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Nazgul:
He needs her to pickup stipulated financial roles because he's planning on investing a reasonable amount of money on her. Or didn't you read that part?

If she wants to remain a housewife, then there's no need for him to spend such money on her. He can use it to expand his business then use the proceedings to take care of her and the family.

The reason he's investing so much on her is because he wants financial relief, someone that can help him absorb petite domestic responsibilities.

NoToPile:
Loool I find it interesting that the same people shouting marriage is a partnership, she is supposed to have outlined financial roles etc etc are the same who won't remember that partner ship when it comes to women roles, they will never tolerate helping the woman in chores or anything.

They choose the traditional when it comes to the women chores/nuturing matter, then in cases like this they want an equal contributor.


All this story is based on just one major thing a husband is meant to do which is PROVIDE shikena, all this story na long thing. They dont want to take responsibility again. Fulfil your role she will naturally do somethings.

All these boys will be running away from their responsibility. A man should be able to provide in his own little capacity for his family.

Personally I think the OP is not mature to get married. Business man looking for ROI, The question was the wrongest of all moves, she too will be thinking about your motive for asking such.


Nairaland is full of comedy,

Sydebel:
What if shes giving it to boyz and other unknown? Is she also helping.
You?

Michaelcas:
myself, i mostly ignore calls except it's something too important, most times i ignore all except you text me

Dedetwo:
What an ignorant insinuation? There are many Nigerians who need to be expensed.

gidgiddy:
What you are saying is a general thing. Thats how it is in all of Igbo land. There are many dialects such as Wawa of Enugu state, Ohuhu of Abia, Izzi of Ebonyi. In Delta state, they speak Igbo dialects such Enuani and Ika.

Asaba people have never denied being Igbo for one day. The King of Asaba, Obi Chike Edozien, is a proud Igbo man. Others like Ibusar, their actual name is 'Igbo -Uzo'. They dont deny being Igbo, their name even tells everyone they are Igbo. Much of Aniocha and Oshimili are proud Igbos. Late Obi of Ogwashiuku, and father Ngozi Okonjo Iweala, Professor Okonjo, was proud Igbo man. Another son of Ogwashiuku, Ralph Uwechue, was President General of Ohanaeze Ndigbo.

All of these people are proud Igbos from the Anioma area and are probably much older than you. It is an insult for people like you to now start telling them they are not Igbo

Strongbest:
Oga abeg open the boarder and reduce fuel price. Thank you.

Danny50:
Plan that is by the north and for the north for we all know it will start and end their.

blinking001:
Buhari will always have the interest of the common man at heart.

Zooposki:
Please what of Ndokwa. Half of my grandparents and parents come from Ndokwa in Delta State. I asked her about Anioma, Ika, Ukwuani, Ndokwa etc and she said they are not Igbos, but they understand the Igbo language. She said there is slight variations in the languages and they have never been Igbo.

omoharry:
Dont mind them .These are thesame people that have disdain toward their fellow Igbo bethren from another states .An Anambra man that will always look down on the Eboyin man .Each state always claming to be more superior than the other. For instance , an Anambra man will never allow a man from IMO to head him in any social gathering , becos they feel superior .So what kind of love do they have that they are pretending to show to the people of Anioma..? If not that the people of Anioma are in Delta state, they would have also be subjected to thier usual prejudice. At one point , they would be been told that they are not pure Igbos.
I know Delta state has thier own issues, but we do not have open hatred toward the Delta Igbos in Delta state .We intermarry without issues and we all vote for our favourite candidate in inrespective of tribes .The Delta Igbos have voted massively in the past for an Urhobo /Itsekiri governors, so has the Urhobo voted for Thier son (Okowa) when his time came..This is even when some selfish Urhobo leaders, made a declaration that no Urhobo sons & Daughter should vote for Okowa..they ignored them and still voted for him, becos they felt it is the time of the Delta Igbos to rule .
Secondly , there has never been any open comflict between other tribes and the Delta Igbos .So I don't know where this open online hatred is coming from . The only open conflict has always been among the Urhobo /Ijaws/Itsekiris .
Anyway the grass is always green at the other end . Delta state will always wish the Anioma people well, if they decide to join thier brothers in the East .

TheHulk616:
you are very correct and right. But how do you expect me to talk to a therapist, when I am bad at talking?

Michaelcas:
actually most intoverted peeps don't like calls, you can call and call, they won't pick up, you wanna talk, you better text

tot:
All these nuisances that have decided to be disturbing this thread in recent times.

Kindly take note: this is not a thread for you to tell people they have mental disorders simply because they are introverted. The internet is free, educate yourself about introversion before coming here to make a fool of yourself.

TheHulk616:
again if you can talk to many people you are not an introvert.

Introverts are shy, and we need help. But since fake introverts are saying its OK, so how can true introvert such as myself find help?

Priam:
All I see here is a long list of an entitled person.

Just know that NOBODY owes you sh!t!

mokolade21845:
:If I'm Gambari the chief of staff I will cut off Buhari immediately lol no be small

OscarJaden:
owners of 2021 have started advising people to cut us off

lmao

ahbeg make wuna no make 2021 cast like 2020

Fahdiga1:
If I'm Gambari the chief of staff I will cut off Buhari immediately

Drella:
Nice piece but,poor paragraphing, poor punctuation and use of incessant shorthand style of writing made this an eyesore.
Also,don't forget to check my signature.

Iconstar:
People who don't try to reach out to you.You keep calling and texting just to make sure they are ok but they don't call back or text back cos they don't give a hoot about you.

tot:
[s]Simply learn to say No.
You have to become assertive and not allow people use you for their selfish interests.

A good friend is better than no friend, but no friend is better than a bad friend or user[/s].

iamyemiakins:
Hoeniranu

tot:
[s]Don't mind anyone saying you need a psychologist. You are perfectly okay. Everyone cannot be the same, some are more emotional than others, some are nervous or shy, others are bold and gregarious, it doesn't take anything away from you. The important thing is to continue to grow, and be able to flex from your default mode when need be - e.g. an interview.
cheers[/s]

tot:
As in, the attention seeking is on another level. I think people should just ignore her. Afterall, if you are not an introvert, what are you doing on this thread?

iamyemiakins:
You'll just open/carry ur mouth/phone waaa and utter/type rubbish, you need to be kicked out of this thread.