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FamilyRe: Journey Of A Patiently Waiting Mother by linecrosser(op): 9:57am On Aug 17, 2025
Sometimes you feel alone and lonely, especially when everyone around you is getting pregnant easily and it seems you are the only one remaining. I complained tomy husband one day and he reminded me of a popular quote in front of a school close to my house. " when good things are happening to people around you, it means God is in the neighborhood, rejoice with them because you are the next".
I believe in this, I believe everything I'm doing will work for me. I believe my testimony is near.
This journey isn't for the weak, but it's making my heart tender daily, understanding people more. I no longer judge people again, I try to understand them, think probably they are going through something that's why they behave the way they behave.

Please stop judging people, you don't know what they are going through.
FamilyRe: Journey Of A Patiently Waiting Mother by linecrosser(op): 9:49am On Aug 17, 2025
NoToPile:
May God grant your heart desires, my friend who got married in 2013 had a baby boy last month, it ended in praise. Passed through a lot in these years- miscarriages, still birth still God came through for her.

Don't lose hope soonest your bundle of joy will arrive. You will laugh.
Thank you
FamilyRe: Journey Of A Patiently Waiting Mother by linecrosser(op): 11:03am On Jul 01, 2025
teresafaith:
My sister the Lord is your strength!
Don't let this phase of temptation in your life shake your faith in God. Believe this year you'll take in and give birth to a healthy baby next year.
Thank you
FamilyRe: Journey Of A Patiently Waiting Mother by linecrosser(op): 11:03am On Jul 01, 2025
Acidosis:
Never let anything take away your joy, please. Many times, we become so focused on what we don’t yet have that we forget to appreciate the things we do have. The truth is, even when your prayers are answered, there will always be something else you’ll want, and the cycle continues.

Life will always come with challenges, but how we respond to them makes all the difference. Many people who once cried endlessly for something eventually got it, only to realise it wasn’t worth all the pain and worry. Yes, children are a blessing, but they’re not the solution to any problem or emptiness you feel. They are not meant to fill a void you created within yourself. That emptiness can only be filled by focusing on what truly matters and finding peace within.




It might be better to just go for IVF or simply continue to wait and enjoy your life. The effectiveness of IUI is too dependent on several male-related and female-related infertility issues. By effectiveness, I’m referring to just about a 15% success rate per cycle, even at the best fertility centres around the world. So, you might need to go through around 3 to 4 cycles to even get a 50–60% chance of success.

Worse still, most of the diagnoses regarding fertility issues are merely guesswork. Today, a woman with PCOS is having a baby through natural conception, while another woman can't. So, please stop stressing yourself and focus on what truly matters. I understand that, as humans, we have been programmed by what I call environmental forces to keep pursuing what we don't have. But trust me, these forces never stop, and their goal has never been to give you joy, but rather to keep pushing you to find "wetin nor lost" in the first place.
Thank you. I've tried to put my mind off it. And it really worked for me at some point. But sometimes pressure from environment and all can make you feel sad.

I think I'll just go back to putting my mind off it and get something to distract myself
FamilyRe: Journey Of A Patiently Waiting Mother by linecrosser(op): 9:25pm On Jun 30, 2025
Yea, going in for IUI soon ...
FamilyRe: Journey Of A Patiently Waiting Mother by linecrosser(op): 7:44pm On Jun 30, 2025
2025,still waiting patiently. Sometimes the journey is tough, sometimes you take each day as it comes. But I'm still alive and showing strong. Crying inside the house, but showing up outside as strong as I can.
This journey has made me tender, I don't judge people again and I'm more sensitive to people around me .
I believe I'm getting stronger everyday.

