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I disagree you married him just for his looks. You saw a lil potential in him. You dont have to be head over heels in love, before you marry a guy. Love grows over time.

When things get rough in marriage then you tend to question why you got married. Marriage is a black market. Even those that marry for Love get to question why they got married, at some point. Marriage is not always rosy. It a phase that will be over. He is not a lazy man. He is probably frustrated too. Men have ego, the fact that he is not yielding to your advice or that of the people around dont make him lazy. You are a strong woman, marriage is for both man and woman. You are there to help him up in times like this. Show him more love and encourage him. Like you said; he is loving and caring. Why not think about the good days rather than pointing out his weaknesses now.

Invest 93k in a guy? Hope you have something you own that worths 100k+. No right thinking fellow will spend such an amount on a shoes except they are very comfortable already. Dont be threatened, dont be desperate for marriage. Its obvious that you are being bullied. A good guy or girl will tell you to get whatever you can afford.

Invest 93k in a guy? Hope you have something you own that worths 100k+. No right thinking fellow will spend such an amount on a shoes except they are very comfortable already. Dont be threatened, dont be desperate for marriage. Its obvious that you are being bullied. A good guy or girl will tell you to get him whatever you can afford.

mollytinrox: you see, this thing called love is complicated. Ask me how.

I was in love with someone who had been seeing another girl for 4 years. When we met, it was a hit. It was different from what we had felt for anyone before, and was so deep and true. For my mind .

He wouldn't leave her not because he loved her, but because he pitied her and didn't want to break her heart after 4 years, plus they had done introduction. I, on the other hand, was pained that he wasn't willing to fight for something as special as what we had. I let go.

I still believe he should have fought for our love, other than marrying the girl he didn't love.
Now 4 people will be unhappy where 2 people would have been happy. His loss sha .
I believe in fighting for love.

Hey hun, how are you so sure he won't fall for another girl after being with you for about four years also Love is indeed complicated. It takes the brain rather than emotions. Love can dwindle with anyone. You never know what he tells the other girl...

Its not about the girl sleeping with 13guys but about YOU.
Are you ready to weather any storm?
Are you sure you wont get to a point of calling her a bitch during your life's journey?
Are you sure you'll be able to trust her enough?
Mariiage is not easy.

It's easier judging. Walk in her shoes and you'll know how it feels. For a reason I understand this woman. I know adultery is a sin but it takes the grace of God to understand this if you are frustrated.

I reckon this marriage wasn't right from the scratch. It will only take the grace of God to make it right. Some men cheat but still respect their wives. They'll rather do it on the sly. When it gets to the point that you don't respect your wife anymore then It's alarming.

I believe situations like this often happen when you the foundation of the marriage is not right.

Husband is the head of the house, but you are the neck, the neck can easily turn the head to whatever direction she desires.

You are scared to be a single mum probably because you are scared there is nothing to fall back on. (Resources). It's not too late to be made. Start something today. You shouldn't completely depend on your husband.

Four children. What more do you want. They should be the love of your life. Let your husband know you can do without him. Divorce/Separation is not a sin.

:: VMF :::
With all these different disheartening stories surrounding marriages, I am scared of marrying O!

Marriage is a beautiful thing, so far you are married to the right person.

I heard about it too but no confirmation still

thanks, m gonna try it right away and c aw it works,

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Mariah Carey,   We Belong Together.
Neyo,   So Sick Of Love Song.
Tosin Martins,   Olo mi
Lemar,   Lullaby
Westlife, (All Their Songs)
Boys 11 Men, (All Their Songs)

I have dated only 3;
First, high school petty love affair. Had to break up cos we had to move on though it was not formal.
Just knew he stopped being my bf

2nd;
dated him cos i knew i had no boyfriend and because i needed one.
He was the greatest chain smoker av ever seen and also enjoys drinking like mad.
above all, all, he wanted more to the relationship which i wasn't ready for.
We were totally different from each others.
Though still remember the moments spent with him
cos he is really nice.

3rd;
Thats d person i am dating now!
I don't date for the fun of it but for the REAL reason.
still on it

i have replied about 10 messages but never posted cos i just knew how to post. i will make sure i post soon.

Ramsey Noah
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Obi Oshotule
Desmond Elliot
Stella Damasus
Saheed Balogun
Bobby Micheals

m yoruba.

good or bad God is there to judge. though every1 will go someday... even if ur enemy dies 2day, it shouldnt b ur joy. i repeat dont speak evil about the dead.
May she rest in peace.

May her soul rest in peace . THISDAY gathered that the First Lady died of complications arising from cosmetic surgery to reduce fat from her body. If she knew it was going to lead to death, she wouldn't have...
let no one speak evil about the dead body cos that is the only thing that is gone. my condolence to olusegun obasanjo.

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