₦airaland Forum

SisterCaro:
oh gosh now you are confusing femininity for feminism. Please look up the difference between the 2? Ignorancd is the father of all evil.

Beyonce Knowles and Chimamanda Adichies are sucessful married women and they believe in equality for women. Both possess feminine characters, now you why you need to revisit your dictionary to get things straight. If feminism was for the weak i doubt the influence they have in world would be what it is today.

It is only to average Nigerian men that being treated equally with a woman amounts to disobdience. If you are secure with yourself you would see it as 2 people complimenting each other.

FTBOY:
dinachi and lezz...did u read my post?

VictoriaBee:
You keep reiterating old shitt.

What of non-cheating husband that doesn't have a problem with feminism?


Feminism isn't opposite of what you wrote here.


And I thought it's the work of a man.
Church is the bride of Christ and Christ is the head.
All the afore-listed are works of Christ not Church.


Because you said so?


You think being a feminist is just a name?
News flash: Prostitutess and Slutss aren't feminist and i'm sure they are your definition of an ideal woman.

SisterCaro:
call me a pessimist and a coward but in reality we all see the number of distressed wives who do everything in the good book but still have a cheating or abusive or negligent husband. I speak from what i see, i dont talk simply to make myself appear "like a strong character" and avoid whats really happening out there. Unless you want to delude us with the idea that these things are really not happening in real marriages?

I have made my point, however you see me for it will not make me lose sleep at night.

funlord:


Don't mind the cretinous lying vampire! She's a single, idumota hag that prolly lives in "brooklyn oshodi"! Just tak a look @ her d.p and posts! I've buried her carcass after exposing her 4 the fraud she is! _Fuck that carpet munching ho! She is gods only mistake!

funlord:
Oh lord? As usual and with perfect timing Your stupidity has risen to the zenith of the thread once again! I think you should just change your moniker to "MRS ARITHMETIC", because you only "add trouble, subtract pleasure, divide attention, and multiply ignorance on a daily basis on nairaland"!

Darkrebel666:
let's forget the issue of older men before it escalates to something unpalatable.

•come on woman, you seriouslydid women possess higher IQs than the males? is this a joke or what? .
I know there are exceptional women but on an average scale,the males are known to possess higher I.Qs.

you can venture into a personal research.
only Marilyn Monroe had the highest recorded [she had an I.Q of 168 or so]

even a certain serial killer Nathan Leopold possessed a recorded I.Q of 210. a male serial killer had an I.Q that bested that of the iconic woman seen as the paradigm for other women.
women should cover their faces in shame with their butter-fingers abeg

like Nas said - read more, learn more, change the globe.
he didn't say gossip & watch keeping up with the Kardashians ✘

funlord:


Leave the vacuous pre teen! She does not yet know that she is stuck in the matrix!

VictoriaBee:
Ishilove, he has started posting pictures of women being oppressed again after the last warning on derailer paradise.

lolaredvelvet:
Abeg, chop knuckle my brother. She even went as far as researching all my past posts just to look for opportunity to insult me.. I'm flattered by her determination

lolaredvelvet:
LOL.. she's been crying out for my attention since I posted on this thread.. quoting me, taking jabs etc... pained coz I don't argue with teenagers..

winner01:

KcMark:

We both (and everyone inclusive) know I am king when it comes to hurling the most scathing invectives but tonight I won't.

Stop being coy. Don't deviate from the question. Your decoy has been upended.

MRSCHIMA, CHIMA defines you doesn't he? You even chose a moniker with his name 'cause you think being married to CHIMA ( A MAN) elevates you to a higher societal stratum, adds value to you and makes you respectable?

Pray tell, why MRSCHIMA? Why not Tonia, Liza, Laide or Edith?

Cc: Ronald4lif

winner01:
it would be safe to say that lolaredvelvet is older and more mature than most ladies here.,...dese young girls dont know wat they want yet...

SisterCaro:
Dont think like im saying this will happen to you. But i have come across women who gloat over their marriage like its their best achievement but things take a wrong turn down the lane.

I have a friend married to a good christian brother who follows the Lord. She is a good christian as well. My only problem was he was asking out other women before they even clocked 1year. These women include myself and my cousin. I dont date married men and i have never made myself appear easy to approach.

Its not all women who act like women that let their men be a man that get a good husband. You still have a lot to learn about life.

Moana:
please are you a feminist? you sound like just the way you described them

DictatorZAR:
Ok the monkey got a cheap phone now he thinks he can argue with humans.

What was the percentage of access to basic services pre 1994 less then 30% of the entire country.

