revontuli:


Those must be some low-class tourists. It's extremely rude behavior to scratch private parts in public, not acceptable anywhere. If they behaved like that in Europe or USA, they'd get slapped or at least receive some snide comment and angry stares.
Stereotyping is wrong, those low-class losers do not represent white people. Just like criminal and scammer Nigerians abroad do not represent all Nigerians and Africans. Just some bad apples, like those Ukrainians arrested for illegal oil trading in Nigeria.

Dude , relax. Are you Nigerian?. If you followed the conversation, you would have realized we aren't even Nigerians. Obviously I wasn't talking about white people in general , i was talking about a certain group of white South Africans who behave like that, and the person I posted to knows the kind I'm talking about.

XhosaNostra:


What does she do? Akandichazi the hubby

She's an ENCA news anchor and business woman. Lol, u Aya is from the "ubuhle bendoda zinkomo zayo "people . So the guy is very very very hot to our people .

XhosaNostra:


Hmmm...
She's getting skinnier, btw. She used to be a bit meaty in her days doing the kiddies show on ETV. I expected more though. The guy doesn't look her type, akamfanelanga

She is nne ? Thought I was the only who noticed . Lol, he ain't bad nje, you expected umntu onje ngobani?

XhosaNostra:


It's not by force. Kikikiki. Kanti who is this guy she is marrying?

LOL. I think the guy is Nkululeko Buthelezi or something. I read they broke up and got back together, so don't know anymore. Them...

XhosaNostra:


No, she's choreographed many popular music videos lol. Ungamkhi with a teaspoon. It's just that most of their work is behind the scenes, so when she posted that video, it got people talking.

Here's the video

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Ylz7JZGEUw/url]

Phofu ke you never know who's behind these videos. Nice one . I like that song

XhosaNostra:


LMFAOOO. But they're always in shorts mos, so it's not a stereotype, it's a fact

Lol, and always itchy .

This one below didn't shock me , she doesn't not have that look , but everything else about her screams white dyck lover . I can spot them a mile away . Her name is Ayanda- Alle Paine.

XhosaNostra:


True. Lira too. Oh, that's Pearl? I know her but andimthandi naye lol. Who is she marrying?

Lol, it's like 99% of the people you don't like . There's something I like abut her I just don't know what, besides her obvjous cute smile . She played it smart as well and went for a business dude, no rapper .

XhosaNostra:


She's a choreographer. She made news when she posted a video of herself dancing in heels @ 9 months pregnant.

Here's one of her dance videos

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F9fs3xJb5Ts
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Lol, what a way to get famous .

XhosaNostra:


LOL! So what if it's a young one with those shorts & the rugby thighs?
Some of them can be attractive, it's just that the thought of kissing & sleeping with them is a bit repulsive. They tend to have sticky looking mouths. Yuck.

LMFAO @ bolded. Why the stereotyping na . I do find some of them attractive as well but not in a sexual way . That's just a No No, can't see myself going there. And I hate it when they are wearing those shorts and you are in a queue and they start scratching their balls while having a conversation.

Neimar:


fake virgin den....cux d former guy has already popped ya cherry

Lol, virginity can be recycled.

XhosaNostra:


I like aba as a couple. That's Takkies & her hubby. Don't know his name. Another dark & skinny archetype.

Don't know her , what does she do ?. They look ok together.

XhosaNostra:


Who is she? The girl in your picture. Carol andimphiwanga lol. To me she comes across not cold, but le type ezitshelayo & undermining. There's something snobbish about her.

Here name is pearl modiadie, tv / radio personality. You are right there about her having that snobbish thing to her, but I like that we know nothing about her personal life . Lera, also didn't suprise me.

MISTAICEY02288:


Oya i wee Sha send you a Pm. Reply me ooo

My email ain't working today .

XhosaNostra:


Apparently here they are, amadumbe akhona.

Lol, oh I see. Hay dankie .

Neimar:


who cares bout ur virginity?

Lol, the guy I'm going to give it to next .

XhosaNostra:



Hmmm, come to think of it, you're right. Hlubi Mboya & Sonia Booth come to mind, "darkies". On the voice thing, Carol Bouwer! Btw, did you hear that they divorced, Precious & her guy? I'm not sure if she came back or not though. Read it some time ago on ZALebs.

