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No, never watched that one.

Surely, I can't be the only person that doesn't like Tyler Perry movies Most of them I've never watched, but I still skip them whenever they're on. I don't have time for that. It's probably that Madea character that put me off his movies. Don't like exaggeration & OTT characters. I only take that from Eddie. Martin's can irritate at times, but I watch begrudgingly.

I like some of his movies , not the "funny" ones though. I don't watch the Madea ones , they are too much . I liked the" Why did I get married"? , " confessions of a marriage counselor " , "coloured girls" although it was a bit depressing and hardcore. I forgot the name of the one he was engaged to Gabriel Union and she got tired of lying to herself and bowing to pressure of marrying the " perfect guy" and broke the whole thing off in a very matured conversation. Both Eddie and Martin irritate me , I would rather watch Chris Rock and his noisy voice lol.

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Sometimes you got to be selfish & cruel, not only to the other person but to yourself as well (deny yourself certain people & things). What is love? It's only a feeling. Lock that shìt up & look at this practically. Is he worth all the stress you'll endure as his wife? I don't care how hot & whatever a guy is, if the core principles don't match my own, I'd rather let him go. I can't be waiting for him to "outgrow" certain things. Time waits for no man. To hell with him. Next! Learn to look beyond how you feel. Feelings sometimes can be blinding. If you master the art of switching off your feelings when necessary, you won't have trouble kicking a dog back to the street bìtches where he belongs.

DO NOT marry him or DO, it's up to YOU.

I don't know why people torture themselves all in the name of being " inlove " . The guy has already shown her over and over again that he will never change his ways but she still " loves " him? . WOW!. I think the most insane people are those that are inlove . I seriously would rather be insane over myself than some guy who will leave you bitter . 60% brain , 40% heart not the other way round lol.

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LMAO. Wowu. Smh.

I get it.

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I'm not feeling this one. The only time he captured me was in that movie with Saana Latham. Can't remember the name now. Anyway, he was a psycho. I like psychos

He is not bad though. You got taste

LMFAO @ you like psychos . I remember the movie and I liked him there , he knows how to play psycho roles , remember him in coloured girls by Tyler Perry? He was a bit extreme there and had me believing that he is a real life psycho .

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LMFAO. I tire for your matter. Predator? Hahaha. I kinda get it though. Like I'd date a cheetah if it was human & didn't bite There's something sexy about them. They walk lazily but can explode into neck breaking speed unexpectedly. The intrigue is in the contradiction.

I gotcha.

LMFAO. Forgive me I watch too much National geographic special . I would date any of the 4 big cats , but a tiger is my favorite. I love their dangerous eyes , how their muscles ripple when they walk they exude confidence and power , how they flick their tails before they leap you ,they are as silent as ghosts although their paws are as big as saucers , they move lazily yet you can sense the danger they pose, they blend in with trees easily and you won't spot them but you can feel them staring at you salivating at your sight , when they finally attack their roar alone will have you know why they are the most dangerous predator in the jungle . By that time , they ain't jack shyt you can do about it , they have you where they want you.

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Ooh, I like this one too I get your type now. You like them rough looking, like they've LIVED

Lol, undifumene. Something about Michael Ealy , forget the light eyes , actually you can leave them there I wouldn't mind .

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LMFAO @ the way he runs on the field. Now that's a new one. For some reason I imaged a trotting horse, showing off & feeling itself
You're crazy wena. The way he runs. LMAO.

LMFAO, i get fascinated by weird things. I could watch the guy run the whole day , ingathi usindwa lisende . There is something about a slow moving guy , I always imagine what a dangerous predator he must / could be when he finally accelerates his speed . Tiger tings .

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Lol @ no sexual aura. That's actually what I feel about all light skin men. But I've never dated a dark skinned guy even though I'm immensely attracted to them over their yellow bone counterparts. It's just one of those mysterious things.

For me it's kind of weird with yellows, there are conditions. I don't really like it if he is a normal looking guy lol, he has to have creepy eyes . And have a tattoo ;Dand be very hairy from face feet . I would do him though

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Those ears though LMAO. No, I'm not feeling him at all. Who is he?

