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united442:
thanks alot for this..

i intend opening a cafe business after my service year..

nice one bro

SEGLIZ:
he said the truth. beside you are even arrogant with you approach.
the real food that good for your health don't taste good.
the true healing balm are not really suiting when applied to heal ailment.
drop your high shoulder and you get result.

Which one is high shoulder? dont judge who you don't know....and I cannot continue to beg any lady........I get results from the ones that have sense...it just that I have not really found the one that really give peace

SteelMcqueen:
It's OK.... Depends on the girl...if you've built conversation to a point....don't just unfriendly a little, persist a little....say 2 or 3 times, if she still doesn't buck, then do what you want. But personally I don't like online game, I'm more of go out and meet people.

Thanks man.....I work in a very tight condition.. That does not give me much time to meet people. Though some of these girls I know them before meeting them online.....

Sanishu:
U don't know what you want.simple. you are just loitering around. go and make money.

see this one......you think everything is about money...most people have money and they are still not happy

Your views pls

defxon:
Source and pictures pls?

There you have it

Hello, I have noticed one thing about me. I meet girls regularly. And I meet a lot on the internet. I am a single guy, still searching for someone I can settle down with, so it makes me to spread my tentacles... I am not looking for love, but someone that will give me peace of mind. Because some girls will claim they love you, but still torment you. But in my search, I noticed that I don't seem to like been ignored or being used to do shakara. Like if I asked a girl out and she refuses... I delete her number immediately... If I asked a girl I have built up a conversation with online for her number, and she refuses..I unfriend her immediately and move on....the only reason why I won't unfriend any one that refuses is based on the fact that she posts good things on her wall that I can benefit from......though I have made a few friends out of those that give me their numbers... I just find out that they can't give me what I want...so we just chat casually.. ...the search i s still on... Just like to know if this my harsh method is cool..........

Bro how far?
I know you bought this system for graphics.
Why do you want to sell?

I have been following you for a while.
I will contact you when I am ready.

I am interested in learning photography & video editing/videography 3months. do you have such a program?

kamossreal:
Good morning

what is the ba3 life?

EMMAUGOH:
Still available

what is the battery life?

Kobojunkie:
Stop right there...Jesus never gave you the right to tell another how to dress, so stop.

Jesus Christ told you that if Your eyes cause you to sin, pluck them out.... so, deal with you.

Just read you bible pls

The issue of dressing amongst Christian women

Many people argue that God does not judge from the outside but from the heart. Well, that is true. You are not saved by dressing, works or looks. You are saved by grace. However, we should be very careful about how we handle the issue of dressing by the female gender. A woman was created from man. In fact, she is a man with a womb. But a woman is different from a man. Her body structure, her emotions and her body parts are very sensitive in nature.
Your dressing as a woman does not condemn you, neither will your dressing hinder your relationship with God. Because God loves you, no matter what. However, the issue of dressing for the female gender is not a matter of the state of salvation, but the state of representation.

But you are a chosen generation, a kingly priesthood, a holy nation, a purchased people: that you may declare his virtues, who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light: 1peter 2:9

If you are born again, you are chosen to represent the image of Christ on earth. To declare his virtues. Unfortunately, many of our sisters are not representing God's image to the world. You are supposed to be a peculiar person. A royal priesthood. Remember priests don't dress to open their body. And royalty is always modest in dressing. Take a clue from the queen of England, Queen Elizabeth. She never dresses to expose her body parts. She never wears trousers.

Issue with Trousers

Women were asked not to wear Trousers in the old testament. But we are under a new testament. No more under law but under grace. But the same new testament says in
1 Timothy 2:9, NLT: "And I want women to be modest in their appearance. They should wear decent and appropriate clothing and not draw attention to themselves by the way they fix their hair or by wearing gold or pearls or expensive clothes."

