₦airaland Forum

Zoie:
Honestly you have a point. Traditionally, men have been seen as the providers since the dawn of mankind.
Nevertheless women are coming up, but that does not absolve the man of his role in being the main provider.
Problem is some guys date ladies that are out of their reach. You're earning 50000 and dating a girl who spends 10k on a dress, 15 on a shoe, and half these monies are coming from you.
Go for your size, you don't want. That girl with mammy water skin spents 20k for a spa session. Go for a girl who you give 5k and she spends judiciously but no, because she's not flashy.
Carry your cross biko.

shutup...are u better than those rich classy gals that will rarher spend for their boyfriends..if a man should carry all ur financial cross, then such man has the right to use u as a sex slave , he also has the write to put a bullet on ur head, anytime he catches u cheating on him..use ur head?...i did my industrial training in a firm where about 6women calls the shot, each earning nothing less than 900k..go and hustle we men are tired of liabilities..

onwuakpachris:
o.p u are a disgrace to manhood...it is guys like u that give lazy naija girls the impetus to gold dig and financially manipulate simp men...even girls on this very thread will be laughing at ur stupidity..tueh...guys should only spend on girls that are "worth it" not all those lazy useless things that have nothing else to offer apart from their dirty pussies....I do offer little tokens to my sweetheart cus babe is worth it..but she always politely turns them down with the statement "I don't want u to start wasting ur money now..js keep saving up nd growing ur biz" even though she knows I make enough money from my biz...besides babe is so hardworking..already training as a nurse at just 19..so she knows d value of savings...o.p infact u need a decent hardworking babe like my sweetheart to reset ur mentality not all those lazy things u roll with..

ithe guy is a very big idiot...just imagine, its either the op is a female hiding behind a male monicker, or he is just a typical, stupid weakling of a man, trying to get gals approval by being an hypocrite..oga no nairaland babe go give u pussy, u can self-service ursef to death for all i care..

bigseank:
Your matter is not too hard, go and settle yourself. when he has done something funny, then you can comeback we will settle it then.

But this is what we are saying. are you not married to the man?, ki ni big deal?, so that you can be chopping his money and your money together. "my money is my money and his money is our money" mentality, women and money ehn....if you have told him earlier it wont reach him saying he owns you and your salary, am sure you know how much he makes, and you are not telling us what you yourself uttered or said during the confrontation. madam tell him how much you earn and no disturb us jare.

very selfish woman..no mimd her jawe...i tire for naija women and their rubbish mentality

Candyness:
That's my goal boo. Most here are ugly thou. Sad

smh..i give up..lol,im sure u are some gay guy hiding behind a girl's monicker..

Candyness:
They are, boo

then stop dating men..date u fellow gals ok

Fountainofyouth:
Pls stop typing, you sound unintelligent.

but he is saying the truth..how can u say no, while u moan, and squirt..is that not foolishness and hypocrisy..u gals are just confused and so complicated, u gals dont know what y'all want

Candyness:
No you slim? No
You look good? No
You have expensive cloths? No
Can you get rich men?
Boo can you speak English? No
Man? No

You wish you was me boo. You wish u do.
Boo y'all cam try all u want. Keep dreaming boo

taught u didn't need a man. why cant u date ur fellow gals, since all men are rapist, confused being..

Candyness:
1. quit asking for my number.

2. Quit sending me love messages.

3. Yes I am single and yes ain't interested in y'all.

lol..whats wrong with u, are u high?..why u talking to yourself?

IamPlato:
But you are disgusted

na pure jealousy na..u no sabi gals way again?

Vyzz:
Try Altered carbon if u are a scifi fan
And money heist of course

Dark matter go make sense even it is a little bit old.
But it is sharp

altered carbon make sense

buygala:
Shut up


So anyone who looks at things objectively rather than blindly flowing with the #metoo trend is a rape apologist

Feel free to join the queue and give us your own rape tale

no mind the idiot..

simplepee:
May all rapist die a painful death.


That Becky girl though ' How can someone be so fresh and be a rapist' . Fish brain, that's why he keeps getting the girls na as they won't stop flocking around him. Once some girls see fine boy dem no wan know whether he get sense join or not

but lets be realistic here..guys like that have so many pussies arround..he is not just fresh but also rich...dont judge matters with emotions, we all know what u gals are capable of when heartbroken..these are obviously false accusations, take it or leave it...im sure when i blow,one or 2 gals will also say i raped them,its in u gals nature..pukes!