Voice yokunentsa. Hahaha. Mnxm.

Yeah , those two came to mind plus Hlubi's sister . I like carol Bouwer , very low key and classy little miss but I kinda think she's cold lol. Ouch! Shame , hope she returned back home, can't imagine living overseas with kids and no support system . She will find another one in her Cape Town , plenty to go around lol.

I love her but sometimes, I get tired of listening to her lol.

I always thought this girl below , would end up going white. Everything about her said so , I'm suprised she's marrying a black dude .

XhosaNostra:


LMFAO. Sizobethwa
Hayi you're late, omadala have moved on with the times, kuthiwa they take "transactions" ngoku, sana Was reading an article just a few minutes ago about bank transfers etc. No stories lol. Pay anyhow as long as the money arrives qha. Not lemfitshimfitshi yamadumbe or whatever those things are. What is idumbe anyway, do you know?

But I agree. Ngathi niyalamba. Ukutya for the why now?

LMFAO, new age typa lobola. Awe uncles . Lol@ amadumbe, I've heard of the name but don't know what it is .

XhosaNostra:
I hope he is rich. Because why would you wanna marry an old man? The younger ones look so much better, but even then, there's still a little icky feeling about them for some of us.
White men also seem to have a type, they usually don't go for "thick", they like their women lean.

Get that generational wealth, my sister

I doubt that she would be stupid enough to marry him if she wasn't sure she is going to get paid , that's too much trauma lol. Yes , you are right about them liking the lean type , add darker skin if she's black. I don't know if I'm the only one who notices the kind of black girl that always ends up with a white guy here , they usually look very " unique" compared to the average SA woman. They always speak like they are going to run out of breath or they are being suffocated . Precious Kofi, I was shocked when she went white but now looking closely at her , she's always had that nentsa voice . I should have known.

MISTAICEY02288:


Haha why nah. How is it opposite nah . Me can give you good good loving ooo

Sweet ain't my thing .

XhosaNostra:


Nokukutya kuyoyikeka Kwaaaaa. I'd rather not get married. Where's the money, bhuti? Cash ONLY.

LMFAO, I was looking at that. Hayi , it's like isithuko . Only hard cash will be accepted, no deposits or cheques either .

XhosaNostra:


LMAO. I remember brooklets, neyeza lentshulube lol. The scariest part was pulling out the worms Thank God these days that vermox chops them up so you no longer have to see them. I used to throw a tantrum, running around with a worm sticking out because they terrified me as a kid. So my mom, bless her heart, she'd come & do the needful.

Ewe kaloku it's gorgeous mos, should I lie? Kikikikiki

LMFAO. Yho, thank goodness for i Vermox coz yayisoyikisa lanto

Lol, yiva

MISTAICEY02288:


I'm here... I got a sweet voice and i dress nicely as well. Oya how do we meet

Lol, a sweet voice is the opposite of what I want , so no thanks .

jpphilips:



you know the great thing about young Nigerians, they know how to read out their problems, they barely could figure out how to solve them, first it is erroneous to think the Chinese doesn't have the gun yet, they do, revolution is not the answer, Nigeria is a dysfunctional society because the majority in it are dysfunctional.
What are you gonna do about a population of dysfunctional people?

Well I don't know much about Nigeria, I was just speaking about Africa generally. Each and every country in terms continent has it's problems and the solutions are within their boarders , it will be up to the citizens to find them or overlook them.

XhosaNostra:


Which tribe in South Africa demands food as a bride price?
In my culture the only thing a groom is expected to bring along with him during lobola is tobacco (our elders love to smoke, it's part of the culture), brandy & things like blankets etc. I've never seen anyone bring groceries. Also the "cattle" thing is metaphoric nowadays, people deal with MONEY. They charge what it costs for cattle, not necessarily mean you must come ushering a herd of cattle.

LMFAO, this got me laughing. Never heard of a South African tribe taking groceries for lobola . Only on nairaland will you hear such tales lol.

