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Mimicle101:
I dont still understand you. But personally I would tell you there might be more advantage and fun when you are with your soul mate (wife) than when you try hard to avoid woman or relationship. Meanwhile I still think is almost impossible to even avoid woman.

I and you know that most of these same people who stil claim they are minding there business and avoid relationships do end up jumping from one skirt to another. So why not rather get a good head (lady) who would stick with you. You make and build that empire together and enjoy it together

I don't jump from skirts, never it is disgusting and goes against my persona, and a soul mate lol, with the bitches we have now, broke sluts, I rather live alone I get all my fun from games and movies solo events

Mimicle101:
The fun. Hahaha what fun bro. Do you mean like anothe mentioned playing video games or eating out or what. I need to understand please

Yes like the fun you get when you play game

CodeTemplar:
You see the problem with making it first is that :
1. Time waits for no one.
2. No condition is permanent. A rich man today can become not so rich tomorrow.
3. Life goes far far beyond money. A lady can even connect a skilled guy to good jobs and what matters most is attitude.
4. Character can negate wealth greatly. what if he turns up rich and loose.

Last last, money is only like 20% of the dating factor if both parties are going to be truthful about it. I am not saying money is useless but take it easy and realize money level is one of the few things that can easily change unlike character and attitude.

Life is all about money. Women are just pests you should avoid

Mimicle101:
Lightangel65

What if the guy never marry and absents from woman and still never made it (become)?

What then

The fun of avoiding women, it's good enough. What kind of question is this.

Liposure:
On a second thought. Who make dis guys go broke.is it not d same chicks who milk dem of their hard earned money.

.that's why leave bitches and focus on yourself

ezo4fta:
I dont blame anybody but the failed state called Nigeria. In western countries women dont rely on men to survive. They work they earn their own money. Women will even offer to pay the bills after an outing. That is why women have voice over there. But in the zoo(Nigeria ) where we found ourself the women expect the men to do everything for them. A man that provides everything for you can decide to treat you anyhow he likes because he is now like a small god over you. My advice to Nigerian girls: pls earn ur own money so that u will have respect. No man can use you as baby mama when u earn ur own money. No man will treat u anyhow. No man will call ur family poverty shrinking family. No man will tell you to pack out of his house.A word.

Very true

Slynation:
I code... But a man that can pay his bills and stay comfortable & live beyond his means shouldn't be tagged broke

That isn't broke, broke is when you can barely take care of yourself

OgogoroFreak:
What? You no dey release?? Nigga you gay!

So being cellibate makes you gay. Don't gay guys relese on men.
You are a sex addict

Slynation:
It's different strokes for different folks....
I have seen situations where marriages breaks barriers and bring forth financial breakthrough in the family....your spouse can be the key to unlock your financial freedom!!
So don't just wake up one day after eating Xmas rice and meat and be forming motivational speaker on social media by scaring away hustling men planning on getting married....

It's a priceless piece of advice to save you from much trouble and suffering you future kids

janettee:
Broke girls get married but broke guys aren't allowed to?, miss me with the BS!.

So you would nlove to marry a broke guy

[quote author=mykeni post=85339973][/quote]Ok, but men complain of broke ladies, the same men are the ones who still marry the broke ladies when they are rich

OgogoroFreak:
So him no go dey fvck? Is that even possible?

It's 100% possible I myself don't. There's more to life than sex

GoodGirl2021:
You don't even know me and you called me a slut... It doesn't even bother me cus I'm not like that.
Ve never slept with either of them..

Lol, it's just my natural dislike for women.

But go with the doctor, they don't cheat, the sex lover guy is likely to give you a problem filled fun marriage

ubunja:
personally I don't drink and I dont smoke. I also hate soccer and any sports. You do know if a man doesn't drink and smoke then pussy is his vice. And Neither do I watch TV. (bores me to death).

What of gaming and movies, there are fun things than pussy

ImaIma1:
Am I wrong about the bolded?

Men marry rich ladies also but my point is that a wealthy man marrying a jobless lady is very common. Some men even prefer it because they want a housewife that would be home to bring up the children.

Will you agree to be a house husband?

Lol,You are not wrong though.