Most trousers are usually tight in nature. It reveals the contours of a woman. And this can cause men to look and lust. Some may say it is not their fault that men are looking. But the truth is that most women wear those things with the mindset of flaunting their shape. You have to be very careful about your life.

Verdict
As a woman, men will always look at you no matter what. So make sure that when they look at you, your dressing displays virtue. You can be decently dressed and still look beautiful. If your focus is on dressing, attachment, fixing of long nails, wearing mini-skirt and tight Jean as a believer. Then you have a spiritual problem. You are carnally minded. You can't be spirit-filled and be worried about artificial nails and hairs all the time. Some Christian sisters fight their husband for money to buy human hair. Some sisters can stay in the saloon for hours fixing hair, but they cannot pray for one hour. No serious believer will allow her shape to be showing for men to lust after. Before you wear any dress, their is always a motive. You look yourself in the mirror with something in mind.

Though I do not know who will make heaven or not. But I am sure that nothing unclean and immoral will enter heaven. So if your dressing exposes your body, that is immortality. Let us be guided. Do not let the devil cheat you and deny you of eternal rest because of the things of the world.they should be able to differentiate a Christian that is coming from the church from a girl that is coming from the club. You are supposed to be a peculiar person.

This is really becoming a problem in relationship nowadays

Jessepaid:
Emotional matters are the worst bro...but I am glad that you have standards are you don't take nonsense from women..it's a good thing to know when to walk away and when to run away

. Sure.... It is the best way to keep one's sanity these days

tobechi20:
when she is angry, run...i repeat run

I don't quite understand you bro....... Could you be more elaborate

Joker09:
Yup. You ought to have known this a long time ago, that's just how most of them are. No matter how handsome or rich u are, they'll play these silly games. In fact I had a similar experience yesterday, this was a girl I've known for a while but decided to come to my place, we made out and stuffs but she insisted on going back to her place early, fine.. we both agreed to see today, but guess what? When I called her, she didn't even pick my phone(just one missed call) neither did she act like she saw my text, I wasn't surprised coz I knew that's what she's going to do anyway. Some of them are just shallow like that, they want your attention when you don't show interest, and ghost you once they get the attention.

As a guy, you don't hold on to such girls, you move on to the next one. The sad funny fact is that such girls come around later, but you don't find them attractive anymore when they come, they come around when they're already washed out, heartbroken by many guys, fat, had abortions, abused, become baby-mamas. (Any girl can dare quote me wrong o), I'm talking from experience because I can confidently tell u about 6 girls that have been like this with me which I completely reject.

Let them do as they please and never beg anyone of them for attention, focus on your goals and see the reality yourself, they can not be hot forever, everything is about time. Delete their numbers if you have to and keep talking to more girls, they actually don't like those that love them genuinely or loyal to them, beat them at their own games and don't be bothered. Just don't care about them or what they do and refuse to spend on them while knowing them.

PS I'm not saying all girls are like this tho, you'll sure meet a girl that loves you genuinely who wouldn't play games on you, keep meeting girls until you find her. About the shallow ones, experience will sure teach them life lessons and don't be surprised when you see some of them wanting to get close to you after they've been used up. Cheers.

Food for thoughts.....you really had a strong one with them.

QueenMelinda:
Just look at how a full grown man is crying over women affairs,you are what some people on this forum call a simp.

there is no indication in this write up that says i was crying over women affairs.....we know your type anyways

Seeking to please people

Life is a fragile commodity that has an expiry date. Many people spend a great part of their lives trying to do what others think is right or what others think is best for them. It is not a sin to listen to counsel. But it is wrong to follow every counsel by an individual.
Most People like to be obeyed. And anytime you try to go out of their way of seeing things and do what you think is best for you, you begin to hear statements like" that boy/girl has changed oh. He is now proud". Well, let your heart not be troubled. Most of those statements are said to weaken your emotions; To make you feel bad and see yourself as a backslider or as someone who has derailed. Such statements are not said out of true love for you. They are just angry because you disobeyed them.

