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Kwamecron:most you say something ? |
so this is news? SMH |
Osho baba! Who else fit for the job? I just hope he can do a good job though he has started on a wrong footing |
Wow! I'm impressed. Well done ma |
nonsense |
Evidence, Please? |
Third elderly woman i will hear died yesterday. This should be the last biko |
MetroBaba1:na wa for u o |
So upon all the noise that they are fighting corruption, this is the best they could come up with. Even, no conviction I just tire for this administration. We need a fresh start come 2019! |
uzoclinton:So u call this justice? |
And we have a government in this country. Why can't they just find a permanent solujtion to this incessant killings. Isn't this ridiculing the so called Giant of Africa? |
I think it is too late for dialogue. Both parties took things too far. But if the president wants to apply this advice, Kanu should for the sake of the young leaders of tomorrow that are dying cos of him, consider it. |
it is well |
Graduate of the University of Manchester. hmmmmm ASUU is still on strike, just thinking aloud |
On front page? Not surprised |
This tiny thing? Well, na dem their thing dey heavy pass sha |
Tonto was defeated. Shekena |
Here are 10 resolutions that will help you grow mentally stronger: 1. I will spend at least 15 minutes a day in quiet reflection. A few minutes of quiet time gives you an opportunity to reflect on your progress and think about what you want to do better. Schedule a few minutes every day to recharge your batteries with a little bit of solitude. It will help you gain clarity and renew your motivation to reach your goals. 2. I will do at least one tough thing every week. Whether you sign up for a photography class or join toastmasters, do something that forces you to step outside your comfort zone. Facing your fears head-on can shift the way you see yourself. Rather than assume you need to avoid hard things because you might fail or because you can’t tolerate the stress , you’ll chip away at your self-limiting beliefs. 3. I’ll write in a gratitude journal. Write down three things you’re grateful for every day and you’ll change the way you see the world. Studies link gratitude to a multitude of benefits, from better sleep to reduced psychological distress. It only takes a few minutes each day, but it’s an easy way to boost your mental strength. 4. I’ll take better care of my physical health . Your mind won’t operate efficiently if you’re not fueling it with sleep, exercise, and healthy food. But don’t make your goal to be thinner or to look good in a bathing suit. Aim for building a healthy body so you can enjoy a healthier, stronger mind. 5. I’m going to develop a kinder inner dialogue. The conversations you have with yourself impact the way you behave and how you feel. Harsh self-criticism only holds you back. Commit to talking to yourself the same way you’d speak to a trusted friend and you’ll unlock potential you never knew existed. 6. I’m going to become more aware of my feelings. Aside from happiness or anger , most adults aren’t comfortable sharing their feelings. Many are willing to concede, "I’ve got butterflies in my stomach," or "There was a lump in my throat," because it feels less vulnerable than saying they feel sad or scared. But your emotions play a huge role in every decision you make. Decide to become better connected to your feelings. Label your emotions and spend time thinking about how they influence the way you think and behave. 7. I’m going to create a timeline for my dream. A lot of people say, "I’d like to write a book someday," or "Someday I’m going to launch my own business." But since Someday never appears on the calendar, it’s unlikely you’ll actually do it. Turn your dream into a goal by creating a realistic timeline for yourself. Even if you can’t tackle it for another a year or two, start researching or learning more about your dream now. 8. I’ll spend more time with friends and family. It’s easy to become so caught up in the day-to-day grind that you don’t set aside time for friends and family. But studies show that spending time with loved ones is critical to your well-being. Make it a priority to spend time with the important people in your life. 9. I'll create a life that is in line with my values. It's one thing to say you value giving back to the community or that you value caring for the environment —living according to those values isn't always so easy. Evaluate where you devote your time and energy and see if you want to make any lifestyle shifts that would help ensure that your life is in line with your values. Living according to your values is an essential component to mastering your mental strength. 10. I'm going to give up one bad habit. Letting go of a bad habit can help you work smarter, not harder. So rather than saying you're going to eat more vegetables, commit to giving up that bag of chips you eat at lunch every day. Giving up bad habits that rob you of mental strength, like feeling sorry for yourself, will ensure your healthy habits are much more effective. Build Your Mental Muscle https://medium.com/@sirmarita/10-strategies-to-make-yourself-mentally-stronger-8886cc417b17#.kpqq2idfe cc: lalasticlala |
see him head na him type dey give africa bad name |
We miss ur english ma |
martin1772:is like you are using MTN ![]() |
hungry folks. I don't think the governor celebrated this much sef Meanwhile, I am waiting to hear what PDP have to say since it seems they have control of the supreme judges abi is Buhari no longer influencing the court judgments. Let me leave the guy below me to continue with the analysis. He must have expected to be FTC but as God will have it... ![]() |
A whole Monarch! that's serious. |
but we were promised zero COT in 2016. what is this pls? |
this people sha! I wonder why Wike is still on that seat. Our constitution needs overhauling |
DaBullIT:you are not serious, are you? why not tell your brother to return our money. |
Take this along as you have a splendid Sunday ![]() 1. There is no loneliness greater than the loneliness of failure. 2. Every unfriendly person is a failure. 3. There is no failure until internal failure. 4. There is no accidental failure. It must have a root. 5. A person is not a failure until you are satisfied with it. 6. When you fail to prepare, you are preparing to fail. 7. The only thing you can do in life without effort is failure. 8. Most failures are experts at making excuses. 9. The greatest vehicle of failure is laziness and planlessness. 10. A person is a failure if he goes through life earning nothing but money. 11. An all round failure is the one that fails to learn. 12. If you think small, you stay small. 13. One recipe for failure is to try to please everybody. 14. If you have no enemies, it is a sure sign that success has passed you |
