₦airaland Forum

streetpaddy:
https://www.channelstv.com/2020/12/03/2023-kogi-state-lawmakers-endorse-yahaya-bello-for-presidency/

Lol, as though he will even win his party primaries not to talk of winning the Presidential ballot

Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

Don't try it! It will end in tears

Happy2020:
I’m a woman and I agree 100%. Too many
Gold diggers in Nigeria. Too many fake relationships in the name of money, to much faking going on. You need to leave money out of the equation and watch how a bish behaves.

One of the sensible ones

MrTAnonymous:
Why is Jumoke trending on Twitter?

Jumoke has been trending on Twitter since yesterday, check why here;

'If you must choose a lady to marry in Nigeria, one of the criteria is to act as if you are BROKE for at least few months. I mean act REAL BROKE to an extent of asking her for N500 You must know if she pretends or not . If not you only postponed her true nature .

These ladies don't know that event change in life - A well to do guy of today can become poor tomorrow and a poor guy of today can be Rich tomorrow. They don't care about tomorrow anymore but today.'

Let me pass this message to neccesituous diligent and hardworking men.

Please do not date an idle and lazy lady
Please do not date a dependent lady
Your sweat is mostly for yourself, your loved ones, those who have stood by and still stand by you

Truth is, they only value your providence and not your person.

It is sad that most ladies have turned themselves to unscrupulous and parasitic scallywags because of the entitlement mentality and that the best way to earn is being in a relationship they have nothing upstairs to contribute to.

Even the rich men are still being cheated on so who told you your hard earned money will sustain her loyalty to you?

Please let's stop putting coins into a bag full of holes..

2021 is now upon us

oyeb15:
4yrs ago,i told my undergraduate girlfriend am broke that she should borrow me 4k to repair my car...though I was really broke at d period of time... that's where d relationship end.

She later told me she's not looking for my type ,that her mum will ask if I have build a house and my car is not even fine.

Akure girl to be precise

Nawa

kambili999:
Why are u guys so quick to tagging all Nigerian ladies as gold diggers?
Yes, some ladies are more interested in the money of guys but some just want someone who will give them peace, love and respect

Its really not fair on the side of ladies who work hard and pay their bills


Women generally love to be cared for but not every girl is after money.

Some nigerian ladies are very contented and even encourage men to be their best


Thats if you want to be fair in your judgement

The one you're referring to is 1/5000

OcVoice:
Had a similar case. Everything was going well till I lost my job. She couldn't adjust cos she was used to enjoyment. We were going for our marriage course, I had done introduction sef. She just woke up one morning and decided to break ties with me. She aborted the pregnancy.

I had since moved on though.


I don't know what happened to the girls of our time. Our moms suffered well with our dads without complain. Love was REAL and TRUE then. It was beyond money.

God will help our generation!

Exactly! Men are going through a lot for most women who add little or nothing to them

lkillbrokehoes:
You took what down? u must be sick
see let me tell u, independent and matured ladies don't go around talking shít about men, well u are just a broke ass girl who's relying on men money for survival

Blood of Zechariah!

Biglittlelois:
Going by your funny analysis, nature gave humans penis and vagina, nature also gave women womb to carry kids for 9 months, and that's where it stops, taking care of kids, cooking, cleaning, working, was not assigned to any gender, anyone can decide to take up any role comfortable for them, therefore, a woman can be the head of the family, and a man can be a domesticated house husband, correct?

What is this one saying? Ogbeni keep quiet!

Coldie:
All dz guys complaining about money money money, expensive this that has never met the woman they love yet.

If u meet the woman u love even if her wedding is worth 10million u would sacrifice for her and u would be extremely happy about it

Love means someone should go nuts??

From Ndokwa West and based in Warri

TheLionofLasigi:
Wow.....so the bastard was actually part of the first coup plotters.

When you reach the pits of hell, kindly tell nzeogu that the seeds of his actions still hunt his people politically, tell Ojukuwu the runner, that his movement has been hijacked by a drunken denigrate fruadster who ran off to london after spending some time in kuje prison....I piss on the graves of enemies of the state. Fvckin flatin0s

Fool!!

KimberlyWest:
We're talking of 30,000 Naira here o. Not THREE HUNDRED thousand Naira.

He should dump the girl cuz he spends 30k on her? Wow! Just wow! If it's now 100k, you'll ask him to use her for money rituals. You don't know how much he earns, and you don't know if that 30k is 1% of his salary.

When you get your own girlfriend, give her 200 Naira per month. For now, allow the guy do what he wants with his money.

Who is this foolish moniker with an entitlement mentality? �

greymiles:
By 20, you should have your own house, a car starting from 2010 upwards, at least 2 investments, a girlfriend(not compulsory) and at least 10m in your acct
Anything less than this, then you’re a failure already

Perhaps this moniker doesn't live in Nigeria or Africa

thebosstrevor1:
Fake news

You're a fake and bribed nairalander

justosee:
the only reasonable thing in this your comments is admitting that country is hard. Why do you want to make it harder by scamming us of 1k?

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Gallantrugged:
Chaiii, this one should not worth anything less than 10m. This is a fair price, they should be paid without further delay

Another wretched bloody fool

Yenefer:
Hmm IPOB

Who is this pathetic and mentally derailed specimen?

kraftysprouts:
Charge and bail lawyers

Cattle rearer

SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

Werey le le yi... This is how some men are subdued by so called feminists and they end up washing their undies and cooking for them. Simp!

[quote author=shashaperry post=96160732]Looking for another way to drag Nigerian ladies? some of you Nairaland guys are plain

You've already ignited the fire

[quote author=humilitypays post=96173155]If a known terrorist supporter, an uneducated hoodlum like Buhari can become Nigeria's president, nothing is impossible in Nigeria!


If an ex drug baron and wire fraud ring boss can become the Governor of Lagos state and the lord of Yoruba land, then nothing is a surprise in Nigeria!


If a well known Yahoo boy can become Imo state Governor and appoint popular ritualists into his cabinet, then impossibility does not exist in Nigeria!


If a Governorship candidate that came 4th in an election he never campaigned for, later became Governor through a corrupt supreme court, what else is a surprise in Nigeria


If a country's military created to protect the citizens of that country can confidently kill protesting citizens while the world watches, and later comes out to deny it even with clear evidences and some citizens continue to support them because of politics, tell me what else is a surprise to you


If Police officers meant to bring peace and confidence to the society can boldly brag and tell citiznes that "I can kill you here and nothing will happen", and when he does, nobody questions him, and truly nothing happens....tell me, what else amazes you about Nigeria

If terrorists can end up being in charge of Nigeria's government and freeing Boko Haram terrorist while killing ordinary protesters, tell me what other thing could surprise you


And how does that relate to the topic? �

[quote author=CheGuevara102 post=96173252]Don't worry after 2023 when all your prayers for a man with curvy sexy abs yields no result na still a man like me with fat and pot belly you go come begging to marry Las las. Mark my words.



Lmao