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Sometimes you feel alone and lonely, especially when everyone around you is getting pregnant easily and it seems you are the only one remaining. I complained tomy husband one day and he reminded me of a popular quote in front of a school close to my house. " when good things are happening to people around you, it means God is in the neighborhood, rejoice with them because you are the next". I believe in this, I believe everything I'm doing will work for me. I believe my testimony is near. This journey isn't for the weak, but it's making my heart tender daily, understanding people more. I no longer judge people again, I try to understand them, think probably they are going through something that's why they behave the way they behave. Please stop judging people, you don't know what they are going through. |
NoToPile:Thank you |
teresafaith:Thank you |
Acidosis:Thank you. I've tried to put my mind off it. And it really worked for me at some point. But sometimes pressure from environment and all can make you feel sad. I think I'll just go back to putting my mind off it and get something to distract myself |
Yea, going in for IUI soon ... |
2025,still waiting patiently. Sometimes the journey is tough, sometimes you take each day as it comes. But I'm still alive and showing strong. Crying inside the house, but showing up outside as strong as I can. This journey has made me tender, I don't judge people again and I'm more sensitive to people around me . I believe I'm getting stronger everyday. As a teacher in a British school, my holiday starts next week till September. Please can anyone suggest business idea. I want to make more money and also distract myself. I don't want to cry all through this holiday. |
TheModerator:I think you don't have anything to do with your life than to search for people's details. That's what you use your life to do. You better do something better before you are old, this kind of work can't be handed over to your generation o. If you are really busy with your life you won't go about looking for people's profile. Get busy with your life. Please don't try and do nonsense with me, or else you will regret it. I've warned you |
dav1002:You think everyone has time for banter online. I'm a very busy person, I just read comments and pass online, I respect people and I put them in their place. Please avoid me intelligent man |
dav1002:That's your own problem if it doesn't make sense to you. I guess you are so full of sense. Please avoid me, I don't have time for rubbish |
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So, I'm here after a year of writing everything. Still patiently waiting. A lot have happened this one year. Sometimes I feel down and alone, work place issues and all those things. But something happened at the beginning of this year. The first bible study I went for, we were told to cast our care on God, and I did. This has really helped me. I feel more calm, I pray and I confess God's promises. The thing is, I believe this waiting period is a seed time and a time to develop myself. If I'm busy with positive things, I won't find myself thinking or feeling down. Sometimes I use all those things that I've been able to get to console myself. At least I'm not idle. I've learnt how to drive As a teacher, I've developed the aspect of coding and robotics, I've grown in my career. Most importantly I'm learning fashion designing. I'm able to sew beautiful dresses for myself now. I'm very happy with this. While I'm still waiting, I'm looking at changing from an educator to a tech guru. So help me God. I've started learning web development. I don't know where I'll need all these skills. Although waiting period is not an easy period,but I believe this phase will eventually end, I don't want this time to be wasted, Iso I'll add value to myself by God's help. I'm also looking at going into buying shares, but I've not learnt anything on that. I'm not close to where I'm going, but I'm taking a step at a time |
Good day everyone. I'm a young girl, a little over 30. I want to start investing in stocks but I don't even know how to start. Pls is there any book, platform where I can learn from. Please help your sister o |
You both a need a strong spiritual father to talk sense into you..... Your wife is hiding something from you I hope you look for competent man Of God to take up your case.. .. |
Peal1910 please respond to your DM... It's urgent |
Peal1910 please call me.(Taiwo obinoral1179) |
madridguy:the man go dey flex steady |
He has said the truth. It's not by force to agree |
Time they say heals all wound. You will be healed with time. Miscarriage is not an easy journey, but you need the help of the Holy Spirit. Please see a doctor for thorough checkup, give it time , your ovulation will come back to normal. |
So my brother in-law's wife put to birth some months ago(DH is a twin, he got married a year after our wedding). When the wife put to birth, I took breakfast to the hospital, we got talking and DH said I won't stay long because I'm going for extra lesson that Saturday. My mother in law's reply was that I should reduce stress, I should always rest on Saturday. When we left the hospital I asked my husband if he hasn't seen people selling in traffic that are pregnant, I don't believe going to lesson on Saturday mean anything. I like working o, I can't stay idle. I need to make more money. |
kristana:Thank you for this information |
sisisioge:Hmmm.. When I go to hospitals, I always pray that God's hand will come on the doctor o. Just simple evacuation, the way the doctor was reacting in the theatre sef and one of the nurses.... Health is wealth. People don't know what they enjoy when they get pregnant and deliver easily |
If he will actually do everything he said, Nigeria will be better. I hope all these are not empty promises. |
2022: January to March, nothing really happened. But as I was approaching the month of May, the month I was meant to give birth to my baby, I started feeling sad. Thank God I didn't slip into depression, coupled with the fact that I usually see other people that we got pregnant at the same time giving birth to healthy babies. Why didn't my own stay. It wasn't easy but I survived. I sometimes make a joke about it that maybe the baby doesn't want to come to Nigeria. During that period, people were just giving birth around me, I was hopeful and still hopeful. December 2022, I decided I was not going to put myself under any pressure. It's the end of the year, there's a tendency for you to feel oh, this year has gone again. Christmas and New year was like normal day to me, I didn't attach any special event to it. Abeg I need my mental health. I will not wish losing a baby for my enemy. It's an unpleasant experience. Thank God for His mercies. People will think that is it not just pregnancy, you will have another one. A friend called me sometimes ago and we got talking, he said 'I thought you are strong', I said I thought I was strong too. God is my strength. Please always check on people, don't assume they've gotten over it, some of them still cry in their closet, they will come out and laugh with you, go inside and cry again. Be nice to people please. This is one of the lessons I've learnt this period. Some say, I don't know how he/she will take it if I talk about it, there's a way you will talk to people that they will appreciate you. Some people around you are lonely and in the midst of people, please check on them. I'm not a good writer, please manage my English. |
