Hang in there dude

tEsLim (m)
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Re: A Classy Bachelor Pad Should Have:
« #87 on: April 30, 2007, 11:22 AM »

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Ah ah! Its not about being classy here. Its about making life comfortable for myself. I've most things on that list since age 20. And got my first 4wheel thang 21. Mind you I work and live in Nigeria

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Oga what do you do for a living??

David SHUT UP!!!!!

I really wish i could answer that quetion

White Shark wey you

RUN MY FRIEND this is all i can tell you. PRAY AND RUN, its your only way out of this hell you are about to face PRAY PRAY PRAY AND RUN FAR

eeayhaa for the plight, but my question is this what happened to you when you were 25 or 26 with all those dudes or that guy around you, now am not trying to sound like an assole but this is just a comon trait that ive seen. Im in my 30"s and ive been around and i must state also that i met some girls in my 20"s that had all the opportunity to forge a solid and good relationship , but what did they do, the girl thing and now they are 30 and wondering what happened. My point girls in your 20"s make something out of the time you have now if you see a promising relationship hold on to it and if its not all you dream work on it dont keep thinkg you have all the time in the world cause i dont want you wondering what happened to you when you get to your 30"s.

Seun the story is wack and you really need to date some more

Ask him(girls) if he likes oral and if he could give you one

80% of successful marriages in Nigeria are with those marriages where the woman accepts her husband cheating. Its sad but its just a FACT . The truth about it is this Nigerian men cheat, Nigerian women know this, The Nigerian Society condoles it and alot even allow it, I think a woman that can hold her marriage even with a cheating husband is more of a wife than others that scamps as soon as they hear that the man is cheating on them. Cheating is wrong in all vices and i dont vote for it but trying to be realistic it happens, if your husband cheating does not in anyway affect the family ( no disrespect, no lack of love , no abandoning of responsibilities, no bringing of his immoralities to the home etc, ) then i wonder why you would go and throw it all away all in the name of My Husband cheated on me.

Well i say it again this Husband cheating thing has been happening, is still happening, and would continue to happen, im not saying you should flow with the harsh stormy waves all am saying is build a boat on the water that would just withstand the wave and give you a smooth journey even though you know the waves would appear once in a while.

''In terms of Nigerian women it is the fear of divorce and separation. More specifically, the fear of being labeled and shunned b/c of it.'' Yes this statement can be true but it does not change anything Cheating Husbands would still be there and the'll always would be there. My advice is just find the best way to make and protect your home cause trust me even though you complain about that man trust me there are so many friends of yours just waiting to see your marrriage crumble and this is a reality statement

@Medube Ive asked my self the same question over and over again,the only answer i come up with comes down to insecurity in religious belives, You know my religion is right and all religions are wrong is the mentality for most religious people . Everyone is attacking the other and so many are defending themselves, everyone is right and everyone is wrong, Medube i enjoy it though cause it gives me good arguments to listen too and read about, Heck i still have'nt got a logical answer to the theory(or the Mary "Mother of God Theology) of Mary. So as far as all these arguments are around people like me are okay, What are we without knowledge .

Twinstaiye very well said

So this guy goes some years without shagging his girl and all of a sudden he finds out that the girl is no longer a virgin and she has been shagging an in quote "aristo" and you all advice him to dump the girl whats wrong with y'all what about him shagging the girl.

Look my advice is simple forgive the girl shagg the living daylight out of her, make sure you shine de ***** well, infact my friend make each shag like your last and when you know she is now so into it dump the living hell out of the cheating witch.

But really if the guy feels sorry for himself and leaves the girl without shagging her whalai he would never be a normal person for the rest of his life.

I confess that i just slept with someone i was not supposed too

i confess im feeling very very guilty about it :-

i confess that i want to confess my sins

i confess that i cant and im going to go to my grave with the secret

i confess that this thought sucks

i would like to know where i can trade mock stocks online. Does anyone here have a link??

