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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Sixfeetbelle: 11:52am On Jan 14
Mide3367:
majority of nairaland girls are dumb. Simple question I ask, she kept spewing balderdash

"Don't settle. Keep moving." - Steve Jobs.

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Princeofasia: 12:00pm On Jan 14
loooks like some girls are getting so triggered with this. tongue

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by chinchonglee(m): 12:03pm On Jan 14
Sixfeetbelle:


There was no wedding ring?
No wedding ring ooo
Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Ayaaz: 12:20pm On Jan 14
It's honestly so sad

Alot of girls are now prostitutes and it's now a norm

That's the downside to 'female/women's liberation', it leads to a loose society because even those women who work(a large percentage), sleep around to excel at work

Females no longer value motherhood, so they don't focus on being upright inorder to be good mothers, instead they value status and wealth just like men and they know that the easiest and fastest way to achieve it is to use their bodies....it's an advantage they have over men in that regard and they fully utilise it

This is an unpopular opinion but, female freedoms should be restrictive in nature, unlike for men....men will always be hawks when it comes to women and unsupervised women will fall prey or become willing participants which will lead to an explosion of prostitution like we're witnessing.

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by jesmond3945: 12:22pm On Jan 14
Princeofasia:
omo i tire o. all the so called good girl i see around and online, when i dg deep i discover that they are either out right oloshos or coded ones. is it that naija dont have normal girls again
even the ones for church na olosho wey dey disguise.
omo the thing dey confuse me.
abi na to go one village go find one finebabe wey never tear eye yet?
the worst part is that i moved into this new apartment and my neigbour came to greet me.
i noticed they just got married, when i see the babe for morning na girl wey be proper olosho for ibadan.
i try oyinbo, those ones too stubborn and most even see nothing wrong with fucking random dicks
what is this world turning into na
the problem is your priorities in a woman, you people are attracted to slay queens.

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Princeofasia: 12:23pm On Jan 14
Just imagine this sef. Omo most of naija girls are nothing to write home about. Abeg na like this ghana and other African girls sef be??

Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Morray(m): 12:24pm On Jan 14
Princeofasia:
exactly man. all this just makes the only available option to be village. atleast some villages tech never too reach there. even though that is still risky but it is manageable
if you need one, I have a cousin who is a virgin. Fair, tall, curvy and very pretty. I've encouraged her to remain a virgin until wedding night. The deeds this days from girls is in contrast to the models our parents actually programmed.

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by jesmond3945: 12:26pm On Jan 14
CalliDora1:


Even in Church, you men will still go for the ones that are provocatively dressed. I know what I'm saying. You Carefully avoid the decent sisters and still go for the ... You know now.

Can we just stop pretending and deceiving ourselves. You know the good ones but always think they are not your spec. We know una, abeg tongue lol..
is true �

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by RisenPhoenix1(m): 12:29pm On Jan 14
SocialJustice:
Anywhere people are gathered, they are there. Most girls go to church to sell market. Try dating church girls, even some who like praying, go to church everyday are oloshos. Just remove money from the relationship, be a broke guy, just display only potential if you can and see the way she will abandon you sharply.

Not me. I am gentle, as everyone knows.

Let church girls catch you calling most of them 'olosho' and 'market sellers'.
Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by CalliDora1(f): 12:31pm On Jan 14
jesmond3945:
is true �

Thanks for admitting it.
Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by iLegendd: 12:32pm On Jan 14
Hmm
Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Princeofasia: 12:41pm On Jan 14
CalliDora1:


Thanks for admitting it.
admitting what? i attend deeper life. girls here dont dress provocatively. so what you said there doesnt relate at all.

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by CHoccolaTE(m): 12:45pm On Jan 14
Edopesin:


Well I for one know that the average man has more random sex than the average lady but nobody criticises my gender for it not even you ladies, men are statistically even bigger home wrecks but the double standards in this part of the world ehn

James Brown didn't visit this part of the world so he doesn't know how right he was when he said that it's a man's world


Thank you for telling the truth in every single part of your post, millions will locate you this year cool

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by CalliDora1(f): 12:47pm On Jan 14
Princeofasia:
admitting what? i attend deeper life. girls here dont dress provocatively. so what you said there doesnt relate at all.

I'm not ruling out the fact that there pretenders but it all depends the direction you're looking.

Watch and pray.
Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by CHoccolaTE(m): 12:51pm On Jan 14
Ayaaz:
It's honestly so sad

Alot of girls are now prostitutes and it's now a norm

That's the downside to 'female/women's liberation', it leads to a loose society because even those women who work(a large percentage), sleep around to excel at work

Females no longer value motherhood, so they don't focus on being upright inorder to be good mothers, instead they value status and wealth just like men and they know that the easiest and fastest way to achieve it is to use their bodies....it's an advantage they have over men in that regard and they fully utilise it

This is an unpopular opinion but, female freedoms should be restrictive in nature, unlike for men....men will always be hawks when it comes to women and unsupervised women will fall prey or become willing participants which will lead to an explosion of prostitution like we're witnessing.

