ooooooooooo abegeee please, make i hear word. Just imagine this scenerio you not being chased by any guy for 4 months or no guy is there to admire your designer clothes just imagine that and i tell you atutupoyoyo would be a dream choice for you, if you have what it is to be chased thank God you have it and dont complain just deal with it any time it comes up, do you know how many girls we have out there that pray for a guy to chase them, Madam stababy i dont know what you look like but i guess good since you say each time you walk atutupoyoyo and good looking dudes chase you then my say to use is deal with it and thank God you are being chased and this goes out to other girls on the forum and out there, if you sre being chased thank God for it cause wahalai if boys or men stop chasing.......well i wont complete it

Seun you are not forming o i just learnt the word ATUPOYOYO on this posting, had no idea it even existed

D tall man ehmmmm why would you like we tall men? maybe cause we are not really available like that and maybe you are abit curious about how big or long Mr johnson is

Love4ever do you want to see my pic

Piky if you loved that dude you wouldnt even want to be in the state he's getting married talkless of going to the church . Pinky on this one i totally disqualify you, inshort fear no go allow you try am

Leg, I don't uderstand all of them trying to be hard and stuff, "I'll walk out", "I'll kill her or him", "I won't say a word".

You know what? I've not heard one guy here say I'll cry. Guys, don't you even attempt to tell me its impossible in this situation. Even from the ladies, I've not heard "I'll cry, leave him, then forgive him". In fact, all I've been hearing are just some hollywood last screenshot sterotypes here and nothing really from the heart.

Lord please don't ever let me be in this position cause you know I don't have an idea of what I'll do.

Seun Grammar , GRAMMAR cam on will you talk if you have a babe or not, haba which come be all de Chris Okotie grammar wey you de talk, pinky he aint gona talk , i thunk we need to talk the don eh, cause if he dont talk ,we make him an offer he cant refuse capice?

Love4ever i dont love girls alot according to your quote what i do is respect them alot and in return i get mine back, and yes off course ill hear what others are saying and ill comment on it too, and please do tell me madam what makes me diffrent from the other guys here.

Pinky:

... my advice is.. "if you like him, he looks appealing to you.. go for him, if he acts funny or says 'No' ...get on with life. There ere other sweet dudes out there waiting to know you better"

I just bumped into this topic and I am amazed at how I could miss such interesting (shaking my head in amusment) conversations. Pinky, in my books you are the smartest person on this topic. Ladies, you don't have to shout 'I love you'.

Haba, if you like a guy and you think he likes you and in the name of shakara and I have to be all prim and proper you let the guy go then I'm sorry for you.

Body language works a lot of miracle. Nobody is saying you should be slutty about it, but girl use that body language very sensibly and you would be amazed at his reaction. 95 out of every 100 men react well to body language.Yes, we men we all love the thrill of chasing, but the thrill of something different is also amazing. Imagine you giving a guy strong body language now and the reacts to it and almost immediatley you react to him like you don't give a hoot about him. Guess what? Reactions like this confuse us and interest us immensely.

There is nothing wrong with you going for the guy you like; it's just how you go about it that would determine your fate.

Love4ever, you had better be young by the time you finish school. If not, this your dream of realising men or the males exist and would be waiting for you when you leave school would hit right in the face.

Stababy na wa for you o. So you think say na fine boy go solve your problem? Well okay, the choice is yours, but 'when e go happen dont shout that all fine boys are bastards o'. And by the way, what standards exactly are we talking about here? Na wa for you, guys are not up to your standards ... look there are bad boys everywhere don't let them show you o!

tayotina:

Legry, please try and understand. When ladies say men don't fall in love, we have our reasons. We know how it feels like to be used and dumped by men, and such men, I tell you, do not know what love is not to even talk of they falling in love.

Tayo we have bad men , we have bad women, thats how it is now and thats how its always gong to be. men will use women and women will use men, and even talking about women using men i just found out something amazing, WOMEN actually use guys for sexual satisfaction just like men do and up till now its still amazing me. The world is crazy and people will still get hurt but in all this love still remains and for every hurt soul there is a part that still searches for love, and trust me tayo men know how it feels to be used and dumped by women too but for some men they take the counter reaction to such feelngs too far and they end up hurting the next girl who after is heartbroken would break the heart of the next guy that comes near her and he now feeling heartbreak too targets the next heart or hearts to break and the cycle will keep going on and on and on and on until we find our resting place in love. So men fall in love women fall in love we all get hurt but we still search for love and it only that search that still keeps the world together today

femialao:
Hi, I'm a nice guy who really knows how to take care of ladies very well.

My friend, if you want a girlfriend, you had better just open your mouth and say so. All this your America wonder style will not work, and for the records ladies of this age don't really find it difficult to ask a guy out. I, for one, get invatations a lot, so maybe you are not playing your card or game well boy.

cutie:

Anyway, I'm not trying to give you advice, just to ask you to send your pic, in case a pretty girl might be interested (maybe I will, who knows?)

