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lynpetra: Seriously if I am daughter I wud just tell the robbers in tears,"Oga,make una know mind my papa ooo.Him don been crase before,abeg make una do me Wetin una get for mind abeg*starts to remove clothe*make una leave my papa.

Like seriously,the pain of losing anyone wud be so unbearable,not when I have a choice to make.

BRAINZ_Box: Its d block wit which d house was built...if u ar staying downstairs in a storey building its worst..cos of the decking. nd even pvc ceilings hav been studied to reduce ntwrk signal drastically

ajasa4link: Airtel network is damn crappy! I once subscribed to this package and got 163MB which lasted for about 4days but I spent the 4 days cursing Airtel...I couldn't even use 60mb before the data expired.. the network was so poor I can only open few web pages when I connect it with droidvpn and stay outside the house. Once I step into the house,the data on my phone becomes as useless as the P in PSYCHOLOGY.... imagine someone that uses average of 200mb daily on mtn not being able to exhaust 160mb in 4days...it was frustrating

baby_123: Les, we are only restrained by the walls we build around our mind. The mental shackles we bind to our bodies and the mental pain we inflict on ourselves. I feel when you break away and forgive who ever hurt or made you feel abandoned in the past you will be a happy person. For some reason it seems you resent being left alone and it is your way of consoling yourself when anyone reaches out. Your siblings and family who you should open up about your feelings are out living their lives without a clue on what you went through, or how it affected you being left alone. I am an advocate in being vocal about your feelings immediately. Yoruba's say ironu man fa arun si okan. When you think or keep things in mind, it manifests and creates it's own life holding you back from living yours. I think you should confront the source of these issues. No matter how painful or embarrassing. I don't know if it was emotional, physical, sexual or mental abuse. But know that to be happy you must have the courage to confront your demons and skeletons, so you can destroy them for good. There is much to see, do and experience out there. No matter when you have been through, people are going through worse. What keeps them going and confronting every challenge is a determination that their circumstance must change. And an understanding that in life you get what you put in. Understand that you can be an introvert but still loved and wanted by people because you have a special gift they need. An introvert is a thinker, analytical and very intelligent. But you need people and people need you too. That is the beauty of life. No man is a complete island. Confront your demons first, you will find your balance. Make it your challenge and make it happen. See a therapist and open up to your family. Enrol in a class for something you love to do and accomplish it. It will get you leaving the house, seeing people and learning to interact with people while doing what you love. Everything will fall in place

tunapa2009: LES... The bitter truth about Life is that you've got choices.. You choose the events that you want to stay. You choose to be happy. You choose your life..
No matter the advice, the final decision lies in you.. So many times I felt like that(I wanted to be alone) but at the end I do face life squarely by handling it properly(depression).. As a christian, I hid God's word in my heart.. I don't think what people says about me but what God thinks about me... I don't whether you believe also in that.. You need you to be a better you.. You need you to take full responsibility of your life. You need you to be happy about you..

We all are concern about you... Friend, we need ourselves to survive in this time..
We really LOVE YOU LES.......

Idowuogbo: Ok.... I'll let u b... Go easy on urself pls! Ok?

baby_123: Les, i think some of what you wrote is contradicting. You are depressed because you are a loner. You feel your life has been a failure because you are a loner, yet you are with people now but you prefer to be a loner. You are in this position, you are sad. But you dont want help. I wonder why you are talking about yourself here then? I think you should talk to someone. Are you an orphan and how did you get to where you are right now. Look, if you are fighting with society's expectations, there is nothing wrong in being a loner. Some people like to be alone, and that is okay. However to function and survive in this life you need some social skills to relate with the world. As a loner, i am sure you would give vibes in which people will know to leave you alone, when you want to be alone. I personally like my alone time, and in that time i cherish it. So i understand that you are an introvert and that is fine. No need to beat yourself up or feel you have to kill yourself over that... That is who you are. However, you need help to resolve the issues you have, and you need to learn to relate with people. By issues, i mean issues from childhood, and other things you are battling with. I think you should give getting help a chance before you make conclusions. Goodluck.

cdamsel: why did she ask u 2 live with people? Finance?if that's the case, then you should understand,its just temporary,being alone is just gonna put suicidal thoughts in ur head, meet people find out what's on the other side of life.

Do u think of the toll it ll take on the people in your life? Or u don't care of the grief u ll cause people? No make we vex oooo,

I have a friend who lost his parents & all his siblings yet he has neva for once had suicidal thought, so u better look on the bright side of life

Idowuogbo: Les, I'm waiting....

Idowuogbo: Les, click on it o! Click away!!!! I don't bite!!!! We need to talk.

Idowuogbo: Haaaaaaaaaa! Les! and u no pm me? >

Biko check ur mail

baby_123: Les, what exactly is your problem or the problem. Care to write all your thoughts? Sit down and think about it. What brought you here, to this point. What exactly do you want? To live or to die? What thoughts are going through your mind? What ever made you so hateful? Why are you full of hate? Is it your childhood? Family? Finances or achievements? Or do you think it is coming from a mental state you do not have control over? Look introspectively and respond. Also respond thoroughly no matter how long. I will read.

kinnad: i thought of suicide when i was in d university but today my lifw is sweet. why would u even consider such a shit

Royal Roy: I think your friend is an extremely impatient woman. if the man hasn't laid hands on her or be verbally abusive, she should have used tact and feminine genius to lure him back home....instead of trying to bully her way to her desires.

Sometimes a little patience and tact saves the day than being confrontational and aggressive!!

jodeci: For crying out loud,this is just the second month,has she explored other means?.Dont support whats clearly wrong.Even the government owes albeit deliberately as you claimed.

bappahman: Even in the USA saging is looked down upon infact a county in the US as a fine of 10 dollars for any one sagging in public... Its the right of a community to decide wat they dem as moral or immoral

simpleseyi: Wear clothes to cover your body, stop walking na-ked on our streets. No religion supports human beings walking around na-ked.

bappahman: Why is it that wen igbo are celebrating their festivals in igboland all are expected to obay nd stay home and a masquerade meets a hausa/yoruba woman she is beaten nd all even wen its not her culture?

Fecodear: 15years ago, He impregnated her but denied responsibility and ditched her. She gave birth to the baby boy and he looked exactly like his runaway dad. Yet, the man abandoned them.
Now, after 13years of marriage, no child. Should he go back and beg for forgiveness?
If you are the lady will you forgive him?

bigdiva: The child is 15 years, I'll let him decide if he wants anything to do with his dad. Me, I have no business with the man, it's been 15 years.