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Ladylite:
LOL you are strong. But not all ladies are hoes.

They all are either hoes or broke beggers

DenreleDave:
I know many guys here that act as if they hate everything about Riele but all na wash.. Upon all the insult they exchange on daily basis, they will still be the one sending pm to her. Another one was even complaining dt she doesn't reply WhatsApp message. They will come here to abuse and insult ladies, we will even support the bashing but later them go go behind our backs to send them pm, hypocrites...

I heard Martinez39 of red pill organizations was even begging Riele to reply his pm...

Mrcork was also begging pettyprincess for her number too

Even the great omar09, caplocked, lilwet do the same thing. They come here to form and later later, go and be begging one kind lady la dat..

Riele, u keep bashing people sogbo but u no I told u to be careful

Lol, this is so funny

Love is that feeling that you have for someone, when you always want to be with that person, but when you are with that person you are tensed and want to leave that space, you can do anything for that person, with no strings attached like sex or money. The feeling you have for someone by money or beauty or shape is called lust.

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Biglittlelois:
If your girlfriend buys you a car, will you be proud enough to show it off to friends and family that your gf bought it, or you will be ashamed to brag cos it depletes your ego and low esteem?


PS I can't buy a car for my man cos it belittles him, men are proud like that, only gigolos will collect it and proudly show it off to his likes, which category are you?

You have a very toxic ego, men would proudly accept such gifts. Broke bitches

brodalikeme:
Seems you’re heart broken and need fixing. Your current position does not warrant you giving advise to anyone.

Am not heart broken, I have never and Cant love someone.

Riele:
You love her , go ahead and marry her .

Who knows how many of your brother's girlfriend you've slept with Unknowingly .

Like you can marry a man that slept with your sister. Later you will be saying men are whores.
Feminists.

sharone21:
Ladies or MEN? ....The last time I checked, men are FICKLE and easily distracted when it comes to love....it makes females scared of love.

Females can't love,

Michellekabod2:

Long known whats up??

Give it a shot, don't allow someone like
Me or anyone else stand in your way of happiness

Preciousgirl:
I understand my critics, we are in a free world and I am one of the most tolerant beings alive. I am not a fool to be sharing my family issues here, but for very good reasons. I am learning a lot from the advices.

Now don't judge me yet, since there is a lot you still don't know about my situation.

1. I virtually sponsor the house
2. My husband has not slept with me for over a month (I am never going to cheat FYI)
3. In the past, he sleeps with me through my back, (I am suffering)

4. He has password guarding his smart phones

5. He verbally abuses me often

The above are only a few. I come here often because, apart from my dad, I don't wanna wash my dirty linen to those that know me. Those accusing me of cheating, I have never and will never ever do that, in fact I believe my husband is the one cheating on me. Which husband doesn't want to sleep with his wife through the Vag but back. Which kinda husband uses condom with his wife? Please don't judge me yet, I wish you lived with us. I am trying so hard to save my marriage.

Thanks guys for all the advices

Cheat or not no one gives a Bleep, it's your life not ours.

Ariza:
Alright Mister, I have no strength for back and forts. As a matter of fact I have a pot of rice and cooler of semovita with correct egusi vegetable soup plus assorted meats and drinks waiting to be devoured.I will rather divert my strength into doing that than argue here.

I have to go now, you are invited to join me BTW.

Mouth watering happy flexing, sadly I can't dine with women goes against my persona

Michellekabod2:
i assume you assume my head aint involved and i am driven not by lofic but you are wrong. I didnt start out like that,it started as dislike towards him and better understanding with time changed my feelings towards him. He has done alot for me

Experience is the best teacher, I can't answer this cause I am not capable of loving someone.

Ariza:
It's ironic your moniker says Light Angel . Those two are propagate of Love.


Stop acting hard willed and listen to your subconscious.

Lightangel that monkier is a purge that removed lies and shows what is real from what isn't

Michellekabod2:
Infatuation/fantasy is blind to quirks but i am aware of all his quirks,he is aware of mine as well.he has his baggage

I wonder how long that bridge can last, that's just a thirst for a new experience you never had

Ariza:
Whatever rocks your boat, but permit me to type this. Sometimes being too careful hurts.