As a teacher in a British school, my holiday starts next week till September. Please can anyone suggest business idea. I want to make more money and also distract myself. I don't want to cry all through this holiday.
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by linecrosser: 5:53am On Apr 16, 2025
TheModerator:
You borrowed someone your phone? You're a married woman. I can only assume the person is your husband. He can't post with his real account, had to use the wife's phone, yet had the balls to call me a coward. Lol.
I think you don't have anything to do with your life than to search for people's details. That's what you use your life to do. You better do something better before you are old, this kind of work can't be handed over to your generation o. If you are really busy with your life you won't go about looking for people's profile. Get busy with your life.
Please don't try and do nonsense with me, or else you will regret it. I've warned you
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by linecrosser: 5:48am On Apr 16, 2025
dav1002:
How does this make sense to you?
You think everyone has time for banter online. I'm a very busy person, I just read comments and pass online, I respect people and I put them in their place. Please avoid me intelligent man
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by linecrosser: 5:46am On Apr 16, 2025
dav1002:
How does this make sense to you?
That's your own problem if it doesn't make sense to you. I guess you are so full of sense.
Please avoid me, I don't have time for rubbish
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by linecrosser:
TheModerator:
huh

I will let it pass because you're a woman, Ifeoluwa. Don't come near me next time. Face your life and family.

By the way, which testimony are you talking about? Fuel consumption and car repairs takes nearly 70percent of income. It's a business of survival, side gig and a few that are on suicide mission driving day and night like a few ignorant fools on Telegram. Fares are woefully bad, that I know. I don't know what testimony you want to tell me. Just take a deep sit.
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by linecrosser:
TheModerator:
It shows how pathetic of a watchdog you are because I'm still very much in the group. Just laughing at you clowns and your guess work. You keep removing innocent people from the group as if they are me.

Aside being a troll, anything else you're good at?
FamilyRe: Journey Of A Patiently Waiting Mother by linecrosser(op): 7:24pm On Jun 16, 2024
So, I'm here after a year of writing everything. Still patiently waiting. A lot have happened this one year. Sometimes I feel down and alone, work place issues and all those things.
But something happened at the beginning of this year. The first bible study I went for, we were told to cast our care on God, and I did. This has really helped me. I feel more calm, I pray and I confess God's promises.

The thing is, I believe this waiting period is a seed time and a time to develop myself. If I'm busy with positive things, I won't find myself thinking or feeling down. Sometimes I use all those things that I've been able to get to console myself. At least I'm not idle.

I've learnt how to drive
As a teacher, I've developed the aspect of coding and robotics, I've grown in my career.
Most importantly I'm learning fashion designing. I'm able to sew beautiful dresses for myself now. I'm very happy with this.
While I'm still waiting, I'm looking at changing from an educator to a tech guru. So help me God. I've started learning web development.
I don't know where I'll need all these skills.

Although waiting period is not an easy period,but I believe this phase will eventually end, I don't want this time to be wasted, Iso I'll add value to myself by God's help.
I'm also looking at going into buying shares, but I've not learnt anything on that.
I'm not close to where I'm going, but I'm taking a step at a time
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by linecrosser: 11:26am On May 25, 2024
Good day everyone. I'm a young girl, a little over 30. I want to start investing in stocks but I don't even know how to start. Pls is there any book, platform where I can learn from. Please help your sister o
FamilyRe: How Do I Fix My Marriage, It Has Crashed - Family - Nairaland by linecrosser: 6:40pm On May 19, 2024
You both a need a strong spiritual father to talk sense into you..... Your wife is hiding something from you I hope you look for competent man Of God to take up your case.. ..
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by linecrosser: 9:55pm On Feb 17, 2024
Peal1910 please respond to your DM... It's urgent
TravelRe: Nairalander Escapes Death!!! (Pictures) by linecrosser: 9:54pm On Feb 17, 2024
Peal1910 please call me.(Taiwo obinoral1179)
BusinessRe: Lagos Govt To Relocate Computer Village To Kantangowa, Abule Egba by linecrosser: 9:40pm On Feb 17, 2024
madridguy:
The local government chairman for the area go just dey happy for this development.... Having 3 major markets under your command kiss enough enjoyment for him.
the man go dey flex steady
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Ibiyeomie Warns Drummers And Other Church Workers by linecrosser: 1:51pm On Jan 28, 2024
He has said the truth. It's not by force to agree
HealthRe: Months After Abortion, I Still Don't Ovulate. Please Help by linecrosser: 6:46pm On Jan 02, 2024
Time they say heals all wound. You will be healed with time. Miscarriage is not an easy journey, but you need the help of the Holy Spirit.
Please see a doctor for thorough checkup, give it time , your ovulation will come back to normal.
FamilyRe: Journey Of A Patiently Waiting Mother by linecrosser(op): 6:43pm On Jun 11, 2023
So my brother in-law's wife put to birth some months ago(DH is a twin, he got married a year after our wedding).

