Jane Mena na just ode, why the hell you take tonto to court ? Knowing you did it o, see your life

Achor1111:

How?
what is your encounter with them

huge cheats , so they started the everyday plan where I hv to pay 6000 naira then get 1.5 daily, so I went for it . Just to realize that 1.5g doesn’t last at all , I get it by 3am and it’s finished by 9 am that same morning. But on my normal 5000 20g , I don’t use up to 1.5g daily, so who are they fooling ?

Airtel!!! Most useless network in Nigeria

Kooldon:
Have u ever wondered why so many girls post numerous pics on facebook with hidden messages?
Competition is everywhere.
Some wil even beg for sub, how wil the man feel?
We girls spoiled it.
You can meet ur love anywhere nt just on dating apps.

it’s not easy

mastertek:
Nigerian girl cause all these, just as you are complaining.

Some of us too are complaining, in fact I am tired & bitter about this nonsense, you can't approach any Nigerian ladies online, before you said jack, you will hear I am only here for hookup ooo. Short time or daybreak

Someone like me has giveup, to extent that I now think 98% of Nigerian girls are prostitute, this is not my fault.

Even on Facebook dating group, everywhere, so don't blame the guys for that.


Kaii, that time you see homely lady online and you think this will be good wife material ooo, only to be welcome with, Bros I am not here for dating, only hookup, short time or day break

it’s just funny I swear

GeneralPula:


Tinder, Badoo are genuine dating sites..

But majority of girls putting up profile on these apps are hookup girls. To them, it’s an alternative to staying by road side or having to go to club always... Also it’s faster to connect with someone..

Guys on those apps are operating based on the mindset of majority of girls they’re seeing. Some girls will even put it on their profile that if it’s not hookup, don’t message..

Girls that don’t do hookups knows this, and their best bet is to stay off those apps cuz if they’re their, they’ll be classified as hookup girls... It will also be hard for them to meet a guy that will take em serious..

A full option naija girls doesn’t not even need any social app to find herself a man - nah long thing..

based on you are a full option Nigerian girl? People need love whether full option or not

DoggoneDogg:


So what's the point? Tell us...

we need genuine dating sites in this country

DoggoneDogg:
You should ask your fellow girls this question, not us.

When you try to have a meaningful discussion with a Nigerian girl, you get blocked because you are a 'time waster'. They want you to 'go straight to the point' & be 'mature minded'.

So Nigerian men have also evolved to become 'mature minded'.

Same way Nigerian girls brought the 'if you don't have a car' and 'if you can't take care of me', I won't date you. Yahoo boys sprang up from nowhere now the competition is so stiff that girls will Bleep you now just to keep other hustling girls away from you.


Las las dis game go tire una.

that’s not the point na, we need genuine dating sites in Nigeria

brosom:
Bro na the only platform for home girls to do their marketing instead of them to be hanging around in every street at night, more especially mummy/daddy's girls

The hustle is real bro..

we wey single nko ? I just tire for this country

flemsy15:
A lot of people on dating apps are there for hookups, so they attract the 'wrong' customers to the app, lolz

I’m telling you.

Shugavee:
I normally wonder . Lalasticlala front page material

I got into a dating app recently and a guy started pricing money with me , I was like excuse me . It’s really depressing that our last resort which is meant to be a dating app has been greatly abused in Nigeria . Badoo now Is very useless for genuine single people

It’s so bad that any guy who meets you on a dating app thinks you are a prostitute. Why? Some of us are looking for love , like for real.

smiliyB:
Stop getting your heart involve, build a fence no one can penetrate except your spouse. In the way you won't be hurt anymore

it’s really not that easy , especially when sex get involved

seyz91:
Vagina family have shown OP shege

OP don learn the Hard way

I’m a lady

MasterShifu010:
advices flying left , right and center.
but non would work you know why? , because we are all wired differently , some people are more in touch with their feelings and emotions than others , some are logical than others so. know which if these categories you belong to and stick to it . find a way to find strength in who you are even though things don’t always work in your favour .
the most successful people are those that do what they love , so if u love to love , do it with all your heart even if it kills you, after all the purpose of life is death

even if it kills me kwa?? Abeg ooo

josielewa:
if you don't want emotional attachment or love means you must be stone hearted..i know what am saying...right now, after being in different relationships and offered help, backstabber, i stopped loving, no emotions..you know that u don't give a Bleep attitude...i stopped loving and having emotional attachments..infact, i became more logical in all my dealings, if you like be dying , i don't care, we all gon die one day..

