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PoliticsRe: Nicholas Ukachukwu Defeats Bianca Ojukwu At APGA Senatorial Primaries by lekhane(m): 10:40am On Oct 04, 2018
Kwamecron:
Goood grin no place for mentored Ipob in our nation.


Wait...
Wait

























Wait ooooo
Which country is she contesting for the senate seat?
Ojukwu are they not the traitors of the Nation?
most you say something ?
CelebritiesRe: Budget: Olamide Blasts The Nigerian Government by lekhane(m): 2:47pm On Jun 27, 2018
so this is news?
SMH
PoliticsRe: Adams Oshiomhole Resumes Office As APC Chairman. Photos by lekhane(m): 4:19pm On Jun 26, 2018
Osho baba! Who else fit for the job? I just hope he can do a good job though he has started on a wrong footing
PoliticsRe: Oby Ezekwesili Protests Alone Over Plateau Killings (Pics) by lekhane(m): 3:48pm On Jun 26, 2018
Wow! I'm impressed.

Well done ma
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Chinenye Anderline: Makeup Artist Transforms Herself Into A Lion ... Pictures by lekhane(m): 11:46am On Jun 19, 2018
nonsense
PoliticsRe: Obasanjo Ota Farm Staff Had Been On Government Payroll - Facebook User by lekhane(m): 8:13am On May 02, 2018
Evidence, Please?
PoliticsRe: Grace Ibru Dies At 77 by lekhane(m): 11:33am On Apr 03, 2018
Third elderly woman i will hear died yesterday. This should be the last biko
CrimeRe: Video Of Two-year-old Child Raped In Chrisland School Played In Court by lekhane(m): 7:58am On Feb 13, 2018
MetroBaba1:
Na Them. See The Name...
na wa for u o
PoliticsRe: Ibrahim Magu Names Pension Thieves by lekhane(m): 10:31am On Dec 11, 2017
So upon all the noise that they are fighting corruption, this is the best they could come up with. Even, no conviction

I just tire for this administration.

We need a fresh start come 2019!
CrimeRe: Nigerian Man Beaten To Death By Police In South Africa. Graphic Photos by lekhane(m): 8:56am On Sep 26, 2017
uzoclinton:
Theu cant just beat him to death for doing nothing
So u call this justice?
CrimeRe: Nigerian Man Beaten To Death By Police In South Africa. Graphic Photos by lekhane(m): 8:52am On Sep 26, 2017
And we have a government in this country. Why can't they just find a permanent solujtion to this incessant killings.

Isn't this ridiculing the so called Giant of Africa?
PoliticsRe: Biafra: Presidency Responds To Obasanjo's Call On Buhari To Meet With Kanu by lekhane(m): 3:22pm On Sep 17, 2017
I think it is too late for dialogue. Both parties took things too far.

But if the president wants to apply this advice, Kanu should for the sake of the young leaders of tomorrow that are dying cos of him, consider it.
CrimeRe: Missing Person Alert by lekhane(m): 5:12pm On Sep 04, 2017
it is well
PoliticsRe: Ahamefula Rochas Okorocha & His Father Step Out Following Death Rumours by lekhane(m): 5:09pm On Sep 04, 2017
Graduate of the University of Manchester. hmmmmm

ASUU is still on strike, just thinking aloud
LiteratureRe: The Revenge - Short Snake Story - Maychang by lekhane(m): 7:39am On Jul 15, 2017
On front page?

Not surprised
CelebritiesRe: Boston Roland: "I Didn't Have Sex With Mercy Aigbe, My Account Was Hacked" by lekhane(m): 7:52pm On May 09, 2017
This tiny thing?


Well, na dem their thing dey heavy pass sha
CelebritiesRe: Olakunle Churchill Admires Rosaline Meurer's Photo by lekhane(m): 8:24am On Apr 08, 2017
Tonto was defeated.

