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BadRadio:
na lie joor !

Why would I lie women disgust me

BadRadio:
71% lost it while in secondary.

9% lost it while in Primary School

20% lost it @ the university.

true or false

I didn't still 17 in uni

The only two things you want is

1) at young age 18-28 money

2) old 32-35 husband out of desperation finisg

I have heard of this procedure, it's for serious infections

TheGenius001:
She sees me as her lover. But I can't fake love. I love her no doubt but to an extent (normal live). I just act like her lover just to make sure she is happy.

She doesn't need a lover, she needs a friend,

Riele:
That won't be happening dear .

Ever heard of EDD ?

Lol, ok I agree love is bondage, being alone is perfect

Riele:
Story of your life ?

Lol, I wonder how you will be when tough girls like you fall in love. Lol it will be hilarious

TheGenius001:
Pls it's not too long to get you bored. Just read it to the last line.

Pls how can I deal with this predicament. This girl had a crush on me. She told me and suggested we date each other. I simply didn't want to hurt her cos of some sad stories she's told me about her family issues and so many other things. So I felt like I shouldn't break her heart the more by telling her no.

So I agreed to date her. The problem here is that;

Any offence by me can make her cry and become so sad for the rest of the day. She will call me crying. Like I may be online and she is also online and maybe I don't chat her up, she will get sad easily by posting different things on her status. She is just 18years. Still a kid and too emotional with me. She will always tell me how much she loves me and all that. So I make sure I am online every minute to reply her messages.

The worst of all is that she will always tell me about taking her life anytime I hurt her (This scares the shit out of me). Cos the funny thing is that I don't even know when I hurt her


Take a look at our recent Chats and please profer a solution to me on how to handle her. I see her as a younger sister to me. I have not had intimacy with her. But I know she would be willing to. But that's not my problem. Mentioning her life scares the shit out of me. Suicide keeps ringing in my head whenever she says that.

pls how do I handle this situation. I would like her to just be a friend to me. Cos I don't see a future between the both of us.

She might be a disgusting woman, She might be obsessive but she's broken inside, she needs someone, even if you don't like her just be there for her as a friend.

Jesse25:
She is just blackmailing you emotionally ....this was exactly what my ex gf was doing till she finally broke up with me

Lol, I didn't know blackmail could be this way

Riele:
Do people still love this way ?

Because i know i can't o .

Those with the thickest walls fall deepest in love.

Riele:
She does all this for you and you're not into her ?

What exactly do you want ?

That's the point you can't force love on someone

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ngwababe:
Maybe, na men dey turn to mums.

Mum's from old times, the whores we have now can't turn moms

ngwababe:
How did you come to this conclusion?

It's funny how you guys talk like this, but , in every street, every road, offices, politics, you see women hustling. Our mothers, sisters, aunties are out there, helping their families and someone like you is telling me what?

Yes mom's, but not ladies you are all money sucking whores

Mindfulness:
Damn right! The stay at home partner, most of the time the woman, is undervalued, always has been and always will be and it has put women in a vulnerable position for far too long. This is why I will always encourage women to have a plan B and be self-reliant, not only financially but intellectually as well. And it's not only that, I believe that everyone should aspire to be the best they can be, learn, develop and grow.



Completely true!




I have been watching them for a long time and came to the conclusion that they are the most useless and insecure creatures walking this earth. This is why I don't understand why any woman would choose to depend on them in any way, shape or form.

Lol then why did your mom meet your dad, women are not undervalued they have no value. Women depend on men cause they are livestock. Tell me why do women get married or date if not for Cash. Stop blindly supporting trash

Riele:
I'm here wondering what's hateful about my posts .

Admit it , you men have unhealthy egos .

Oh , because i post about men mean i've been hurt by some man ?

Lmao , go get a seat . I'm not much of a f00l to be hurt by a man .

Ladies too have unhealthy egos, accept it
Hurt by a man lol, guess that gateman did quite a good job

CastingCrowns:
It's a very apalling development that has taken root and is now the norm here.. A lot of misogynistic guys here insulting women and feeling fly not knowing their mothers and sisters are women.. Real men don't insult women but respect and cherish them.. If u really want to be a man u give women the respect they deserve and stop hiding behind ur keypads to insult all and every woman that's what cowards do.. Not all women are the same there are still independent ambitious women out there that depend on no man for their daily bread.. Think twice before u paint all women with the same brush.. That's just my 2cents.

Stop with all the bullshit always playing the victims, you insult people cause they deserve it, real men tell the truth, that's what we are doing. Independent women lol, how many are there, 1 in 10000. You ladies act like livestock so don't complain of being treated like one.

lizzywhite:
I wonder why some ladies don't always have a say in their relationship, No man can try dat with me

It's just useless bloggers, am not sure a lady in her right mind would do this

Golden41:
Excuse you �

It's true and you know it, rats

Some women today don't still av sense, I would like to see that priceless look of despair when they finally realise that men don't give a Bleep , just like the look chrismas goats make when they realize they were being fed to be consumed.

Kingosytex:
.This one is even better. A lady i met in Yola dumped her husband for another guy about five days after wedding.

Those who doubt the efficacy of black magic are in for a very long ride.

How slutful ladies can be.

She should go to jail, it's not low sperm count she is a useless LovePeddler. And you are blaming it on sperm count, women (spits)

abbatoir:
Woman!... what a mysterious creature

Their wonders exceed human comprehension

lavylilly:
Easy that was too much.

Ok, I went too far

Helicobacter:
Hi guys, I think I'm an introverted extrovert.
Most introverts enjoy all their time alone, and don't love socialising but mine's a little different in that even though I do enjoy some time spent alone I get really lonely and depressed alot of the times. I really like socialising(with ladies especially) but damn I'm too shy/self conscious for my own good. I do manage to start a conversation without much difficulty but can't keep it going. I think I do have low self esteem despite making some progress in my life my self esteem issues seems to be worsening. My fear is with time my record keeps growing and I wouldn't want someone I'm interacting with to know I have spent over four years @ the university without a GF. And stududying medicine ain't helping at all. I've also noticed I'm quite uncomfortable interacting with certaing guys too because I don't want them to discover the extent of my weirdness.
Like I'm 23 but haven't had a girl in my life ever, I'm not just talking about a girlfriend, I mean I haven't even had a close female friend ever and it kinda scares me because it ain't looking like I'd ever get one. Like I find I have a bit of shame walking along a road with many people that know me let alone walking along with a lady. It's like part of me feels it's wrong to be with a lady. Even when I've told myself it's just for sake friendship(no sex). Most of my friends don't have issues interacting with ladies as do normal guys but they are quite Christian minded and would want to be single till marriage or sth, but they do hv a lot of friends. I would want to learn how to get lots of lady friends, just friends, then probably move on to having a Gf.
What makes this matter pressing for me is that even though I seem to be doing well academically, I think it might not be for long if I don't do something as my depression keeps getting worse with time. Even if it's not about getting a Gf, An advice to help me accept being alone would do.
Like anyone who's got tips pls help me drop them. Insults are welcome if and only if they are conveying a message.

You are ok like That, it's your comfort zone, anything from women will only bring you disgust