@bold,

No be una say women should also be breadwinner like men if women no provide then they are liabilities?
Are you men not the ones saying women should not depend on men for money and stop being leeches? So now you are saying the same women should not chase wealth like men but should focus on being mothers.

The whole premise of stingy men association is because men refuse to spend on women because they believe women should work for themselves.

Nobody is encouraging prostitution but saying women should not chase wealth like men is so stupid and idiotic because the have nobody to depend on but themselves

You males started insulting them for focusing on home building instead of hustling.

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Princeofasia: 1:04pm On Jan 14
CHoccolaTE:


@bold,

No be una say women should also be breadwinner like men if women no provide then they are liabilities?
Are you men not the ones saying women should not depend on men for money and stop being leeches? So now you are saying the same women should not chase wealth like men but should focus on being mothers.

The whole premise of stingy men association is because men refuse to spend on women because they believe women should work for themselves.

Nobody is encouraging prostitution but saying women should not chase wealth like men is so stupid and idiotic because the have nobody to depend on but themselves

You males started insulting them for focusing on home building instead of hustling.
no one is saying women should not chase wealth. what we are saying is dont be opening pussy abyhow while chasing wealth, dont be opening profile on codedruns to get paid 10k for short time to chase wealth, dont be fucking upandan for promotion in your office. dont be sucking preek because u want me to open an account in your bank. do you grab it now? cool ...the stngy men association is more about men not agreeing to be paying girls because of pussy.

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by lefulefu(m): 1:22pm On Jan 14
Church is the wrongest place to be searching for a good woman
Most of them don become side chicks or Bleep buddies to their pastor cheesy
A girl who has a loyal trait in her and is not materialistic has a higher chance of not being materialistic
Search for such girls
Girls wey money no dey freak or material things no dey freak can make great partners.na materialism dey make most ladies dey prostitute themselves.but then u urself should also upgrade and make urself a better man.
U can't be d type of man who visits brothels all week round and get infected with one std and the other and u spend d remainder of ur money on gambling and u are looking for a good woman grin

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Leshurr(f): 1:23pm On Jan 14
Sixfeetbelle:


Imagine!

Wife material is submissive, decent, virgin, independent while Husband material is a guy who can provide a roof over our heads.

Going by your definition, I think it's better I marry my father. After all, he provided a roof over my head.

Please go ahead and do so. You'll be doing someone's son a huge favour!

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by lefulefu(m): 1:32pm On Jan 14
RisenPhoenix1:


Church is now also a wrong place?
church is a very wrong place these days.most of them in the church are just pretending.dont be fooled by the long skirts and no makeup.with all the crazy things wey we dey hear pastors dey do with their female members both married and single why would a man be hoping to get a good girl dere.imagine every decision u have to make with ur wife she will be telling u that she has to consult her pastor first.na relationship be dat? cheesy

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Princeofasia: 1:33pm On Jan 14
lefulefu:
Church is the wrongest place to be searching for a good woman
Most of them don become side chicks or Bleep buddies to their pastor cheesy
A girl who has a loyal trait in her and is not materialistic has a higher chance of not being materialistic
Search for such girls
Girls wey money no dey freak or material things no dey freak can make great partners.na materialism dey make most ladies dey prostitute themselves.but then u urself should also upgrade and make urself a better man.
U can't be d type of man who visits brothels all week round and get infected with one std and the other and u spend d remainder of ur money on gambling and u are looking for a good woman grin
grin ths is finishing
Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by lefulefu(m): 1:36pm On Jan 14
Princeofasia:
grin ths is finishing
grin just saying d truth.any girl dat won't finish a sentence without mentioning pastor dis or daddy dat abeg run from such girls.if her pastor hates u or has a sexual interest in her all d pastor need do is just tell her he had a vision from God and God told him dat u are an agent of destruction or dat u a cousin to satan or whatever
Very simple cheesy

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by CHoccolaTE(m): 1:38pm On Jan 14
Princeofasia:
no one is saying women should not chase wealth. what we are saying is dont be opening pussy abyhow while chasing wealth, dont be opening profile on codedruns to get paid 10k for short time to chase wealth, dont be fucking upandan for promotion in your office. dont be sucking preek because u want me to open an account in your bank. do you grab it now? cool ...the stngy men association is more about men not agreeing to be paying girls because of pussy.

Actually the guy I quoted was complaining that women are taking hustling more seriously than motherhood.
He complained of women's liberation and said women's freedom should be restricted, that's why I addressed him like that.