Shekena
Health10 Strategies To Make Yourself Mentally Stronger by lekhane(op): 8:02am On Jan 22, 2017
Here are 10 resolutions that will help you grow mentally stronger:
1. I will spend at least 15 minutes a day in quiet reflection.
A few minutes of quiet time gives you an opportunity to reflect on your progress and think about what you want to do better. Schedule a few minutes every day to recharge your batteries with a little bit of solitude. It will help you gain clarity and renew your motivation to reach your goals.
2. I will do at least one tough thing every week.
Whether you sign up for a photography class or join toastmasters, do something that forces you to step outside your comfort zone. Facing your fears head-on can shift the way you see yourself. Rather than assume you need to avoid hard things because you might fail or because you can’t tolerate the stress , you’ll chip away at your self-limiting beliefs.
3. I’ll write in a gratitude journal.
Write down three things you’re grateful for every day and you’ll change the way you see the world. Studies link gratitude to a multitude of benefits, from better sleep to reduced psychological distress. It only takes a few minutes each day, but it’s an easy way to boost your mental strength.
4. I’ll take better care of my physical health .
Your mind won’t operate efficiently if you’re not fueling it with sleep, exercise, and healthy food. But don’t make your goal to be thinner or to look good in a bathing suit. Aim for building a healthy body so you can enjoy a healthier, stronger mind.
5. I’m going to develop a kinder inner dialogue.
The conversations you have with yourself impact the way you behave and how you feel. Harsh self-criticism only holds you back. Commit to talking to yourself the same way you’d speak to a trusted friend and you’ll unlock potential you never knew existed.
6. I’m going to become more aware of my feelings.
Aside from happiness or anger , most adults aren’t comfortable sharing their feelings. Many are willing to concede, "I’ve got butterflies in my stomach," or "There was a lump in my throat," because it feels less vulnerable than saying they feel sad or scared. But your emotions play a huge role in every decision you make.
Decide to become better connected to your feelings. Label your emotions and spend time thinking about how they influence the way you think and behave.
7. I’m going to create a timeline for my dream.
A lot of people say, "I’d like to write a book someday," or "Someday I’m going to launch my own business." But since Someday never appears on the calendar, it’s unlikely you’ll actually do it. Turn your dream into a goal by creating a realistic timeline for yourself. Even if you can’t tackle it for another a year or two, start researching or learning more about your dream now.
8. I’ll spend more time with friends and family.
It’s easy to become so caught up in the day-to-day grind that you don’t set aside time for friends and family. But studies show that spending time with loved ones is critical to your well-being. Make it a
priority to spend time with the important people in your life.
9. I'll create a life that is in line with my values.
It's one thing to say you value giving back to the community or that you value caring for the environment —living according to those values isn't always so easy. Evaluate where you devote your time and energy and see if you want to make any lifestyle shifts that would help ensure that your life is in line with your values. Living according to your values is an essential component to mastering your mental strength.
10. I'm going to give up one bad habit.
Letting go of a bad habit can help you work smarter, not harder. So rather than saying you're going to eat more vegetables, commit to giving up that bag of chips you eat at lunch every day. Giving up bad habits that rob you of mental strength, like feeling sorry for yourself, will ensure your healthy habits are much more effective.
Build Your Mental Muscle

https://medium.com/@sirmarita/10-strategies-to-make-yourself-mentally-stronger-8886cc417b17#.kpqq2idfe

cc: lalasticlala
Foreign AffairsRe: "I Will Not Step Down" - Yahya Jammeh, Gambian President by lekhane(m): 11:53am On Dec 21, 2016
see him head

