XhosaNostra:


LMFAO @ self cleaning oven. But maybe that one is true to an extent because have you noticed that dirty ladies babhubhuzelwa ngamadoda. I remember another girl called Noxolo, a beauty (Miss Alphandale High School), washiywa nguGcobisa, iqothololwana that didn't even brush her hair. Ndancama lol.

LMFAO @iqothololwana. A sick friend of mine likes to joke around that, you will be sitting around comfortably in a nice home kanti indoda idla emkhukhwini strongo. She says dirty pussy is addictive . She says , go visit a place with shacks and you will see all sorts of nice cars parked outside shacks visiting them girls lol. Becareful .

XhosaNostra:


Ngaba bephela belahla their kids in garbage bags. The maternal instincts are dead & gone, only a stone cold killer remains. Lol, utsho? Some of these beliefsnyana, mna I take them with a grain of salt. Umama wayethanda ukuthi when I'm bathing, intombi ayizigrumbi kangaka, uzobanda! LMFAO. I didn't understand it back then, but now sendiyenziswa sisiqhelo. Ndiya dry cleaner nje now so that ndingaboli. Don't judge meeee

Exactly. I think I would even be scared to live with someone like that, what if one day all of this comes back to her and she loses her mind and starts stabbing me in my sleep . Lol, I won't, my aunt used to preach the same but never really said why. But wayesithi akho need to ukuzigrombonca ,ikuku is a self cleaning oven . Anyway , it's true qha as a young woman ucinga izokwenza a difference. Lol@ ku drier . Don't know why that got me giggling.

XhosaNostra:


It's stupidity imo. Sure contraceptives have their side effects, but it's still better than damaging yourself physically & emotionally with quadruple abortions. For sure after a while you become an empty shell, no soul.
Plus kuthiwa ziyabandisa

That's the scary thing about this , you cannot be a normal person after doing something like this over and over again. I think its self hatred. Lol , but yenza i sense leyobanda.

Princedapace:


You can still work with a broke guy.. most broke guys didnt climp to the top with the help of a rich lady. So, why cant ladies also climb to the top without the help of rich guy? U can get to the top without dating a rich man.. that is the point. I didnt get to where i am today becus i dated a rich lady anytime in my life.

after all, we are all humans..i thought u all said we are equal? Most men today who are made never dated a rich lady to help them become rich..lol to some ladies sef..

Like I said I prefer not to take any chances with a broke guy , it's a personal choice just like you chose a lazy person for a gf. I don't mind starting something from the ground up with someone in the same working class as me , infact I believe that's the ideal partnership for me. But I will certainly not take my chances with a broke guy . Btw , there are guys who got their starup capital from dating womem that were well off. There are also many women who never had a guy's support who are now millionaires .

I still can't understand how someone could have multiple abortions in one lifetime . It's the 21st century for fcks sake , we have contraceptives and condoms . And they are all free .

XhosaNostra:


I can relate so much to that. Preach!

Opentokwowledge:
OK, let's cut the bullshiit and all and be realistic for once! I think you should stop looking at people as groceries you go to the market to choose from. Real life situations are not like that. The world we live in is casted, not in the ideal sense of it, but it's always there. Only in rare cases will you encounter people belonging to the middle working class getting hooked with those at the top of the ladder, it is almost fairy, it's like looking for an albino whale. You are what you attract, if you belong to the lower class and you haven't worked your ass up to another level, don't you expect those above you to look down at you with the dotty eyes. You'll just be waiting for the ship at the airport!

We clearly come from different societies . From where I'm from, it's quite possible hence rich guys here mostly marry middle class women , they marry the rich as well but rarely . It's a different story when the lady is rich though. Here the middle class homes and the rich ( particularly new entrants to this category) are not far from each other. This means we shop at the same malls , eat at the same restaurants, go to the same malls, go to the same clubs . The only difference is how much we spend and how and who we spend it to lol. Remember we are not talking about the wealthy here , even though they too don't live in isolation. If the middle classers can't get to them , the rich will .

Royaldave200:


It baffles me when grown ass women or rather girls keeps looking for made men rather than strive to become made also.... This lady already proves to be a liability but what do I know ...anyways it's good they are displaying their covetousness here to be identified.... Whatever rocks your boat mademoiselle

LMFAO, i love that you guys are changing the whole narrative to suit you. How am I a liability ? Because I said I would choose the rich guy over the poor ? . I meant it, trust me but that doesn't mean that I can't make my own money or help him grow his riches. A liability is the girl you give monthly allowance to , I want to come in , spend your money and help you diversify your sources of wealth in the process.

Joemetry:



Then you can simply earn your money too...

It's that simple, I know so many miss independents that feel big shame and find it very inappropriate asking a guy to pay for their drinks or uber.

