tosyne2much:
Really?

I wonder too o

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

NONSENSICAL NONSENSE

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

A man isn't responsible for the finances of a woman he's dating

Never learn dating or relationship from a poor minded person, it always end in premium tears .

A friend of mine once said"I'll date a girl who's living with her family in face me I face you, I'll never date a girl who's parents no dey try for her, if her dad is alive and she has daddy issues I will run away lol"....... My people e get why ooo, in most cases it leads to heart failure lol

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

. I totally disagree with your post from the beginning to the end because your write up is miskaten wife to be girlfriend.
Does your church even support girlfriend and boyfriend

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Many many jobless girls out there who believes their pussy is their selling point

Hence they keeps demanding from men every minutes

As for
Me I can never never never date a jobless lady

I don’t need your Money

But I need peace of mind.

VenumX:
Some negroes will not sleep well this night o.
Bitter pill to swallow.

we go sleep and we go snore join am.




what you say?

Hmmm

The topic alone turns me off.

Is not true

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

Since other's are not going to say it, I'll take it upon myself to announce that on behalf of every male on nairaland, we disown you and wash our hands of anything related to your case...
Let all required individuals take note.
PS. not all men are simps, this nigva just tripping

I'd wanted to overlook your write up but I just feared you are heading towards the bottomless pit.
Did you read what you posted at all.

Bro, you are in a parasitic relationship and its better you review it before its too late.

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

SHUT UP

onwuakpachris:
o.p u are a disgrace to manhood...it is guys like u that give lazy naija girls the impetus to gold dig and financially manipulate simp men...even girls on this very thread will be laughing at ur stupidity..tueh...guys should only spend on girls that are "worth it" not all those lazy useless things that have nothing else to offer apart from their dirty pussies....I do offer little tokens to my sweetheart cus babe is worth it..but she always politely turns them down with the statement "I don't want u to start wasting ur money now..js keep saving up nd growing ur biz" even though she knows I make enough money from my biz...besides babe is so hardworking..already training as a nurse at just 19..so she knows d value of savings...o.p infact u need a decent hardworking babe like my sweetheart to reset ur mentality not all those lazy things u roll with..

ithe guy is a very big idiot...just imagine, its either the op is a female hiding behind a male monicker, or he is just a typical, stupid weakling of a man, trying to get gals approval by being an hypocrite..oga no nairaland babe go give u pussy, u can self-service ursef to death for all i care..

Toxic masculinity!

A man caged by age long traditions in a world where women are now free. Back in the ages, men owned women like slaves because slavery was legal then.

Today, women are woke. My brother, are you forbidden from looking out for yourself? Get woke o, before these women use you as cash cow. This is 21st century, men free yourselves!

I cant say , Nigerian girls have similar mentality.

This must be a joke, if you provide everything no need for her to be working. Relationship ain't job opportunities, any lady that can't take care
of themselves can't be in a relationship either. This is a very wrong and primitive mindset, 'entitlement' that's why there's high rate of gender inequality. Desist from encouraging this, any lady that needs hair money or shoe money should go get a job or likewise ask their parents.

See how they are reacting to a post made 3 years ago

True.

If I don't love you, I can't take or ask anything from you cos I know I don't have feelings for you and my conscience will prick me badly.

I have had to reject stuffs from people who showed interest in me just because I don't feel same way and can't live with the guilt.

tosyne2much:
Really?

Dude it's been ages.
Whatsup

Taa disembark from dat careless capping!
Gold digger!

This is the most stuuupiiiid thread i have ever read. Op is coloshokobangoshe

NaeChris:
This post should be thrown into the waste bin. You are just confusing yourself. You mention HOUSEHOLD, is the guy her husband? You talked about BOYFRIEND providing, are they married? No boyfriend has responsibility over any girlfriend unless they are engaged, even at that, there is a limit. No boyfriend has the right to have sex with his girlfriend unless they are married, otherwise ON MUTUAL CONSENT. Provission here is voluntry as long as they are not married. Na your type go finally come dey cast ladies of how them use you dump you. Seriously, you dey find girlfriend, wish you well in your search.

No mind the OP

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

IT

I wonder where you got this. I courted my wife for 2 years 6months before we got married.

She didn't ask me for even N1 throughout. She is self secure and does not depend upon any man for her survival. She is grateful for whatever I give her and we have been married for more than a decade with a beautiful home.

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awhybliss:
Rapists/prostitutes/thugs ain't born , they are made... Be it male or female. Train your child in the way of the lord.. so you won't come to social media and be finding for solutions to stop the act with hastags "#"

You are derailing the thread. Use your brain

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Corrupt mind. That's why you still single. Be informed that money doesn't make guys attractive to reasonable ladies.

Zoie:
Honestly you have a point. Traditionally, men have been seen as the providers since the dawn of mankind.
Nevertheless women are coming up, but that does not absolve the man of his role in being the main provider.
Problem is some guys date ladies that are out of their reach. You're earning 50000 and dating a girl who spends 10k on a dress, 15 on a shoe, and half these monies are coming from you.
Go for your size, you don't want. That girl with mammy water skin spents 20k for a spa session. Go for a girl who you give 5k and she spends judiciously but no, because she's not flashy.
Carry your cross biko.

shutup...are u better than those rich classy gals that will rarher spend for their boyfriends..if a man should carry all ur financial cross, then such man has the right to use u as a sex slave , he also has the write to put a bullet on ur head, anytime he catches u cheating on him..use ur head?...i did my industrial training in a firm where about 6women calls the shot, each earning nothing less than 900k..go and hustle we men are tired of liabilities..

Eulalia:
True.

If I don't love you, I can't take or ask anything from you cos I know I don't have feelings for you and my conscience will prick me badly.

I have had to reject stuffs from people who showed interest in me just because I don't feel same way and can't live with the guilt.

u are beating around the bush. But i like ur point sha

Blackmoran:
Ohhhhh na guy write this rubbish... Jesus!!!

Hahahaha......someone did her job well well . Not easy to be so inspired these days.