na him type dey give africa bad name
PoliticsRe: New Amazing Look Of Patience Jonathan - Photo by lekhane(m): 8:45am On Oct 03, 2016
We miss ur english ma
BusinessRe: Dairo Damilola Opeyemi Redefining Auto-parts Business In Nigeria by lekhane(m): 11:43am On Jun 29, 2016
Freiden:
Booked
between u and that boy, abeg who senior undecided
And u r here booking space cry
PoliticsRe: #UdomSupremeCourtVictory: Celebration Continues In Uyo (Photo) by lekhane(m): 1:33pm On Feb 04, 2016
martin1772:
all of us 1:14pm, chai e remain small
is like you are using MTN grin
PoliticsRe: #UdomSupremeCourtVictory: Celebration Continues In Uyo (Photo) by lekhane(m):
hungry folks. I don't think the governor celebrated this much sef
Meanwhile, I am waiting to hear what PDP have to say since it seems they have control of the supreme judges abi is Buhari no longer influencing the court judgments.
Let me leave the guy below me to continue with the analysis. He must have expected to be FTC but as God will have it... grin
CrimeRe: Decomposed Body Of Kidnapped Obi Of Ubulu Uku Found In Umunede, Delta State by lekhane(m): 12:02pm On Jan 22, 2016
A whole Monarch! that's serious.
BusinessRe: CBN Introduces Current Account Maintenance Fee by lekhane(m): 11:55am On Jan 22, 2016
but we were promised zero COT in 2016. what is this pls?
CrimeRe: Cult War In Rivers: 16 Killed In Shootout by lekhane(m): 11:48am On Jan 22, 2016
this people sha! I wonder why Wike is still on that seat. Our constitution needs overhauling
PoliticsRe: Pictures Of Looters In Nigeria/ Before And After Karma... by lekhane(m): 11:46am On Jan 22, 2016
DaBullIT:
Well

these are disgused Karmas , not the real one


In other news, a group of placard carrying people went to the court last week saying [size=19pt]Buhari leave our brother Olisa Metuah alone , EFCC should not be dragged into politics [/size]

And some mumu will ask my why i do not respect their opinion
you are not serious, are you? why not tell your brother to return our money.
Christianity EtcAnalysis Of The Spirit Of Failure by lekhane(op): 5:16am On Jan 17, 2016
Take this along as you have a splendid Sunday smiley

1. There is no loneliness greater than the loneliness of failure.
2. Every unfriendly person is a failure.
3. There is no failure until internal failure.
4. There is no accidental failure. It must have a root.
5. A person is not a failure until you are satisfied with it.
6. When you fail to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
7. The only thing you can do in life without effort is failure.
8. Most failures are experts at making excuses.
9. The greatest vehicle of failure is laziness and planlessness.
10. A person is a failure if he goes through life earning nothing but money.
11. An all round failure is the one that fails to learn.
12. If you think small, you stay small.
13. One recipe for failure is to try to please everybody.
14. If you have no enemies, it is a sure sign that success has passed you
Christianity EtcRe: When Your Church Does Not Allow Trousers( photo) by lekhane(m): 5:08am On Jan 17, 2016
She's not ready
Christianity EtcRe: 5 Biblical Principles That Will Change Your Life by lekhane(m): 5:07am On Jan 17, 2016
Love is all that matters
Christianity EtcRe: Sermon That Touches The Heart: The Day My Boyfriend And I Went To Church by lekhane(m): 5:05am On Jan 17, 2016
Break up the relationship!
Romance60 Marriage Lessons For Guys by lekhane(op): 4:57am On Jan 17, 2016
Good day Guys, I will love to share these thought provoking words and I hope it goes a long way to help our destinies as we choose the right marriage partner.

Happy Sunday.

