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Bigmanpickin:
Market place.. some random circumstances and you met her the second time..

Bros that could be a spirit(of course according to folklore), it could also be that one crazy coincidence that brought you to your wife.

Brother at this juncture if I were to be in your shoes I'm very much going to ask her out and nack her (spirit ko) I don't want to know again.

lol, girl that showed me her house. he brother was even there seff

narit:
Have you eaten?

if you have nothing to say........enter quarantine abeg

well, I wanted to share my experience on approaching a girl for the first time on sight.
it's not that I do not know how to talk to ladies, because I have my series of babes. most of these girls are girls I met in the bus,on campus or in church. it's not that hard to rapport with a girl if something brought you guys together. last week I wanted to go fix something around my town. but I found out that it cannot be fixed in my town,so the bike man suggested that we go to the other town. so he took me to the other town to get it fixed. after that, we decided to go into the market to get some stuffs, which was not in my agende. so we were moving from point to point looking for the right price. as we got to one point, we saw what we wanted. as I was about to alight, then I saw this lady , I was stunned by her beauty. natural beauty no make form of make up at all. since I have never approached a girl directly before on sight. I figured this was my only chance, because this is a market and we might never meet again. without thinking, i just said "Hello", then she look at me and greeted me. she then went to the other side to buy some things. I was looking at her from my own side, then I discovered she was also looking at me too from her own side. Thought were running through my mind on what to do. Thoughts like, (should I go and meet her where she is? ). But as I was there thinking, she left the place and I did not see her again. well, I just moved on in my mind immediately. So, i was supposed to have left the place and go back home, but the man I was buying things from delayed me, and I was not happy because I wanted to get back home. as I was still standing there waiting for the man, then she emerged again from no where. So, she was passing by me again to access other part of the marked, I actually did not think what to say. A word just came out of my mouth: "Sister" then she looked at me again and stopped. then without knowing what next to say sha, I asked her to come. I still didn't know what to say , but I was a bit confident someone. let me make this clear, that I am a private person. I don't like people seeing me doing things. especially wooing a girl in public. but at this point ,I didn't care about the people in the market looking at me. so when she came to me, what I said to her even made me laugh every time I remember it. I am like who tells a girl such a thing in this era.
well I just told her " I would like to know you" then she looked at me amazingly. then I asked of her place. but she just pointed the direction. then I remembered I was not with my phone, so I told her I was not with my phone. she brought out her phone immediately. I was surprised though, so I called out my number and she typed it in. So she wanted to leave, then I asked her to calm down and flash me there. So she did and showed me the screen for me to see. then I left. I did not even ask her for her name, neither did I tell her mine. it was funny to me when I thought about the whole thing.
a lot was just going through my mind after the incident. like ,why did I go to that market? because I never planned to go there.
whey is it that she was passing directly in front of me as I was just getting to that point? because if the bike man carrying me had delayed one bit, I would have missed her.
why was she calm with me?
though I have contacted her and she is making sense.
I don't know where this would lead. but I think there is something about this meet.

well, I wanted to share my experience on approaching a girl for the first time on sight.
it's not that I do not know how to talk to ladies, because I have my series of babes. most of these girls are girls I met in the bus,on campus or in church. it's not that hard to rapport with a girl if something brought you guys together. last week I wanted to go fix something around my town. but I found out that it cannot be fixed in my town,so the bike man suggested that we go to the other town. so he took me to the other town to get it fixed. after that, we decided to go into the market to get some stuffs, which was not in my agende. so we were moving from point to point looking for the right price. as we got to one point, we saw what we wanted. as I was about to alight, then I saw this lady , I was stunned by her beauty. natural beauty no make form of make up at all. since I have never approached a girl directly before on sight. I figured this was my only chance, because this is a market and we might never meet again. without thinking, i just said "Hello", then she look at me and greeted me. she then went to the other side to buy some things. I was looking at her from my own side, then I discovered she was also looking at me too from her own side. Thought were running through my mind on what to do. Thoughts like, (should I go and meet her where she is? ). But as I was there thinking, she left the place and I did not see her again. well, I just moved on in my mind immediately. So, i was supposed to have left the place and go back home, but the man I was buying things from delayed me, and I was not happy because I wanted to get back home. as I was still standing there waiting for the man, then she emerged again from no where. So, she was passing by me again to access other part of the marked, I actually did not think what to say. A word just came out of my mouth: "Sister" then she looked at me again and stopped. then without knowing what next to say sha, I asked her to come. I still didn't know what to say , but I was a bit confident someone. let me make this clear, that I am a private person. I don't like people seeing me doing things. especially wooing a girl in public. but at this point ,I didn't care about the people in the market looking at me. so when she came to me, what I said to her even made me laugh every time I remember it. I am like who tells a girl such a thing in this era.
well I just told her " I would like to know you" then she looked at me amazingly. then I asked of her place. but she just pointed the direction. then I remembered I was not with my phone, so I told her I was not with my phone. she brought out her phone immediately. I was surprised though, so I called out my number and she typed it in. So she wanted to leave, then I asked her to calm down and flash me there. So she did and showed me the screen for me to see. then I left. I did not even ask her for her name, neither did I tell her mine. it was funny to me when I thought about the whole thing.

a lot was just going through my mind after the incident. like ,why did I go to that market? because I never planned to go there.

whey is it that she was passing directly in front of me as I was just getting to that point? because if the bike man carrying me had delayed one bit, I would have missed her.
why was she calm with me?

though I have contacted her and she is making sense.
I don't know where this would lead. but I think there is something about this meet.

so, brethren what are your observations about my amateur approach?