Why do Women Hate Smoking? The funny thing aboout this is i use to smoke and ill tell you this some women thought i looked fantastic and sexy then, they actually (whats the word...) tripped for me or fell for me cause of the way i smoked, and were sad when i stopped it. Though ive quit it and im not going back to it, i just have to point out that not all women hate smoking some cant stand it, some condole it , some like it and some a masters at it. Smoking an Addictive dangerous bad habit., thank God i was able to stop.  

Layiiii

My question is What made him not to commit, Finance ? Fear ? Parents ? i think the answer to this question would give a clearer pic to the situation

So how do i get the Connectix VGS can i download it from somewhere or can you provide it?

chicky (f)
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Re: My Boyfriend Likes Touching Me in Public
« #25 on: December 22, 2005, 07:51 PM »

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legry that iz rather stupid of you sorry to say...if you don't understand the topic don't just talk because sensible people are talking...mind you as i said my boyfriend is everything i want in a guy without the things i don't want..so in reply to your question i can never cheat on him and hell no i am not and will never be ashamed of him..maybe your talking like this because your girlfriend is ashamed of you.don't even piss me of before i finish you on this forum...
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this is so sad, is this what the Nairaland Forum has turned into, with verbal and insultive post thrown at individuals, sad sad sad. Now if i must point out my questions were very legitimate and any matured mind would see that, but i must point out to the administrator that post or replies like this is very improper and should not be tolorated SEUN i hope you are reading this.

Are you ashamed of your Boyfriend or are you cheating on him and you dont want your lover to notice or are you thinking of cheating on him??

Outkast The Leo way is the original way

Everyone is talking about the man,wife and God BUT no one is mentioning the kids, ill ask this WHAT if there are Kids involved in this marriage dont you know that a bad or horrible marriage can tell alot on the kid in the future and most times also in the present, Listen ill use me for example My parents marrriage was horrible and i feel they stuck toghether for so long because of the kids but in actuallity they were actually hurting the kids the day they both filed for divorce and accepted it they have never been happier with there lives you can see the joy and glow in there faces now and guess what happened to the children they blossomed. and why did this happen, the husband and wife were now able to look beyond themselves and see that they have responsibility around them and i must also stress again that the Negative influence of a bad marriage on kids are horrible and you dont need me to tell you all this you can go into history and judge for yourself.

If your marriage is going down the drain or your husband is abusive or not responsible or criminnaly inclined and liable to put you and your kids or kid in danger and you stay if eventually you get what is coming to you and you come around and you say something like the Bible forbids divorce thats why i did not make the most sensible decision and divorce this man now im in the hospital with fractures and internal bleeding or am in jail for being an accomplice to a murder or heavy crime and my kids have being taking to an orphanage or we were thrown out of our house and now live in the streets because my husband totally refused to work or get a job or even allow me make a living for myself and my children if any of these scenerio happens to be you then i think you belong in a hospital cause i dont see where the Bible forbids the use of common sense.

Its so easy to use the Bible as an excuse to be irrational and human beings have been known to translate the verses in the bible to suit their own way of thinking. They day my parents divorced it was the happiest day in my life and it still is cause now i have two loving parents but before then i had parents who hated themselves to a fault and who always transfered the unhappiness to the children. Some Women use the Kids as there excuse to stay in this kind of situation and i tend to feel really sorry for them, i dont think divorce is the best solution i actually think its the last solution but no matter what it is a solution that must be taken if the needs be. Marriage is not a the end to a journey it is actually the begining of a new journey in life and alot of people refuse to belive this so i state this three points

1.   Dont get married if you are not right for each other (Dont get married because of circumstance " pregnancy,                          family ,despration, etc )

2.   Dont get married if you are not yet matured enough for it

3.   Dont forget to ask yourself truthfully why you are getting married and when you do answer them truthfully make your decions on them.

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BIG_JOE sends his greetings

Then why do you call her your friend

Im thinking i cant make the movie

im thinking what am i going to do with myself today

Hey you started it with the having a crush on a girl what am i supposed to think tell me what would you think if i tell you i have or had a crush on some guy you would say gay or gay to be and mind you i have nothing aginst lesbians. Adesodgi back off