LedRock:
Abeg wetin u talk na im fit dem, no need to argue with them.

yes na..make them believe wetin them wan believe..e no go affect my life in anyway

Ebenezer2O2O:
I've reported her account and her rudeness to the mods.
She will be banned shortly.
Nairaland isn't a forum for frustrated feminists

thank u bro..ill advise u just ignore them..bunch of hypocrites, i out it to u that that same gal will still Bleep her bf this night..

hmm...i like the fact that ur post is void of insult to the male specie..to be frank, u are right , we accept that all men are potential rapist..hope u are happy now,hopr u can sleep well now..alright ..good for u..

have gone through most post,and i can see how guys are trying to explain how all men are not potential rapist..while most women here believe all men are..guys una get strength o..why should gals view especially the ones here, that u dont fucking know, bother u..deep inside as a man u know u are not a pervert or a rapist, so why argue with them..they can believe all they want to believe i don't fucking care..pls guys stop trying to explain yourselfs to this ladies, if they say all men are potential rapist, fine we are , we accept.the only thing that can judge us ,is our conscience ok..so guys stop being simps and weaklings..ignore this women..their head gp soon calm..

Millenniumlady:
Yen yen yen yen yet no point made.boy what the fvck are you it's one thing to be delusional and it's one thing to be playing out blind going through your comments it's clear that you're a toddler hence the senseless jokes I'll spare you today but try this nonsense again and I'll personally deal with you oponu radarada oshi you and your brothers got nothing on me my mouth alone will finish you not to talk of if i finally slap senses into your skull with your dry neck like stock fish you goofyass modafuka

funny bitch...pictures can be decieving o..if u see me real life..i swear u cant say pim..if im lying let thunder fire me...anyways the internet are just filled with spineless trolls like u,that dont have a say in the real life world..so u are free to talk ur shit..but i believe in karma. one day..god will direct ur foot steps to me, in real life ,and that day u will know that some men are not to be joked with..Bleep off my mention..and dont ever try to quote me again. ..u can download my picture and masturbate with it for all i care though, look at how u took time to analyze a mere selfie photo..smh

Millenniumlady:
See this awong bleaching bobo with you pot belly like clay pot shey you dey ok ni ? You better respect yourself make i no change am for you.......mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew

if u dont have a fair man in ur kindred, i understand, not everybody has to bleach and have a burnt face like u, lol. and e no go better for u if u no change am for me, idiot..chai internet..so if a man raises his hand on a disrespectful and mannerless thing like u now, ppl will come and condemn him, especially simp and weakling guys, smh...im sure u cant even talk to my immediate younger bro this way, face to face, forget baby face..nana ogun go kill u if u come here to whine me idiot..lol

Millenniumlady:
I wish you can look me into the eyes and say this rubbish if i slap you eh you'll return back to your normal colour after I've reset your dead brain cells I'll show you what a 22yrs old lady can do mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeew.....Nigga's be talking shit in their comments but can't keep the same energy when they meet you if dem born you well try that rubbish with me

lol..chai i don suffer..hahaha...22 year old..even if u were 35 ill so deal with u eh...chai...anyways im sure u just want attention, and im not giving u that ok...i still maintain why did u have to check my profile..do u like what u see?..well u are not my type, i can tell ur pussy is slack abd it stinks badly..bye ..if u can see me face to face, im sure u will be so scared to stay within 100m ..idiot

Millenniumlady:
You should have at least bleach your lips together with your face before you come to my mention and talk nonsense get off here before I slap you

atleats its not as burnt as ur ugly face madam..why must u check my profile before replying though, smh...i wish i can see u personally, lol na me u wan slap, if i beat u finish eh, u go prefer say i rape u..see this idiot..

Onyi22:
Oh my goodness, how did it happened?
Am so sorry my love, the plans of haters concerning this our new mansion will not succeed..
Get well soon

lol...this gal don mad

Millenniumlady:
It's not safe to be a lady in Nigeria anymore i'm scared.

go to india, south africa or zimbabwe na

Happyguy201:
this got me hard bro lucky boy

lol. crazy dude smh

Muna4real:
Oh really?

yes..same way it sound funny to u, its the same way it sounds funny to us.

Onyi22:
Tobi my crush back then in the BBN house, so sorry to say, but ave given my heart to a more richer guy than you..
Congratulations to your new age

crazy leech..pukes!

cococandy:
If. In that case your fears don’t really exist. Just a potential fear. Got it.