1. It’s not the beauty of a wife that keeps a man from straying. It is self-discipline.
2. You need discipline before marriage, and you need discipline after marriage.
3. Pray for a woman who cares about you, who sees your success as her success and her success as yours.
4. Pray for someone who wants you, who’ll be so identified with you she’s you. Two people, one life.
5. Love is a friendship of the heart.
6. In a marriage love matters. Affection maters.
Attraction matters. Physical attributes matter. So does character.
7. If you don’t love her don’t marry her. If you’re not attracted to her leave her alone.
8. If you can’t afford a home of your own it just means you’re not ready for marriage. Get your own home.
9. A man without a mind of his own is not a man.
10. Learn to take responsibility for the natural consequences of your action. Be a man!
11. Stubbornness reads humility as humiliation.
12. Learn to sleep over things. Don’t be hasty of action if the answer is not clear to you.
13. She’s lonely and you’re lonely, hence relationship. There’s a danger to such matches.
14. Sex is a very powerful impulse, a very strong drive. Don’t let it drive you, it’s a bad driver.
15. The greatest danger about addiction to porn and masturbation is that it alienates intimacy.
16. If you want to stop your addiction to masturbation, cut off the accelerant and oxygen to the flame in your groin – porn!
17. Pay attention to your wife so she doesn't feel you don’t really care about her.
18. You can’t approach marriage like you already know. It’s not accommodating and it’s arrogant.
19. Listen. Acknowledge. Adopt. Adapt. Make
time. Make room. Make friends. Seven
matrimonial virtues.
20. Put more resources into your marriage than your wedding.
21. Don’t marry what you can’t afford.
22. Nothing is as depressive as being locked up for eternity in a marriage with someone you don’t like.
23. If you want a truly loving and affectionate
relationship, you and your partner must be sincere
with each other. Sincerity is unclothedness.
24. It is important your wife has a sense of
security in your marriage. It’s why you need to
keep affirming her, assuring her of your love.
25. Love needs to be expressed. You express love
to build faith. Faith comes by hearing what is told.
26. If you do lose a good woman, go and beg her;
woo her back, before another comes to take your
place.
27. Romance is we. Romance is us. Romance is
never me.
28. Balance things in your home. Pay attention to
your wife and kids, or your home may not survive
your ambition.
29. It’s important to have an honest relationship
with your child. Sometimes that’s all children
want.
30. Don’t allow your mum’s pursuit of the status
of grandma turn your marriage into collateral
damage.
31. For a marriage to break from external
pressure there must be fissure within.
32. Loving takes effort. Loving is responsibility.
Just try. That’s all it takes. Try.
33. Whatever you want in marriage you must be
ready and willing to give.
34. When you want to choose a marriage partner,
think of the future not just now. And certainly not
just sex.
35. A bad marriage starts with a wrong choice of
partner. And such partners are not necessarily
bad people. They may just be bad for each other.
36. When our friends are in marital trouble what
they need from us is not sermonizing. Just
compassion. They’re in pain!
37. When values are shared, a marriage has a
greater chance of success.
38. A friend is born for adversity. You know your
friends when you’re in trouble.
39. If character can make someone beautiful, a
deficiency of it can make someone patently ugly.
Character is beauty.
40. A lonely man is vulnerable. A successful
young man is a target. Don’t let the physical blind
you to the obvious.
41. You’ve got to have a primary project every
year – something momentous you’re pursuing for
the year.
42. You have to become successful before you
become successful. That’s the lesson from
Joseph. Joseph was successful as a slave.
43.Tolerating in courtship what you can’t
accommodate in marriage is a creative process
for pain and anger.
44. These four things are important in marriage:
love, peace, happiness, friendship.
45. If you proceed into a relationship knowing it
will bring you sorrow, why, you’ve decided to
crack coconut with your skull.
46. Manhood is not emotionlessness. It is not a
lack of empathy. A man lacking in empathy is
psychopathic.
47. If you’re going to have a shot at marital joy
you’ll have to forbear, and learn to forbear, and
choose to forbear.
48. When there’s no money a marriage soon
wakes from fairy tales of love. Love and
responsibility are co-travellers.
49. Solomon said time and chance happen to all.
That means your opportunity will come. But will
you be ready?
50. It’s not where you start that matters. It’s your
determination to keep going, to keep pushing, on
the inside of you.
51. Whether we acknowledge such or not, your
determination to succeed will impact your
girlfriend’s love for you. Being real!
52. Don’t hate what you desire. Stop hating the
successful. Not every successful person is
crooked.
53. As per your wife, if you want to be the man
who “hit it first”, tell me, the women you hit first
who’ll marry those?
54. The woman you need is the one who believes
in your future, believes in the potential of your
greatness in life.
55. Forget all that stuff about opposites
attracting. Are you a magnet?
56. If you can’t trust someone don’t marry the
someone.
57. Men change as they make money, as they rise
in life. Without groundedness, success can wreck
a home.
58. Never cross the line of violence in your
marriage. Or in anything for that matter.
59. Every line you cross in life becomes
temptation to you.
60. Responsibility defines a man, not virility.

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