Am not being careful, I just don't believe in fairytales

Ariza:
Emotional intelligence isn't the inability to love or feel but the ability to live beyond feelings I.e control emotions, let go of things, avoid burden of hate and regret. Only a fool will shrink his heart in a box out of fear of being hurt. Yes,building shells or fence protects the heart but it makes it smaller and faint.

This isn't shrinking hearts in a shell out of fear, it is transcending human nature and purging the useless parts of it, love what a joke that word disgusts me.

Ariza:
When you find someone who gives you the need to change positively and crawl out of your shell,that person is your guardian angle. Regardless if their relationship last or not, she will break free and be a better person.



@bolded you read too much nonsense on Nl

Nl, lol if many people say the same stuff over and over it means there is a great truth to it. And I can't be foolish enough to be a victim

Michellekabod2:
He had similar issues in the past,commitment issues till we started talking....

He is kind but tough,cant rob poo on him and he acts at will.at first i mistook him for a narcissist but i got to know him to be the sweetest soul i have met

Lol, looks like Disney, a complete fantasy. Loving someone is for children, the real world is tough, and a shell will come in handy

Ariza:
When you find someone gives you the need to change positively and crawl out of your shell,that person is your guardian angle. Regardless if the relationship last or not, she will break free and be a better person.

Why are shells made in the first place, for protection, besides this love crap doesn't exist

Ariza:
Dear Michelle ,

I understand your situation perfectly because you described me up there. The only difference is I've decided to change this and do better next year. Yes I'm hoping to put an end to over four years single hood . Whatever till will take I will force myself to accept and be with someone.

From my self evaluation, diagnosis and analysis I have come to realize that I ghost out on guys because of past experience. Yes some years ago I vowed never to get romantically involved with guys when my ex let me down. You know that feeling when you have decided to make something work, do everything to make this a reality, accept lots of shiits and make a lot of sacrifices only to be cheated on?. Subconsciously, this vow manifest and I've always find it difficult to relate with guys emotionally/romantically. I move away and cut ties as soon as a guy shows interest and keep him at arms length. I make friends with guys a lot but emotionally keep my distance to prevent them from falling in love or catching feelings which may ruin our friendship.


Babe, sit yourself down meditate and do your research within you.When you know the problem only then can you find a solution. I've done mine and I'm getting prepared to embark on the healing process. Please do yours too. And you may call the guy and relate everything to him, if he is the right one he will make your transformation process easier.

Or he may just use her who knows, but if he is as kind-hearted as you say just give a try, after all what's there to loose.
I didn't know girls were capable of love

Michellekabod2:
the first option though is tough....never met someone like him before. It seems he is the beginning and end for me in regards to love.

Sometimes the tough option, protects you frail heart., But then again you can take the other your choice

BonPatrick:
Please guys if a girl allow you to see her unclothedness and touch her does it mean she loves you?

Did pothifers wife love David, no
She's just looking for cucumber to fill her hole

Michellekabod2:
I am not going to create another moniker for this,i owe no one nothing!

I have spent most of my life single. I tried linking up with people but to no avail. Why? I will not do the blame game here. Is all my fault. I meet someone,get heed over heels for the person but i lose interest easily. When it comes to commitment,when the friendship is to get to the next level i ghost them. I dont know why. At best out of the blue i lose interest and become blank,not returning calls or replying messages ,at worst i become disgusted at the fellow for no reason at all then move one to the next male friend. Nothing serious comes out of it...

So i decided to give up trying...my female friends and i go on an outing,some guys approach us and get our numbers. Months(sometimes years) later they are still waxing strong with the males,one of them even got married to one of them. But me?after a couple of weeks i find myself having to ghost the guy that i was head over heels for.

I gave up on love and chose to be single. I have been single for years now.

I met this guy march this year,we bonded like never before. I have never in my entire life felt like this before. It is so strange that each conversation we have all seems anew like we are starting all over.
Its almost ten months and the fire is still intense.
I have never had such a long friendship with a male. People assume we are dating. He gives me so much JOY...he is so awesome.different from all the others i have known. He changed me.

