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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by pompeiimagnus: 2:37am On Dec 01, 2020
Firstandonly:


Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

You earn 40k which is just above minimum wage. A smart guy would focus on building his skillset to increase his monthly earnings to at least 100k. Baba be smart and let her take out a loan herself. It would motivate her to work hard to repay that loan....no dull yourself sha.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Evolutionlove: 3:52am On Dec 01, 2020
collinsuchendu:
grin Chai.. Even the females here are laughing at your stupidity cos you need an overdose of the Redpill.

Well, I don't have much to say but op please ask yourself this question.. Why are the females on this thread not commenting?


Mumu. Use your head not heart. That your so called Nigerian girlfriend is only there for the money. Now ask your yourself this question.. if reverse was to be the case, would she do the same for you?.

Guy.. Wisen up. NO NIGERIAN GIRL LOVES YOU. I REPEAT NONE.. ask the females they can attest to that.


Evolutionlove

Experience they say Is the best teacher. Let him learn the hard way. It Is the only way one would really wisen up and acquire Wisdom In life.....

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Evolutionlove: 4:00am On Dec 01, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

Instead of you to wrestle and conquer "POVERTY" first out of your life. You want to engage yourself In misplaced priority by Improving someone else life lol. I pity you, Someone who might eventually dump you. That meager Salary of yours Is what I normally use for Stocking Groceries and Provisions at home monthly. I trust you heard me right Yeah that's It. Meanwhile, I fuel my Car, I eat out sometimes, Weekend Flexing, PHCN, Security & Lawma bills, Miscellaneous et all are on a different Bills. YET I'm not even thinking of marriage Yet. I seems not to understand why you Nigerians enjoy "POVERTY" so much. I still see myself as an Average Joe for now. Some ladies have been showing me all sort of lights. But I'm always standing my ground. I'm very determined to achieve my goals In life first......

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 4:14am On Dec 01, 2020
Evolutionlove:


Experience they say Is the best teacher. Let him learn the hard way. It Is the only way one would really wisen up and acquire Wisdom In life.....


Lol. Well said.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 4:20am On Dec 01, 2020
Evolutionlove:


Instead of you to wrestle and conquer "POVERTY" first out of your life. You want to engage yourself In misplaced priority by Improving someone else life lol. I pity you, Someone who might eventually dump you. [b]That meager Salary of yours Is what I normally use for Stocking Groceries and Provisions at home monthly. I trust you heard me right Yeah that's It. Meanwhile, I fuel my Car, I eat out sometimes, Weekend Flexing, PHCN, Security & Lawma bills, Miscellaneous et all are on a different Bills. YET I'm not even thinking of marriage Yet. I seems not to understand why you Nigerians enjoy "POVERTY" so much. I still see myself as an Average Joe for now. Some ladies have been showing me all sort of lights. But I'm always standing my ground. I'm very determined to achieve my goals In life first......[/b]


Sir please show me the way.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Evolutionlove: 4:23am On Dec 01, 2020
2dice01:
Invest in her massively bruh Trust me her love for you will skyrocket
Don't mind all these booless guys telling you otherwise cheesy
Omo Ake, I see what you did there lol.......grin grin grin

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by tiswell(m): 4:24am On Dec 01, 2020
odinson1:


Good morning Bro,I have A number of Advices for you now
1. Don't ever take relationship Advice from a woman Because they only have the interests of their fellow woman at heart (They don't care if you are heartbroken in the future,as far as Your woman benefits from it)
2. Don't ever Invest Massively on Any woman who isn't The mother of Your kids,Your mother,or your Sisters! Because they wont Appreciate it
3. You might have helped her(Girlfriend,female friend) Before in the past,but if you can't help her NOW!, Then you are useless to her. save and invest in yourself First before you Help Your male friends and family members, Girlfriends should come last because they are only dating you for your Resources they can Extract.
4. Read number One Again!
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Evolutionlove: 4:29am On Dec 01, 2020
collinsuchendu:



Sir please show me the way.

Collins please don't address me with sir!!! We gather dey street together. Try to Wake up sometimes at midnight to pray to God and ask him everything you want okay. He Is the only one with the surest way.....
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 4:40am On Dec 01, 2020
Evolutionlove:


Collins please don't address me with sir!!! We gather dey street together. Try to Wake up sometimes at midnight to pray to God and ask him everything you want okay. He Is the only one with the surest way.....

grin This advice is too complicated i swear.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by ThePlainTruth: 6:21am On Dec 01, 2020
These are the possibilities when you start living together:

1. If you help your girl friend and she becomes successfull and makes more money than you with her sewing she will begin to treat you like nobody.

2. If you don't help her and she becomes successful and makes more money than you she will aways rob it in to you that she asked you to help her but you did not and now God has helped her and now she does not need your help.

3. She might be that exceptional lady that will always appreciate what you did for her. But the truth is that such a lady is hard the find here on earth.

Now the choice is your.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:00am On Dec 01, 2020
kachdviruz:
Bros invest in your self more than your gf. Thank me later
Lol
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Japhtee(m): 10:01am On Dec 01, 2020
Have you finished investing on yourself? Just asking because Dangote is still investing.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Tylerblaze9(m): 10:11am On Dec 01, 2020
Alaye carry that 60k way u won use go do giveaway give your mama oooooo even though she's doing well, you see that prayers and God bless you my pikin better pass Awwww baby thank you... Use your head..