MissRaine69:

Sterilisation under 35 is not illegal it’s just not common practice. A woman under 35 can have it done but she has to argue her case as to why she wants it.
Abuse the system? There is no restrictions on terminations and that said online pharmacy’s exist for that very reason. What’s there to risk if the termination is within the 13 week frame?

I hear you.

XhosaNostra:


She was trained as a midwife, professionally, but the other business was more lucrative, so she became a full-time abortionist. She even served time for it lol. It didn't stop her though. The money was that good, I guess.

Yhu, I've never heard of paraffin, I know about stameta *gags*
Did you use to drink ukrakrayo, seawater & epsom salt as a child? Ekhaya it was a thing of every weekend. Still brings back bad memories. But ke maybe that's why my skin is GORGEOUS now Lolest.

Lol, awe mommy . The money must have been really good if prison time didn't deter her, that's one place I never wish to find myself in . Maybe I watched too much LOCKDOWN .


Yho , it was ukrakrayo every Saturday morning before having anything to eat . I couldn't take in anything salty , so instead I had brooklets. Lol@ gorgeous skin. See ya self? . But I can relate lol.

MissRaine69:

You are obviously not aware abortion is legal in South Africa. A woman can request it if she is below 13 weeks without giving a reason. Above that medical grounds or arguing that continuing the pregnancy is detrimental to the mother have to be proven. Like I said the law says one thing but that does not mean everyone abides by it.

I'm a well aware that it's legal, but you aren't allowed to abuse the system , there is a limit just like with the morning after pills. Your records will always be fetched. Like I said , I'm sure some doctors cross the line but it's too risky and only a few would do it. Same as I'm sure some doctors tie the tubes of women under the age of 35 even though it's illegal , yet again that would be rare as I doubt most sensible doctors would want to risk their careers for a few thousand rands.

femi4:
like how many times are you gonna lose this thing?

Lol, everytime I meet a new man .

XhosaNostra:


LMAO. You get the feeling that "My baby will get us home safe" Hubba Hubba!
A capable man is an attractive man. Fullstop. Do you also like a handyman? I find that attractive too. A guy that can change a lightbulb & fix shìt around the house. If he can't do anything useful other than scratching his crotch with his hands, my sister, you're in a lesbian relationship LMFAO.

Spot on . Who doesn't like a measure twice , cut once and force to fit man . I love a man who can use his imagination and hands well . Couch potatoes are a curse

XhosaNostra:


Chin, awukhe uwave amabali abantu abadala? I have an autobiography of Frank Sinatra & his mom made a living as an abortionist. In her "abortion bag" she carried wires & clothing hangers lol. Perhaps that's how it was done back in the day though, because it was not the 1st time I was hearing about amacingo being used during abortion. Eina!

Lol, that's just down right scary . Was Frank's mom a Doctor or Nurse or just a street abortionist? . Yes , I've heard some weird things people do, like drinking paraffin

MissRaine69:


You are naive. A lot of medical doctors in this country perform abortions. What the law says and what people do are not in tandem. What talks is your money. But if the morning after is done multiple times should the person choose to do do what is not recommended is using it twice per cycle. The issue here is expectations very unrealistic expectations especially with some women. They have this view that a child will somehow make things right. Lack of education is another issue I am aware of some women who will not use contraception because they are argue it will make them infertile yet they have have had unsupervised terminations which will most likely be the cause of infertility.

Ok , perhaps we have stricter laws here hence Doctors aren't always willing to risk it for a few extra Rands , though I'm sure there are a few greedy ones that would risk it. Here if you buy morning after pills these days , you must hand over your Id document to the pharmacist for it to be registered in the system , I hear even with guys since some ladies were now using their men to buy these pills . I think its ignorance, you can't protect your womb against contraceptives but still go to an unhygienic abortionist.

XhosaNostra:


So backstreet abortions then? But don't those also need someone to get in there? Ever heard of a hanger? Ngathi some things don't detach or come out by themselves, they need a helping hand. Kinda sick & disgusting lol.

Yup. I guess that's what the illegal clinics are for then , or they get help from the BF's or in this case maybe the sister . Hayi , they use a hanger to extract the remains , now that sounds even more traumatic.