₦airaland Forum

bigpicture001:
To women...marry ONLY who loves u...una no dey hear word.....a man dat lives his wife can nevr beat her...even 20years in marriage his feelings for her will still hold water

Na who get money Dem want... So they are blind to character...

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram ther are a lot of ways to handle women like dis..


A lot of ways. Since u no be street OTG, no need to explain give u


WTF MAN!

Marry first... Shey na the next generation remain for market.... when you marry come back here in 4yrs make we check una.

papagiddy:
Her mouth brought dis shit on her.... tell her to be humble and talk calmly she won't listen....if not that God helped her to be alive........


Husband::: LOVE your wife
Wife::: SUBMIT to your husband as unto the LORD... Ephesians 5:22,Colossians 3:18...
...to submit means to talk gently..reverently,Respectfully, Respectfully

You said it all.... The last paragraph. The first paragraph I cannot say... I am no physical witness to the incidence.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram This man don do waiting pain me!


I no say women get bad mouth but real men don beat women !


If na me be dat woman brother. I SWEAR DOWN


Na to use my OLD KALA take BLAST BLAST the useless guy left leg drop for ground b4 people go begin ask us waiting happen!


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

This one never marry Nigerian woman... Just dey run your mouth.

N/B: I am not supporting this nonsense but you need to see where Gen Zee women hit their male counterparts first. Just dey play...

senatordave1:
Edo polls are usually free and fair

Since Oshiomole came onboard and defeated the camp of Anenih.. Edo elections are determined largely by votes... Rigging is usually insignificant

otherway:
As long as my wife allows me to give her head steady and she also gives me good head I'm good.

You may say but that is also sex but it is very different from penetrative sex which I believe is so overrated.

This one newly marry... 1 week into marriage shey? And most likely you never knack her before marriage

ANlOMA:
This school name weak me

Why? Make the school bear your papa name? Thief!

denij:
God forbid I remain poor. Who said poverty is not a sin

I said it...

Mynd44:
Africans have to understand the difference between a protest and a riot.

When people storm parliamentary to beat up people, attempt to burn down the supreme court too.

it stopped being a protest and no matter how justified the protest us, the government will respond.

But a riot is a protest 🪧
Just a violent one ...

Ybholy:
Can you SIGN Death sentence of another fellow if you’re a judge?

Just give the space to a core aboki and see if death sentence won't be the norm penalty even for asking this kind question wey u ask so☺️

Slytiger:
Well, she created her own brand.

Chop am na as e be say na food... Dem dey cry say hunger dey, this one dey talk of brand

Everlastingson:
Why you and your Roman Catholic church choose to focus intently on "Mary" and not on the One Who died on the cross for you, Who said" come unto Me ALL you who labour and are heavy -laden and I will give you rest", Matt 11:28, is not clear. There's more than meets the eye in that. Can you provide scriptural references to back up your thoughts on "Mary" as you argued in your defense above. I put Mary in quotes for a reason.

Scriptural references you will be too obstinate to believe in.... firstly. Our focus ultimately is on Jesus whom we know as God ... Now before we even proceed let me ask you . Do you believe Jesus is God?

ruffhandu:
Hello people,
Please I need some advice.
We live in PH, and have 4 kids. The oldest is 10 while the youngest is 6. I give my wife 700k every month, and this includes general upkeep and maintenace and fuelling of our car (Lexus 330). I don't drive the car (I dey leg, while she uses it to run around, which includes school runs and her business).

I no dey chuk eye for her business. Bu I am getting frustrated as she still makes me believe that the money is not enough. I pay electricity bill (band A) and house rent (3m pa) yet every now and then she puts bills on my head. It is driving me crazy.

When I tell her to list out her expenses so I plan with her, she picks offence. I am really tired of the whole thing and don't know how else to approach the issue without causing too much problem. I know some men whose salaries are 250k-300k in PH, yet they are surviving.

Oga she go k*ll you if you no use your head.. na here we go still read your story but unfortunately for you, you will be reading it from the greater beyond.
Wake up!

Magicalsineros:
Before, once a young woman is going into marriage, it's a subconscious believe that her body is strictly for her husband alone, but over the years, the narrative has changed. Most husbands have abused this grace and so many men have pushed Their women to the wall, that today, the consciousness and sanctity of matrimonial bliss is gradually going into extinction.

In as much as I am not supporting cheating in a marriage where the man is good to his wife the following are my opinion

1. Lazy husband
When a woman is married to a lazy man who can't provide, always giving excuses and manipulative. He keeps pushing her to handle all the responsibilities. She has to pay all the bills all in the name of the man is jobless,
this particular wife will likely cheat on her man, because women generally love to see their men being the head that provides for the family.

