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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by wizdomnzube(m): 10:14pm On Jan 13
This is an eye opener for those simps out there. Even if they read this some of them will still choose a pussy over blood, they can't help it.

Mods, please move this piece go front page make men learn one or two.

#BloodOverPussy!

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by chinecherem97974: 10:34pm On Jan 13
:She stingy to her own mama lmao that means Kobe Bryant parents no get hope be that
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by ChangedMan1999(m): 4:06am On Jan 14
Make I delete all his pics wey I get for phone.

This thing is annoying.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by lkillbrokehoes: 4:36am On Jan 14
That's what happens when you marry a selfish gold digging hoe, nothing! I repeat nothing can make me stay or ignore my parents that gave me the best life, nothing! thank God my woman isn't that kind of person and my parents like her and have accepted her even though we are from a different time zone, she even gifts my parents alot of things, Kobe messed up, no matter what. you can't sieve your family out of your life, they made you what you are, they supported you when you were little, I'm obviously sure he must be regretting his decision wherever he is

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Azyne(f): 7:24am On Jan 14
Kapilta:
It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.

They were all against him not minding what that meant to him, they was selfish thinking only what makes them happy while his own joy and happiness matters not to them.


Vanessa and her mother inheriting his estate is their loss not his afterall he's dead now. They put him in that position to start with. And last i checked it wasn't Vanessa that killed Kobe neither is she the reason he died without a will.


Till you get kids

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Divoc19(f): 7:31am On Jan 14
smiley Stubborn girls humble because you are matured and you treat them nicely.

tyup:
The end of Simps are always terrible and very Brutally filled with Regrets

I feel like meeting girls like this to teach them a good bitter lessons but Destiny keeps directing the gentle ones my way, the ones that seem stubborn are always humbled when we get together. it's sickening
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Karleb(m): 7:33am On Jan 14
You made a statement on Kobe but that P Square saga was family's fault.

Family are supposed to support you. Paul didn't turn his back on his family rather they turned against him.
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by femi4: 7:40am On Jan 14
BlackMamba69:


Ok mr self righteous. Please make sure you keep this same energy when you are old & frail and your children tell you that they owe you nothing!! after all, there is no book of law that mandates them to take care of you.
That way, you can happily die alone without ever reaping the benefits of training a child.
Poor African mentality

Proverbs 13:22: A good man leaves an inheritance to his children's children,
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by tyup(m): 8:18am On Jan 14
Kapilta:
how was he a simp? Cuz he choosed his own happiness? The problem with many of you lots is that you don't know that happiness is much more than wealth. That was all that he wanted, how hard could it be for his family to support him in what makes him happy just because of their hatred towards white. Nonsense.

Did you say Happy? if Dead bodies can feel or talk you think he'd be happy rn with what has happened?? That ain't happiness it's foolishness

imagine turning ur back against ur family cuz of a LovePeddler. it's quite thrilling

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Brunosamel(m): 8:29am On Jan 14
Kapilta:
It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.

They were all against him not minding what that meant to him, they was selfish thinking only what makes them happy while his own joy and happiness matters not to them.


Vanessa and her mother inheriting his estate is their loss not his afterall he's dead now. They put him in that position to start with. And last i checked it wasn't Vanessa that killed Kobe neither is she the reason he died without a will.
you be mumu if you like don't take care of your own parents when they get old, your children will still abandon your sorry ass... Simp

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by ImaIma1(f): 8:50am On Jan 14
The moral of the story is...don't abandon or cut off your family for any reason whether for a husband, wife, career, lifestyle, etc.

And it is not peculiar to men. Women also marry bad husbands and cut off from their families and pay dearly for it.

"Non-simps" just like to carry this kind of matter on their heads.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Leshurr(f): 9:11am On Jan 14
ImaIma1:
The moral of the story is...don't abandon or cut off your family for any reason whether for a husband, wife, career, lifestyle, etc.

And it is not peculiar to men. Women also marry bad husbands and cut off from their families and pay dearly for it.

"Non-simps" just like to carry this kind of matter on their heads.

Here we go again .. they must surely turn this into a male gender bashing debate.
How many times has a highly successful woman cut off her own family to support her husband's own? Stop reaching! undecided

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Valkan(m): 9:25am On Jan 14
Kapilta:
It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.

They were all against him not minding what that meant to him, they was selfish thinking only what makes them happy while his own joy and happiness matters not to them.
pity
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by mabea: 9:43am On Jan 14
Kapilta:
It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.

They were all against him not minding what that meant to him, they was selfish thinking only what makes them happy while his own joy and happiness matters not to them.


Vanessa and her mother inheriting his estate is their loss not his afterall he's dead now. They put him in that position to start with. And last i checked it wasn't Vanessa that killed Kobe neither is she the reason he died without a will.
Feel so sorry for your parents

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by dodoisk(m): 10:00am On Jan 14
Kapilta:
It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.

They were all against him not minding what that meant to him, they was selfish thinking only what makes them happy while his own joy and happiness matters not to them.