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I am not a relationship expert, but I have some things to say about what we call love and relationship in this modern times.
Love is something that each partner should show to themselves unconditionally. It is a pitiable pity that In this our generation, a lady will expect a man to do all things for her. Such as(hair, cream,house rent, feeding) in other to prove that he loves her. This is purely a misconception, and any lady that has this kind of ideology needs a full re-engineering of the mind.

Love is caring,love is kind,love does not expect things in return.

So if two people are in love with each other, who should do the spending?

Well, some people would say that the guy should spend. Though, the guy should take care of his lady. however, this depends on the financial capacity of the guy.
But, what If the guy does not have? does this mean he cannot be in love?

The main issue here is that, love is kind. So if a lady finds herself to be more financially capable than the guy, then it is up to her to show love to the guy buy assisting him financially.
But the problem we have this days is that we have ladies that are selfish. They will always claim they don't have money, thereby forcing the young man to cough out the little he has. At the end of the day, the guy cannot even save enough money to plan for his future. Don't blame the young man for spending, he is only trying to be a man. Because it is not wrong to spend on a lady.
But it is wrong for a lady to turn a guy to her ATM.
Some ladies have never contributed anything valuable to the life of their lovers. Yet they want to be treated as queens.

It is high time our ladies repented of this selfish act. As a lady, If you have cash, you can take your guy out on a date and pay the bills. You can sponsor the haircut of your guy" Just N300".
You can buy him good clothes, okirika is just N500.
Do these and see if than man will not respect and value you.

though I am a person that doesn't really run after girls. I will just keep things cool.i stopped chatting her since last week. and I just asked her about something on Sunday about church. though she responded with straight answers and I stopped the conversation. then later yesterday she commented on my WhatsApp status. we just chatted casually.

Ginaz:
Is she the shy type ? What I observed was maybe she is the shy type cos I’m like that most times in public. After chatting up and down , I will act very different live.

Well still get to know her better dear... give her more time to be comfortable with you and the relationship. Some people are kinda very uptight .

well, reading lady's perspective I will not jump into conclusions yet. I stopped chatting her since last week. and I just asked her about something on Sunday about church. though she responded with straight answers and I stopped the conversation. then later yesterday she commented on my WhatsApp status. we just chatted casually.

i met this lady early this year, where we were to do some things. I noticed her and later I met her and we talked. though I noticed this high female ego in her but I didnt take it seriously, I figured since she was just meeting me, she should still put up attitude. later on I collected her number and we began chatting. though I told her my interest in her, and she was like we should get to know each other better since I only met her once. so the day finally came that we were to meet. I had to get a clean shave and cut my hair as usual to look nice. then we met, though it was a program, because we are undergoing a program that would bring us together once in while. so we planned and used that opportunity to meet. after I got there I called her and I noticed that she said she was somewhere, and describing the place to me. then I told her I was standing outside. though I could see where she was, but I wanted her to leave that place and come out. so she took a while to come out. then as she was coming out, I waved at her to see me, she saw my wave but didn't react. wow!! I was a bit shocked sha, but I kept my cool, then she came over and then we talked a little, the conversation was just building about 3 minutes, then surprisingly, she said she wants to go and sit down back where she came from. I was a bit shocked, because most of our chat was based on our meeting, that we were to talk. then after she said she wanted to go back and sit down with her people, she just turned and moved. so for it not to look like she left me standing I quickly turned too and moved in the opposite direction.
later after we got back to our various destination, I chatted her and asked her why she left that we had not spoken at all, and all we needed to say was was for that meeting. she just replied in a cold manner, like it was nothing. though I stopped chatting her, I just wanted to clear my conscience. because I really took her seriously, but I was totally mesmerized by her action.

dulux07:
Bro. Free her.
If she is into you, she will re-initiate contact herself.

well, she commented on my WhatsApp status yesterday. I know its scope , I still sense ego though. why couldn't she just chat me direct. I noticed this with girls alot

on that day , after she went back and sat down with her people. then the program started, she was at another place and I sat down at another place though we could see each other. she was looking at me with some bad eyes,like anger. she later came to me to get something she wanted to use . after which she just left without saying tanks or I am going oh. while the program process was on going ,she was seen passing by me without looking at me. putting her hands in her pocket and bouncing around.

i met this lady early this year, where we were to do some things. I noticed her and later I met her and we talked. though I noticed this high female ego in her but I didnt take it seriously, I figured since she was just meeting me, she should still put up attitude. later on I collected her number and we began chatting. though I told her my interest in her, and she was like we should get to know each other better since I only met her once. so the day finally came that we were to meet. I had to get a clean shave and cut my hair as usual to look nice. then we met, though it was a program, because we are undergoing a program that would bring us together once in while. so we planned and used that opportunity to meet. after I got there I called her and I noticed that she said she was somewhere, and describing the place to me. then I told her I was standing outside. though I could see where she was, but I wanted her to leave that place and come out. so she took a while to come out. then as she was coming out, I waved at her to see me, she saw my wave but didn't react. wow!! I was a bit shocked sha, but I kept my cool, then she came over and then we talked a little, the conversation was just building about 3 minutes, then surprisingly, she said she wants to go and sit down back where she came from. I was a bit shocked, because most of our chat was based on our meeting, that we were to talk. then after she said she wanted to go back and sit down with her people, she just turned and moved. so for it not to look like she left me standing I quickly turned too and moved in the opposite direction.
later after we got back to our various destination, I chatted her and asked her why she left that we had not spoken at all, and all we needed to say was was for that meeting. she just replied in a cold manner, like it was nothing. though I stopped chatting her, I just wanted to clear my conscience. because I really took her seriously, but I was totally mesmerized by her action.

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