2. Se.xaul Need
Some men are so clueless. You don't care about her feelings, during se.x, once you're satisfied, that's all. You don't even want to know if she is satisfied too.
This particular wife will definitely be longing for a day someone will make her feel it to the fullest. The person might not be you.

3. Companionship
It's generally proven, once you have someone you can tell everything to without feeling ashamed or scared, the possibility of you comfortably having se.x with him is very high and if that person is not your husband, then you have cheated.

That's why most people ended up sleeping with their bestie or childhood friends.
When there's too much empty space in a marriage where the both parties don't experience that companionship, once she find it in someone else, either at work or anywhere, she will cheat on her husband.

4. Ungrateful human
This particular wife, does not keep record of any good thing her man do to her. She's an ungrateful human, she's selfish and a bad person. No matter who you are to her, no matter what you do, she will always focus on herself alone.

5. Revenge
The man is cheating and hurting her. So, to have her sanity back, she cheat back.
Some women cheat on their husbands to feel better from feeling of hurt and bitterness from their husband's bad behavior. Some will go as far as sleeping with your best friend, house boy, gate men, your Boss at work to make you feel disrespectful.
Evil they said brings evil. Good beings good as well

Add yours, so we can keep learning

Madam OP happy cheating
.e dey your eyes. If you want to cheat just go do it... Don't post a thread to boost your cheating morale... After all, women have been cheating since creation... Eve did it with Lucifer sef.

diogo23:
Beat the living day out of that slut

Why

OboOlora:
Men are f00lish.
How is this even attractive to them.
The lady is uglee, her face is terrible and she has bad teeth n mouth
The a55 is also filled with cellulite and probably stretch marks and bad odour
Una go just de fantasize on top dirt
Men will sleep with anything
Tueeeeeee

This guy spoke my mind but as usual , we are very few of this kind . The reason he got just 2 likes

whytediamond:


Most people don't get married out of love, they do it to satisfy societal expectations.

Bolder ladies just get pregnant for unidentifiable men and keep the child to herself.

Do what you feel is right and live with the consequences, good or bad. Time no too dey.

The word isn't "bolder". The correct word is "loose" or "olosho" people who glorify immorality. There's no boldness in stupidity. A child without a father?

honey001:
https://dailytrust.com/obaseki-dares-benin-palace-insists-on-groups-ban/?

Well I am no fan of Obaseki but the link to cultism is quite true... He is right generally. But I wish he goes on to liquidate vigilantes too... Those guys have turned oppressors of the poor... Esp bike men always bn victimized to give EDSN THEIR HARD EARNED SUN HEATED MONEY

muyico:
she don collect! ur mouth go stay one place now!.

That is the problem they will just use their filthy utterances to cause trouble for a man...don't be surprised she was the first to hit the man.

Everlastingson:
Stop believing false and human doctrines. If you want to get to heaven at the end of your life, stick to the Bible alone. Don't accept teachings that are outside the Bible, it's not from God. You must be born again, don't forget. Otherwise you're not a Christian . John 3:3-6. Now you can choose to believe the Bible or to believe the Roman Catholic dogma. The ball is in your court. The One Who died on the cross alone is your Saviour. There's no other. John14:6; Matt 11: 25-28. Acts 4:12. 1Timothy2:5-6.

firstly, the bible specifically the New testament you have today was a product of Christian tradition by the same Roman Catholic church(though before the east-west schism). I will rather believe the traditions of the church(Which the bible is a part of) for the continuity and preservation of divine truth.

Secondly, In Early Christian/Catholic Belief, Jesus is strictly God. One teaching your church doubts ... So why do you think we will equate a human(Mary) with God. Note, Mary's divine glory just like the saints and Angels reigning with God, was by virtue of God's grace of redemption not from her own self but her willingness to accept the pains and undertake the sacrifices she underwent to Bear Gods son, the shame she bore by her virgin pregnancy (which must have being perceived in her enviroment as punishable- Adultery and a coverup lie of virgin pregnancy). The pain she bore for 33 years and beyond knowing fully well that her darling son will be humiliated and die shamefully. Have you imagined how many times the Devil would have tormented her to tell her God is a liar? That there will be no Glory... Yet she never deviated from supporting his salvation mission? She followed him even when all the disciples went into hiding!

She had a faith!

Why are you so proud to thank God for raising such a woman? Or any other Angel or Saint we ask for intercession? These are heavenly Priests who bring our supplication to Our God, Jesus Christ!
God is Jesus. The mission and salvation part was the "son" , the love and active part is the "spirit". So when we say 3 persons in one God... It's simply an explanation in best human form of God's revelation of his person to our ancestors from the time of creation till date.
So next time when you see a veneration of Mary or any saint... Don't be infuriated.