Lol, I hate the ears too. Ngu Yaya Tour'e , a soccer star. I don't know why I like him, even the way he runs on the field fascinates me . And the fact that he loaded adds to the attraction .

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Sidenote: Don't they say originally "we" are from Cameroon? I mean "the Bantu". Perhaps that's why there's a familiarity about them. Andazi. So you don't like dark guys? You should be falling all over Ethios then Ethiopian guys are gorgeous, but the thing with them is that they're a bit feminine. Too soft. I'd traumatize one in a relationship That's the only reason I wouldn't date one. No to Somali men either. Definitely not my thing. Ukhona omnye umntanyana we-Somalia that was disturbing me a few years ago. Not bad looking but I just couldn't because ngomanqeke. LMFAO.

Yeah , that's what they say . But bona they tend to be familiar shame, I like them. Lol, nah I don't like them, I've been attracted to a few though but have never actually dated one . I roam in the yellowish to brown zone . They are gorgeous, and they have the type of skin I like . If I could qinisa them a bit here and there , then I would definitely fall over them ( but abanayo that sexual aura to them and like you said ba soft ). Lol@ngomanqeke , definitely. Hay dankie sani.

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Lol, this is still alive?

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This is what I found on Ivory Coast. A bit too hard on the ID for my liking lol.

LMFAO, no those are not the type of like . Not my style . This is my favourite Ivorian

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They do, hey. Ivory Coast? I've never met anyone from there. Tell me more
Hottest guy I've ever seen, personally, was from Cameroon. He spent a few weeks with his brother here in PTA (fresh from Cameroon), destination- Kaapstad. I was crushing hard. Kikikiki. The only thing that made me not to pursue anything beyond friendship was the fact that he had a baby mama back home & was gonna move elsewhere anyway, so I was content just looking at him.

Actually no, he comes 2nd after Teddy from Ethiopia.

I've met a couple . Them and cameroonians are so much alike in my opinion. Their lifestyles tend to be similar to ours , so they are very easy to befriend , both males and females tend to be open minded. The guys I've met had that Yaya Toure look , I'm not much of a chocolate fan but it seems like their chocolate is made differently ....tempting . Hope it was not my guy , the hottest foreign guy I've met was also from Cameroon, with absolutely no arrogance just self assured which made him the more attractive . Wazinceda sana.

As for Ethios, I find many of them cute but can't imagine bedding one , not my type of hot.

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LMFAO @ being man-made. Usile There was an episode on OPW last year & one of the groomsmen had them for dayssss, looking like pliers. They're attractive when they're moderate though, not the mfenyana ones

LMFAO @mfenyana ones. Yeah , true. They have nice frames iqela labo shame . That's usually the only thing I find interesting ngabo lol. Tjo i guys zase ivory though .

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LMAO. So mean. It actually reminded me of bona when they have those extreme zigweqe

LMFAO. Ja ne ? I often wonder when is see them if azenziwa na coz they can look a bit too much just like ezantloko .

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Lol, I wonder if he is really a cripple or if she was just being mean to hurt his feelings.

Lol, maybe he is and she was " managing " his disability grant . Or "little him" doesn't always work .

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She called him a cripple.

This one weak me o ...*A cripple whom she was "managing "*.

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True on the porn thing.

LMAO. They say things about him? Be careful that they don't hit on him I kinda don't trust them because many of them are "sluts" lol.

LMFAO, true about them and hoeing. They used to make naughty remarks,but I no longer hang out with them that much though, we see each other by chance or once in like 8 months . I used to enjoy their company more when I was a " hippie " lol, they aren't so relevant now.

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Lol, sometimes I swear we were separated at birth. Straight porn irritates me too, because I can almost tell a fake moan from a real one. Those girls can fake it for the universe. With lesbos, they're a bit more genuine in their expressions by comparison.

I'm still laughing @ you getting used to seeing gay peens. Yeah, they are not shy at all, but personally, I'm used to them saying inappropriate things than the flashing. LMAO.

