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Sixfeetbelle:
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Doing exactly what you accuse others of doing...

I really did peg you a lot smarter than you appear.

Ps: you're allowed to cancel this post too. [/s]

Now I've "bullied" you shey
She can dish it but can't take it. Cry baby

SlayerForever:
There is an unhealthy amount of man-hating misandrists on nairaland. It is appalling to see the number of derisive comments targeted at menfolk. Some of us women need to learn that deriding menfolk does not make you more of a woman. Real women are strongly principled both in manner and speech. Thanks.


Lalasticlala.

I've fixed your post for you OP.

Sixfeetbelle:
[s]I really pegged you smarter than this, but oh well, we know your type.

Like I said, you're allowed to be contented with a man who's only provision in your life is 'a roof over your head'.

I won't[/s].

You've only exposed your own folly, desperately spurring for a fight with me. I said it before and I will say it again. Good luck with your search. -until then remain in your father's house little girl.

Sixfeetbelle:
I'm challenging my own point with this question. Yet I went off and tried to spin it on you. I cant answer my own question

Fixed.

Sixfeetbelle:
For ladies that can provide roof over their heads, what will the man provide?

You said with your own mouth that providing is not a man's only job. So you tell me!

Sixfeetbelle:
You saw the folly in your comment, hence this clapback. As if a man's job is only in providing a roof over women's head.

If you'll be contented being married to a man who provides only a roof over your head, I won't be.

So in order words, you are incapable of providing a roof over your own head
she knows all the responsibilities of a man yet is clueless on her own responsibilities.
Continue to sit in your father's (a man, not your mother's) house okay, and be waiting for an imaginary knight in shiny armour who would give you the world.
All the best!

Sixfeetbelle:
Imagine!

Wife material is submissive, decent, virgin, independent while Husband material is a guy who can provide a roof over our heads.

Going by your definition, I think it's better I marry my father. After all, he provided a roof over my head.

Please go ahead and do so. You'll be doing someone's son a huge favour!

I must add that you guys make it hard for someone to feel sorry for you sef.. you encourage the monetisation of sex with your own actions. e.g. look at that false rape situation where queenbeena accused that guy who agreed to pay a $1000 for one night with her, seriously a man is willing to pay that amount to sleep with a woman. moreso, almost every nigerian artist sings about lavishing women with gifts just because of her skin tone, yansh and waist
now tell me why won't girls treat their ho-has like a gold mine? Please tell me.
I've been called names on this forum for my anti-feminist views (but the truth is there are lots of women out there who are also anti-feminist but are bullied into silence by fellow women) unfortunately we can't fight for those who refuse to fight for themselves.
Men the power to stop this madness is in your own hands.

CalliDora1:
Even in Church, you men will still go for the ones that are provocatively dressed. I know what I'm saying. You careful avoid the decent sisters and still go for the ... You know now.

Can we just stop pretending and deceiving ourselves. You know the good ones but always think they are not your spec. We know una, abeg lol..

True but lust of the eyes won't allow them Although it's kinda unfair to ask men to lower their standards just to secure a good girl. What if she's only "good" due to lack of opportunity

Princeofasia:
even the foreign ones are not that good o. i think they are even worst. the nigerians learnt from them. i have dates a french, an australian and an asian. i think these generation of girls are just hoes.
sometimes i feel the best is to get her as a hoe and a wife, pmp her and make more money.

Lol.Good luck with that

SocialJustice:
You have to compromise. Poverty has driven almost all the girls in Nigeria into prostitution.

The girls that's don't prostitute are the few able to get a decent job and the almost non existent ones who hate being touched for money.

If you believe in God, then hand the matter over to Him, if not those working class girls stubborn die, you just have to always conquer them with intellect but the problem is before you know it, you're in a perpetual mental fight with her.

Worst case scenario, find one that's a bit sensible and start having your kids.

Marriage like our parents had is a near mirage for us.

It's not poverty. It's greed and lust for material things. If it was just a matter of poverty, women will be more focused on securing a husband who is at least able to provide a roof over their heads and will be content with that.. just like in the days of our parents - not hoeing around for money like women of today

The reason why most African American women are single is because they embraced the concept of liberal feminism which has led them astray.. (being hyper aggressive, thoting on Instagram etc.. ) now black men are dating out of their race en-mass, leaving them at the bottom scrambling to be chosen in the dating market.
This would've easily been the fate of Nigerian women too if Nigerian men had other options. Just imagine if there were women of other races in Nigeria.. hmm.
Sorry guys, but you are stuck.

Whiteangel1234:
I think Arewa is holdimg back Nigeria from Progress

They will continue to win because of the Almajiri Population voting based on religious sentiment

Their population isn't that large tbh, hence why cows and children's votes are counted over there

ImaIma1:
The moral of the story is...don't abandon or cut off your family for any reason whether for a husband, wife, career, lifestyle, etc.

And it is not peculiar to men. Women also marry bad husbands and cut off from their families and pay dearly for it.

"Non-simps" just like to carry this kind of matter on their heads.

Here we go again .. they must surely turn this into a male gender bashing debate.
How many times has a highly successful woman cut off her own family to support her husband's own? Stop reaching!

ebuka10box:
I appreciate the fact u didn't bash me but came up with some reasonable points. I'm not in any way saying there are no good ladies out there. I admit the fact our political heads have failed us long ago but that doesn't justify going into bad acts.