Vanessa and her mother inheriting his estate is their loss not his afterall he's dead now. They put him in that position to start with. And last i checked it wasn't Vanessa that killed Kobe neither is she the reason he died without a will.
u lack wisdom

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Amarachibaby(f): 10:06am On Jan 14
[quote author=Kapilta post=98024360]It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.

They were all against him not minding what that meant to him, they was selfish thinking only what makes them happy while his own joy and happiness matters not to them.


Vanessa and her mother inheriting his estate is their loss not his afterall he's dead now. They put him in that position to start with. And last i checked it wasn't Vanessa that killed Kobe neither is she the reason he died without a will.[/quote:what a pity. You are a disgrace pukes
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by ImaIma1(f): 10:53am On Jan 14
Leshurr:

Here we go again .. they must surely turn this into a male bashing gender debate.
How many times has a highly successful woman cut off her own family to support her husband's own? Stop reaching! undecided


Because you only keep your ears open for the cases of the men
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Regex: 11:43am On Jan 14
Kapilta:
It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.

They were all against him not minding what that meant to him, they was selfish thinking only what makes them happy while his own joy and happiness matters not to them.


Vanessa and her mother inheriting his estate is their loss not his afterall he's dead now. They put him in that position to start with. And last i checked it wasn't Vanessa that killed Kobe neither is she the reason he died without a will.

It isn't really about training your kids to look after you when you are old or whatever you have up their in your comment. A successful man knows that he will never put himself against his family.

A man's enemy is from his household does not just mean your enemy will come from your family. It also means that the worst kind of enemy is your family. You don't have to create an enmity with your family over a person (male of female) you just met.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Regex: 11:43am On Jan 14
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by jesmond3945: 12:08pm On Jan 14
BlackMamba69:
The Sad Tale of Kobe Bryant
Don't let his sportsmanship and great achievements fool you, Kobe Bryant is the biggest Simp there is and I'll explain to you why:
Kobe made a grave mistake when he chose to ostracize his parents simply because of their disapproval of Vanessa as his wife. They didn't want him marrying a white woman yet he went ahead and married her.
The wedding was a desolate, solemn and underwhelming event as only few of Vanessa's family members where in attendance. Kobe married Vanessa alone without the presence of any of his own family members. Not even his team mates were in attendance (thats to tell you the extent of the lack of support he had). Everybody around him knew he was making the mistake of his life.
After the wedding, Kobe went ahead and cut his parents off financially (some have speculated this was under the coercion of his wife) so as he ditched his own parents and siblings, he decided to embrace Vanessa's family, even learning Spanish in order to communicate better with them.. he also spared no expense in financing the flamboyant lifestyle of Vanessa's greedy and wicked mother while his own parents suffered so much lack that they resulted to sell his memorabilia for money - of which Kobe sued his parents to court for it. He showed total lack of care and support towards his own parents who raised him and helped made him who he became - until his death. All because: they did not approve of his choice of spouse.
After Kobe's unfortunate demise, the world looked on and watched how Kobe's parents were snubbed at his funeral. Nobody acknowledged them and they were brushed off to the side - his wife made sure of this.
Kobe's ENTIRE estate has now been left to his Vanessa and trust me, none of his family members will get a cut out of it since he married Vanessa with no prenup and had no will before his demise.
What has become of Kobe's legacy is the fact that two white women (Vanessa and her greedy mother) are now at war with each other on how to share the sweat of a black man while his own parents are left with nothing.
kobe fought his racist parents, that's what a good man does. I know the consequences of a hateful and prejudiced parent.
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by jesmond3945: 12:09pm On Jan 14
lkillbrokehoes:
That's what happens when you marry a selfish gold digging hoe, nothing! I repeat nothing can make me stay or ignore my parents that gave me the best life, nothing! thank God my woman isn't that kind of person and my parents like her and have accepted her even though we are from a different time zone, she even gifts my parents alot of things, Kobe messed up, no matter what. you can't sieve your family out of your life, they made you what you are, they supported you when you were little, I'm obviously sure he must be regretting his decision wherever he is
even when your parent are racist?
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by ceeceeuwa: 12:13pm On Jan 14
BlackMamba69:
Notable mention: Peter (Psquare)
Peter went ahead and married a woman that his late mother didn't approve off (Lola) and this eventually led to him becoming ostracized from his blood brothers at the expense of breaking up a very lucrative musical duo -Psquare.
As a result of this, Peter will forever be stuck at the mercy of his wife - he must remain loyal and subservient to her and she knows this, whatever shiit she gives him to chop he must chop it silently and still come out to praise his wife on social media in a desperate bid to hold on to his marriage irrespective of whatever hell he must be facing at home lipsrsealed This is why you will often find Peter unceremoniously blowing his wife's trumpet on social media - empty barrels they say, make the loudest noise. Don't be surprised if the reality of their marriage is a sad miserable one which Peter desperately holds on to #smokesandmirrors.

