook and Twitter or why I would delete Instagram

Romance › Re: What’s The First Thing That Sexually Attracts You To Someone? by Leezah(op): 9:07am On Mar 13, 2020

Pls wat do you mean by this

Phenomenal16:
Just av sense

Romance › Re: What’s The First Thing That Sexually Attracts You To Someone? by Leezah(op): 9:04am On Mar 13, 2020

Albertone:
What's this on your dp now?

Its not cool jor.I'm sensing some naughtiness in you.

Romance › Re: What’s The First Thing That Sexually Attracts You To Someone? by Leezah(op): 9:03am On Mar 13, 2020

PrimadonnaO:
Dark, charisma, very tidy appearance, fluent speaking, sweet fragrance...

I'll certainly pay attention with relish.

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Romance › Re: What’s The First Thing That Sexually Attracts You To Someone? by Leezah(op): 9:00am On Mar 13, 2020

nwachukwu9:
To be honest with myself, what attract me only to a woman is moderate buttocks and average height,not too big buttocks,it must be moderate and it must not be flat. Any other thing is not my physical criteria but when we start dating,she must be sacrificial. Any girl I date and I discover she is sacrificial that is the girl I would marry. I have made up my mind

Will you also be sacrificial?

Romance › Re: What’s The First Thing That Sexually Attracts You To Someone? by Leezah(op): 8:58am On Mar 13, 2020

Dande55:
Straight legs, nice facial look, built up body, nice voice and lips.

I thought men does not like this.

Romance › Re: What’s The First Thing That Sexually Attracts You To Someone? by Leezah(op): 8:58am On Mar 13, 2020

coolestofall:
Her carriage, the way she makes every move count.

do you mean cat walking

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