You nairaland men should once in a while address your fellow males, no be everytime complain of woman. Tell men to stop being yahoo boys and thieves and rapists.
Tell them to stop kidnapping and armed robbery.

No be to dey complain 24/7 because some women are prostitutes that want your money.

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by lefulefu(m): 1:41pm On Jan 14
chinchonglee:

I was i to knw she is married?
many married ladies now pass demselves as single.dont know why.at least a married man who cheats would let his side chick know he is married
Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Princeofasia: 1:47pm On Jan 14
CHoccolaTE:


Actually the guy I quoted was complaining that women are taking hustling more seriously than motherhood.
He complained of women's liberation and said women's freedom should be restricted, that's why I addressed him like that.


You nairaland men should once in a while address your fellow males, no be everytime complain of woman. Tell men to stop being yahoo boys and thieves and rapists.
Tell them to stop kidnapping and armed robbery.

No be to dey complain 24/7 because some women are prostitutes that want your money.
the things you mentioned are social vices. it has nothing to do with the man actual behaviour with the woman. yes those things are wrong but it really has nothing to do with the family. emoney and the rest na yahoo boys but they still put their family first. we are talking of things that affect the family directly. prostitution , adultery is major

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Sixfeetbelle: 2:11pm On Jan 14
Leshurr:


Please go ahead and do so. You'll be doing someone's son a huge favour!

You saw the folly in your comment, hence this clapback. As if a man's job is only in providing a roof over women's head.

If you'll be contented being married to a man who provides only a roof over your head, I won't be.

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by RisenPhoenix1(m): 2:14pm On Jan 14
Personally, I would never dictate to anyone how they should live their lives or how to make their money. Prostitution? Ok by me. Short time, long time, tdb? I don't care. My grouse is with women when they pretend. If you are a prostitute and you're proud, out with it. Why would you say that you are a virgin? That is my only bone of contention with the modern woman. They pretend far too much.

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Mywd: 2:14pm On Jan 14
Princeofasia:
bro na VI i dey live now. i am talking of the very high brow part o. u will see a girl that u think is decent. make small findings and u go see say na proper olosho. abi na the ones wey their papa get money? those ones just Bleep anyting for satisfaction. abi na the self made ones, those one bleeped their way to the top and will still keep fucking their way to stay there. even my cousins wey i dey destroy with cash, when i mean cash i mean cash wey be say even if them hustle them no go ever make am, but i go still dey see them dey display olosho tendencies. this whole thing is looking like 99% of naija girls are oloshos . our mother excluded. still waiting to be proved wrong

Naso ooo

Bros make ah send my aza?? Make u too spoil me this January grin
Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by CHoccolaTE(m): 2:21pm On Jan 14
Princeofasia:
the things you mentioned are social vices. it has nothing to do with the man actual behaviour with the woman. yes those things are wrong but it really has nothing to do with the family. emoney and the rest na yahoo boys but they still put their family first. we are talking of things that affect the family directly. prostitution , adultery is major
Social vices also affect families, are happy families not attacked by armed robbers and kidnappers? Or rapists?

And yahoo boys/criminals also put their families at risk, if they get arrested or killed their kids grow up fatherless and the people they scam can target their wife or children for revenge.

You people should start threads to caution your fellow men.

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Leshurr(f): 2:23pm On Jan 14
Sixfeetbelle:


You saw the folly in your comment, hence this clapback. As if a man's job is only in providing a roof over women's head.

If you'll be contented being married to a man who provides only a roof over your head, I won't be.

So in order words, you are incapable of providing a roof over your own head grin
she knows all the responsibilities of a man yet is clueless on her own responsibilities.
Continue to sit in your father's (a man, not your mother's) house okay, and be waiting for an imaginary knight in shiny armour who would give you the world.
All the best!

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Sixfeetbelle: 2:25pm On Jan 14
Leshurr:


So in order words, you are incapable of providing a roof over your own head grin
she knows all the responsibilities of a man yet is clueless on her own responsibilities.
Continue to sit in your father's (a man, not your mother's) house okay, and be waiting for an imaginary knight in shiny armour who would give you the world.
All the best!


For ladies that can provide roof over their heads, what will the man provide?

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Leshurr(f): 2:25pm On Jan 14
Sixfeetbelle:


For ladies that can provide roof over their heads, what will the man provide?

You said with your own mouth that providing is not a man's only job. So you tell me!

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Re: No Wife Material In Naija Again by Sixfeetbelle: 2:26pm On Jan 14
Leshurr:


You said with your own mouth that providing is not a man's only job. So you tell me!

I'm challenging your point with this question. Don't go off and spin it on me. Answer my question

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