But una internet opulent women wey get no dime and integrity go always de set standards.

I blame some guys sha

I don't mind making my own money , that's not the point. Financial independence is something we are taught to strive for from a young age , so that ain't a foreign theory to me. The point here is that , I wouldn't overlook a rich guy and embrace the broke one because I'm afraid " he's going to hurt or use me" because the broke guy is equally capable of that.

XhosaNostra:


Hmmmm...dont make me hungry lol. Rich dick is wors

Hahahahahaha , don't make me laugh.

XhosaNostra:


Lol @ your feelings are safe with me. It sounds romantic
You can say that again! Ugh.

Lol, but that's just it, I trust myself more and I know how to protect someone's heart . I'm romantic like that . Just can't put mine out there though lol.

Owamudia:


When next I see a headless lady, I will assume it's you and just move on.

Oh gosh! ... I'm so scared right now. Lol , dude don't try that ish with me . Move on already .

Princedapace:



Well, I don't think it is about rich or broke guys. In her last line, said, work hard and be rich and rich guys too will love u naturally!

She is trying to preach against the convent of being lazy and hope to find one maga to hammer on. That is so becoming of naija ladies

My gf whom I'm will be engaging next month, when she was in her early years in school, I asked her to think of any business she can do and I will sponsor it. But she refused. I send her monthly money for upkeep and take care of her other needs, including school needs. Now, I want ti start a business for her and send her to training institution which will cost me 100k alone for the training!

I used to tease her. Like baby, if I don't send u money for two months, will u still love me? The fact remains that up to this moment, I feel deep down that she is with me becus I do take good care of her! And I av this deep fear that she may not be strong enough to support me too in the future so I work extra hard sef.

Naija ladies need to learn to hustle and hope true love comes. It is becoming of em ladies here to see a rich guy as a prayer answered. We need to teach our next generation how to work and earn on their own.

Intelligent and hard working girls are rare compare to guys. Most girls here are mentally lazy and liability.

No one here is encouraging laziness,I think you are projecting. Judging from your story , you overlooked all other ladies that would have helped you grow your money , by bringing her own ideas and energy and chose to date a lazy thinker , an uninspired individual without drive . So you see, you made that choice now live with it. There are men with money who wouldn't settle for what you settled for, they come with the money and choose the lady who will help diversify his business interests instead of just being a leech.

You made your choice, let others make theirs .

XhosaNostra:


Maybe it looks like a fried vienna lol. Ever seen how a vienna wrinkles & looks sorry after you've fried it? Kikikiki.

LMFAO, ja ne. So a Vienna must be the hungry dyck , and a Russian the rich dyck coz they don't shrink to the same level, after getting fried .

XhosaNostra:


Ndiyayazi ne-emotional yoyo. It hurts just reading those words When we get back at them for playing with our feelings, they're going to say we're wicked. So I'd rather save them from the tsunami that would knock them out cold

Lol @the tsunami. I would rather he loves and cares more than I do, his feelings are safe with me , I can guarantee that lol. Can't say the same for bona , coz they see that as an opportunity to control you.

XhosaNostra:


LMFAO. Exactly.

As for hungry dick, out!

Lol, now you have just made me imagine how a hungry dyck would look like . I'm out though .

XhosaNostra:


Yhu, do you know how painful it is to care? Sorry but I'd rather not care & live happily ever after with zero f*cks given.

Uzisindisa amagxa ngomntu , that's too much work . You will become psychotic over someone who is enjoying themselves at your expense. Looking out for number 1 ngundoqo. It's sounds evil and cold but , I would take that label before being an emotional yoyo lol.

XhosaNostra:


Qha! LMAO. They can keep deceiving themselves. Not all of us are looking for or waiting for Prince Charming. Even if I'm 40 & single, if I'm rich he can keep his worthless dick, no love lost here

Lol, you know ?. What will a hungry dyck bring me ? , if not more problems like kids we can't feed, and wrinkles before I turn 40? Nonsense lol. I would take the riches with no bed partner any day , more space to roll around lol. Plus, there's nothing more satisfying than doing what you desire and when you want to it.

XhosaNostra:


Lol, let me explain something to you. I'm a very complex person emotionally. It's either I'm all in or all out. When I do get attached on the rare occasions that I have been, it's not healthy attachment. I become needy & demanding, it's not fun Hence I prefer to stay as far away from emotional attachments as I possibly can. Because if I don't care about you, I won't be going through the emotional ups & downs because of you. Caring for me comes with strings attached & an emotional hell for everyone involved, myself included. I don't Bleep with feelings, sorry.

LMFAO, you are such a horrible person. I like it.

Opentokwowledge:
That's the ultimate saying and it is not good for debates

Lol, it does not have to end the debate . My point was that, let's not stone those who choose to live their lives a certain way . If one wants to stick it out with a broke guy , good for them . If one wants to work with someone on their level to reach a common goal , good for them . If one wants to go for the rich guy , good for them.