I just figured out i want to end the friendship,i dont know why. I am tired. I want to walk away. The passion is still there but i want to be away. I wanted to get a new SIM but my conscience will not. What has kept me from doing this is because i wonder how he will feel..

I want to walk away.will i regret this?

It's because you have always been alone, and you have found someone you like and that feeling is strange to you. There are two options
1) you can forget about him and retreat back into your safezone or
2) continue living in that bitter-sweet box of feelings. And tell him how you feel you have better chances since you are a girl.

I'll take the first option if this happens, but you aren't me

KINGYAGAA:
NL members please I'm still waiting for an update from anyone, please. Everyone that promised, no one is yet to turn up and I'm just on the street like this hopeless and lifeless. I don't even know where to pass the night please I need a place to pass the night from today till Sunday as I have been asked to leave the little place I have been hiding, please I beg of you all anyone herein Abuja, please. You can check my posts I just don't know what to say anymore please I beg of you all here is my number both on WhatsApp +2348070751915. Some people said I won't see a job now that I should hang on till January but now I don't even have a place to stay, please. I beg of you kindly read my other post you will understand my situations

Below is the link to my previous post, please


https://www.nairaland.com/5589449/pls-read-sake-god-2kids

This is one reason why before bringing children into this world make sure you can cater for then. Even when girls trash talk about the amount of salary before getting married to a man, it's kinda right to a point. If you don't have money don't Damm your children to suffering, the same one you suffered. If we could just listen we can curb mass pooverty.

We'll make sure those children are safe pls.

Ilekokonit:
If your dad could control your mum and you still loved him and you say your husband is too controlling, then you are a hypocritical and foolish woman.

Your Uncles, Dad and Grand Father ALL controlled their obedient wives who realised that there can not be 2 captains in a ship and they willingly allowed your male relatives to be the master of their homes but just because you think your education and westernization is a licence for you to become uncontrollable you are doing anyhow to your husband, sorry is your middle name and you should thank your husband if he is one to immediately show his displeasure to your haughty misbehaviour as he could have pretended he was cool with your stupidness and behind your back gets himself a prettier younger lady outside who will give him the peace and respect that ALL men require from their women.

And ALL men includes your loving Father, uncle and grand father.

SUBMIT TO YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU WANT YOUR MARRIAGE TO LAST.

REBEL AND BECOME A SINGLE MOTHER AND ONE OF HIS MANY WOMEN.

Submitting does not mean controlling. Marriage is an agreement, and I haven't seen any law that states a man should control his wife. His wife should only give him respect

Preciousgirl:
My husband has destroyed my smart phone after I decided not to delete Facebook and all social media. To add insult to injury, he has bought for me a very cheap phone which cannot browse. I have bought myself a new phone secretly. I am not happy in this marriage. Many things are going on in my mind, please I need mature advice

I hate all this kind of stupid injustice, that man is not ok upstairs, a man like that will be very toxic as the marriage goes on

lilmax:
Nope this is better


"I have a girlfriend and she loves me very much"

Check well she's banging another dude

REDLORD1:
The holy bible says in 1 Tim. 6:10; "For the love of money is the root of all evil..." this is one of the greatest mistake ever written in the holy book. The love of money is not the root of all evil.
In the beginning, when God created the first man, he had a d!ck but nowhere to stick it in and have pleasure. So God created the first woman with a pvssy and then Adam fvcked her and experienced the sweetest thing in the universe- orgasm. And then Adam fell in love with the woman's pvssy.
One day, the woman gave adam the forbidden fruit to eat but Adam who was now enjoying the sweetness of eve's pvssy could no longer reason like a man. He has fallen in love with the pvssy and can now die for the pvssy. Due to his love for the pvssy he ate the bad fruit and evil overshadowed the world.
The love of pussy is the root of all evil

You are very dumb and stupid for this kind of blasphemy. Adam never had sex with everything while they were in the garden, they didn't even know they were naked.

BadRadio:
guy it's a capital crime o... u must like something at least... so u can bury ur dick when there s tension

I don't get tension I just play game 247

BadRadio:
women disgust u? meaning u re dickless

Lol, so it's now a crime to not like womey