No man has total knowledge. True knowledge is in the word of God. Experience and age are not always the best teachers according to job 32:9
"It is not only the old who are wise, not only the aged who understand what is right."

However, you should take note that Godly counsel can only come from a pure soul; a person with a renewed mind.
You should only listen to people that are speaking out of genuine love for you, no matter their age, position or title.
Do not conform to people's perspective about life because you don't want to offend them. No man can/ should tell you how to live your life. Even God has his limits when dealing with men. God will never force you to do anything.
Anybody that does not respect your opinion as a human being, but always wants to enforce his own idea or perspective on you, Is not a worthy mentor.

Not all good advice is right for you. Accept responsibility for your actions. Take advice, but make sure it is from a genuine conscience. Not from those that want to control your actions.

Openbusiness3:
Wow, who organized this pity party? I sell tissue paper in case anyone wants to cry on this thread. Cry because a girl did not answer WhatsApp chat but updating status. Chaiii

.. Lol.....you no serious.....you better read well

From my dealings with the female folks, I have come to understand certain things about women. Though I do not know the reason why they act like that, sometimes I still find it hard to believe. Personally, I have never been hurt by any lady. Neither have I taken any lady seriously in my life. I am this type of guy that believes in the cultural values of our Fathers. I don't take too much nonsense from these folks.

1.I was chatting with one and she was using an abusive language on me…… I told her to stop, she still continued… I told her to stop it the second time she typed it again. She was like, why am I making this a big deal…. That she was just joking…..bla bla…. Though I have been taking time to study her, to know her true nature……..not the holy holy shit they form to be……. I noticed that she is a saucy girl. Though we still chat..but in my mind I have cut her off…….she cannot be the one…..she sees insult as a norm...it's a joke to her .if I don't drop her now. And she insults me publicly after marriage in front of my friends…..people will say didn't you notice this before marrying her?……..lol
2.Another one was telling me that I did not chat with her properly because I type "Hey" instead of "Hi". ……. I deleted her immediately.
3.Another one was telling me to my face that I was talking shit…….because she sent me some of her pics and I was telling her that it not the type of pics I requested… ..( full pics instead of half pic) you can guess where it ended.

the point I want to make here is that most girls are really cruel and heartless. Though I have cool girls in my life. The ones that value me. And i respect them equally. I do give them gifts from my heart….at will

My experience

1.I have been calling this girl for weeks we talk nice on phone and she responds well. Not every day calling though. Like 3days interval. Then I called her one day like 3 times. She did not pick. Later the same girl was on WhatsApp uploading pics. She did not flash or even indicate that she saw my calls. I chatted her and asked if she did not see my calls. She said she saw it, that she is busy…., well. That was the end for me…..deleted her contact.
2.There was one that I was talking to. I was calling. Texting and even told her my intentions on our first chat. Though she did not give me a direct answer. But her body language was like she has agreed. After many weeks of talks, chats, video calls which were initiated by her mostly. I assumed that she was already serious to me. Then she just changed boom. No more calls, chatting was not flowing as usual. Then I asked what is the problem. That, is this how our relationship would grow. To my surprise lol. She said she does not understand what I meant by relationship. That we have been good friends…...then I reminded her that I made my intentions known at the beginning now. She denied that we ever discussed such. Omo I know say I don enter one chance……... I quickly moved on, no time……...because I don't do emotional dating with girls... I do head dating when dealing with girls.
many others like that. When girls want to be cruel they act cold. And you will be wondering is it not this babe that was doing like an angel. I conclude that women are more heartless than men.

Seeking to please people

Life is a fragile commodity that has an expiry date. Many people spend a great part of their lives trying to do what others think is right or what others think is best for them. It is not a sin to listen to counsel. But it is wrong to follow every counsel by an individual.
Most People like to be obeyed. And anytime you try to go out of their way of seeing things and do what you think is best for you, you begin to hear statements like" that boy/girl has changed oh. He is now proud". Well, let your heart not be troubled. Most of those statements are said to weaken your emotions; To make you feel bad and see yourself as a backslider or as someone who has derailed. Such statements are not said out of true love for you. They are just angry because you disobeyed them.