XhosaNostra:


Lol, me I'd trade any Romeo with nothing more to offer other than a dick & a headache for one of those mansions. I'm not a character in a romance novel abeg Practicality is numba wan * In Jacob Zuma's voice*

When the rich f*ck each other over, at least one of them will walk away with a lump sum as compensation. You wanna stress me when all I'll be walking away with is a bad taste in my mouth & a tattered suitcase? Erm, I don't think so! Your no-money having ass better take a bench!

LMFAO, truth. But I think it's difficult for some to accept that not all of us are into the Romeo and Juliette thing . I would trade the siamise twin with a humongous dyck and poetic skills for , a mansion with no dyck as long as I will have peace of mind ,and my pride won't be stepped on. * priorities* .


Lol, exactly. Nothing more to add here . Hahahahaha@ the tattered suitcase compensation.

farouk0403:



You are South African right?

I can see it from your comment, all i can see is your hatred for the White any way is not your fault.

All you see is what ? . Stop that ,you . Show me where I lied? . I gave you facts and you are giving me your " feeling". ? . If you don't have anything to counter , stay off my mentions .

Thanks.

Opentokwowledge:
That's unfair. It's not always true. Some poor guys are just victims of circumstances and you can see them trying to balance the equation. They deserve love and you should not deny them...

I'm not putting down broke guys , never. But I'm also against this notion of them being the best partners because they are " caring " . It's a lie. Yes , some maybe genuine and would still be the same when well off but they aren't in majority. Yes , we all deserve love and happiness, but we should also not be judged on how we choose to go about achieving these. To each it's own.

XhosaNostra:


Lol, funny I was thinking the same thing about a puppy & comedy.

Exactly! They're not all bad people, just like being a pauper doesn't make you a person of good character or a diamond in the rough. Some of them are assholes in-waiting, they just lack something to get douchey about.

Lol, I always find it funny when we poor ladies mock the rich women with puppies as lonely bytches in mansions. Funny thing is , the poor girl ain't happy as well plus she has to endure living in squalor with multiple hungry kids and a husband with an inferiority complex . And you know the funniest comedians are from poorer backgrounds . There's a reason for that.

LMAO @ the bolded . Not to add that , most domestic violence cases are between poor couples . I'm not saying the rich don't fck each other up but the rate can't be compared.

Opentokwowledge:
Let me help you out. Rich people, 99.9% of the time reach for females within their caste. We, the poor guys don't have problems with that. But when the gluttons among them come for those few beauties within our caste, what do you expect us to do? Continue to smile while suffering?
Thus, the need for these drastic measures to sort of create "fear of the unknown" in our poor female population becomes imperative ... Ain't we just geniuses?

Lol, you can't stop the exodus to the other side though . Women are beginning to see poor " humble " men for what they are.

Jochabed:
Lets say marrying a wealthy Man/Woman,even though its clear that peace won't reign in the home.

Why would any sensible person do that? . If you have already find joy , which is what most of us seek . Why trade it for something that you know will make you miserable?.

Opentokwowledge:
Ok. Thanks?

Sure.

XhosaNostra:


Ditto! The thought alone makes me depressed. Can you imagine!

LMFAO @ gives me nothing but attention & jokes.

I wonder why nairaland tends to paint the " rich" guys as villains as if they are all the same.

Lol, but that's what they do . I would rather download a Chris Rock video on YouTube and buy a puppy to follow me all over the place .

XhosaNostra:


LMFAO true. Where does he get the nerve? Yho! When someone is managing you broke ass, you better stay humble

LMFAO, exactly. I hate this notion that broke guys are good guys . What a bloody lie, broke guys are only humble because of their circumstances. Infact men who come from poverty stricken backgrounds tend to be the biggest oppressors when they finally " make it". I'm sorry but being used by a guy who gives me nothing but attention and jokes, would drive me to suicide . What lesson would I come out of the relationship with ? That I'm dumb? .

XhosaNostra:


Amen!

LMAO. No, I've never heard about that. When was this?

I think last year wethu , but it pissed a lot of people off. They had to put a stop to it.

Opentokwowledge:
Just prescribe away... This is about whatever fascinates you.

1. A necessary evil
2. No Adam in Eden
3. The DA Vinci Code
4. Chinese Cinderella
5. True colours

XhosaNostra:
#1 I'd still rather be used & dumped by a rich guy. I don't think I'd ever get over the shock of being used & dumped by a penniless church rat

Chai, I'd kill myself!

LMFAO, my sister I'm with you there...100% . Just imagine . I would rather cry behind the steering wheel of a mini cooper than cry inside a crowded dirty train . There are levels to this thing .