She's not ready |
Love is all that matters |
Break up the relationship! |
Good day Guys, I will love to share these thought provoking words and I hope it goes a long way to help our destinies as we choose the right marriage partner. Happy Sunday. 1. It’s not the beauty of a wife that keeps a man from straying. It is self-discipline. 2. You need discipline before marriage, and you need discipline after marriage. 3. Pray for a woman who cares about you, who sees your success as her success and her success as yours. 4. Pray for someone who wants you, who’ll be so identified with you she’s you. Two people, one life. 5. Love is a friendship of the heart. 6. In a marriage love matters. Affection maters. Attraction matters. Physical attributes matter. So does character. 7. If you don’t love her don’t marry her. If you’re not attracted to her leave her alone. 8. If you can’t afford a home of your own it just means you’re not ready for marriage. Get your own home. 9. A man without a mind of his own is not a man. 10. Learn to take responsibility for the natural consequences of your action. Be a man! 11. Stubbornness reads humility as humiliation. 12. Learn to sleep over things. Don’t be hasty of action if the answer is not clear to you. 13. She’s lonely and you’re lonely, hence relationship. There’s a danger to such matches. 14. Sex is a very powerful impulse, a very strong drive. Don’t let it drive you, it’s a bad driver. 15. The greatest danger about addiction to porn and masturbation is that it alienates intimacy. 16. If you want to stop your addiction to masturbation, cut off the accelerant and oxygen to the flame in your groin – porn! 17. Pay attention to your wife so she doesn't feel you don’t really care about her. 18. You can’t approach marriage like you already know. It’s not accommodating and it’s arrogant. 19. Listen. Acknowledge. Adopt. Adapt. Make time. Make room. Make friends. Seven matrimonial virtues. 20. Put more resources into your marriage than your wedding. 21. Don’t marry what you can’t afford. 22. Nothing is as depressive as being locked up for eternity in a marriage with someone you don’t like. 23. If you want a truly loving and affectionate relationship, you and your partner must be sincere with each other. Sincerity is unclothedness. 24. It is important your wife has a sense of security in your marriage. It’s why you need to keep affirming her, assuring her of your love. 25. Love needs to be expressed. You express love to build faith. Faith comes by hearing what is told. 26. If you do lose a good woman, go and beg her; woo her back, before another comes to take your place. 27. Romance is we. Romance is us. Romance is never me. 28. Balance things in your home. Pay attention to your wife and kids, or your home may not survive your ambition. 29. It’s important to have an honest relationship with your child. Sometimes that’s all children want. 30. Don’t allow your mum’s pursuit of the status of grandma turn your marriage into collateral damage. 31. For a marriage to break from external pressure there must be fissure within. 32. Loving takes effort. Loving is responsibility. Just try. That’s all it takes. Try. 33. Whatever you want in marriage you must be ready and willing to give. 34. When you want to choose a marriage partner, think of the future not just now. And certainly not just sex. 35. A bad marriage starts with a wrong choice of partner. And such partners are not necessarily bad people. They may just be bad for each other. 36. When our friends are in marital trouble what they need from us is not sermonizing. Just compassion. They’re in pain! 37. When values are shared, a marriage has a greater chance of success. 38. A friend is born for adversity. You know your friends when you’re in trouble. 39. If character can make someone beautiful, a deficiency of it can make someone patently ugly. Character is beauty. 40. A lonely man is vulnerable. A successful young man is a target. Don’t let the physical blind you to the obvious. 41. You’ve got to have a primary project every year – something momentous you’re pursuing for the year. 42. You have to become successful before you become successful. That’s the lesson from Joseph. Joseph was successful as a slave. 43.Tolerating in courtship what you can’t accommodate in marriage is a creative process for pain and anger. 44. These four things are important in marriage: love, peace, happiness, friendship. 45. If you proceed into a relationship knowing it will bring you sorrow, why, you’ve decided to crack coconut with your skull. 46. Manhood is not emotionlessness. It is not a lack of empathy. A man lacking in empathy is psychopathic. 47. If you’re going to have a shot at marital joy you’ll have to forbear, and learn to forbear, and choose to forbear. 48. When there’s no money a marriage soon wakes from fairy tales of love. Love and responsibility are co-travellers. 49. Solomon said time and chance happen to all. That means your opportunity will come. But will you be ready? 50. It’s not where you start that matters. It’s your determination to keep going, to keep pushing, on the inside of you. 51. Whether we acknowledge such or not, your determination to succeed will impact your girlfriend’s love for you. Being real! 52. Don’t hate what you desire. Stop hating the successful. Not every successful person is crooked. 53. As per your wife, if you want to be the man who “hit it first”, tell me, the women you hit first who’ll marry those? 54. The woman you need is the one who believes in your future, believes in the potential of your greatness in life. 55. Forget all that stuff about opposites attracting. Are you a magnet? 56. If you can’t trust someone don’t marry the someone. 57. Men change as they make money, as they rise in life. Without groundedness, success can wreck a home. 58. Never cross the line of violence in your marriage. Or in anything for that matter. 59. Every line you cross in life becomes temptation to you. 60. Responsibility defines a man, not virility. |
no place for mentored Ipob in our nation.