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by locoster(m): 10:21am On Dec 01, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

It will ends in tears.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Georgejeez: 10:28am On Dec 01, 2020
henryobinna:
This other note is the worst advice. It's better he invests in on the girl and she maybe disappoints than buying a dog wasting money on it when there's actually no ROI expected from the dog.

. Supported bro ,, the way dogs de die these days deh shock person , I know of more than 5 people whose dogs died mysteriously in the past couple of months , some worth 100k and above . Someone even rumoured there is a new virus killing mixed breed dogs these days even after numerous medications ,good feeding and proper hygiene ,they still die .

But if not for the heartache attached upon betrayal which will soon happen ,,60k na chicken change normally
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by SamsonJohn743(m): 11:32am On Dec 01, 2020
odinson1:


Good morning Bro,I have A number of Advices for you now
1. Don't ever take relationship Advice from a woman Because they only have the interests of their fellow woman at heart (They don't care if you are heartbroken in the future,as far as Your woman benefits from it)
2. Don't ever Invest Massively on Any woman who isn't The mother of Your kids,Your mother,or your Sisters! Because they wont Appreciate it
3. You might have helped her(Girlfriend,female friend) Before in the past,but if you can't help her NOW!, Then you are useless to her. save and invest in yourself First before you Help Your male friends and family members, Girlfriends should come last because they are only dating you for your Resources they can Extract.
4. Read number One Again!



‘Resources they can extract’
My ex. I didn’t spend much though but the first sight of struggle she changed�
If one stop providing he’s nothing to women. Learnt the hard way

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by henryobinna(m): 1:06pm On Dec 01, 2020
Georgejeez:
. Supported bro ,, the way dogs de die these days deh shock person , I know of more than 5 people whose dogs died mysteriously in the past couple of months , some worth 100k and above . Someone even rumoured there is a new virus killing mixed breed dogs these days even after numerous medications ,good feeding and proper hygiene ,they still die .

But if not for the heartache attached upon betrayal which will soon happen ,,60k na chicken change normally
I see dogs as a waste of investment unless of course you're selling them for cash.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by 2dice01: 1:13pm On Dec 01, 2020
Evolutionlove:


Omo Ake, I see what you did there lol.......grin grin grin
Bros what did i do Joor grin

Was only helping the guy
As a good citizen
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by SeniorGee(m): 1:24pm On Dec 01, 2020
If you wish to help her no wahala, but if you are anticipating anything in return, it will only be tears..

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Happy2020: 6:53pm On Dec 01, 2020
This little money you guys speak about all the time is laughable. No where else on earth are people arguing over a a hundred or a couple hundred dollars for an entire months wage.

Shit is sad and funny. Such a shame.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by udeh3(m): 8:46pm On Dec 01, 2020
In a relationship, helping each other should be mutual. Relationship isn't about me, sec or just talking about love. Actions were necessary should be applied. Whether the person involved reciprocate the gesture or not later isn't your priority

Do the best you can to seeing her a better person... Even if she leaves you tomorrow, it's registered somewhere that "this guy got me on my feet"

Do your best for your relationship brother...
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by ZIINI: 10:29pm On Dec 01, 2020
MJBOLT:
premium tears loading.
Wayray boi grin
Mj how far now how tinzs.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 11:59pm On Dec 01, 2020
Nazgul:

If you love her so much, marry her then invest in her. At least you'll be confident that she's your wife and the mother of your children.

If you start investing in her while struggling, it's most likely going to end in tears. She's still single and also wants a better life for herself. So when better suitors begin knocking, she might just give them a chance and you'll be back here creating another thread to tell us of how your girl whom you spent all your life savings on ditched you for a more richer guy.

@Firstandonly
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by MJBOLT: 8:13am On Dec 02, 2020
everywhere good,just need to double hustle,christmas don near.how your side?

ZIINI:

Wayray boi grin
Mj how far now how tinzs.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by ZINIIBANKS: 8:21am On Dec 02, 2020
MJBOLT:
everywhere good,just need to double hustle,christmas don near.[/b]how your side[b]?

We thank jah baba
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Ghallant01(m): 5:19pm On Dec 02, 2020
It will end in premium tears....
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by meobizy(f): 5:37pm On Dec 02, 2020
From the write-up I can see OP really wants to take the risk. Do it so you’ll have a future advice to give others.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by legallyminded: 5:42pm On Dec 02, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

Don't try it! It will end in tears
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Bennysam: 6:02pm On Dec 02, 2020
cryis
Nuyokoi:
yes, help her out.
Ignore all this useless girls that comment on this thread, if you ever listen to them you will regret it
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by brain54(m): 6:53pm On Dec 02, 2020
you called it a risk....go ahead,but see it as a risk....it may pay off or not....50-50 odds!
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Danyyyyyyyyyyy: 10:10pm On Dec 03, 2020
So many things to say , no strength to type so I'll just say Hmmmmmmmmmm , the same men will open mouth waaaaaaa " sex is my right " � this generation of men are just as significant as memes , casual comedians
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by bjprodint(f): 11:41am On Dec 05, 2020
botrix:


If you are not married to her PLS DONT INVEST ON HER
wow!

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