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Adasun:
Da way i fall in luv like 10 times a week

paulolee:
finger chewing...smoking, alcohol, womanizing and most importantly ghosting girls after having sex with them, its not my fault that they do look unattractive to me immediately after i finished Cumming and i hate being with someone out of pity or seeing a girl disturbing me like a pest and that's why i do ghost them..

Gofwane:
Alcohol, smoking and spending a lot. Everyday I go out, no matter the amount of cash on me, I always come back home drunk and without a dime

LightOnScams:
Assssh oooh aaaah harrrrder!!!

Bellotelli:
Alcohol and sex

Chamukebenson:
Smoking .

FanOfMyself:
Same

samuelpeters:

Imagine how the world of an introvert would have been like without Gadgets.

Everything is to keep improving yourself especially Social skill.

whocares1:
I only have virtual friends. I’ve been keeping some for over 8 years and we’ve never met before. My phone is my companion most times and i can chat for looong hours. I love partying and i like dancing but it’s all in my head.

I don’t know if i am an introvert or just laid back.
*this is me thinking aloud*.
Good morning!

Mizwisdom:
I don't think she keeps malice and she doesn't seem to flinch when insulted she act like it doesn't bother her but she rather make joke out of it. She can be quite harsh or will i say strict but when you get to know her she's very funny and has a good sense of humor. I think she has multiple personality but the one that comes natural is when she's funny. Like she doesn't talk much but she's funny without effort( I don't think it's deliberate). For example if there are 30 people in a place, she will be one of the most popular and not that she talks much and if she doesn't show, everybody will know yet she's quiet.

minicky:
like computer programming?? or graphics design wch one is better

Crunchyg3:
the best way to deal with such feelings to leave your life completely is to correct your faith and believe system. what do I mean by that? when you have faith in God and believe that he that did that for others (your friend) will definitely do yours. it was their own time that's why God did it for them, when my own time also comes God will do it for me. jealousy comes when you don't have faith that your own will come, making you think others are better than you. so work on your believe and faith system and you will see that nonsense feelings leave you. remain blessed

Meedass:
true but you talk with an angered heart.. Purge yourself first, else when you meet the man that matches your standard, you may not match his�

OlawaleBammie:
then why the unnecessary jealousy?


E dey tey before I feel jealous oo..ahh e dey tey.

holuwajobar:
Watch out for how some ladies will use it to tarnish lecturers image

OlawaleBammie:
Ma'am, u can only stop it wen u bury it in Ur mind that Ur own tym to succeed will eventually come either u pray or not, u sin or not, u jealous or not.
Dat is my code

Ginaz:
I’ve never been jealous of anyone in my life. The closest I’ve ever gotten to jealousy was wishing it was me experiencing the good part of life. however , the feeling doesn’t last long or linger in my heart or mind.

I see things in a childlike way. The innocence of a child whenever they see something new is to stare in wonder and amazement.

Learn to rejoice in people’s happiness. Rejoice for those who are rejoicing. Don’t let jealousy to take hold of you. simplify and neutralize the expectations of yourself against the good in people’s lives cos it’s not their fault things are going well for them.

Don’t self compare.. indulge your heart in happiness whenever people are happy.

I’ve never envy or jealous anyone cos it’s a waste of time and every man for itself against life .

Callertunez:
Jealousy is a tricky emotion abi feeling (whichever anyway)... sometimes if not careful, one won't know they are jealous of someone else.

The person go just dey act out anyhow for no reason. I think jealousy in itself is not bad, it's just like every other emotion (anger, joy...).

The problem is what we do with the emotion (jealousy). If we act on it, that's where the problem lie.

The easiest way is to try to be cool anytime we come in contact with the person we are jealous of and not react to them based on contempt or some really bitter feeling.

If they try to rub off their progress on your face, use style give them space. Your sanity is priority.

No mattter how hard it seems, the bulky task of getting out of the envy zone is on us.

Jezking:
Jealousy is a feeling I don't usually have, but anytime it comes I just tell myself that the person I'm jealous of might have a connection I don't have or money I don't have. So instead of being jealous just become friends with the person and get that connection.

Another way of dealing with the issue of jealousy is being content with what you have. Just ignore what the person has and be ok with who you're and what you have.

Bloghomies:
Disadvantages? I don't think there is any since you won't be buying products. You simply discover a lucrative niche, then upload the products pictures to your store. When customers make an order, you process it through your supplier. The main work lies in marketing, as you will need to constantly run ads for your products. If there is any challenges, it will be the capital since creating an online store might not be cheap.

Bloghomies:
Online? There are numerous ways to go about it. But what I always tell people is to first pursue a path that aligns with their passion.

For instance, I discovered that I'm kinda good at writing.

So, I picked up freelance writing and I charge from #2 to #5 per word.

For a 1000 words article, I can make from #2000 to #10,000. Pretty cool, right?

To share my knowledge, I even started a blog.

Finding clients isn't easy though, especially foreigners since they believe every Nigerian is a scammer. It's not easy at all..

Mini importation, dropshipping, affiliate marketing, etc. are also great ways, but will require settling down to learn the ropes.

It isn't something you just rush in and expect results overnight.

Others will include Blogging, Vlogging (YouTube), or simply starting an offline business.

When you discover a business you want to start, stick to it until you make it.

I love applying the 2-year rule, which entails focusing on a thing for 2 years irrespective of weather is yielding result or not.

You know why? Most times, we find ourselves giving up on a lucrative idea just because of our impatient.

MiddleDimension:
i would like to commend you for the boldness to discuss this as not many people can

anyway, this is more common with those who are not doing anything for themselves very much. i suggest you create a space between yourself and that person. the fewer times you come in touch with that person, the less likely you will have to deal with that issue.

also, you can try to take interest in understanding reality or existence. make this your way if life. as you keep doing this, you will not notice it, but your values and beliefs will begin to change. other people will be the ones to tell you you are now a better version of yourself. you will begin to ''smell'' nice that even the people you jealous now, may turn back and begin to admire you.

i have never seen anyone who has taken up philosophical and scientific inquiry as a lifestyle and regretted it.

one of the first things you will notice, if you are very observant of yourself is that you become more conscious of human being and the totality of his experience be it historical, biological, evolutionary, politically, etc. you will be filled with inmense love for him, mankind. you know his issues, and not only that, you also know the solution to it and can solve his issues. can you please remind me the key to success again? that what one needs to do in order to be successful (which ever way you define success, but it will be sonething that gladens your heart) is to find mankind's problem and solve it! so when you begin to see this in yourself, you know you are on the right track. actually, you are not the one to notice it. people notice it in you and tell you. that's how it works.

you may even come to a point that you now notice what you jealous your friend for, are just little things. but you don't become arrogant by that realization. this is how it is, philosophical inquiry!
hope this helps.