No man has total knowledge. True knowledge is in the word of God. Experience and age are not always the best teachers according to job 32:9
"It is not only the old who are wise, not only the aged who understand what is right."

However, you should take note that Godly counsel can only come from a pure soul; a person with a renewed mind.
You should only listen to people that are speaking out of genuine love for you, no matter their age, position or title.
Do not conform to people's perspective about life because you don't want to offend them. No man can/ should tell you how to live your life. Even God has his limits when dealing with men. God will never force you to do anything.
Anybody that does not respect your opinion as a human being, but always wants to enforce his own idea or perspective on you, Is not a worthy mentor.

Not all good advice is right for you. Accept responsibility for your actions. Take advice, but make sure it is from a genuine conscience. Not from those that want to control your actions.

Send in your writing Job. Your work will be delivered on time

There is a part of life that is not clear to a lot of young people.It is saddening that a lot of youths only get wise when they begin to grow grey hair.But the truth about our existence is that ,what we do in our childhood reflects in our youth,and what we do in our youth reflects at old age.if you do not know these secrets,you might suffer out of ignorance.now,note these points:

1. Do not hate people; no matter what anybody has done,pls forgive them and move on in life.

2.Reduce the number of people you are not in good terms with;please,if u want to live long, make sure u reduce those you are having lot with to the lowest minimum.I understand that you can't be cool with everybody ,cus some people will just want to fight you.but please make sure you try to make peace and don't fight back.

3.Pls, always be the mumu in your dealings with people; if a guy wants 2 fight u because of a girl, let him have her.if u borrow som1 money and he does not want 2 give it back.let it go.if someone cheats you ,don't fight him. if someone insults u,let it go.people will think you are a mumu.but the truth is that you are the "WISE" one.

4.You must understand that people are wicked;pls understand,some people are gullible. And dey lik 2 bliv wat dey hear people say,in fact a lot of people will tell u d opposite of what is on their mind.people are wicked oh.,pls try as much as possible not to trust anybody. 5.let your words and actions be heavily calculated.
6.dont marry because of beauty,handsomness,money,fine shape nd sex.if you do,that beauty might b a beast. The waist she is shaking can be wasted. the handsomeness may demand a Ransom from you later.
7.know that there is something called fate;there are some things you don't deserve but will come to you,there are some things you didn't pray about but heaven will give to you,there are people you don't know but will favour you.that is fate in action .
8 There aat people who love you; there are girls you didn't toast that will just like you. some people will just like you.

9.keep your record short with people. Don't let Just anybody know your secrets,don't discuss personal issues in public or in the bus.

10.let your friends talk a lot and you listen a lot.

11.Be bold inside,don't let people know.because people may just want to push you in trouble because they know you are bold.let it be in you and prove it when it is necessary. Cus some fools might want to use your boldness as an escape route and endanger you.

12.help people a lot. Pls if you have the money, sponsor people,buy food and cloth for people who truly need it. your unborn children will never get to struggle for anything in life.As a student,help and teach your course mate

13.Please try less not to offend a woman. Women hardly forgive,once they hate you.
They can do anything to get at you, but if a woman loves you, she can kill for you.

14.As a woman, Learn how to win a man/boy's attention. woman, don't always claim you know too much.trying to impose you know more around any man.No man would like you for that. men like to always be above, we were meant to be so.if u want to enjoy men's care in school or your dads care at home don't ever be arrogant around men.be confident and be natural,and also be careering.a lot of guys will like you for that, then you will b like a queen.

15 know how to control the power of attraction. There is something in men that attracts them to women.there is something in women that attracts men to them.how u manage this thing will determine how u will manage your life.

16.Be a very good reader.read any good book