Moral of the story: The worst mistake a man can make is to choose a woman over your own blood relatives. A woman can divorce you at anytime, a woman can cheat on you and even bring home bastards for you to raise and even if she doesn't do the above, the man will find that he has to work twice as hard to make sure his marriage doesn't collapse - if not, he will loose on both sides.
Cry me an ocean! Leave people to live their lives
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by jesmond3945: 12:14pm On Jan 14
BlackMamba69:
Notable mention: Peter (Psquare)
Peter went ahead and married a woman that his late mother didn't approve off (Lola) and this eventually led to him becoming ostracized from his blood brothers at the expense of breaking up a very lucrative musical duo -Psquare.
As a result of this, Peter will forever be stuck at the mercy of his wife - he must remain loyal and subservient to her and she knows this, whatever shiit she gives him to chop he must chop it silently and still come out to praise his wife on social media in a desperate bid to hold on to his marriage irrespective of whatever hell he must be facing at home lipsrsealed This is why you will often find Peter unceremoniously blowing his wife's trumpet on social media - empty barrels they say, make the loudest noise. Don't be surprised if the reality of their marriage is a sad miserable one which Peter desperately holds on to #smokesandmirrors.

Moral of the story: The worst mistake a man can make is to choose a woman over your own blood relatives. A woman can divorce you at anytime, a woman can cheat on you and even bring home bastards for you to raise and even if she doesn't do the above, the man will find that he has to work twice as hard to make sure his marriage doesn't collapse - if not, he will loose on both sides.
wouldn't you want your sister to marry a man like peter?
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by jesmond3945: 12:15pm On Jan 14
tyup:
The end of Simps are always terrible and very Brutally filled with Regrets

I feel like meeting girls like this to teach them a good bitter lessons but Destiny keeps directing the gentle ones my way, the ones that seem stubborn are always humbled when we get together. it's sickening
would you be were you are today if your dad didn't treat your mum right?
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by jesmond3945: 12:15pm On Jan 14
Kapilta:
It's not written in any book of law that every child (yours or not) you raise must return the favour after. And just because you raised a child doesn't mean he/she has to live for you. He/She got a life to live too. The ealier some parents know this, the better. Just because they your kids doesn't mean you have to dictate their everyday life, you had your fair share, you are the guard for a very long time and those period was enough for you to help them know what's good or bad in life for their own good and not yours.

They were all against him not minding what that meant to him, they was selfish thinking only what makes them happy while his own joy and happiness matters not to them.


Vanessa and her mother inheriting his estate is their loss not his afterall he's dead now. They put him in that position to start with. And last i checked it wasn't Vanessa that killed Kobe neither is she the reason he died without a will.
the only person that made sense
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Sixfeetbelle: 12:16pm On Jan 14
BlackMamba69:


Ok mr self righteous. Please make sure you keep this same energy when you are old & frail and your children tell you that they owe you nothing!! after all, there is no book of law that mandates them to take care of you.
That way, you can happily die alone without ever reaping the benefits of training a child.

Would you have preferred to hear Kobe died of depression after being married to a woman his parents chose for him but he didn't like? Is that what you would have wanted for him?

Only a simp lets others dictate for him how to live his life. A real man makes decisions and stands by it cause he knows his happiness is more important than others.
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by jesmond3945: 12:20pm On Jan 14
Fuckyoumod:
only two things can make you post this trash.

1. Its either you are a product of very terrible and poor parenting with no love from your father or mother.
2. Or you are just a bastard child who grew up with in the mist of separation and had no care.

For those of us that got all the love, care and scarifies from our both parents while growing up, even till date the love is unending, which might not be necessarily all the money in the world, can never in our life time allow a woman separate us from our parents beloved parents.

Our wives should be a uniting force not an agent of division.
yea you are right but at the same time how would you feel to loose the woman you love because of your parents? Are you telling you have never loved a woman with all your being before?
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Bigfish121(m): 2:17pm On Jan 14
Someone like me that lost his father 22 years ago and it is only my mom that has been there for me.she decided not to remarry because feels we might not like the man.you expect person like me to now forsake my mom for my wife.that is not going to work at all.like I always I am going to get married because I don't want my children to be called bastards.if she misbehaves,I send her packing.
No stress.

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by juniorstar(m): 3:21pm On Jan 14
no mercy for SIMPs cos they deserve what they get either now or in future!

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by ImaIma1(f): 4:20pm On Jan 14
Leshurr:

Here we go again .. they must surely turn this into a male gender bashing debate.
How many times has a highly successful woman cut off her own family to support her husband's own? Stop reaching! undecided


But it's ok for it to be a female gender bashing debate?
Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by Leshurr(f): 4:25pm On Jan 14
ImaIma1:


Because you only keep your ears open for the cases of the men
ImaIma1:

But it's ok for it to be a female gender bashing debate?

Why have you quoted me twice on the same post? undecided
You will be the third girl on my matter today .. lol Na by force to bash men with una?

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Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Chooses A Woman (his Wife) Over His Own Family by lkillbrokehoes: 4:36pm On Jan 14
Sixfeetbelle:


Would you have preferred to hear Kobe died of depression after being married to a woman his parents chose for him but he didn't like? Is that what you would have wanted for him?

Only a simp lets others dictate for him how to live his life. A real man makes decisions and stands by it cause he knows his happiness is more important than others.
Shut it there, Kobe was never a real man, he was a big simp controlled by one greedy Latina hoe and her mother, I don't know why you have never made any sense in your life, jeez!

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