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felong:
I think they're trying to get rid of gate crashers. Having gatecrashers in your wedding is very terrible cos they wouldn't mind scattering the whole wedding of food doesn't get to them on time.

pretty silly ,people who don’t use bouncers does everyone get food? don’t the marriage go on successfully, only them know what their problem is, to me it’s very wrong. If that’s the packaging u want to use on people who make outfit and come out to honor ur union , why don’t u just do a family get together?

paulolee:
I think its to maintain decorum and avoid gate crashers that are there to cause problems because of food..
am not supporting it and cant do such except if its side chick wahala..
a friend did a wedding sometimes last month n invited 3 special bouncers and gave them a special tablet with pictures of 4 ladies that aint allowed to enter the venue..
I asked him his reasons and he didn't tell but it was just one of them that came n she was sent back and she left disappointed..
it seems the guy don scam ladies with marriage tire..

that could be it, having them in the entrance is understandable but some people mix them in the crowd . I really hate it . It’s so intimidating.

Chamukebenson:
I don’t stay long in such weddings, if I even carry money to spray I keep it to myself

the worst part is, those bouncers will start using it to fool themselves, and do the one they didn’t send them, because they know they were there to intimidate people

I feel it’s a very stewpid thing tho . What r you scared of? making ur guest intimidated after taking their time to make it to ur event .

What do you think ?

HitlerGaddafi:
Big lie. It's not possible she's not wearing undies and the ass will still be packaged like that inside skirt. If na trouser now it's understandable, the ass will still be firm but for skirt, it's a big lie. Pant dey package ass same way bra dey package boobs

she actually didn’t wear pant , if she did, she wore a gstring. Some girl hv firm ass

Kylekent59:
Nigerian girls are useless. Holes everywhere!!!

I don't pity anyone that tells a story of how a guy broke her heart.

Even if it says SA, Nigerian girls are useless.

just like ur mother o

Another one

Lol , wahala be like Uganda

WhiteIverson:
When you get married, in a bid to punish your husband you can birth kids for your driver, gateman, plumber, carpenter, gardener e.t.c.
But please, allow the rest of us to do our DNA test in peace.

hv u done dna test to check if u are really ur fathers child?

PopSmoke:
agreed they don't know if they are their father's

have you checked if you are not also a bastard?

thank you o . If their fathers did dna test, I’m sure they would hv grown up in orphanages

Freelane33:
Wahala at it peak

I Dey tell you

Dissap:
Damn mehn, whatchu want? Just tell me babe. Imma do am in ur way, yo baby. u wan make I arrange u for a fvck, I gat many fvck boys wey go fit run ya matter. Hahahahahaha, that's it baby, we fvck em b*tches!!!

are u fine , and hv money . Abi u think fvck is her problem

.

When u break hearts of women who really care for you , that’s ur punishment

IMAliyu:
I find myself in the problematic territory of not even caring to try these days. I was shy when younger, not so much now.

Just a few weeks ago a friend of mine was going out on a date(?) with this girl, but the girl insisted on bringing a friend and in turn he asked me to come with him to balance things out. I agreed.

We went and picked them up and went to an ice cream and small chops place.

At the beginning I put in effort and tried to entertain the girl's friend, talking to her, asking questions, but Midway I lost all motivation and just stopped. Not because the friend necessarily did anything wrong, but something inside me just wasn't feeling the situation. And I was just sitting there dead silent put on my earphones and couldn't even be bothered to say a word for the rest of the evening.

Maybe I just wasn't getting enough feedback from the girl, IDK, but sometimes I think I'm dead inside when it comes to romance.

ouch lol

Shortyy:
There is no difference there Mr man! Just that the woman has no way of hiding hers, while the man does!

yes agree to faulting both party , men hv other children outside with out telling the woman , anothe betrayal we hardly talk about

Paternity fraud is a very evil act

Congratulations

Theundertaker:
I know right, I can relate. I am single to stupor and I know the reason is cause I don’t mingle. If a girl doesn’t come close to me, u can never see me chasing girls. Very depressing especially with my high libido

lol , Na God go help us

kalu61:
I don't know how to explain it but l am attracted to intelligent girls who gives me good run for logical analysis or differ in opinion with logical reasons.

I understand .

kalu61:
I don't do girl friend stuff.

l hope whoever l will marry will not this part of me and she can cope with it, it all fine.

I find it engaging with female friends who are intellectually engaging than those asking me what l prepared or have eaten.

she won’t cope with it in the beginning tho. What’s wrong with someone asking you what u hv eaten ? It’s a sign of care , that doesn’t mean she isn’t intellectually engaging, okay u want someone who would be talking about books all days but careless about ur well-being?

Being single as an introvert is very depressing , cause u know ur problem , which is networking , u don’t go out, even if u do ones in a blue moon because u are a naturally shy person u can’t go alone, u need friends around but of course if u want to met a potential partner, all YouTube Channels advices u learn how to go out alone , this phone generation is the worst cause ur phone is a enough company that b4 u know it the day is gone and u are home all day. Online dating is scary cause there r a lot of liars, and the men expect you to do the traveling *eyesrolled* and I’m like” what if u are a kidnapper?” . Of course they are ready to send u ur Tfare but I’m i ready to risk my life ? Not at all .

What do u all think ?

kalu61:
l don't ignore calls whatsoever but calling others is what l find extremely difficult even my mum.

l reply chat and text immediately

try do better , ur mum might understand but ur girlfriend won’t , lol

Zzor:
A hungry man is an angry man, we have a lot of angry men on this forum and you can easily tell what their problems are

lol

Scholar94:
It's being a while here . There are so much going on here but I was particularly caught up by the argument on whether Introvert like Phone calls or not.

Phone calls itself are not what introverts hate rather it is the reasons for making or receiving the calls. As an introvert, I only make calls when it is very important or urgent. I'll prefer to talk to you via chat or messages if it it is not a really an urgent conversation. However, I am not in the habit of not picking people's calls. In fact I don't hesitate to call back when I miss phone calls. For me it's really a bad habit and not associated with introversion not to pick someone's call deliberately.

100% agree with you

Windflower:
Actually it is not like introverted people don't like phone calls. It depends on three things; who is the person calling; what's my mood like; and what does the person have to say.
There are times I have ignored someone's call or had to chat them in return because they called at a time when I was having my alone time and didn't feel like talking. There are times I have also talked on the phone for hours with my close friends.

correct

Jobia:
who made you introvert police?

who made u introvert police too ? Or who made the person u are supporting introvert police . Hypocrites

jkuvira:
that's peculiar to just you. Introverts don't ignore calls or texts

thank you, like I still don’t understand why people associate not picking calls to introversion. Pretty silly. U don’t like picking calls, it’s not because u are an introvert. I only don’t pick if I feel it’s irrelevant, but that introverts generally ignore calls is very wrong. To me texting is more stressful. But I do both anyways.

Shugavee:
Because a guy is a little interested in you , don’t mean u should throw all ur cards out there , it’s speaks desperation and any commitment and affection a man doesn’t earn, he takes for granted. Don’t be too afraid to loose a suitor. That’s no assurance he’s sticking with you anyways


Happy weekend

From ur favorite feminist

nice

Zzor:
I like the part "don't be too afraid to loose a suitor" though I'm not a feminist.

this is not a feminist idea but a general correct philosophy of life.

Yasssss sis. If he’s not showing enough efforts I ain’t giving enough efforts .