And again you restricting your belief to the bible has no problem but my fear is , how well do you know the bible . Have you studied? Or you are simply restricting yourself to a misinterpretation of the holy book?
I will advice you delve into the the facts about the compilation of the Bible for more unbiased understanding of the Christian faith. Not this bastardized commercialized faith you call Christianity today. You cannot talk about a book without knowing it's author, what inspired it's write up.

You have to seek knowledge beyond sheer fundamentalism. Enlightenment doesn't come to a closed mind.

livebullet:
Mary nurtured the God-man who died for you. Mary could not have being with SIN, the reason God "impregnated" her himself, to break the inheritance of sin. So as not to soil the Paschal sacrifice...Jesus was God. Unless you do not believe so.

Mary was officially commissioned our mother when Jesus handed her to John the beloved at the foot of the cross.
"Mother, behold thy son, Son Behold your mother"... From that day, John took Mary into his house...
Before you tell me John was Mary's biological son, remember that was John the brother of James, sons of Zebedee.

waiting for you to come quote the part where Jesus said "here are my brothers..."

Everlastingson:
Did the Bible ever tell you that "Mary" is your mother? You need to repent now coz there is no more time . If you die in this ignorance you'll end in hell. The Saviour is Jesus, not "Mary". Did "Mary" die on the cross for you? And did the Bible ever tell you that there are two saviours? Or that "Mary" is your Saviour?1Timothy 2:5-6. Acts4:12

Mary nurtured the God-man who died for you. Mary could not have being with SIN, the reason God "impregnated" her himself, to break the inheritance of sin. So as not to soil the Paschal sacrifice...Jesus was God. Unless you do not believe so.

Mary was officially commissioned our mother when Jesus handed her to John the beloved at the foot of the cross.
"Mother, behold thy son, Son Behold your mother"... From that day, John took Mary into his house...
Before you tell me John was Mary's biological son, remember that was John the brother of James, sons of Zebedee.

SmartyPants:
Debtors of the bank will jubilate how? It is far better to owe a commercial bank than to owe the government.

That's not true... Govt officials are use to bribe.. it's easier to keep them off your trail with small money

immortalcrown:
Gagantuan gaga!

Any bank can fold up. But some banks are more reliable than others. Whatever can end First Bank, UBA or Zenith Bank must have first crushed all other banks before getting to any of these three banks in Nigeria. Each of these three banks can merge or change name at any time. But folding up will be tough.

Any of these three banks can be wounded any time, but folding up will first cost the end of other ones. First Bank is affected by the unethical behaviours of this Heritage Bank. But First Bank is still standing.

Choosing a bank is like choosing custmetics or medications. Don't follow adverts and packaging, check the contents and the factory standards.

UNION BANK TOO... can't go down the drain.

unity004:
EDO politics is very interesting.
Full of drama, from obakesi and oshiomole godfather and godson crisis to oshiomole being sack as APC national chairman by a APC ward chairman to obakesi contesting on APC platform against ize iyamu on PDP platform and obakesi contesting on PDP platform against ize iyamu on APC platform in the next election year and now the drama between obakesi and shaibu.
Edo politics always keep me entertained.

Oshiomole is claiming it this time for Okphebolo

LilMissFavvy:
Can he truly say that he's been faithful all through his marriage? Let his consience judge him. Even if you divorce her, her life continues. Forgive if possible

It wasn't difficult to tell this is a female. Probably one o them.

happney65:
Una dey abuse Catholics now o. A child abusing his great great great grandfather.

When be say all of una na from catholism una comot go establish your own churches here and there

Eyin werey

People wey dey worship "daddy" and money over God dey yab image made to depict a key player in salvation ... The post is surely an anti-catholic post. But we no send.
We love Our Mother Mary and Jesus our *God* .

Ineje:
What are our lawmakers waiting to pass a law against these demons. Or is there something they're not telling us ?

How many more laws do you need in Nigeria... Is it about laws or implementation?

A country where the judiciary could not explain the meaning of "and"

[quote author= post=130211929]Even Reverend Sister Don Join, I'm Speechless[/quote]She is wearing white.... Does that make her a rev sister?... They should tell us her congregation an convent address let's go and verify. Not ruling out the possibility though... But I have my doubts

Armaggedon:
It is nobody's business if an examination body chooses to play politics with education. Southeast governor should simply ask them to move the exams. Even NYSC camping that is done by the military has a shorter period in the East. It is the right of candidates to take the exams under an atmosphere of security.

exactly .. in a country where armed miscreants dey show army pepper. Please WAEC should consider people's lives.. we have no security in Nigeria

*She appealed to the police and other security agencies to step into the matter to rescue her husband to save the family from the pain and agony it is passing through*

Unfortunately, The Police doesn't exist. They can't solve even a crime of stolen toothpick
May God continue to Secure Nigerians

Ok he bedwets.... we hear. but no be that one we call u to explain madam feminist.

Why u carry belle for another man inside marriage?