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PrecisionFx:
To za frezident?

PrecisionFx:
Is she a nuclear reactor

dollytino4real:
b4 u sleep count d cash and give him to kip it

This advice is premium
The Op should pay for it...

jacyhelen:
Not alll men cheat but Nigeria or African men are the WORST.

Have you dated all the men in the world to arrive at this stupid conclusion

Calling you a fish brain is an insult to the real girls with fish brain cos I'm not sure you have a brain at all

Donjazzy12:
Hello my dear, stop trying to justify anything. Love itself doesn't make sense! Nobody can truly define love. It has no universal meaning.

Stop trying to justify why he could love you. Most of the responses here are from people who feel jealous of the guy because he is dating a white lady! Quote me anywhere. Most Nigerians still see whites like you as special, so they are jealous of the guy.

Here's my gut feeling. You believe the guy is too good for you physically. According to you, he is smart, intelligent, Handsome and no kids, so you are wondering why he is stuck with you, especially since you know that all his exes are thin. You are trying to analyze his love but it doesn't work that way. I use myself as an example. I have always dated skinny ladies until I met this fat Lady in a cab one day in Abuja and everything changed. It took me months to make up my mind, but I finally did and the relationship is going strong.

Your man is younger than you, so expect youthful exuberance. Stop doubting, it kills love. Remove all doubts except you now get concrete evidence. I wish you the best

Charris2284:
Im not defending him. I was just trying to explain the situation entirely. My understanding of scams and shams (and I could very well be ignorant to this subject) is that scams typically involve someone who will not expose their true identity (via live video) and the shams are when both parties agree that it is not a true marriage. A foreigner pays the citizen of a country money to marry so that the foreigner can obtain a green card. Idk. I definitely feel he is cheating on me. And Im torn if he is just using me. So his own mother who is a deaconess of a church wpuld be willing to lie on her son? I mean why go through the trouble of a marriage in Nigeria if this was all for a green card? Wouldnt his family be embarrassed? I know my family would shame me if I did something horrible like that to someone.

I'll be blunt with you

Your situation is called "Come and marry" format in Nigeria. It's very common and the white victims are usually fat, older, lonely and single mothers ( No disrespect). Real profiles are used in this case.
No real job is the first red flag you should have noted and then asking for money. He got you trapped in the minute you started sending money to him.

There are two likely outcomes from the scenario;
* He continues extorting you till he gets tired
Or
* He takes you to ikoyi registry for marriage but trust me the marriage will be short lived.

Don't be fooled by the fact that he's introduced you to his mom... Nowadays, the parents are getting involved in the dubious setup especially if marriage will be taking place. Whatever you thought you guys had isn't real from the guy's perspective. It's just a game to him.
Goodluck

Ejize:
Pornography, masturbation, pre-marital sex, adultery all have significant effects on the bearing of one's life. You can't find these lascivious practices among great men and women. Even in the secular world.
If you think I'm lying ask the likes of Zuckerberg, Bill Gates, Henry Ford

Do you know these men personally ....

Not trying to encourage porn but you can't defend that sentence in the court of law...

MissJoy29:
Funny...but I disagree with your second opinion. She's cheap . This isn't me judging her though. She's living her life

She's not cheap cos she ain't a commodity .....
But I don't support fvcking around like a dog... Not a good thing to do.

MissRaine69:
Why? His choice he is intelligent enough to know he is stupid.

ubunja:
guys have stopped asking for sex but always noone can accept that. men ignore women and turn to porn and everyone goes hard after them with "dangers of masturbation" blah blah blah. men ignore women and buy sex dolls everyone complains. society loves it when men beg for sex...

You just hit the nail on the head...
Females are always quick to mention sex when the males talk about money in a relationship because that's the only thing most them can offer.
That's why they felt threatened by the emergence of sex dolls

Akakajnr:
I can't believe I just read that ,
I dy clap for you self.

You kept on saying your girlfriend has a big heart. MAN, it seems urs is bigger