Good morning, btw

Lol, we have been reunited my sisto . I think straight porn ( atleast 99% of it) is catered for men and maybe some women who are willing to do anything to please or massage the male ego. I can't stomach some of the things being done for " pleasure " , I often cringe .

Lol, what a waste of great things . Nonsense lol. I sometimes enjoy their "free nature" , nothing that comes out of their mouths suprises or shocks me , including the little inappropriate remarks about my own man lol.


Good morning, sweets .

Rubber1999:
I don’t know about Nigerian culture but for Somalis it’s hard to marry out. My dad makes jokes about it I think he might stop us from being together and I respect my dad so

Stop downplaying the reality of that " joke" by your dad. You know very well how he and most of your society feel about foreigners when it comes to issues like this . Somalians generally aren't open to marrying " fellow " africans, infact it's not just Somalians, horners in general. Not all but a good majority of them have the ,them and us attitude , which I totally understand because I come from a similar society, so don't think I'm taking a jab at you .

You need to make up your mind , are you willing and ready to live in isolation because of this guy?. Your family might not disown you but you and your future children will definitely feel the cold breeze forever when you visit a Somalian community . On the other hand, your happiness should come first , if you feel the guy is what you want/need and you are tough enough to survive without the affections of your family or you can survive if the relationship fails, why not take the risk? You only have one life to live.

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LMAO. They whip them out, show them to you & you look? You're a brave soul lol. I'd faint.

TBH, I think I've watched it no more than two times in totality. Now lesbian porn is an interesting one for me. It looks hot but a part of me is also repulsed by it. Like, I just can't imagine myself going down on another woman. Yuck!

LMFAO. They aren't shy people , so they weren't uncomfortable changing clothes infront of me lol. It was a bit uncomfortable for me at first , but I got used to it , they weren't bad to look at anyway .


The lesbian one is kinda little more repulsive for me than the gay one , probably because of what you said; imagining myself going down on another woman and rubbing bodies , the thought alone is nauseating . But the interesting part about it is that the women understand each other well , they know where to touch , how and when, they don't have to overplay the whole thing to prove a point like in hetero porn. Hetero porn kinda irritates me at times , it's very unrealistic and demeaning , I seriously can't watch some for more than 3 seconds.

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Most Ethiopian food is actually very delicious. Plus it looks appetizing I love it, I just don't like injera.

I noticed that too about the Kenyan dish.

You right about it, looking inviting .

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So you've seen a gay man's scepter?

When I watch them do their thing, I'm often left with the feeling that it's all wasted lol.

I've watched their movies , and I had two as friends, so yes I can confirm .

Lol, you sound like a fan. On a serious note, i get you , t's the same lesbian porn to me.

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Simple! Our tastebuds are tantalized by different things. Example, my partner enjoys Ethiopian injera, but I can't stand it. I dislike the taste & the smell. I've tried it on more than one occasion & I figured it's just not my cup of tea.

Yup!. I've never tasted Ethiopian food, but their wraps look interesting , but I've never been tempted to taste . They are often vegetarian , I don't do vegetarian meals . Did you notice the Kenyan meal kinda sounds like chisa nyama lol.

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Maybe it's curiosity because I've also watched it.
Usually gays have big...

LMFAO, you are too curious .

@the bolded, I've always been curious about that . Maybe the butt does something to it .

tabtabtab:
What happen to making friend with her... Getting to know her and see where it goes from their...

Note: best of friends makes a good lovers.

Don't treat her like a LovePeddler.... Instead treat her like queen and she will forever cherish and respect you.

I like that , so true most times .

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I think everyone will say that about their country's food though. What's "yummy yummy" to you, looks inedible to someone else. I've seen stuff that looks like something that came straight out of a diaper here

LOL, that's exactly what some people don't get. What looks good and tastes good for them might look or taste like something else to someone of a different nationality. They will argue up and down that their food is the best , even though it' s just an opinion ( blinded by patriotism in most cases ).

She should leave single people to do what they want to do at their own pace . Is by force to marry? . She should focus on the task ahead and it's a huge one , married after just two months ? Give it 2 years and let her come back and tell if she would take the same decision again.