Secondly how big was the economy in pre 1994 compared to now.

Its funny how you fools talk about load shedding yet you have less then 20% of South Africa's entire electricity production even under load shedding you still have less power only stinking generators.

For over 60 years Nigeria still don't have a functional railway nor even a world class airport.
Now please go to your romance section, and while you at it go fetch water from your bore hole its getting late, my little waterway sh@it.

Oooops is this what a giant should do after 60 years of independence.

Lezz is this you

http://www.bellanaija.com/2014/11/05/unicef-says-49-million-nigerians-still-defecate-openly/

FighterPilot:
I will need to take you to this hospital for your psychiatric problem.

http://mobi.iol.co.za/#!/article/new-hospital-for-khayelitsha-1.1215326

FighterPilot:
Lezz, you just have to admit that your mind is still stuck to SA of the past not the current SA driven by ANC with its radical infrastructural development policies.

FighterPilot:
Believe it or not Khayelitsha has transformed. They have train stations, Bus stations, Shopping malls, tarred roads, Free housing programmes, sport centres, etc. All of which are still a dream in Nigerian cities.


However, let us not elongate this topic and concentrate on who has the ………………

FighterPilot:
Jezz, do you mean Khayelitsha has now turned so better that you won't even recognise it?

http://dirt.asla.org/2014/05/01/in-cape-town-urban-design-reduces-violence/

Mynd44:
It is quite amusing when the OP says a group of people are angry and frustrated yet he is the one who opened a thread to rant and blab.

They are rude, bias, disrespectful, delusional, naive etc yet it is a non-feminist (lezz) who has shown how angry he/she is.

This world is just somehow. But as Black Magic said "Based on the Chi"

Mynd44:
High on Otuoke grade again weed I see

Mynd44:
Am I a "feminist"? Yes

Is the OP right? No

Do I care? You guessed right


*keeps sipping P-juice*

5minsmadness:
Feminism as word has been viewed with much hatred by male and female folk alike even though the feminist movement is supposed to be a noble cause i.e fighting gender discrimination.

So what has caused such strong animosity between feminists and other sane individuals? I think females who exhibit feminism to the extreme are to blame and they usually have the following characteristics :

1. Extremely rude. One cannot hold a reasonable discussion with these feminists without it turning to an insult fest especially when the other respondent is male.

2. Disrespectful. Just because you are a feminist doesn't mean you should be rude to others around you.

3. Man hating. Anything to do with the male folk they are immediately up in arms about it. Everything about men is bad. Except for thier brothers, fathers and husbands.

4. Biased. As long as it's an argument/fight concerning a man and a woman such feminists will always support the woman even if what she did was totally wrong.

5. Delusional towards themselves and society. They believe a single mother or divorced woman is more appealing to the male folk than women without any excess baggage. They are ready to defend this anywhere since it falls in line with a woman being empowered and able to leave a marriage at anytime.

6. Anti-marriage. They don't believe in making marriage work. Once the man is giving you a little stress it's time to pack up and leave. Marriage is not a loving union to them, rather it is slavery. Divorce is the solution to every little problem. And thier mantra is they will be happy when divorced. This is a blatant lie but they would want to believe it with all thier heart.

7. Anti-christ. Of course since Christianity used that terrible phrase "submit to your husbands" they have been crying foul. Many of them would rather turn atheist than follow this simple principle of leadership i.e a follower must submit to a leader. They would rather deceive themselves by saying they are a "team" and taking decisions "jointly."

8. Seeing evil in everything male. They make Hasty generalizations with every male they come across. Any male that does not agree with the feminist view is a cheat, a slave master who sits in the parlour all day and drinks beer while his slave wife works in the kitchen, a wife beater or a rapist. This comes across as very infuriating and discouraging for the good men out there.

9 Naive/Young. Many of these rude hateful feminists have not really had any real life experiences. They just blab at things they can't do if they were the ones in the same situation.

10. They like using the word "Hypocrite", even though by their very actions they are the most hypocritical bunch of people.


Many other characters of nairaland feminists abound. You can add yours.

FighterPilot:
I WONDER IF MAKOKO LOOKS ANYTHING LIKE THIS.

KHAYELITSHA.

patches689:
lezz is a troll

Stop responding to him

FighterPilot:
Media sensationalism.

FighterPilot:
KHAYELISHA.

FighterPilot:
There is a clean running water and sewage system in Khayelisha and Makoko has zero of such amenities.

patches689:
Topic of the thread: Who has the strongest military on Africa

No one gives a flying fvck about your OPINION on socio-economic matters.