..some women are quite stronger than some men, what do u expect such man to do when they are both alone...being bad has nothing to do with gender, its a personal attribute..

cococandy:
tell me more. You’re scared of women why?
You’re scared if you visit a woman by yourself, you could get overpowered and raped by her? You are scared of going out shirtless so you don’t attract a woman rapist to yourself? You’re scared of being out late to avoid being robbed and raped by a woman? If you are for real, I’m not going to knock your experience. I don’t know what you have bee through but I just wanted to make sure I understand what it is you’re scared of.
yes ,if she is way stronger and bigger than i am,i can br scared, though it is rare to find such woman, i must confess..

no we are not. We are not scared that an interaction gone wrong with another woman could have raped and killed by her.

ok if u say so , cos i know women prefer the company of men to their fellow women..

women have raped men. Gang raped to death?
so many times, its nothing new..an average man is scared of going to the female hostel, why do u think so?

try being scared when you’re alone with one. Maybe then you’ll get a grasp.

like i said , if she is stronger and quite bigger ...the strenght is all that matters gere, there are some women an average guy will never even think of raping because of their physique..

not the point. Of course not all men are rapists. The point is that one hand you teach women to live in fear of men with all your victim blaming and advice that is meant to restrict how women behave in order to keep themselves safe from men. Then on the other hand you get mad that Genevieve said women live in fear of men. Isn’t that what y’all have been asking us to do for ages? To live in fear of men. You disguise it as good behavior. But it’s a docility aimed at not spooking the tiger. Aka Living in fear.

u make it sound like men are oppressing women, we all know the world of today favours women more than men..

now we are getting somewhere.

yes if women were stronger than men, there is every tendecies u guys will rape men..

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Nice one though


Gospel abi na praise or worship songs way most Nigerian Christians nor dey take serious or even play at all

The only time them dey take that thier song serious na when them dey inside motor dey travel long distance
Especially at the beginning of the journey
Once them don travel far small them go remove am put am for secular song.
The drivers of God is good motors sabi that thing well well

lol...i swear guy...no be lie ..

Hathor5:
I didn't say all and I didn't even try to imply all. I know there are decent guys out there who enjoyed proper upbringing and I respect these guys a lot but it is not a secret that many guys and even girls believe that visiting a guy at home or inviting one over is a ticket to a woman's vagina. It shows how foolish some people reason and how dirty their minds are. These same people will complain about how Western countries are morally bankrupting their world but can't imagine someone have a drink in someone's house without fûcking. Very disturbing mindset.

i still insist, not all men are like that..i have more female freinds than male friends and i cant tell u categorically, i dont reason that way, same with so many men out there.

mrpaedo:
OMG you are boring!!
Byyyyeeee!!

pervert...u will be lynched someday, rapist

cococandy:
Fine you said her comment is inciting. Let me ask you this.

How many times have ever heard someone say
1) women be careful don’t go out at so and so time.
2)don’t go to a man’s house alone
3)dress “properly” to prevent rapists from being attracted to you
4)don’t accept anything from a man unless you’re ready to pay back with your body.
5) make sure you learn self defense....the list goes on.

While not bad advice, do you believe there is anything else fueling these advice except the fear of what men do to women? To encourage women to be wary of men or they might hurt and killed?
I never actually subscribe to any of that and I tend to call them out when I read them especially if people try to use them to deflect/victim blame after someone has been raped but people go “if anything happens to you you’re to blame”. So you folks actively encourage women to live in fear of men. Wonder why the uproar. Because a woman said it the way it is?

Y’all can’t have it both ways. It’s either women live in fear of men as she rightfully said and follow these precious advice listed above to protect themselves from men or men behave themselves and all that won’t be necessary.

All men are not bad yet many of them look the other way when serious issues like this arises. Or at best slap on a lame condemnation that is obviously not heartfelt often ending in a “But she should now have...”. Just like there are good cops who happen to standby and laugh while their mates kill and hurt people.

Bu you’ll see them come out enthusiastically to cry about who a grown women sleeps with or how this celebrity got her wealth. Like that’s the evil in the society. Not what their mates are doing.

. are u for real..are u saying we men are not scared of women too?, smh..seriously u are even trying to confuse me more with this ur reply, are u saying women are not scared of their fellow women too..we have situations were by guys are gang raped till death by women, do u expect me to be in a room in the company of about 5 gals and not be sacred...look most rapist are men doesn't mean majority of men are rapist, understand that ok..the notion of women being scared of men is due to believe that men are naturally stronger, nothing else...

mrpaedo:
It is your father that is a fo.ol
The women label men rapists?I wear that fuccking label with pride
Me don't need the validation of no woman unlike you Mr weakling

if not being a pervert like u makes me a weakling , then ill gladly be a weakling...perhaps u were concieved through rape, thats why u fancy it so much..snow!