₦airaland Forum

Goke7:
You go pay walai shebi Una wan drive people comot, when the pm Dey increase everything Una no say the man get plans? 😂 where e wan see money take care of una

You include for this una o........ 🤣😁

Tier4Dependant:
I have been following your posts regarding this matter. You are always so sure it won’t be applicable to existing skilled worker visa holders. Is there sth you are not telling us? Bros I no trust you ooo abi you dey chill with Home Secretary lowkey

People go on tiktok live, X spaces etc etc, thinking if they only spoke their local dialects, they are safe or within a safe space ......

They are forgetting that our children are employed within decision making sectors, who would infiltrate this discussion forums and feedback their employers....... 😁😊

ahmedio2017:
I just hope they didn't implement that yeye proposals

They would unfortunately, go ahead with implementation...... Let's just hope people have the shoulders, to bear the impact.......

Tier4Dependant:
I have been following your posts regarding this matter. You are always so sure it won’t be applicable to existing skilled worker visa holders. Is there sth you are not telling us? Bros I no trust you ooo abi you dey chill with Home Secretary lowkey

I am simply going by precedent implementations, from previous shift in legislations....... The government are simply looking at influx of people, that would automatically have automatic rights to public funds + considering their own children, that prefer the welfare state, against seeking employment.........😉😂

The financial burden would become unbearable for the state, hence trying to use a change/shift in legislation, to dial back the forseen impact(affecting all) ........ 🤣

Goke7:
We go block you for that tunnel wey you Dey pass regularly by the time they implement the changes 😜 Dey play!

All those on old policies, would be ring fenced (so una guide)...... 😂💍😉

I no gree pass through blackwall tunnel again, since una mayor don implement new tunnel tax..... 😂🤣

Akorkor:
https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/727360

This petition is probably not required..... Simply because the proposed changes, would ONLY be applicable to new applications (assuming law is passed)...... 😊😁

apprentist:
Hello Guys, let me first of all say the cliché "It is well".

Now let we start.
I met my wife years back just before the COVID-19 year during which we dated for almost a year and then eventually got married just when the lock down was reducing. I started this story this way because I wanted to emphasis that during that period, we had so much time to bond and she was mostly available to me as she only worked on shifts 2 to 3 days per week.
We could sit and talk for long, go out at late nights and have great s*x as frequently as we needed.

This I think gave me a mirage of an anticipated marriage life so I didn't hesitate to take it a step further ones the lockdown was relaxed.
I also made it clear to her that her job would have to give way when their kids start coming as I had plans to assist her further her edu and also put up a biz for her.

Speed up to after COVID-19, she resumed work which till this day demands 5 days a week and 2 to 3 Saturdays per month all from 7:45am till 5pm. Often times she'd return home tired and would manage to make dinner and off to bed till the next day circle continues.
It became worse when we started having children. I drive them to school as early as 7:40am before dropping her off at her job. And then I'll pick them up by 5:30pm or 6pm when she's done with her job for the day (let me mention that this extends to public holidays and school holidays or breaks).

I got tired and in December 2025 I told her she has to quit the job. My plan was to enroll her back into a private school after my kids are Upto 4 years as one of them still depends on breast milk. I also gave her the option of starting a business which I understand is a dynamic move and might not be successful, but at this stage of my life it's something I could afford to risk and so I didn't mind.

I must also mention that out of a 100% sex, 50% is not mutual as I could sense she isn't interested and 40% is a denial as she would rather deny me of s*x with the excuse that she is tired.

Simply put, I'm tired.
I'm a Christian and divorce isn't an option. Also I can't cheat, but I am starved of s*x and my kids are not given the attention they deserve.
Pls advice me

Welcome to institute of marriage life..... NEVER ask a woman to quit her job, because of your selfish motives.......

Marriage is about compromises and sacrifices...... You can also cook and clean.....

Find ways to work around her work schedule.....

Are you more Christian than chris oyakhilome.... If he can go through divorce, who are you....... 😁😂

That girl from the account department, would probably be the first, to receive her P45....... 🤣😁😂

Amoke oge aka premium buka...... 😂😁

brine:
Has anyone here tried a dollar fund? My main concern with naira-based funds is the ongoing depreciation of the currency. I'm close to setting up a dollar fund with Gtfundmanagers. Any advice on this will be appreciated.

Depreciation in the currency, would be a concern, only if you intend to convert Naira2Pounds...... If you intend to spend the naira...... Zero concerns..... 😁🤣

Rather than gtfunds, why not invest with Nutmeg/Blackrock/Moneyfarm......

TouchOfSpice:
Hi Everyone.

