I know her seun, we had dinner with her once.

r u we still talkin?

Next relationship i get into i hope its for good

8 years  

@seun and you say you cant stand women that nag epghm!!

@vexxy( i tell you the name still trips me) I tell you this the ladies do not understand this, i am a patient man but i tell you this ive met women that understand the meaning of drive a man to wall and use a bashing ram to ram him into the wall, and am a bit into this topic cause the drama that came with this people "geez ! but a man does need patience and he does need to listen to a woman but for the love of God they should not turn the man to a dump sight forgetting he would also want to be heard and listened to also

@seun i wish i could just hook you up with one of these women i really wish i could cause whalai you would pray to God to take you back to your present state and beg him never to punish you again with such a the i have to listen situation

vexxy:

I think there is a time for everything.

There is a time to be heard, and a time to do the listening.

At times you may have someone come to you, not really wanting feedback, just wanting to vent stress. They are not looking for you to judge, criticize, or to give them a solution. They simply want a live person to talk to.

We lack that at times. We cut them off, we don't take time to truly understand what it is they're saying, we miss the point. We don't sympathize with them or share their joy or anguish. Before they're finished one sentence we are already thinking of what to say instead of just letting them talk.

That's what I refer to as active listening.

Vexxy (funny name) Okay you are right  but my question now is what happens to a guy that has to listen all the time to this particular person and he is tired of listening why cause the woman has weyyyy too much drama around her and when i say weyyy too muuch i mean weyyy to much, this type of woman has so much issues around her that you having any form of issue is sin to her, and he likes the girl but damn the pressure she puts him under cause all she wants is for him to listen and listen and listen and listen and liste and listenn.................. and it goes on and on and on and on and on till you alomost loose your mind and yep that part you say about a solution not being needed is not entirely true, i feel somewhere at the back your minds you would not mind a solution or answer to your worries by your man every time you complain to him but you say all you want him to do is just listening, and when the guy ends up leaving her she wonders what ever happend or the guy is just a bastard i dont know but you women are just a tiny bit confused atimes

@Layi hahahahahaha! funny funny funny abegeeeeeeeeee pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee

Amazing you mean i can get aids from yor scrotum are you PEOPLE serious now am getting scared

Whats my business if he is cheating on his girlfriend or not na wa for una ooo, Why would i betray him and go tell his girl who in almost any case you can think of would forgive him and call me a back stabbing bastard in the end. That john should check himself very well and find out if he is gay(what rubbish)

@IAH

Anu you are not going to get me started here no way I won't allow you get me started, cause you know me girl, you know my action, so don’t test me, Mosiate and I have broken up and I have a new love, not online though, nairaland always gives me a new one every day and this is a sure laugh for me, Hey Pintos you musty be a really lonely man and in this your loneliness you think you have found the one for you online WITHOUT!!!! Seeing her picture man are you serious here? or are you just sex starved. look get a full picture and when I say a full pic I mean a full one not just one showing her face trust me that can be deceiving, get different pictures of her she smiling, she frowning, she without makeup look just get all and be sure she 's the one o. Then get to meet her geez man she might even have smelly breath or she might be a cleptomaniac heck she might even be a T[b]RANSVESITE[/b], please will you wake up and stop taking that word love in vain.

Give me a minute and ill send it to you

Wait a minute here! London, Shopping, Wedding what is going on I fink im Loosing it HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Come you seff tell me are you cutting show with the guy

When i was young i fell crazy bin love ( lai lai i think lust is the correct word) with my cousin and between me and everyone here if she had shared my carnal thoughts with me then trust i would have gone straight into the action with her but like i said i was young then and i all i could think off was sex

Tell him i said he's just a Hot bastard

I’ve read through and something hits me everyone is just hanging the dude. nd a scenario comes to my head now What if this guy actually loves the younger sister, what if the older sister treats him  like shit or sleeps around on him, or doesn’t give a hoot about him or generally makes his life hell and somewhere along the line there is this young sister that he can actually come to and lay all his woes too and she accepts him, does'nt treat him like shit gives him a shoulder to lay his head on  and somehow they get talking and blah blah blah blah yaw all know what im trying to say , what if the younger sister actually encouraged this attitude and the guy actually fell in love with the girl  WHAT IF this is the scenario then what is the guy a BASTARD then according to all of you, cause all ive seen here is everyone castrating and hanging this guy without actually finding out if the girl in question had something to do with this situation or the real situation with the guy and his girlfriend Please people ask questions then make judgment frankly I don’t trust this situation and it sounds too one sided for my liking

IBB

O boy i just read the rules and it says i cant use pidgin anymore, Im begining to feel abit here, but my bad Seun ill try sticking to the rules aight!

Infact mosiaratu i don vex. E get wetin i de hide from you since, Please no vex o But sinse na time to wash our pant and put cloth for closet i have a seceret to say. Anu get two pikin for me abeg no vex she tell me say make i know tell you but haba how you go talk say me i be plywood and spanner abi you no know who i be.

Ye! Pa! emi okurin meta himself, de odingbongbon of orisa Nairaland, de alaye of origbo land. make e god! na me be TOOL chei! Chineke i don suffer o. look ret me tell all of you people now Mosiaratu is my burrafly and i am de carapilla, ask mosiaratu if i no de do my service well well, Mosiaratu Mosiaratu rook at de way dis "mak e devil" de finish me helep me my ruf. But wait o Mosiaratu na turu say i be spanner abi na lie "mak e devil" de talk

Mosiaratu i dont worry i know she is lying, de ruf we rav for eashhh oder is vely vely plenty, abi mosiratu no be turuu i talk, (im dancing and singing) mosiaratu i ruf you , Mosiaratu i ruf youuu, Mooosiaaratuu i ruf you. I ruf , i ruf for rever more. abi mosiaratu helep me to tell dem off da ruf cruise we take on last hoiliday kai (one hand on my head the other on my waist and me singing and dancing again) Mosiaratu i ruf you mosiaratu i ruf you, Mosiaratu i ruf you, i ruf you ,i ruf you ,iiiiiii ruuufffff you. anu banu or shanu reave us alone na abi wichh kain jeloausy be dis sef abi you wan tief me from my sugar, i de tell you oo REAVE ME ARONE i haf eyes for only MOSIARATU

Yo!! Diakim totally awesome dude Yeahhhhhhhhhhh

Mosiateee dont mind them they are only jelous dat you ruf me. Preakse dont let dem come into dis our ruf affear. I ruf you frm re borom of my heart. Anu Anu Anu Anu ANu Anu Anu Anu Anu i warn you now if you dont leave us alone, if you dont leave us alone and stay with that your poligamusu man i will , i will okay no problem e be like say you want us to enter one shokoto

pkrix:


But if otherwise, and he bluntly says no, it is inhuman and cold-blooded. In fact, it is barbaric. Barbarism personified.

O prix please, look if from the start the girl asks you for a recharge card and you dont feel she is worth it or you feel she is just trying to take undue advantage of you my friend just say NO I CANT. and if she feels like trying you some more and she now decides to ask you why tyell her that you dont indulge in the habit of buying recharge cards. So are you telling me that you are afraid to tell a girl NO! Abeg if you cant buy it or you dont want to buy it just say no i cant, Whats the worst that would happen abegii NO is NO, Babaric ko! Ceramic ni

Of course you can love two people at the same time. You just have to choose who is suitable for her position Wife or Mistress

@Calabarman I also grew up in Ibadan and attended International School Ibadan(ISI) , great school eh..

My school too bro. So u know i fully conqur with ya