Note: just stop giving a Bleep about people, and you will find peace, love itself is a big burden..Christ loved us all...he carried a big burden by getting burnt( died for our sins), yet look at we humans, we still worse off..
pls,

I wish it was that easy.

SeunTheOwner:


No you can't just live your life. We are created to have feelings, to love, to care, to pity, have empathy and so on.

You can't stop emotional attachments but you can control how you attached yourself to people.

it’s very hard, I swear

Karleb:


CC: ifinger

Fret no more, help is coming.

If I can get a good man with money that gives good head. I will be the happiest person on earth o

Karleb:
Why are people beefing the OP?

Baba, I get your back. Ride on!

And don't stop giving. Giving has a way of making people relax and lose guard around you, because not everyday you meet a giver.

I need a giver in my life I swear

Bouz:
Who broke your heart this time

that is not the bone of contention, is not like you know him or something.

lilvicky68:
By always remembering that it will end in tears..

funny enough when that small glimpse of hope overhaul that thought , u are going to face worse. I just want to be happy, is the too much to ask ??

Sonnobax15:

As long as your heart keep supplying blood to other parts of your body...You should know that what you're seeking for is nearly impossible....

why naw!! I want to cut my heart and throw in the bin , can’t I just live my life

Please I need advice on this, help me

flokii:


I disagree with this.. the money and prestige some of these so called men without degrees have, some PhD holders don't have.
I think the degree she is talking about here is level of education and refinement which the person can get through part-time and distance learning programmes.

the guy is not a millionaire, just a normal guy

Crossroad1:
how will she tell her friends her man has no degree! Really?
But it won't matter if he is an obi Cubana, dangote or otedola right?

those names u mentioned can’t marry someone like her, she won’t accept

shege45:
so a woman with an Msc should not marry a man with a Bsc? una funny

I said no degree, not bsc

adexpa:
I understand that anybody can become anything without degree but it is tough in our part of the world to be relevant without college education. I wouldn't advice you to go into it because you will see your type later in the nearest future and that will lead to adultery and ended up with divorce. There are many things attach to love, love is a product of many things; education, Information, coordination, and physical outlook.

this is the biggest fear .

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Lillian things have changed o...

There are many careers that does not require u to acquire a university degree to pursue.

The president is not degree holder but rose to the rank of a general and 2/3 time/term president.

very encouraging

falcon01:
No she shouldn't marry she needs someone with PHD or a Prof!

not far from the truth

yuping:
Na degree go feed una?

degree no go feed us, but I feel it can mess things up , funny enough it’s not even about his ego but the lady , how’s she going to tell her friends her man has no degree. Just a sec school result , tho the guy is very intelligent but those things do matter

Franzinni:
Do not marry a man educationally below you ... as a woman, it will always ...ALWAYS end bad !

A man's Identy is strongly tied with his ego. And a woman's identity is strongly tied to attention ...

The fact that the man is below her will automatically take some of the attention e.g. ojuaye. Off from her and then resentment creeps in mostly unsuspecting.

The next thing you as a woman will be using it as a tool to shame him and it will hit his ego the wrong way next thi've you both can't stand each other .. Next thing your ex is sliding in your dm and you can't wait to see em.

Marriage la mort! Se fini!

hmmmmm

w1n5t0n:
Another Chinamanda disciple. By no degree, I'm sure you mean illiterate
Men don't care about your degrees or career. It doesn't increase your femininity. It doesn't make you more sexy or attractive.

that’s not what I asked