ImaIma1:
Fortunately or unfortunately, it doesn't work that way. A man can marry a struggling lady and set her up with a job, business, etc. However, it doesn't work that way for men because they are seen as the major breadwinner. Besides, a man's pride won't let him

You and man's pride, I blame men who pay attention to women, life is short that are just waiting it away, leaving meaningful things like games and traveling.
Seems men make women lazy, if men start marrying rich ladies all these talks won't happen.

shotin:
I don't know why people carry woman matter for head like crayfish, hustle for yourself and be self made, women are wired to go for the highest bidder, that's the bitter truth... Broke guys are always on vexing mode ... Later they will say girls no wan date them because dem no get money, look at yourself pretty well, will you allow your immediate sisters to date a broke guy like you? The thing is make money and you will see girls are nothing, dem go dey flock you like lost sheep. Money is good bros... If not for anything at least for your unborn kids, Hustle ooooo.....

That's one point how would they feel if their sisters are dating broke niggers.

ubunja:
it's better to chase women. You cant fvck money.

Why do you guys like women so much there are other fun things in life, besides nothing good comes from them

GoodGirl2021:
That's harsh you know?

Same thing as calling someone gay.

If your boyfriend was banging two girls how would you feel. Think, won't you call him worse names,

GoodGirl2021:
Lightangel? Male? You are gay, you're a disgrace to men.

Yes and your dad was my boyfriend. Mugu

Later fools like this would be forming feminists, useless sluts that are meant to be swept in dustbins.

Wolgrace:
Weigh and choose based on what you want and desire from the depth of your secret heart. We cant decide for you, only God knows what's in your heart.

How to add a third guy to the circle she's a slut

Who made this thread doesn't understand all men. Just so you know there are men who hate women and sex. I keep wondering why would you leave games and movies for sex and women. I rather be single till old age than relate with womankind

How about cutting your dick off, try that one

GoodGirl2021:
Please guys, I need matured advice.

I'm 24 dating two men (I'm sorry but I just found myself in this situation). The first guy is a doctor and is God-fearing but he's not romantic at all, he behaves too official and is insensitive to emotions yet claims to love to me. He attributes this to his regimented childhood, I love this guy but I see a boring future with him...
And i heard doctors are serious flirts.. Should I leave him?

The second guy is 11years older than me, he's very funny, outgoing, mature, romantic but loves sex too much. Note that I've not met this guy b4, we met online and have been in touch for a year now. He has a kid whose mom is married already. He looks promising but loves attention too much and always disturbs me for sex video chats. I'm tired because I'm new to that and its really uncomfortable and disgusting.
Please what should I do?

You are a LovePeddler, keep disgracing women

ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz:
Finally stop seeking for relationship advise on nairaland if you love yourself because 80% of the advise you will get is just off point...

Especially in the family section when it comes to marriage or divorce

Don't take advises here except the ones where females are whores and gold diggers cause these ones are mostly true.

Victoronah1:
Is it possible to find a girl and marry from here. I'm saying this cause I saw a girl and I like her. But I don't know if her dp is real or not. I'll mention her name later today by 10am so you guys can check em out. Meanwhile is it advisable. I want a woman to marry and not date. Thanks

You can meet good or bad people here, no doesn't make someone special or not

Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?

People don't just reason, 50k is barely enough for you, you want to add fiancee, invest in yourself not in bitches. Get sense

puremaind:
Pls i am tired for single hood i want to settle down how can i get love of my life iam very serious those iam meeting are fake. Iam original igbo man. how can i get one

Girls are all fake, know that, what's bad in being single for life

Peemonny:
The most annoying thing on earth is to hear a senseless woman who is worth nothing, jobless hiding behind an old cheap Android phone criticizing a man struggling to meet up with is bills

Am a guy, this isn't criticism it's advise don't take it wrongly. If a man is broke chasing after a woman drains your energy you can put into making money. Focus on your goals first, bitches ain't worth it

chariisGRACE:
Let me just go straight to the point.

She broke her hymen and now she is bleeding.

Please what can she take to stop the bleeding.

Are you sure that's not menstral blood. She broke bit? Hmm

I see different posts on Nairaland about girls not wanting to date or marry broke guys, you can't really blame them. In this world men are bread winners no matter how much we talk about splitting the breadwinning with females it can't happen, even if she is rich that's the world we live in.

If a girl should get married to a broke guy what of if he doesn't get rich, that's a life of poverty and also damming you children's future.

It's better to make it first, before thinking about marriage and women.

You would be surprised when you have made it women won't even be on your wishlist, there is more to life than women (there is games, movies, food and much more) you can also adopt kids if you feel lonely and can cater for them. And marriage is not for everyone.