When the wife put to birth, I took breakfast to the hospital, we got talking and DH said I won't stay long because I'm going for extra lesson that Saturday.

My mother in law's reply was that I should reduce stress, I should always rest on Saturday. When we left the hospital I asked my husband if he hasn't seen people selling in traffic that are pregnant, I don't believe going to lesson on Saturday mean anything.

I like working o, I can't stay idle. I need to make more money.
FamilyRe: Journey Of A Patiently Waiting Mother by linecrosser(op): 9:19pm On Jun 08, 2023
kristana:
I follow @mdpeoplesdoctor on Instagram and she is really good. I wish the Op can contact her. I pray God answers her prayers soon too like he did your friend.
Thank you for this information
FamilyRe: Journey Of A Patiently Waiting Mother by linecrosser(op): 9:18pm On Jun 08, 2023
sisisioge:
It is well my sister. Sorry about your experience at the hospital. Naija hospital is the worse! No empathy and low competence. Yet nobody holds them accountable.

You could have waited another two weeks or so to see if your body would expel it without an infection. After all, your pregnancy hormone was steadily declining....no be everybody dey get the infection.

Anyways, on to your strong healthy viable baby next! You will kukuma carry him. But pls give your body rest and try to get to the bottom of why you kept losing them. Besides, do you know that our body renews itself after a while if we take the right care? May God bless you and yours. It is well.
Hmmm..
When I go to hospitals, I always pray that God's hand will come on the doctor o. Just simple evacuation, the way the doctor was reacting in the theatre sef and one of the nurses.... Health is wealth.
People don't know what they enjoy when they get pregnant and deliver easily
PoliticsRe: Inaugural Address By President Bola Ahmed Tinubu by linecrosser: 1:43pm On May 29, 2023
If he will actually do everything he said, Nigeria will be better. I hope all these are not empty promises.
FamilyRe: Journey Of A Patiently Waiting Mother by linecrosser(op): 5:39am On May 29, 2023
2022:

January to March, nothing really happened. But as I was approaching the month of May, the month I was meant to give birth to my baby, I started feeling sad. Thank God I didn't slip into depression, coupled with the fact that I usually see other people that we got pregnant at the same time giving birth to healthy babies. Why didn't my own stay. It wasn't easy but I survived.

I sometimes make a joke about it that maybe the baby doesn't want to come to Nigeria.

During that period, people were just giving birth around me, I was hopeful and still hopeful.

December 2022, I decided I was not going to put myself under any pressure. It's the end of the year, there's a tendency for you to feel oh, this year has gone again. Christmas and New year was like normal day to me, I didn't attach any special event to it. Abeg I need my mental health.

I will not wish losing a baby for my enemy. It's an unpleasant experience. Thank God for His mercies. People will think that is it not just pregnancy, you will have another one. A friend called me sometimes ago and we got talking, he said 'I thought you are strong', I said I thought I was strong too. God is my strength.

Please always check on people, don't assume they've gotten over it, some of them still cry in their closet, they will come out and laugh with you, go inside and cry again. Be nice to people please. This is one of the lessons I've learnt this period.

Some say, I don't know how he/she will take it if I talk about it, there's a way you will talk to people that they will appreciate you. Some people around you are lonely and in the midst of people, please check on them.





I'm not a good writer, please manage my English.

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