Please i will like to seek your opinion , With the ongoing challenge regarding the proposed immigration policy,

Is now a good time for an immigrant currently on a Skilled work visa to consider buying a house (Prior to the release of the white paper, We had indicated interest in buying a house, our offer has been accepted and we have started the mortgage application process.

After the white paper release, I have started developing cold feet and reconsidering my deceision ,

What would you advise>

Thank you.

The law would not be retrospective..... Anyone on old route, benefits from older legislation......

Buy your house, YESTERDAY..... 😁🤣🏡

They are one...... 😁😂

Phayie:
You can try SFS Fund. They offer over 19% interest. I've been with them for over 2yrs
BUT PLEASE DO YOUR DUE DILIGENT
https://sfsfund.com

SFS don dey manage my account o...... 😂🤣

This our thread, is priceless...... 😆😂

This was the original masterplan....... 🤣😂🤣

Bottom line, NEVER trust family members in any business or partnership transactions..... 😁😂

Kewtt:
Surrogacy, egg donation.....

Do you know if they have the financial muscle, to undertake such commitments.....

Not forgetting emotional attachments, if they divorced and married another, they would not have to undergo this unnecessary expenses.......

Kewtt:
No. There are other solutions.

Like what other solutions and cost for the solutions..........

Jamesclooney:
Top tier comment!

I laugh when I see comments on X or IG saying Nigerians should consider other European countries with “free” tuition etc. Asides language barrier, economic opportunities are scarce.

Last last, we all have to return home to Naija, one way or the other. No visa required.

You would be going alone...... 😁😂😊

justwise:
I will consider Branch but if the process is anything like Armone then I will not bother

SFS, on tow..... 😂😁

Phayie:
You can try SFS Fund. They offer over 19% interest. I've been with them for over 2yrs
BUT PLEASE DO YOUR DUE DILIGENT
https://sfsfund.com

Made an initial deposit into sfs, let's see how it goes...... 😁😊

Unfortunately, if you want more children, separation is the best solution.....

The possibility of you having another with AA or AS, is very likely.....

But the impending risk of another child that is SS is REAL.....

HAVE A DISCUSSION WITH YOUR WIFE!!!

Their mama can plead on her behalf........ 😁😊😂

He thought he was invisible...... 😁🤣😂💭

Mrphilia:
I just left the Qatar Airways office and they called their check-in desk at the airport and they said there wouldn't be any issues boarding me since I will be entering the UK when my visa is valid that's the most important aspect.

Thanks everyone for your help.

Cool. That kills the matter.... Enjoy your flight..... ✈️😂

justwise:
I will consider Branch but if the process is anything like Armone then I will not bother

Registered with SFS Fund, about to send lawma bill, to fulfill KYC..... Let's see if SFS is better than ARM (regarding KYC process).... 🤣😂

Mrphilia:
Okay I will go to their office today and confirm.

Pls, update us on response..... 👌☀️

Viruses:
Exactly, I'm just reading all the comments.

If we all get ILR today, besides benefits that we shouldn't plan our lives around, what else is there. I really do not see any difference between how I live my life now and how I will live it post ILR. Everything I would do as a citizen I'm already doing.

The major issue I see is renewal fees and limited choice in changing jobs/career which could lead to exploitation and dissatisfaction.

Not forgetting, assess the public funds...... 😁🤣😂

Omotaday:
All these english On top simple question wey person ask.

Negate first leg? Na champions league?

Mrphilia, I don’t think you’d have any issue. As long as you have a valid visa. You can lay over in Doha, Qatar as a first timer going to the UK.

Speaking from experience.

Was your flight Qatar Airlines..... I would ask questions before the day, than risk refused boarding.......

bigtt76:
Yea its a good move. I also have spread across FGN Savings, MMF and Stocks all on ARM basket though 😂

Nigerian holidays spending money, MUST be generated from Nigeria....... 🤑🇳🇬😂

bigtt76:
🤣🤣🤣 make I no over-flog the matter con turn CBEX oo, if Branch works for you fine but you get more than N3k on same amount per day which in a week would x2 what you get from Branch 😂

Looking to moving some funds, at the same time not putting all my eggs in one basket........ 🥚😂😁

Phayie:
You can try SFS Fund. They offer over 19% interest. I've been with them for over 2yrs
BUT PLEASE DO YOUR DUE DILIGENT
https://sfsfund.com

Would look into sfs, since arm yanga too much....... 😂🤣

Mrphilia:
So you think I will have an issue boarding. Maybe I should go to the Qatar airways office tomorrow morning to enquire. Do you think that good enough?

Your visa for the UK is not valid, at the time of boarding.....

Considering your Qatar stop, would not negate the first leg.......