Dont worry, I'm not some ugly sticky girl trying to toast you

Cutie please tell me where I can post my pic I am coming out straight im looking for a good date and I dont think you or any other would be disappointed , yeah before I forget not every guy has the courage to tell a girl what he feels thats why im always telling girls especially my female friends, that if you know a guy likes you and you are attracted to him and you also feel he is shy why dont you help the poor bugger out and make him say it , just encourage him .

sade:

You know what you guys do when a lady ask you out. You tell your friends and they start giving you different advice and you take the lady as being cheap.

Sade, only irresponsible juvinile men would behave in such a manner, so a girl will ask a guy out nd what he would do is to go and start blabbing well one thing for sure a guy like that definatley has no game and im sure he is silly scared of girls and most of all a silly juvinile immature man(and you can quote me anyday in this) As for Femi dont mind him he knows he game he just wants to use style to ak our lovely ladies here out . Femi ill tell you just mention the name and ask, the worst you will hear is no kpam

The rate at which generations are changing is very alarming. Have you thought about it that by the time our kids get to the age of dating for them dating or courtship would be such a common thing that holding it with the same value we hold it right now would be total madness to them i think ill wait till i get the kids, then when that time comes ill try and follow the best trend available at that time, touch my principles to it and hope the best comes out of it, i just hope they come to me when they get their first heartbreak

If you dont trust her and whenever money issue enters she turns to a lion of course you wont tell her, if you have things to hide from your wife you wont tell, but if you are blessed with a wonderful wife you must tell her these are the rules

Come on in Le Moor, join the crew of Nairaland and have everlasting peace my guy. But (my head bent low and my face very close to the screen like I'm whispering to you) there are some very strange people in here and I think that they think that I think that I know or think that they think that some people here are looneys.

But (shaking my head) have no fear my friend we are all sane people here and you would love the Naija about us. Peace to the people. (facing the ceiling and laughing like a man gone gaga) Please come on in!

Chigzy dont ever leave your kids with MJ

You know what i really really wish i could just meet that girl again, kai girls when ever una de reign una sabi show boys, if dat girl see de kain correct bobo we i don turn into chei! whalai (shaking my head and snapping my fingers) she would chop me raw, Dis girl finish my reputation dat day, for 1 whole week i could not go to school because of shame GOD will forgive her oooooooooooooo

Naaaaa waaaa o i thought her name was Ra now its Ekaite now you say Funke, look why dont we just settle on SALAMATU.

So what if the man has giving us something to hold on too since our childhood, does that ive him the right to molest kids look that dude deserves some mighty looking dudes stuffing them self up his *&#%%$ in jail let him see what it feels like. it actually mkes me sick to think that this is what he's ended becoming a child molester erghhhh, its just too bad another succecssful black goes to jail again

where i now met sister notindeyhappen, se looked so familiar and i knew i had seen her somewhere before, thought hard and i remebered that i saw her at nairaland.com, but she looked diffrent now, her hair was longer and the body was diffrent so i ran back to nairaland.com went through all the profiles and there she was right in front of me i was like is this not...............

If i love her never but if i dont love her ill probably escort her o the aisle and give her away in happiness

My first date, boy o boy o boy, it was terrible. It was so bad I'm actually embarassed remembering it. The girl was beautiful, but I was a slacker and she showed it to me that I was one. If you see the way the girl yabbed (scolded) me. 'First gate kọ́ , first date ni'

Hotpikin and Pinky, how dare you?

I have at this moment of reading your quotes personally taken it upon my self to fight for the male race and correct the females that feels we don't fall in love.

Look, there is a line between lust and love and men - when I say men I mean men cross that 'lust' line to 'love' so easily it's crazy. Every man hard or soft falls in love and the one not in love at the present is always looking for how to get love in the future. Now for men we have different ways of showing love cause we are not emotional like women but I'll tell you this we are a whole lot more vunerable to love than women. It's just that there are so many women around that picking the right one is a process that takes time. We always fall in love.

Hotpikin, do you know the amount of great men that have fallen in this world in the name of love and vice versa men have also become great in the name of love. Ladies don't ever for any reason think that men don't fall in love infact we love to fall in love so I repeat and I repeat men fall in love yesterday and today and tommorrow.

when she picks up and hear its me she stutters then cuts the connection i dial and dialed and dialed back but she did not pick up my call and in my very sad state of mind i walk out of the house and i took a bus straight to Ekaite's house this is the girl i met........

To keep the woman on point.

Personally I feel that man legend or not, scattered childhood or not, depressive or not, that man as far as am concerned is a child molester and he deserves to go to jail can someone please tell me I am right

Yes i can and i think im going to start one next week