Nowadays good girls are hard to find, ones that will tell u genuinely that they love u,its just for material and monetary gains most are in a relationship. They now got this 'see finish ' attribute. Scam is very bad and I will never support it but most ladies are being used for rituals because of their quest for money. I got a friend in ph (a lady), I admire her a lot cos she is beautiful and she works hard (sells all manner of hair / ig~ queenadanmawigs) babe is doing very well . If u see the amount of time she spends online working, u just got to wish for something like her in the future.
A man needs a woman that will always tell him how close he is to success, steps to take and ladies we have now..........no way

You are in the wrong section op. If you like explain yourself from morning till night, most ladies here will still bash and insult you anyway
romance section is where the sensible folks are and this topic fits in better there.

kastgeraldino:
Well, what is her professional experience or skill-sets? Does she have family members (ideally connected) that she can stay with while she looks for a good position-or does she have cash to live on while she waits? I'm asking these questions because, unless extremely lucky, she would have to wait a while (sometimes years) for a very good and suitable position to come up. Or can she just manage any job wile she waits for a really good job? When I say good position I mean something that pays a monthly net salary above 900K per month. Extreme patience is the key to the Nigerian career game as the economy does not churn out many good jobs.

ednut1:
What job was she doing over there What are the prospects in Nigeria?. Like someone above said she can try business but if she is not Street smart na one chance be that.

Mcslize:
By the way, which country is she in?

to answer your questions she's has 5 years work experience as a business analyst , based here in the UK

rossipki:
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She can set up an ice cream parlour, a restaurant, a fast food joint, a beauty therapy business (manicure, pedicure, spa, sauna etc), she can start a bakery, baking exotic cakes, she can open a nursery, or a small private primary school.

Mostly, she needs to be positive, optimistic, and be driven to succeed, and she will surely make a great life for herself and her kid here in Nigeria.

Some nice ideas here..

JovialJune:
She licked her cum, wanted to know what it tastes like,

We were having conversation on sex and all, she then asked if I've tasted mine, I said no, she said hers is tasteless, ewww

Something tells me it was actually you who did this

tarantino1:
Lol but he repeatedly told her to book a private session and she wouldn't do that.

Another woman is also suing as well. She's engaged to a CEO of a 30 mil a year business who doesn't want kids but thinks she can change his mind

This guy is also brutal to men as well sha. In fact anybody wet dey overhype themselves above their current status, he dey tell them word

Lmao

She asked for it

luminouz:
I was enjoying ya comment till you mentioned "fair share of his wealth" and I was like WTF!!! This ain't America sis. She would get some child support and maybe a house for the kids,nothing more.

These are wealthy people we are talking about here.. I'm sure she wouldn't have filed for divorce if she had more to lose than gain. There must be properties in both their names and she will surely get her cut. Lol.

.. as she should.

Although in most cases like this, the man will still come out on top as there will always be a plethora of money grabbing babes willing to overlook a man's terrible vices all because of money ( FFK is a great example).
At the sight of this news, somebody somewhere is busy planning on how to become the newest Mrs Nuru

Moyo ruined a man and now her life is ruined. Mrs Nuru is about to walk away with her fair share of his wealth.
While..
Adam Nuru will get remarried in the next 3 years.
Such is life.

southniyikaye:
I am not understanding this your post ooo

Whatever happens to looking for a caring man to start her life afresh with..
Be like say that your friend no dey read naija news sha...

Let her try her luck in looking for a responsible man.
I won't advice the coming to Nigeria part o abeg

Due to the circumstances around her divorce, she desperately needs a fresh start and feels Nigeria is the best place for such. I've tried to advice her against it but to no avail.. so I've resulted to supporting her decision..
Created this thread so I can show her some good suggestions on how she can sustain herself back home..

I need ideas for a friend thinking of relocating back to Nigeria - she's a recent divorcee with a child (looking to start over).
What can she do for a living?
If employment: what sectors are recruiting?
If business, what kind of business??
Any suggestions would be appreciated.

prince2pac:
for typhoid fever, malaria and cold.. I can't take depression drugs ooo, shit wiped my friends memory, even now she is yet to recover, she forgets everything immediately

I think you need to get on Fluoxetine (Prozac) .. see a doctor first though and get a proper prescription.. your friend's memory loss could've been caused by something else...

prince2pac:
I have lost interest in almost everything, even to pray I feel God has left me, got a giveaway here from Poco, but all went on drugs, still I'm down, mine is now bigger than depression, I'm really tired of going on. just now I sent a text to a nairalander who wants to help me get some drugs again...

Hmmm...

BlackLondon:
To cut the long story or life short....

I may go home in the next few moments but if you know help pls recommend before it's too late and pls let it be free....


Thanks


To whom it may concern

You need a break / change of environment - take a holiday if you can afford one or at least a weekend getaway at a nice hotel (preferably alone) pour your heart out in a diary, pray if you are a believer, watch your favourite shows, watch lots of comedy, eat as much as you like and sleep for hours. . When you return from your break, make a conscious effort to surround yourself with loved ones and stay clear of toxicity.

Being a baby mama is not a meal ticket! He owes her nothing but to take care of his son.

This write-up is Quora material. Nice one.

Precious is fair skinned and gave this man multiple sons yet that wasn't enough for him.
What do men want exactly?
or is Precious is the mother of the child?